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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

** This is to be a discussion , not a judge fest **.

Couples/Women (especially where one party is bi), what are your reasons for the "(absolutely, in some cases), no bi men" in your preferences.

Yes, I know, each to their own etc, I'm just intrigued as to it as you never see "no bi women"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference? Bad experiences? Could be a plethora of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?"

These would be high on their list, whether they even know it themselves.

Either way, it’s their choice (loss!).

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly"

Nailed it.

Completely outdated (and in the case of couples with a bi female hypocritical) prejudiced attitudes that are sadly far more prominent in certain age groups and generations who lived through the AIDs epidemic in the 80s and early 90s.

The same people who would point blank refuse (as shown in a thread a few weeks back) to sleep with someone who is open and honest about been Hiv positive but on treatment and confirmed U=U: Undetectable = Untransmittable yet think nothing of going bareback with people who potentially don't test and therefore are unaware of thier up-to-date HIV status as confirmed by the bareback veris.

Thankfully the younger generations in the main have moved on, leaving behind the sexuality hang ups of the yesteryears behind and tend to be far more informed of the facts and the science.

KJ

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?

"

Yeah! Mr was reluctant to display his curiosity in the fear of potentially preventing fun for me with a lot of couples stating "will not meet!" We're yet to play in an inclusive fashion and he's not attracted to men (just the naughtiness of the option and my fantasies) but it's out there now and he has no interest in "jumping" on anyone..

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?

Yeah! Mr was reluctant to display his curiosity in the fear of potentially preventing fun for me with a lot of couples stating "will not meet!" We're yet to play in an inclusive fashion and he's not attracted to men (just the naughtiness of the option and my fantasies) but it's out there now and he has no interest in "jumping" on anyone.."

Shame. He can jump on me.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

It seems to be the possibility of fear at them being labelled as curious but everyone is entitled to their own opinion and fair play to them us on the other hand were both curious and not scared to admit it or try something

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Personally bi men are our preference. Hubby has never been with a man but does like the idea. I never understood why so many profiles say straight and then when they message they say they are bi but there is so much judgement of bi men.

Mrs

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"** This is to be a discussion , not a judge fest **.

Couples/Women (especially where one party is bi), what are your reasons for the "(absolutely, in some cases), no bi men" in your preferences.

Yes, I know, each to their own etc, I'm just intrigued as to it as you never see "no bi women""

We can understand "no bi men" entirely. Although we are happy to play with bi men as long as they are happy to play completely straight, we have been disappointed that a few have reneged on the agreement to play straight once the action has started by making a grab for my partner. Guy on guy is an total turn off for both of us and this stops play immediately. The basic problem appears to be that too many bi guys are of the opinion that nobody is totally straight and therefore any man is up for"conversion".

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By *astYorksCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

It is a bit of nonsense anyway. I'm sure that there are a number of men on here as straight but play bi as well.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Some people just find bisexual play a turn off and aren’t attracted to people who enjoy it. Even playing straight, they are still bi. Some just can’t ignore the fact.

There are other sex acts that people do, that would put others off ever meeting them, even if that wasn’t going to happen on that occasion.

Nowt as strange as folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just find bisexual play a turn off and aren’t attracted to people who enjoy it. Even playing straight, they are still bi. Some just can’t ignore the fact.

There are other sex acts that people do, that would put others off ever meeting them, even if that wasn’t going to happen on that occasion.

Nowt as strange as folk."

Yep

And if everybody was the same it might well be a boring old world. We’d not be everybody’s cup of tea but we respect that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda understand why men would be a bit scared in a mmf type scene -- like fearful some dude will randomly start groping his johnson when least expecting it.

This rarely happens though - most people are respectful I expect.

However, I don't understand why lone women create that boundary -- so long as people play safe, then it shouldn't make any difference what anyone does with their genitals at other times.

Unless they equate crossing the tracks with being less of a man, of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a dumb thing to write because all that happens is that men will then pretend they aren’t bi to meet them.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

as a fully bi couple we dont take offence just use as a filter its that simple ..

as for those who think they are playing 100% with str8 guys erm they need to think again lol people lie hubs is on fab guys you would not belive how many genuine str9 guys on here are on there so theres no way your only playing with str8 guys no way at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a preference and shouldn’t be judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"** This is to be a discussion , not a judge fest **.

Couples/Women (especially where one party is bi), what are your reasons for the "(absolutely, in some cases), no bi men" in your preferences.

