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By *um6a9fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Messy End

Open to all and a little random, but I’m curious to know how everyone else decides to approach or reply to someone?

1, are their interests list more important than their text or photos?

2, is location important?

3, Boobs or bum, and would you say no if your favourite wasn’t to your liking?

4, Anything that definitely gets a response?

Me

Interests

No

Bum and yes

Pubic hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First I look at location, then I look at his profile, if he's got no pictures or very little on his bio, then I just pass him by, I have to be in his age range, if I'm 10 years out, I'm not interested as that's the age he's looking for,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Location, profile, photos. After that, attitude.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Location, photos and profile. If they don't have photos its a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Location, profile, photos. After that, attitude. "

Exactly this for me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't go looking and haven't sent a first contact message in 3 years but if someone gets in touch the first things I look at are age and location.

After that it's all about consistency.

If the collar doesn't match the cuffs in regard to pics and bio or their verification trail tells a different story to their message, it's a hard no.

I'm attracted to people on a similar journey and not those who have been on their journey for many years and are jaded.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Open to all and a little random, but I’m curious to know how everyone else decides to approach or reply to someone?

1, are their interests list more important than their text or photos?

2, is location important?

3, Boobs or bum, and would you say no if your favourite wasn’t to your liking?

4, Anything that definitely gets a response?

Me

Interests

No

Bum and yes

Pubic hair "

1. Profile as a whole.

2. Location is very important.

3. Both equally, absolutely not!

4. Mentions motorbikes or has photos of bikes.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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When looking it was always

Attraction - there has to be something about them i.e face or body.

Height - 9 times out of 10 I'd go for Women smaller than me.

Past meets - If 90% of their actual meets are tall, very attractive Men with gym bodies and huge cocks, I wouldn't take it any further as I'm neither of them

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I just look at what they wrote really not bothered if the skinny of fat if there words get my attention they get my affection.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

For me, if none of their profile content or message puts me off

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Profile and see what his interests are, location, bi status and sometimes age and pics. Like to chat to see if got things in common too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they look like, location and similar interests really. I'm not super fussy as in have lots of preferences but I have to find them attractive and feel like we would get on.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If I am attracted to their face and their message doesn't make them sound like a complete arse hat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll always reply to genuine and interesting messages If engaging enough without even looking at the profile, if I’m still further intrigued, I’ll go and have a read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location location location

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

It depends on what kind of day we're having and how far away they are

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

If course, I realise that fab is a jungle and the fittest survive, BUT.

So many ladies/couples say that they want a coherent message from someone making an effort. So I occasionally send one to those that I’m attracted to and dont filter out my age/status…… and in response get a one line message. Fair enough if it’s a polite decline but mostly it’s just a zero effort back. Deflating.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"If course, I realise that fab is a jungle and the fittest survive, BUT.

So many ladies/couples say that they want a coherent message from someone making an effort. So I occasionally send one to those that I’m attracted to and dont filter out my age/status…… and in response get a one line message. Fair enough if it’s a polite decline but mostly it’s just a zero effort back. Deflating."

They probably answering back because just to be polite as you put the effort in but not 100% sure about you. It's a buyers market and the men need to sell their wares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, location, accommodation, photos, profile, interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles pics ages locations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face and body attraction with a reasonable bio and then definitely well verified by other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the text. Look at photos.

Location is just an indication of how probable we could meet up, and how quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Location, profile, photos. After that, attitude. "

Absolutely this…

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By *artshell1Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Read the verifications and look at profiles of who left them, then look at the pics and read profile

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