FabSwingers.com forum: Ex colleague on here

By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Birmingham

I’ve found out that a sexy blonde that used to work for me is on here, as a couple, described as a hot wife looking for bulls.

We haven’t seen each other in 5 years, but always flirted. Always found her sexy.

Her pics are in tight dresses, lingerie etc.

I have wanked over them sooo many times

I wonder what she would think of she knew?

Would love to fuck her.

I haven’t reached out as think she would panic.

She shows her face in 1 pic so it’s defo her.

What you guys think?

What should I do?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd leave it alone if it was me to be honest,but that's me.

If you do go for it,be sure to tell her who you are right away ,it's proper creepy when people say they know you ,but don't tell you who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it....treat her like any other person you'd approach

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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Birmingham

Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

That's just grim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I would leave it. Maybe if you really want to rest the water then like a few photos or send a wink and see if you get a reply.

I often find that men misinterpret women being friendly with flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...thats not what I had in mind!

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

S-Exeter

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

That's just grim"

Yep, I figure you have two choices, either grow a pair and shoot your shot, or just block/ignore now. Just remember if you know her, she probably knows you. Don't be a creep.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Did you message your ex-fb who you also saw on here and wanked over?

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

near

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

near

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

This is why guys get a bad rep on here you utter scumbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

Classy

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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Birmingham

Thank you Einstein.

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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Birmingham

No I didn’t.

But we did bump into each other in a bar. Had a chat. Didn’t say a word.

All good

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I’m sure this belongs in the fantasy section, but in the off chance that it is real…

Use some tact and critical thinking, and leave her alone. Completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would she panic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you message your ex-fb who you also saw on here and wanked over? "

There is a pattern developing here isn’t there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I'm missing something, I see no harm in dropping a message clearly saying who you are with a face picture, if she likes you then she'll reply, if not you know the answer

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Did you message your ex-fb who you also saw on here and wanked over? "

Busted by the green arrow (

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

Oh please…..don’t waste a friend request on her to have wank material - please send to us instead. That’s just what we look for in a guy - PPPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAAASSSSSSEEEEE send us a blind friend request - it’s what we, and other couples and women, crave.

Did you pick up on the sarcasm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a similar issue where I work in quite a public forum, and on browsing I found at least 4 people and 2 couples I know in my local area, I have quite a distinctive tattoo and I spotted one lady from hers there lies the dilemma of a profile pic that isn’t like 99.9 percent of men on here and whacking their dick on it, I could be fuck it they are on here but I like to keep my work life separate from my private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

Did you pick up on the sarcasm ?

You’re living dangerously there. You’re assuming that they will have got to the end of your post before messaging you!

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

This is why guys get a bad rep on here you utter scumbag "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

Right there, it goes creepy. Its not the attraction, its what you think about doing with it.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

Move on. Don't spoil her fun. I've seen a number of people on here that I know outside of Fab.

No intention of mixing Fab and friends. A can of worms I don't need open.

Mostly because I'm not sure how discreet they would be.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

That's just grim"

Bit grim tbh

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

I thought this was a site for adults?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think she’ll even read your message?

No profile pic, no public pics and no mention of you being a bull which is what she’s looking for.

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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Birmingham

Thanks for the comments, even the stupid ones.

Clearly I won’t message and say hi ? It’s ? I’ve seen you on a swingers site

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

Now that comment is creepy as fuck to be honest. I bet she would block you if she saw that last comment!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

This is why guys get a bad rep on here you utter scumbag "

Now here is a guy with morals. Well done sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

This is why guys get a bad rep on here you utter scumbag

Sadly yes it is.

Looks like OP has also been green arrow busted as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the comments, even the stupid ones.

Clearly I won’t message and say hi ? It’s ? I’ve seen you on a swingers site

But you’ll send her a friend invite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this a tad disturbing and creepy but maybe it's just me......you don't want her to panic or undecided if she should know but you started a post along these lines ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d leave it be

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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Birmingham

Thanks Melrose.

And that is exactly what I will do. And haven’t indicated anything other than that.

Wasn’t intending to be ‘creepy’ as some of the messages have indicated.

I was merely saying that I had come across someone that I knew and was asking for other people’s experiences.

Thanks for being so polite.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"I haven’t reached out as think she would panic.

What you guys think? What should I do?

You’ve answered your own question.

Don’t reach out as it will cause her to panic.

Gbat

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"Unless I'm missing something, I see no harm in dropping a message clearly saying who you are with a face picture, if she likes you then she'll reply, if not you know the answer "

For us, the problem is the power dynamic. If someone messaged us to say they recognised us from work, we'd feel hugely vulnerable. Even if it's totally benign, we'd feel there was some implied threat that we'd be outed to mutual colleagues.

Not saying the OP would do this and the fact the woman in question has a public face pic implies she's probably not too fussed about anonymity. But still, it's always best to approach people on fab from a level playing field. You knowing something they don't know skews the power dynamic.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"

Oh dear. Hopefully they will decline your invitation. I would looking at your profile

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

When people completely miss the point of this site ugh

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By *ornyltlfkrMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??

Oh please…..don’t waste a friend request on her to have wank material - please send to us instead. That’s just what we look for in a guy -PPPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAAASSSSSSEEEEE send us a blind friend request - it’s what we, and other couples and women, crave.

Did you pick up on the sarcasm ?

I want you so bad

i would ruin you

i will be the best youve ever had

leave him I will take care if you

fancy earning some £££

Here are some ideas foryour first 5 messages. Dont bother waiting for a reply. She will be too turned on to respond

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

"I’ve found out that a sexy blonde that used to work for me is on here, as a couple, described as a hot wife looking for bulls.

We haven’t seen each other in 5 years, but always flirted. Always found her sexy.

Her pics are in tight dresses, lingerie etc.

I have wanked over them sooo many times

I wonder what she would think of she knew?

Would love to fuck her.

I haven’t reached out as think she would panic.

She shows her face in 1 pic so it’s defo her.

What you guys think?

What should I do?

"
delete and block

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