Yes, I know, each to their own etc, I'm just intrigued as to it as you never see "no bi women"

We can understand "no bi men" entirely. Although we are happy to play with bi men as long as they are happy to play completely straight, we have been disappointed that a few have reneged on the agreement to play straight once the action has started by making a grab for my partner. Guy on guy is a total turn off for both of us and this stops play immediately. The basic problem appears to be that too many bi guys are of the opinion that nobody is totally straight and therefore any man is up for"conversion". "

I have yet to go to a club (first one this Friday!) but I won’t lie I worry about women doing the same to me. Is it common? It does seem from swinging in general & the discussion here that women are expected to be ok with FF play, but I’m really not into women (believe me I’ve tried!).

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly"

What a complete sack of shit, im not attracted to men so why would we want to meet people we are not attracted too?

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my better half did her experimenting and decided it wasn't for her, she would not meet couples with a bi female in case they presumed something would happen.

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Everyone is different, i see it as a good filter that the couple or single woman etc is bigoted and probably a bit of a t**t, voted for brexit, house smells of dogs, has a leather sofa, you know the type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as a fully bi couple we dont take offence just use as a filter its that simple ..

as for those who think they are playing 100% with str8 guys erm they need to think again lol people lie hubs is on fab guys you would not belive how many genuine str9 guys on here are on there so theres no way your only playing with str8 guys no way at all"

This ^^ So many men on FS are also on FG.

Absolutely no problem with that of course until you look at their profile and it states they are 100% straight.

Of course you are, your many veri’s on there belong to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally this is our preference, purely so we can explore same sex together

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Agreed this is driven by ignorance, plus we live in a very binary culture so is there any wonder?

The Fab descriptors around gender identity and sexuality don't help much either..

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


"as a fully bi couple we dont take offence just use as a filter its that simple ..

as for those who think they are playing 100% with str8 guys erm they need to think again lol people lie hubs is on fab guys you would not belive how many genuine str9 guys on here are on there so theres no way your only playing with str8 guys no way at all

This ^^ So many men on FS are also on FG.

Absolutely no problem with that of course until you look at their profile and it states they are 100% straight.

Of course you are, your many veri’s on there belong to someone else "

Yep, not only that but I would say 70% of the messages we receive off 'straight' guys, are them asking for full bi play.

So any couple who thinks they are only meeting straight guys off here 'as that's what their profile says' is living in cloud cuckoo land!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed this is driven by ignorance, plus we live in a very binary culture so is there any wonder?

The Fab descriptors around gender identity and sexuality don't help much either..

"

Agreed!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"What a complete sack of shit, im not attracted to men so why would we want to meet people we are not attracted too?

T"

But your profile explicitly says you want to meet men? I get that you (T) don’t want to have sex with a man, but you specifically ask for men to meet you as a couple.

What does it matter if the man you meet has had sex with men previously or has thought about sex with men?

Gbat

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We only meet bi couples but it don’t bother us if someone won’t meet bi men we just use it as a filter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most people have said on this thread the need to say no bi men is redundant with the filters on the search that being said for single/ couples profiles that have bi men it makes no difference if you have a convo about what it is you want to happen at a meet so everyone knows the boundaries

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

It’s their preference.

In our opinion…

It’s their loss.

We’ve encountered some people who have the ‘fear’ that their guy will get pounced on.

It tends to point to an insecurity on their behalf, that there’s some small chance they might enjoy it.

It’s their choice.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"What a complete sack of shit, im not attracted to men so why would we want to meet people we are not attracted too?

T

But your profile explicitly says you want to meet men? I get that you (T) don’t want to have sex with a man, but you specifically ask for men to meet you as a couple.

What does it matter if the man you meet has had sex with men previously or has thought about sex with men?

Gbat "

We do indeed say we want to men but we also say that im straight, i have been on the scene 12 years and 7 years as a couple and i can say that i have pretty much seen it all including as stated on one of the posts of people not keeping to the boundaries stated before play started.

We go to clubs regularly and i can say that things regarding respecting rules seem to be getting worse than when i first came on the scene, this is one of the reasons we probably wont do another bbw night because there seems to be a growing sense of entitlement.

T

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly"

Giving blood 17 years ago I saw that on the forms. Sex in Africa was asked about too. Hope they've moved on since.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"What a complete sack of shit, im not attracted to men so why would we want to meet people we are not attracted too?

T

But your profile explicitly says you want to meet men? I get that you (T) don’t want to have sex with a man, but you specifically ask for men to meet you as a couple.

What does it matter if the man you meet has had sex with men previously or has thought about sex with men?

Gbat

We do indeed say we want to men but we also say that im straight, i have been on the scene 12 years and 7 years as a couple and i can say that i have pretty much seen it all including as stated on one of the posts of people not keeping to the boundaries stated before play started.

