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Impromptu or planned meets?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Which do most people prefer most? Those meets that you've planned or the ones where you decide on the spur of the moment that you want some fun, put out a post and 2 hours later you meet up?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute is always better where possible. But typically not possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered either way, having two jobs means I have to plan but have done spur of the moment ones but I don't use the meet facility to organise a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my FB we have to arrange well ahead of time as we live qite a distance apart. I love the build up and the anticipation of seeing him.

As far as anyone else goes, I prefer impromptu meets, as it can be a bit nerve wracking waiting to meet a new person and wondering if it's going to be any good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Which do most people prefer most? Those meets that you've planned or the ones where you decide on the spur of the moment that you want some fun, put out a post and 2 hours later you meet up?!?! "

Up to this weekend meets except clubs were always planned and at least a couple of days in the planning. Saturday evening was at a loose end, got online and two hours later fantastic fun lady was at my door. Great fun and excitement,now certainly open to both planned and spontaneous meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rately plan meets, the most weve planned ahead is probably deciding on the morning to meet later that same day

There have been the odd occasions over the last 3 years we have planned longer than that but they are very rare and involve 'special' people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all of ours have to be planned - it is the only way we can do it with work and family. I have to say that I love the build up to a planned meet, for me that is all part of it.

Only managed a spontaneous meet once and that was with someone that we had already been chatting to. Although that was fun, I think planned wins for us as I love building up the anticipation.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Any meets, by whatever means would be an improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooo, I would say impromptu meets... As long as you've got time for a quick shower!

Waiting is a bit nerve wracking at times

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't meet in hotels, won't go to someone's home unless I know them, and will not invite strangers into my home unless I feel comfortable with them. Therefore, it's planned meets only for me.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

luv both .. variety is the spice of life i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the two I prefer the planned meets, especially when you've been exchanging messages, talking on the phone, camming for a significant amount of time.. slowly building up anticipation to the in the flesh meet for real!!

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics


"luv both .. variety is the spice of life i guess "

Me too! although I do find the planned ones are more likely to show-up! I've tried a couple of times to do same day and have been left waiting...alone, the thrill of the chase had passed I guess. Others do show tho (like today!)

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

hope u ate him alive curls in ur trademark style !! go girl go !!

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics


"hope u ate him alive curls in ur trademark style !! go girl go !! "

Them, actually! A regular guy texted to say could he come over? I was in chat at the time, and a young man asked if he could join in! Teehee.....

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Never ever planned or arranged private meets..

We are party people so prefer the meeting at clubs or parties,than the long drawn out episode of the internet.Also we find if its to arranged its just not a turn on ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spur of the moment, the most unexpected is always the most fun same with anything in life i feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best meets have arose out of being in the right place at the right time

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned, and usually well in advance.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

As our diary is full with work,fam. vanilla + swinger commitments its all planning for us.....if free unexpectetly

than we only do repeat meets short notice.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

At the mo life only permits planned meets for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both very spontaneous so prefer spur of the moment meets, the equal mix of excitement and anticipation makes me so horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find spur of the moment meets exciting and usually turn out great

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By *ed cjMan
over a year ago

oldham

I am limited in my availability so frequently post for spontaneous meets, don't often get many replies though!!! What does that tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately spontaneous meets. I find planning ahead is not very horny at all, but I do recognise the downside of this. Some people are big planners and that might work for them. Same as people who plan what they are going to do during a meet, it just leaves me cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as you meet ,get in each others eyesite thang bang away you go untill your both broken ,well i myself never give in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned meets ONLY for me on the basis that time spent in reconnaissance is seldom wasted (but then again procrastination is the thief of time )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only last minute meet has put me right off... We had been chatting for a while, the texts got a little steamy, so we decided to just go for it! What a let down. He arrived, but once it came down to fun, he wanted bareback. Big NO NO for me, so he then procedes to tell me, he cant fuck with a condom on as it makes him go limp, and boy he wernt kidding... Hence, he left, cos i refused to go bareback. So no sex and left totally frustrated. I should have just stuck to my wand, its much more fun!

All my meets are planned in advance now, and I definitely make sure they are condom friendly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned only I can't be dealing with randoms never again lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to preplan and prebook a sitter, so that limits my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spur of the moment defo better can't always happen but great when it foes

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