FabSwingers.com forum: Couples accounts

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe like us the guy is more easily

identifiable and they like to be a little more discreet. Each to there own , it is their profile after all

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We have plenty of both in ours but I'm guessing if a couple is only looking to meet single men they post pics that appeal to their target audience

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Guess it depends on if they want their guy to play or not

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We think people would like to both of us as we do both of them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't know the actual reason. But when I get messages from a couple with only pictures of one I assume it's because the other is less than pleasing to the eye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know the actual reason. But when I get messages from a couple with only pictures of one I assume it's because the other is less than pleasing to the eye."

Hope it's not the case with us lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People run their profiles as they wish. Maybe if they are only looking for men for the lady then they feel they don't need photos of the man. Maybe the man doesn't like his photos on show. Who knows. Could be lots of reasons.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

To each their own.. We try to have a balance. As I just ignore profiles without any pictures of Mr, so fairs fair! Y

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

All pics are of me because we are looking for guys only

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We try and keep a balance but Steph looks better in front of the camera than me

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We think it’s appropriate for what we’re looking for. I think that’s all that it needs to be

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By *r and Mrs minionCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Mrs M is relatively new to all this but Mr M has been here before we married. Mrs M loves a photo being taken

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

We put more of john up if and when i decide to as i run the account. At the moment only one is in show but more often or not i have several of us both on show. Joanne.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

We have some of me,enough to give everyone an idea,but I'm not very photogenic to the point where I don't really like to have my pic taken. We do have plenty of face pics of us together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just comes down to personal choice, we have a few of Rob on our public photo's (prob should put a few more on) but he usually likes taking the photos rather than being in them.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

Just bo not meet them not hard !

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

Couples should run their accounts however they want. What you think they “should” do is irrelevant.

I’m sure you’ll have people tell you that it is cos the female half of the couple is the effectively the *honeytrap*, but that really only applies to the subset of couples looking exclusively for straight singles who will primarily play with her, or couple arrangements where she plays alone.

Regardless, if a couple doesn’t have many pics of the make half visible, you can always request one if/when you are chatting to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

Just bo not meet them not hard !"

We agree. We just don’t look twice at a couple profile which doesn’t have pics of both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re only looking for guys so the coupe of pictures of me are just to show the kind of man Dora likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have plenty of both in ours but I'm guessing if a couple is only looking to meet single men they post pics that appeal to their target audience

RB"

This ^

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Worry about your own account and maybe leave others to handle theirs as they choose to.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

We have both, but looking at the feedback it's not even close which photos are more popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask for pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they've put up pictures of the male half but found that the Mrs gets more fabs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

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the woman's gorgeous and the guy isn't maybe or it's just a woman NO guy or its just a man no woman or the guys shy

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.

Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.

If you really want an answer check

out some of the other thousands of threads on exactly the same topic. If you can't be bothered, the simple answer is that people are allowed to post whatever pictures they like, within Fab rules. If they want to post pictures of just the man, or the woman, or cocks, cunts or anything else it is entirely up to them and no one else, and if it works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you, so what? Just move on to another profile.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Worry about your own account and maybe leave others to handle theirs as they choose to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know the actual reason. But when I get messages from a couple with only pictures of one I assume it's because the other is less than pleasing to the eye."

Food for thought!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Worry about your own account and maybe leave others to handle theirs as they choose to.

Don't have to worry about our account. Thanks very much.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Each to their own, we are a couple so you see both of us as we come as a pair.

Maybe the male doesn’t play and he’s there for his wife’s safety, maybe he looks like shriek, maybe he’s like most blokes and doesn’t like his picture being taken. Their profile their rules.

The mr

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Yep, a pet hate of ours too. You’re much more likely to succeed with us if we can see both of the couple!

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Worry about your own account and maybe leave others to handle theirs as they choose to.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Because we're only really looking for single men. We have couples listed, only so the male half can see our meets and play.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I find this frustrating as a straight women who is half a couple.

I totally get it if only the lady meets/plays.

We now just delete messages from couple profiles without pics of him ,or just a cock pic,unless they've attached pics of him.We have plenty public pics of my partner on our profile.

It seems like it's all about the woman of the couple to me ,if they don't show the man too.

I know many will say they don't take a good pic or are shy ,but you only need 1 or 2 pics of him,to get an idea of what he's like.

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By *ersephoneHadesCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Of course people are entitled to manage their profile how they like, but a lot of the time the man in the couple is intended to be part of play but still few/no pics that really show anything. This is off putting to us as if both intending to play or discussing full swap we wanna see both. Just comes across as trying to hide something.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Of course people are entitled to manage their profile how they like, but a lot of the time the man in the couple is intended to be part of play but still few/no pics that really show anything. This is off putting to us as if both intending to play or discussing full swap we wanna see both. Just comes across as trying to hide something. "

A bit like people hiding their faces because they're really pig ugly?

What people choose to show, or not show, is entirely up to them, and not for you or anyone else to guess the reason. If it puts you off because there are no pictures of the man perhaps it's because they want to put off people like you. Manage your own profile and look for profiles you like. Don't expect people to post what you want to see. That's not what Fab is about.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I am the artist, they are my canvas!

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's good advertising,the majority of the target audience are men. There's a fair few bi-men like myself that like to see both, but I'm a really small minority. Advertising works.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We would have more pictures of me but Deb keeps laughing while she takes the photos.

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By *ersephoneHadesCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I literally said it’s each to their own how they manage their profile…just how it comes off to us personally.

We always play together so we’ve made sure to include male pics as well and we look for the same. Can only imagine it’s more frustrating for straight women as 20+pics of women in lingerie doesn’t give much indication if the man is someone would want to play with. It’s off putting to only be shown one half if play with both is expected.

As i said people are entitled to use their profiles as see fit…can just save a lot of time if everyone who will be playing has something up there as teaser if nothing else to get interest going.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It should be based on who they're looking for to me. Most couples that message me WILL send a couple's photo which helps. But it's often one sided on the profile showing mainly the woman. Fine if only the women is intending to play, otherwise I'd like to see both.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We just don't worry about those who choose to hide..

The irony tends to be a wink from a sparse profile which states "Don't respond to wink's, send us a message with face pics" Erm... Double standards anyone

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"Maybe like us the guy is more easily

identifiable and they like to be a little more discreet. Each to there own , it is their profile after all

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. Exactly this ??

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"We would have more pictures of me but Deb keeps laughing while she takes the photos. "

The one from 9th June where you have your arms around her is beautiful, more like this

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

I love to take photos of M and absolutely hate having mine taken. As for should!!! I personally don’t believe in should, more in a persons freedom to express themselves as they see fit.

Do we miss out on couples and single women?? More than likely but absolutely my loss and one I have to accept for my reluctance to be photographed

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Mix of ours on our profile.

We find it really frustrating that if it is both people that want to play, there are only photos of the female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is because of Morks job.

He has to be careful because of people in the same area recognising him. But we send a couples picture when we chat to people. We both message other people and you can tell our different styles.

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