We go to clubs regularly and i can say that things regarding respecting rules seem to be getting worse than when i first came on the scene, this is one of the reasons we probably wont do another bbw night because there seems to be a growing sense of entitlement.

T"

In my first foursome mfmf, I was the only straight one there, I said I was straight and he was cool with that, so give the bi guys and girls a chance to prove that they can behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also why presume the guy will make a move on you just because he’s bi?

I’m bi but it doesn’t mean I try it on with every woman I meet. There’s got to be a connection and I need to fancy them.

We can control ourselves!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"What a complete sack of shit, im not attracted to men so why would we want to meet people we are not attracted too?

T

But your profile explicitly says you want to meet men? I get that you (T) don’t want to have sex with a man, but you specifically ask for men to meet you as a couple.

What does it matter if the man you meet has had sex with men previously or has thought about sex with men?

Gbat

We do indeed say we want to men but we also say that im straight, i have been on the scene 12 years and 7 years as a couple and i can say that i have pretty much seen it all including as stated on one of the posts of people not keeping to the boundaries stated before play started.

We go to clubs regularly and i can say that things regarding respecting rules seem to be getting worse than when i first came on the scene, this is one of the reasons we probably wont do another bbw night because there seems to be a growing sense of entitlement.

T"

So is it only bi guys that try and push the boundaries or do straight guys also do that at BBW nights?

Does any member of a couple sometimes try and do something that you’ve agreed not to do?

I agree with you. Consent is everything. If ANYONE regardless of their sexuality oversteps the mark, then it’s definitely impolite, morally wrong and almost definitely illegal.

But you only choose not to meet bi guys as you (T) are straight. What about all those people who act as outlined above but don’t get an automatic ban from you? It seems that it’s only bi guys you don’t trust.

You be you and I’ll be me, but when you are being you, make sure you really know who you are.

Gbat

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Maybe people are turned off by the idea in the same way if they were turned off by something else to do with a persons behaviour or attitude.

Its not homophobic just not what excites them sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many bisexual guys are shamed into labeling themselves as 'straight' on here.

I'm sure we're all, at least a little bi-curious???

It's 2022 FFS

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I've always assumed they said this because they were worried that they might get tempted if they were with a guy they knew to be bi.

If you're scared you might be bi, then much better to keep well away.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Maybe people are turned off by the idea in the same way if they were turned off by something else to do with a persons behaviour or attitude.

Its not homophobic just not what excites them sexually. "

But what of their behaviour or attitude exactly do you think they might display? It’s not as if their likely to turn up like a bad character from a Dick Emery sketch. If I didn’t tell you I sometimes play bi, you’d never know.

Just like I won’t suddenly assume the woman wants hard, unlubricated anal sex from me, I also won’t assume the man wants any sexual contact with me.

It’s not difficult!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notwithstanding I'm usually in a minority, but my reason is my personal aversion to human shit.

Some of the comments from people not wearing "no bi men" shoes are revealingly judgy, smh.

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

I’m Bi and my profile states that, I have played with bi couples and straight ones, would never dream of jumping on a guy unless he asked. As long as we all respect each other let’s have fun

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Maybe people are turned off by the idea in the same way if they were turned off by something else to do with a persons behaviour or attitude.

Its not homophobic just not what excites them sexually.

But what of their behaviour or attitude exactly do you think they might display? It’s not as if their likely to turn up like a bad character from a Dick Emery sketch. If I didn’t tell you I sometimes play bi, you’d never know.

Just like I won’t suddenly assume the woman wants hard, unlubricated anal sex from me, I also won’t assume the man wants any sexual contact with me.

It’s not difficult!

Gbat "

Think you may have misread my post.

It’s not difficult.

Nothing was said about about the attitude or behaviour of bi sexual men but as people in general being turned off by something about a person they just can’t block it out because you want to play straight.

These are not our own view’s was simply adding a reason as to why a couple may not want to meet a man.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"What a complete sack of shit, im not attracted to men so why would we want to meet people we are not attracted too?

T

But your profile explicitly says you want to meet men? I get that you (T) don’t want to have sex with a man, but you specifically ask for men to meet you as a couple.

What does it matter if the man you meet has had sex with men previously or has thought about sex with men?

Gbat

We do indeed say we want to men but we also say that im straight, i have been on the scene 12 years and 7 years as a couple and i can say that i have pretty much seen it all including as stated on one of the posts of people not keeping to the boundaries stated before play started.

We go to clubs regularly and i can say that things regarding respecting rules seem to be getting worse than when i first came on the scene, this is one of the reasons we probably wont do another bbw night because there seems to be a growing sense of entitlement.

