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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

lol I dont think it would be displayed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is like reading people who complain about peoples pics while having none of their own to display...and its just the same for verifications...

surely u get that point???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this is like reading people who complain about peoples pics while having none of their own to display...and its just the same for verifications...

surely u get that point???"

Nope! Complaining? Maybe that's how you want it to read

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol I dont think it would be displayed! "

Lol I know was just a thought I've read posts where people tell of their worst meets, so that sort of covers it but incognito

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is like reading people who complain about peoples pics while having none of their own to display...and its just the same for verifications...

surely u get that point???

Nope! Complaining? Maybe that's how you want it to read"

maybe lol...but u did say it made u feel 'queasy' -sorta negative vibe comes from that itself...trust me..I can decipher english pretty well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!! "

Do you really think a guy would turn up like that with meets being so scarce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

Do you really think a guy would turn up like that with meets being so scarce? "

heard it was u!!!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

i wish someone can read this. I met her. Social meet just to double check my suspicion. She was not what she said or posted here. The total opposite of what could turn me on...First check : the nails..Failed. Dirty , bad smell and OMG some horrible hair...

I managed to drink half of my coffee, text a friend to call me and i pretend that it was an emergency at work. I left a verify. Next day User No Longer On Site

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

Do you really think a guy would turn up like that with meets being so scarce? "

Some do.

I don't have a negative verification at the moment but I have displayed the one that I did get. Most people do the sparing the feelings bit by not leaving a verification at all.

I like getting them - good and bad - but I don't always display them and never display all of them. One persons description of me may be quite different to anothers as the experience I have with them is unique to us. Their idea of gorgeous might be anothers ugly. What purpose would it serve?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sparing the feelings bit is good lol now I know why the couple I met last week never displayed the veri I left them, or returned the favour!!! Oh well I'm not that hurt as was fantastic fuck but I can see I'll never be going back pmsl!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!! "

I enjoyed reading your verifications.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!! ha ha me too, had to look when you said that

I enjoyed reading your verifications."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to see admin allow that forum lol

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

I enjoyed reading your verifications."

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LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day all a veri needs to say is "yes he/she/they are real".

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"at the end of the day all a veri needs to say is "yes he/she/they are real"."

True, but it would be a bit dull. I like my verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some peeps who get verifications but don't display any at all but they like receiving them for their own personal viewing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at the end of the day all a veri needs to say is "yes he/she/they are real"."

anything nice about u that gives me an indication that u might be great to take to a swanky restaurant, then a posh swingers party?

that tick tells me that yes ur real but really has fuck all else thats interesting...but I'm sure my verification could say how smart,funny,intelligent and sexy u are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

I enjoyed reading your verifications."

They are so sickly I don't display them, feel free to leave a bad one and I'll display it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like reading verifications, yes because it helps you suss someone out, but also because I am a nosey bugger

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

I enjoyed reading your verifications.

They are so sickly I don't display them, feel free to leave a bad one and I'll display it!! "

Can't leave veris for people I haven't met. But, considering you are complaining about veris, it seems odd you hide yours. Your choice, entirely, of course. But I fail to see the point you are making about those who choose to display them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And looking at yours I can see why your affronted !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had some rather graphically explicit ones sent to us when we first started out needless to say we don't display them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!! "

Really verifications should just : 'Yep this person is who they say they are and do what they say they will do'

For some reason we've got into gushing over each other lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

Really verifications should just : 'Yep this person is who they say they are and do what they say they will do'

For some reason we've got into gushing over each other lol"

That was my point really, obviously in the united kingdom of taking offence it ruffled feathers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There trouble here i that i find it hard to understand why people post false veri's after all its not going to be long before they are outed and blocked/booted off site...I will only verify or accept verification's after face to face meetings; best way in my books;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris should be like a check off system, arrived in time, clean and tidy , type of meet ie social/play/club.

And a box for comments if user wishes to leave them.

I read loads veris and think most have been jazzed up for readers benefits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

Do you really think a guy would turn up like that with meets being so scarce? "

Believe it or not, yes I sent him home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or he was nice enough and the sex was ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!! "

PRAT!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through some verifications makes me feel queasy, sooo good all right buttons etc etc, I'm not denying its the truth, but would love to read an alternative veri, i.e he came in his work clothes that stunk of BO or she looked a good 20 years older than the photo, with an end line of still a great shag though, as not to hurt anyone's feelings lol!!

Really verifications should just : 'Yep this person is who they say they are and do what they say they will do'

For some reason we've got into gushing over each other lol

That was my point really, obviously in the united kingdom of taking offence it ruffled feathers!!"

certainly wasnt a ruffling of the feathers...more my feathers cant be fucked being told what my profile should have or what it shouldnt.

Let the people who take/get verifies enjoy what makes their time on the site pleasurable..if the verification says too much...simple...its turned u off ,dont meet them.

*That 'gushing verifies' remark..always leads me to believe someone gets jealous reading whos been before or who goes afterwards

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I like to read really good verifications. Tells me something about how the person is able to perform, given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read really good verifications. Tells me something about how the person is able to perform, given the chance."

does seal flipper-claps!!! ouw ouw ouw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to read really good verifications. Tells me something about how the person is able to perform, given the chance."

That just backs my point up, it will only ever say "can breathe through his ears he gives that much oral" etc not, "he went down on me for half a minute after I had blown him for 20, a poor return"!! I'm not trying to tell anyone what to put on their profile, just posted what I thought as that is what forums are for, peoples views, my view is they are sycophantic, some of you think they aren't, and the world keeps on spinning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read really good verifications. Tells me something about how the person is able to perform, given the chance.

That just backs my point up, it will only ever say "can breathe through his ears he gives that much oral" etc not, "he went down on me for half a minute after I had blown him for 20, a poor return"!! I'm not trying to tell anyone what to put on their profile, just posted what I thought as that is what forums are for, peoples views, my view is they are sycophantic, some of you think they aren't, and the world keeps on spinning "

sycophantic oir not, people dont care if they are meeting that IS the point.U see something on a screen..it might give reflection to who that person is, it might inflate an ego or two..but again...does that REALLY matter???- unless theres substantially wild inaccurate details of the person at hand...should u care???-really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should you care that I care????? Funny you protest so loudly and say I shouldn't care, I have nowhere along the line told anyone what to do or how to feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should you care that I care????? Funny you protest so loudly and say I shouldn't care, I have nowhere along the line told anyone what to do or how to feel?"

ur first post was clear on how U feel..as have my posts been on what is displayed on ones profile regarding feedback, and of course what is not displayed on anothers.

Personally, I'd just have something to display on my profile before I look at other profiles and comment on them openly.

I cared to comment as u cared to post a thread...perhaps u didnt expect some similar responses about ur profile..however its related to the theme I suppose

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