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By *reenlightcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Hi all, we are new to the scene but talking about dipping our toe in with a club. Just wanted to get a steer on if it would be frowned upon to go and socialise even if nothing sexual happens? We think for our first time it would just be nice to go for a drink, flirt and chat and possibly no more on that visit. What’s people’s thoughts? Be kind to us haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, we are new to the scene but talking about dipping our toe in with a club. Just wanted to get a steer on if it would be frowned upon to go and socialise even if nothing sexual happens? We think for our first time it would just be nice to go for a drink, flirt and chat and possibly no more on that visit. What’s people’s thoughts? Be kind to us haha "

Thats exactly our thoughts, we don't want to just fuck, but get to know a friend group we can have regular fun with.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Going solely to socialise isn't frowned on at all.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

From the clubs we have been too, just going to socialise would be no bother at all. They are so non judgmental they are great fun.

Good luck

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Going to be social has never been an issue. Sometimes we play Sometimes we don't. We go to meet people and socialise. If anything more happens it's a bonus.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Going with no expectation of doing anything is probably the best, healthiest way to approach your first time.

It can be a bit overwhelming if you build it up in your head as being something specific, or having a plan, first up.

We had our first club night for years recently. The intention was to essentially have an 'adult-themed' but 'normal' night out.

If all we did was have a drink, a dance, speak to some people and/or watch other people having fun, and got turned on before going back to the hotel and just fucking each other, then it's a good night already.

As it was, we had great fun and ended up playing anyway.

Do a bit of research and find the right club for you, and a themed night is generally a decent way to go. It's just a naughty fancy dress night then

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I suggest the social side is more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, we are new to the scene but talking about dipping our toe in with a club. Just wanted to get a steer on if it would be frowned upon to go and socialise even if nothing sexual happens? We think for our first time it would just be nice to go for a drink, flirt and chat and possibly no more on that visit. What’s people’s thoughts? Be kind to us haha "

It's totally normal just to go to socialise and for me the nights where I just go to socialise and dance with friends on the dancefloor, chill in the hot tub and meet new people is just as fun as when I hit it off and play with someone, being from Bedford I'd highly recommend Jaydees it's such a sociable club with no expectations and you don't even have to dress down if you don't want to, I think it's a newbie night a week on Saturday it would be perfect for you. Nick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually rarely play when visiting a club; I love a chat and a flirt see who is around. I love the social side to it all . It's definitely not frowned upon. Go you will enjoy yourselves I'm sure. There is absolutely no pressure to do anything.

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By *ld enoughMan
over a year ago

Tenby

Watch out for the person with a clip board, who will ask how many shags have you had , then will write the quantity in a box by your name, Zero is excptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what we want to do. We should all arrange a newbies group and go together xxx strength in numbers xx Thoughts

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

After our first ever club visit, we had a guilt tripping message the next day because we hadn't played with a couple. I thought they just wanted a chat

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I think going without any preconceived pressires is the best way for any club visit.

Go, enjoy the social, talk to others there and just do whatever you feel suits you without any pressure

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We love the fact there is no pressure to do anything, and we can do as much or as little as we wish

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