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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you were on FAB is there any need to cheat?

Why would someone need to if in the lifestyle….,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what we say. It's not a reason not to cheat in itself, love and commitment does that, but like youbsaid, why would anybody want to cheat when they can have all the fun they want together

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

this is the number one reason i/we stopped couples from messaging the amount of guys who are part of a swinging couple who felt it ok to ask if they can meet without there partner knowing is shocking

and its another reason we never give out our fab id when at swinging clubs

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

LH

Unfortunately, some people get off on being deceitful and don't care about the pain it can cause

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

I dont believe in cheating...ive been cheated on 2x but acctualy i cant cheat its not on my blood or personality

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some people (men and women )will sadly cheat no matter how good they have it ,it's in their nature.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Many people are on fab to get sex as they don't get it from their partners who are no swingers but withholding sex

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

So they're effectively cheating. I spoken to loads of men confessing their on fab behind their partners back to see what they can get away with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God here come the moral police again time for a Yaaaawwwwnnnnn

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Most of the people who cheat on here claim to have some sort of sob story to justify it, but if they are quite capable of lying to their own partner then it's most likely they'll lie to randomers they hope to meet on here and the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people are on fab to get sex as they don't get it from their partners who are no swingers but withholding sex "

What are the stats? From your research so far.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

What goes on in someone's relationship isn't always as simple as people make out. I'm honest on my profile about my status. It's not a kink to me. But you'd be amazed how many get turned on by it. I cut these people off as not what I'm looking for. No one knows my total home status so they can't judge me nor do I expect to explain myself to anyone.

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Isn't this supposed to be about swingers who cheat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can have it all and it’s still not enough.

A guy from a swinging couple we met on our joint profile told us he misses the buzz he used to get out of doing something illicit.

Swinging doesn’t give him that thrill because it’s not a secret.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

We all have our secrets but I tell everybody I’m married and yes get roasted in doing so but it’s the only way

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Unfortunately, some people get off on being deceitful and don't care about the pain it can cause "
this ... sometimes it's the risk of getting caught that does it for some

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Cheating is a really selfish act where the highs is from creeping about behind someone's back. For the people who say but I don't have a choice, I'm in a loveless relationship etc, stop being a coward and tell them you want to sleep with others or just leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people can have it all and it’s still not enough.

A guy from a swinging couple we met on our joint profile told us he misses the buzz he used to get out of doing something illicit.

Swinging doesn’t give him that thrill because it’s not a secret."

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Some people just need that extra ego boost, thrill of the chase, having someone they shouldn't, I guess it's the excitement, I don't understand it though if there on fab anyway and can have fun together, I hate cheating such a horrible way to hurt someone, not only does it affect their ability to trust but confident too, selfish!

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Confidence** (CBA to type it again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people can have it all and it’s still not enough.

A guy from a swinging couple we met on our joint profile told us he misses the buzz he used to get out of doing something illicit.

Swinging doesn’t give him that thrill because it’s not a secret.

"

Sorry this post should have had a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry this post should have had a "

That’s the kind of thing I normally do.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Oh God here come the moral police again time for a Yaaaawwwwnnnnn "

The op asked a question and people answered it ,not sure why you put about moral police .Forums are there for people to give their opinions .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my partner meets other guys with my permission. the one time she considered cheating we came very close to splitting up.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Cheating is about selfishness and deception

Swinging is about honesty and trust

Real swingers will not cheat

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"If you were on FAB is there any need to cheat?

Why would someone need to if in the lifestyle….,"

Maybe their sex life isn't great and their swinging isn't a success either. The number of couples profiles where the "Male is available to meet" is astounding. We do wonder how many partners know of such statuses.

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands


"Cheating is about selfishness and deception

Swinging is about honesty and trust

Real swingers will not cheat "

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Isn't this supposed to be about swingers who cheat? "

thats how it reads to me nothing to do with people outside the scene just those within

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Cheating is about selfishness and deception

Swinging is about honesty and trust

Real swingers will not cheat

"

and yet it does

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I can tell you that I (female) have been on FAB for over 10 years and the biggest reason that guys that are part of a couple on fab want to meet up with me on my own is, that after listening to a long list of things that the couple don't do or like it's inevitable that the husband does want to try, eg pegging, watersports, or rope work.

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Oh God here come the moral police again time for a Yaaaawwwwnnnnn "

I suppose for people with no morals, that would be a bit of a problem eh?

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I don't do cheating the truth comes out in the end, I've been cheated on loads in the past

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

it happens because one half of the couple wants more its that simple and they dont care how they go about it ..

now im sure its both but i can only say from male halfs before i shut down couples getting in touch with the block button i quite often had messages from male halfs of swinging couples who did not want there other half to know and a few would keep on and on ..now we have to bear in mind that some of these were fake profiles of couples run by single guys but its not all as ive seen these couples in clubs so there is a section of cheating swingers ..

why who knows im not here to judge i just want no part in swinging cheats as they to me should be the most sexually liberated ...

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"I don't do cheating the truth comes out in the end, I've been cheated on loads in the past"

the real fact is nobody know if they've been or chatting with a cheat or not i refuse to judge as none of us know their situation women cheat just as much but because of the % of men its blown out of concept

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By *exyfungirl78Woman
over a year ago

Colchester


"Cheating is a really selfish act where the highs is from creeping about behind someone's back. For the people who say but I don't have a choice, I'm in a loveless relationship etc, stop being a coward and tell them you want to sleep with others or just leave. "

But maybe it’s not that simple for people to just leave

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"Cheating is a really selfish act where the highs is from creeping about behind someone's back. For the people who say but I don't have a choice, I'm in a loveless relationship etc, stop being a coward and tell them you want to sleep with others or just leave.

But maybe it’s not that simple for people to just leave "

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I don't do cheating the truth comes out in the end, I've been cheated on loads in the past

the real fact is nobody know if they've been or chatting with a cheat or not i refuse to judge as none of us know their situation women cheat just as much but because of the % of men its blown out of concept"

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