T

So is it only bi guys that try and push the boundaries or do straight guys also do that at BBW nights?

Does any member of a couple sometimes try and do something that you’ve agreed not to do?

I agree with you. Consent is everything. If ANYONE regardless of their sexuality oversteps the mark, then it’s definitely impolite, morally wrong and almost definitely illegal.

But you only choose not to meet bi guys as you (T) are straight. What about all those people who act as outlined above but don’t get an automatic ban from you? It seems that it’s only bi guys you don’t trust.

You be you and I’ll be me, but when you are being you, make sure you really know who you are.

Gbat "

Well you would have to ask the people breaking club rules what their sexuality is as we report them to the management rather than engage with them so to try and suggest we single out bi guys is a bit silly.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many bisexual guys are shamed into labeling themselves as 'straight' on here.

I'm sure we're all, at least a little bi-curious???

It's 2022 FFS "

No not all of us there really are some straight people around.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


" to try and suggest we single out bi guys is a bit silly.

T"

I’m not for one minute trying to suggest you single out bi guys in clubs. I’ve never met you anywhere, let alone in a club.

But you seemed to be singling bi guys out from your earlier post when you said you don’t meet them because you’re straight.

You went in to say that people break set boundaries and I commented on that all types of people break boundaries yet you only seem to preclude bi men. That’s what I was commenting on.

Gbat

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham


"Everyone is different, i see it as a good filter that the couple or single woman etc is bigoted and probably a bit of a t**t, voted for brexit, house smells of dogs, has a leather sofa, you know the type! "

I see it as a good filter too. But what's so evil about leather sofas?!

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Everyone is different, i see it as a good filter that the couple or single woman etc is bigoted and probably a bit of a t**t, voted for brexit, house smells of dogs, has a leather sofa, you know the type!

I see it as a good filter too. But what's so evil about leather sofas?!"

Silicone based lube is a bugger to shift from them.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham


"Notwithstanding I'm usually in a minority, but my reason is my personal aversion to human shit.

Some of the comments from people not wearing "no bi men" shoes are revealingly judgy, smh. "

Do you also rule out playing with straight people who like anal?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"So many bisexual guys are shamed into labeling themselves as 'straight' on here.

I'm sure we're all, at least a little bi-curious???

It's 2022 FFS "

Not all no ,I'm straight

I have no problem with bi men,my other half can be orally bi with the right people .

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I’m Bi and my profile states that, I have played with bi couples and straight ones, would never dream of jumping on a guy unless he asked. As long as we all respect each other let’s have fun "

Yes, but about 20% or so of bi guys we have met have jumped on my partner after agreeing not to. You may well be different, but how do we know without taking the risk of ruining what could have been a great evening? We are willing to take that risk, but many aren't and correspondingly your chances have been spoiled by those guys that don't respect boundaries.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"So many bisexual guys are shamed into labeling themselves as 'straight' on here.

I'm sure we're all, at least a little bi-curious???

It's 2022 FFS "

Unfortunately it's exactly this attitude - "we're all, at least a bit bi curious" - that encourages bi guys to try it on with a straight guy. Why is it so difficult to understand that there really are totally straight men and women, for whom even the thought of playing with the same sex is a total turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my reason is my personal aversion to human shit."

Why do you assume:

(1) that every bi man does it up the jacksie?

(2) That bisexual men don't take care of personal hygiene?

(3) That anal is an activity solely reserved for bi and gay men?

You seem to have a very odd logical processing.

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By *immy1973jimmyMan
over a year ago

leicester

I state I’m bi because men have sucked my cock and I liked it I also fucked a guy

When I’m horny I’m horny

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Why can't people just accept bisexuality isn't for everyone. Instead of calling someone bigoted narrow minded frightened of aids etc. As much as you sing the praise of bi life style it's not for everyone . Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people just accept bisexuality isn't for everyone. Instead of calling someone bigoted narrow minded frightened of aids etc. As much as you sing the praise of bi life style it's not for everyone . Live and let live."

That isn't the point. Think of it in terms of an analogy...

Scenario 1.

Imagine you don't like cats, but don't care if other people have cats.

You talk to people with cats, the cat owners are just as welcome into your home as everyone else, so long as they don't bring the cat with them.

You claim you have nothing against cat owners, and you'd be right -- it's not a moral objection, it's just a matter of taste.

Scenario 2.

Imagine again that you don't like cats -- but this time you won't let a cat lover come into your home.

You're scared they might spread disease, you think they're going to force a cat onto you, that you're going to start loving cats yourself or that cat owners are somehow less fun, less decent, more dangerous.

You think that, because they stroke cats, that there's something dirty or wrong about them.

