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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Yep, and if you mention it, they block you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do they ? I wouldn't message someone who was asking for a pic if they didnt at least have private/friends only pics. I think its a bit hypocritical

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If they have a face pic in private you wouldn't know.

Unless you have access to their friend pics you wouldn't know either.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Not at all. The ones holding all the cards make the rules. women and couples have lots to choose from. If they don't get a pic off you. They'll get pics off dozens of others .in that way it's fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they have a face pic in private you wouldn't know.

Unless you have access to their friend pics you wouldn't know either."

yh I didnt actually mean private I was just using private as another word for non public

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all. The ones holding all the cards make the rules. women and couples have lots to choose from. If they don't get a pic off you. They'll get pics off dozens of others .in that way it's fair enough."

I see what your saying but for me thats not really equality is it. its borderline discriminating a large % of members on here that just like others pay for site supporters membership, just by accepting that being fair when in fact its not

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

on this profile and are couples profile out face pics are private until such a time we share ..

i have a simple rule that i stick to ..you message me first you send face pic first if i message you first then i send first i dont expect it first message and they wont get mine first message

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Not at all. The ones holding all the cards make the rules. women and couples have lots to choose from. If they don't get a pic off you. They'll get pics off dozens of others .in that way it's fair enough.

I see what your saying but for me thats not really equality is it. its borderline discriminating a large % of members on here that just like others pay for site supporters membership, just by accepting that being fair when in fact its not "

But isn't that life anyways, there's not much equality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested "

yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?"

Yep daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested

yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about "

It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.

I usually skip past such profiles.

I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested

yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about

It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.

I usually skip past such profiles.

I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first."

I think your word demanding is a bit ott

They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples !

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?"

I've had this with a few guys that message me, blank profiles asking for a face pic, what do they think will happen?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah the ones with zero pics I find strange I just don't reply, I do like face pics quickly though, if it's not a face I don't want to kiss or look at it's a waste of everyone's time chatting for hours on end.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask for a face pic as how can I tell if I'm interested without seeing what they look like.

I do have my face visible; I understand that not everyone is comfortable with that and that's fine but I need to know what they look like.

I got called a pic collector two days ago because I asked him for a face picture .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested

yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about

It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.

I usually skip past such profiles.

I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.

I think your word demanding is a bit ott

They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples ! "

oh I dunno. some say "no pic no reply". thats kind of demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks like I have none. Although mine is hidden atm my pics are set private I do have plenty x

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested

yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about

It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.

I usually skip past such profiles.

I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.

I think your word demanding is a bit ott

They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples !

oh I dunno. some say "no pic no reply". thats kind of demanding "

We'll have to agree to disagree. I see it as their choice. Like any other they may have. to demand i think you need leverage of some kind. Unless you're desperate to meet someone that you deem " demanding " , they have no leverage. So its just a request.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested

yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about

It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.

I usually skip past such profiles.

I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.

I think your word demanding is a bit ott

They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples !

oh I dunno. some say "no pic no reply". thats kind of demanding

We'll have to agree to disagree. I see it as their choice. Like any other they may have. to demand i think you need leverage of some kind. Unless you're desperate to meet someone that you deem " demanding " , they have no leverage. So its just a request. "

so let me get this right, because I dont agree with what your saying that automatically makes me desperate ?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?"

I’m always surprised that anyone would consider messaging a profile that has no picture whatsoever , or even bother reading the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s Fab.

Move along.

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