They protest that their liking of cats shouldn't affect anyone else, but you behave like you have a moral objection -- it isn't just a matter of personal taste, because what they do with their cats will never affect you.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


" to try and suggest we single out bi guys is a bit silly.

T

I’m not for one minute trying to suggest you single out bi guys in clubs. I’ve never met you anywhere, let alone in a club.

But you seemed to be singling bi guys out from your earlier post when you said you don’t meet them because you’re straight.

You went in to say that people break set boundaries and I commented on that all types of people break boundaries yet you only seem to preclude bi men. That’s what I was commenting on.

Gbat "

When you said " it seems its only bi guys you dont trust" to me seems like there is a hidden agenda on your part.

At the end of the day people will meet the people that fits what they are looking for, no one owes anyone anything and if you dont fit the description just move on to the people who do want to meet you.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"** This is to be a discussion , not a judge fest **.

Couples/Women (especially where one party is bi), what are your reasons for the "(absolutely, in some cases), no bi men" in your preferences.

Yes, I know, each to their own etc, I'm just intrigued as to it as you never see "no bi women"

We can understand "no bi men" entirely. Although we are happy to play with bi men as long as they are happy to play completely straight, we have been disappointed that a few have reneged on the agreement to play straight once the action has started by making a grab for my partner. Guy on guy is an total turn off for both of us and this stops play immediately. The basic problem appears to be that too many bi guys are of the opinion that nobody is totally straight and therefore any man is up for"conversion". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"** This is to be a discussion , not a judge fest **.

Couples/Women (especially where one party is bi), what are your reasons for the "(absolutely, in some cases), no bi men" in your preferences.

Yes, I know, each to their own etc, I'm just intrigued as to it as you never see "no bi women"

We can understand "no bi men" entirely. Although we are happy to play with bi men as long as they are happy to play completely straight, we have been disappointed that a few have reneged on the agreement to play straight once the action has started by making a grab for my partner. Guy on guy is a total turn off for both of us and this stops play immediately. The basic problem appears to be that too many bi guys are of the opinion that nobody is totally straight and therefore any man is up for"conversion".

I have yet to go to a club (first one this Friday!) but I won’t lie I worry about women doing the same to me. Is it common? It does seem from swinging in general & the discussion here that women are expected to be ok with FF play, but I’m really not into women (believe me I’ve tried!). "

Some women assume that all women are bi and will try it on or touch without asking. Just say no as you would with a man.

Women often get very arsey if someone says no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?

"

All 3 of these tbh

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"It is a bit of nonsense anyway. I'm sure that there are a number of men on here as straight but play bi as well."

lol think you will find that number is very high indeed

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By *W Cunning-linguistMan
over a year ago

Gloucester ish


"It is a bit of nonsense anyway. I'm sure that there are a number of men on here as straight but play bi as well."

Yep - there's many of those around, also 'straight' but looking to meet TVs ... um, got bad news ....

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Wow,such a lot of self entitled replies

How about just accepting the fact,some people,couples,women men,don't find the idea of playing with a bisexual man a turn on.

And yes I have seen profiles saying no bi women.

I have seen many many couples posts saying no men,at all,neither bo nor straight

Just accept the wishes of others

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

People's preferences are their own and should not be judged, just as what you find attractive full stop (body type, tattoos, facial features, accents and attitudes)

Live and let live, we don't expect to be everyone's cup of tea!

Believe it boils down to respect and understanding others desires may not fully match yours.

Isn't that the case in any relationship, regardless of what kind.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Because watching men at it doesn't turn me on simply preference

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

This is why most men don't state they are bi or open to bi play ... . I mean its probably easier for a male to just run 2 profiles on sites like this, one as straight and one as bi and never the two meet

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"I’m Bi and my profile states that, I have played with bi couples and straight ones, would never dream of jumping on a guy unless he asked. As long as we all respect each other let’s have fun

Yes, but about 20% or so of bi guys we have met have jumped on my partner after agreeing not to. You may well be different, but how do we know without taking the risk of ruining what could have been a great evening? We are willing to take that risk, but many aren't and correspondingly your chances have been spoiled by those guys that don't respect boundaries. "

100% agree with this. I am happy to play straight with couples. But I totally respect everyone here who says no bi man (or woman). How can I prove that I won’t break agreement? No way I can prove it unless we meet. Taking that risk is solely their decision, I don’t want to influence it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow,such a lot of self entitled replies

How about just accepting the fact,some people,couples,women men,don't find the idea of playing with a bisexual man a turn on.

And yes I have seen profiles saying no bi women.

I have seen many many couples posts saying no men,at all,neither bo nor straight

Just accept the wishes of others"

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

When I had my studio at my home and started offering massages through fab, couples would want both to be massaged.

You get a guy on the table rock hard wife watching and in some cases masturbating I realised that I would have to give a full body massage.

I treated a guys cock is like any other body part.

Does that make me gay. Definitely not as I'm not attracted to a man..

But as my profile says I'm bi curious as I wank the guy if they want it in a mfm meet, but for me to be turned on the lady has to be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also 'straight' but looking to meet TVs ... um, got bad news .... "

Not really -- an attraction to femininity isn't necessarily the same as an attraction to men.

To be fair, I have no interest in men or TVs -- but totally cool with someone TS (i.e. living and presenting as a woman full time).

One problem with this site is that every hairy crossdresser and their mother tries to 'identify' as a woman nowadays. The gender/sexuality options on here are very out of date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of responses hitting the nail on the head and quite thoughtful.

It also appears that fab desperately needs a "Heteexible" option.

Also, all you gorgeous accepting people give me a smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of responses hitting the nail on the head and quite thoughtful.

It also appears that fab desperately needs a "Heteexible" option.

Also, all you gorgeous accepting people give me a smile!"

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By *thletic_cuckMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?

These would be high on their list, whether they even know it themselves.

Either way, it’s their choice (loss!).

Gbat "

Exactly the above!

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By *thletic_cuckMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"also 'straight' but looking to meet TVs ... um, got bad news ....

Not really -- an attraction to femininity isn't necessarily the same as an attraction to men.

To be fair, I have no interest in men or TVs -- but totally cool with someone TS (i.e. living and presenting as a woman full time).

One problem with this site is that every hairy crossdresser and their mother tries to 'identify' as a woman nowadays. The gender/sexuality options on here are very out of date. "

I agree with this. There should be options for actual transgender people and cross dressers as there is a massive difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people just accept bisexuality isn't for everyone. Instead of calling someone bigoted narrow minded frightened of aids etc. As much as you sing the praise of bi life style it's not for everyone . Live and let live."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a bit of nonsense anyway. I'm sure that there are a number of men on here as straight but play bi as well."

From the messages I get that number is HUGE.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We bid not both but a couple of awkward experiences have stopped us meeting bi men .

We maybe play 3/4 times a year and not looking for more awkward moments life is to short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone must respect everyone’s boundaries, we are not all the same , thank goodness !!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly"

G I think most people here where like 7 or not even born...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been confirmed on this thread many times that many bi men will lie about their sexuality to get a fuck.

So what else will they lie about. STI's, marital status, not touching a straight man in a couple....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we had experiences with BI men

.Some try to be aggressive after the boundaries were set. Multiple times

Yes alcohol can give way to inhibitions. We understand but it was agreed to in the first place. Soo now you know.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Wow!! Some very broad white washing statement's on this thread.. An arsehole is an arsehole (excuse the..)

It matters not whether someone is male, female, straight, bi, gay or confused!

D has had a couple of very forceful/predatory women grabbing at him and trying to get him alone in club's who he had no wish to play with! I've laughed it off, but in hindsight I should have had his back and told them to fuck off as he does for me! #fail.

Label's are counterproductive and one experience doesn't define a group that the idiot male or female may represent in your opinion.

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London


"Some people just find bisexual play a turn off and aren’t attracted to people who enjoy it. Even playing straight, they are still bi. Some just can’t ignore the fact.

There are other sex acts that people do, that would put others off ever meeting them, even if that wasn’t going to happen on that occasion.

Nowt as strange as folk."

What other sex acts does just the fact off, even if it’s not going to happen?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow!! Some very broad white washing statement's on this thread.. An arsehole is an arsehole (excuse the..)

It matters not whether someone is male, female, straight, bi, gay or confused!

D has had a couple of very forceful/predatory women grabbing at him and trying to get him alone in club's who he had no wish to play with! I've laughed it off, but in hindsight I should have had his back and told them to fuck off as he does for me! #fail.

Label's are counterproductive and one experience doesn't define a group that the idiot male or female may represent in your opinion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just find bisexual play a turn off and aren’t attracted to people who enjoy it. Even playing straight, they are still bi. Some just can’t ignore the fact.

There are other sex acts that people do, that would put others off ever meeting them, even if that wasn’t going to happen on that occasion.

Nowt as strange as folk.

What other sex acts does just the fact off, even if it’s not going to happen? "

Bareback

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Don't see the issue with it.

Quickly rules out people I'll never see eye to eye with so wouldn't want to meet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bisexual, says so on my profile, no point hiding it only for it to come up in conversation later.

If I meet a couple and the guy has no interest then that 100% fine with me, likewise the other way round. In a couple situation I'm more interested in the lady than the man.

I meet guys 1-on-1, but it's not a regular thing, I don't go looking for them when I do a search, my searches are for women/couples. Meets I've had they contact me, and the majority has "straight" on thier profile.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Far as we are concerned, the desires and bounderies of others we play with are as important as their respect of our desires bounderies. We simply find the idea of two men comitting sexual acts to one another a complete turn off. We have witnessed it but both found it a total turn off.

We wouldnt dream of asking others to justifie their position on the sexual preferrences or hind our own! The app doesnt allow us to block some details if it did we wouldnt have to make the statement. There is no fear we are not against others choices we simply make our own know to avoid disappointment or wasting each parties choices. We would expect others to respect ours how they wish others to respect theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a bit of nonsense anyway. I'm sure that there are a number of men on here as straight but play bi as well."

So many it is unreal!

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth


"Lack of understanding that if a guy is bi it doesn’t mean he’s going to pounce on the male member of a couple?

Subconscious doubt of the male partner’s sexuality ?

Homophobia ?

"

Yes, all of the above.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly"

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Its obvious if you put no bi women on your profile . reverce logic youl be inundated with them .that's how. Fab works . and no one would want that would they .

Oh fuck lightbulb moment

sorry go to go put no biwomen on my profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?"

So much ignorance in that post. It's 2022 bud.

For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency. Half of all new HIV diagnoses were in heterosexuals (49%) in England in 2020, compared to 45% in gay and bisexual men.7 Feb 2022

Sources and further statistics

https://www.tht.org.uk/news/heterosexual-hiv-diagnoses-overtake-those-gay-men-first-time-decade#:~:text=For%20the%20first%20time%20in,in%20gay%20and%20bisexual%20men.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/09/hiv-infects-heterosexual-gay-bisexual-men-uk-testing-virus

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv/hiv-statistics

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?

So much ignorance in that post. It's 2022 bud.

For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency. Half of all new HIV diagnoses were in heterosexuals (49%) in England in 2020, compared to 45% in gay and bisexual men.7 Feb 2022

Sources and further statistics

https://www.tht.org.uk/news/heterosexual-hiv-diagnoses-overtake-those-gay-men-first-time-decade#:~:text=For%20the%20first%20time%20in,in%20gay%20and%20bisexual%20men.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/09/hiv-infects-heterosexual-gay-bisexual-men-uk-testing-virus

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv/hiv-statistics

"

Are any of these current statistics resulting from ‘Fab straight’ men…..?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Some people just find bisexual play a turn off and aren’t attracted to people who enjoy it. Even playing straight, they are still bi. Some just can’t ignore the fact.

There are other sex acts that people do, that would put others off ever meeting them, even if that wasn’t going to happen on that occasion.

Nowt as strange as folk."

Exactly this! It’s just preference like hundreds of other things in sex, attraction and relationships. I have no issue with what other people do, but not everything will float my boat.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?

So much ignorance in that post. It's 2022 bud.

For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency. Half of all new HIV diagnoses were in heterosexuals (49%) in England in 2020, compared to 45% in gay and bisexual men.7 Feb 2022

Sources and further statistics

https://www.tht.org.uk/news/heterosexual-hiv-diagnoses-overtake-those-gay-men-first-time-decade#:~:text=For%20the%20first%20time%20in,in%20gay%20and%20bisexual%20men.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/09/hiv-infects-heterosexual-gay-bisexual-men-uk-testing-virus

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv/hiv-statistics

Are any of these current statistics resulting from ‘Fab straight’ men…..? "

Maybe if may have some impact but then the fab straight guys who hide thier sexuality are also far more likely to take risks and not know thier HIV status be on prep to stay protected and then sadly go home to infect there wife / GF.

Far more Openly bi-sexual and gay men these days take thier sexual seriously in terms of testing and prep provention. It's just a shame outdate views and stereotyping stops more of the fab straight to be honest.

All the statistics show that a significant number of infections (the majority these days) happens in the hetro group that's just the facts.

KJ

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?

So much ignorance in that post. It's 2022 bud.

For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency. Half of all new HIV diagnoses were in heterosexuals (49%) in England in 2020, compared to 45% in gay and bisexual men.7 Feb 2022

Sources and further statistics

https://www.tht.org.uk/news/heterosexual-hiv-diagnoses-overtake-those-gay-men-first-time-decade#:~:text=For%20the%20first%20time%20in,in%20gay%20and%20bisexual%20men.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/09/hiv-infects-heterosexual-gay-bisexual-men-uk-testing-virus

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv/hiv-statistics

Are any of these current statistics resulting from ‘Fab straight’ men…..?

Maybe if may have some impact but then the fab straight guys who hide thier sexuality are also far more likely to take risks and not know thier HIV status be on prep to stay protected and then sadly go home to infect there wife / GF.

Far more Openly bi-sexual and gay men these days take thier sexual seriously in terms of testing and prep provention. It's just a shame outdate views and stereotyping stops more of the fab straight to be honest.

All the statistics show that a significant number of infections (the majority these days) happens in the hetro group that's just the facts.

KJ"

Therein lies the issue; out of those statistics, how many ticked the ‘straight’ box because they didn’t want to admit they are bi/closet gay……?

I prefer to not meet those who play with openly bi guys. I have no control on meeting people who have met people who aren’t as honest with their profiles though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?

So much ignorance in that post. It's 2022 bud.

For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency. Half of all new HIV diagnoses were in heterosexuals (49%) in England in 2020, compared to 45% in gay and bisexual men.7 Feb 2022

Sources and further statistics

https://www.tht.org.uk/news/heterosexual-hiv-diagnoses-overtake-those-gay-men-first-time-decade#:~:text=For%20the%20first%20time%20in,in%20gay%20and%20bisexual%20men.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/09/hiv-infects-heterosexual-gay-bisexual-men-uk-testing-virus

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv/hiv-statistics

Are any of these current statistics resulting from ‘Fab straight’ men…..?

Maybe if may have some impact but then the fab straight guys who hide thier sexuality are also far more likely to take risks and not know thier HIV status be on prep to stay protected and then sadly go home to infect there wife / GF.

Far more Openly bi-sexual and gay men these days take thier sexual seriously in terms of testing and prep provention. It's just a shame outdate views and stereotyping stops more of the fab straight to be honest.

All the statistics show that a significant number of infections (the majority these days) happens in the hetro group that's just the facts.

KJ

Therein lies the issue; out of those statistics, how many ticked the ‘straight’ box because they didn’t want to admit they are bi/closet gay……?

I prefer to not meet those who play with openly bi guys. I have no control on meeting people who have met people who aren’t as honest with their profiles though "

I'm guessing you are saying you wouldn't meet a women who has previously met a openly bi male? I.e the group most likely to test regularly and take prep to prevent contracting hiv. Yet guaranteed many of your previously female meets will have meet fab straight males i.e those who are least likely to test and take prep therefore presenting a much greater risk.

KJ

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"it cause they lived in the 80s and aids was carried by gay/bi men mostly

The fact the hiv/AIDS explosion happened in the 80’s, and WAS carried by gay/bi men mostly, doesn’t mean it has gone away.

Men are stereotyped to be wild beasts, unable to control their sexual urges, and the promiscuous gay/bi men did little to convince people otherwise, and Fab launching Fab Guys to ease the burden on the main site, only proves this.

Why the different thinking about bi women, being ‘acceptable’? Did anyone spread hiv/AIDS from licking pussy……?

So much ignorance in that post. It's 2022 bud.

For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency. Half of all new HIV diagnoses were in heterosexuals (49%) in England in 2020, compared to 45% in gay and bisexual men.7 Feb 2022

Sources and further statistics

https://www.tht.org.uk/news/heterosexual-hiv-diagnoses-overtake-those-gay-men-first-time-decade#:~:text=For%20the%20first%20time%20in,in%20gay%20and%20bisexual%20men.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/09/hiv-infects-heterosexual-gay-bisexual-men-uk-testing-virus

https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/about-hiv/hiv-statistics

Are any of these current statistics resulting from ‘Fab straight’ men…..?

Maybe if may have some impact but then the fab straight guys who hide thier sexuality are also far more likely to take risks and not know thier HIV status be on prep to stay protected and then sadly go home to infect there wife / GF.

Far more Openly bi-sexual and gay men these days take thier sexual seriously in terms of testing and prep provention. It's just a shame outdate views and stereotyping stops more of the fab straight to be honest.

All the statistics show that a significant number of infections (the majority these days) happens in the hetro group that's just the facts.

KJ

Therein lies the issue; out of those statistics, how many ticked the ‘straight’ box because they didn’t want to admit they are bi/closet gay……?

I prefer to not meet those who play with openly bi guys. I have no control on meeting people who have met people who aren’t as honest with their profiles though

I'm guessing you are saying you wouldn't meet a women who has previously met a openly bi male? I.e the group most likely to test regularly and take prep to prevent contracting hiv. Yet guaranteed many of your previously female meets will have meet fab straight males i.e those who are least likely to test and take prep therefore presenting a much greater risk.

KJ "

That’s exactly what I said……bud

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