FabSwingers.com forum: Messages you receive

By *ischiefManaged69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Morning all. The massages we've had this morning have got me thinking.... How many of the messages you get sent are OK?

By OK, I mean have read your profile and if you've asked for something (keyword, face pics etc) actually done it? Does the sender match what you're looking for in your profile?

Curious......

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Almost non

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

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Damn my pesky mush

The offer still stands to wear a bag on my head

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've had none today so I guess that answers that

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

So probably 1 in a million would be my track record where the message has been great and we met...then had amazing sex

So I still stay on fab in hope it will happen again.

If I initiate the winks or messages then its definitely like 1 in 40 chance i get to have amazing sex

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

Not very often. We don’t ask they repeat a specific word to be included but it’s plainly obvious they haven’t bothered seeing what our profile says.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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Damn my pesky mush

The offer still stands to wear a bag on my head

Weird wonder why my message was deleted as i didn't do it. I said 1 in 100 but then there's a risk I don't like their faces so rather men send their face pic in their intro message which quite a lot do

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

What's a message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman or couple that ever sent a message to me has been fine and they match up with me and my profile.

Guys, … all of them who propose we should meet, misses the part where it says I’m straight.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably 1 in 10 are ok, the rest either haven't read the profile, sent a cock pic, males asking to meet (we don't meet males) out the age range, or meet now's.

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By *eff4000Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Mine are ok I guess, I get loads from guys which to be honest I do find flattering when they tell me they'd love to suck my cock or whatever.

I have no interest in them doing it though so always politely decline lol, which shouldn't be a surprise to them if they'd read my profile but I guess they're always hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have received about 32 this morning

12 how are you? ..... ignored

12 complimenting our pics?.... responded to with thanks

6 asking to meet today? ... ignored

1 asking if I piss when at nudist beach? response was; "and the award for most stupid question of the week goes to....."

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe one every couple of weeks.

The other types are a good filter.

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By *rumswingersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd say about 0.3% of messages received are from people that have read my profile and are of any interest to me. Mostly it's just the same old single male bull haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tai massage is my favourite right now

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Some of the messages we get are a bit mental.

Single word messages alot of the time too.

You can also tell which ones have been copy/pasted and sent to all.

They are a bit frustrating, but better than the downright disrespectful ones you get sometimes

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

So far today

14 how are you?

7 just hello or hi, even worse.

4 Can I ask you a question? what's that all about

8 wanting to discuss a comment I made on the forum. The reason I posted on the forum is for discussion there not by pm

3 asking if I am into younger guys

5 asking if I kik or Snapchat, obviously not read our profile

2 lovely messages

So I make that at least 95% of messages are a waste of time reading

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By *ouple8889Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very few have actually read our profile and most get deleted unread because of this.

That said we've met some fantastic people in clubs recently, guys included, who have actually bothered to read before messaging and we've gone on to arrange a meet at a specific event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far today

14 how are you?

7 just hello or hi, even worse.

4 Can I ask you a question? what's that all about

8 wanting to discuss a comment I made on the forum. The reason I posted on the forum is for discussion there not by pm

3 asking if I am into younger guys

5 asking if I kik or Snapchat, obviously not read our profile

2 lovely messages

So I make that at least 95% of messages are a waste of time reading"

we often think about activating filters but we actually find many of the messages amusing on the basis of the writers stupidity..... we don't want to miss out on these lol

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"So far today

14 how are you?

7 just hello or hi, even worse.

4 Can I ask you a question? what's that all about

8 wanting to discuss a comment I made on the forum. The reason I posted on the forum is for discussion there not by pm

3 asking if I am into younger guys

5 asking if I kik or Snapchat, obviously not read our profile

2 lovely messages

So I make that at least 95% of messages are a waste of time reading"

My inbox looks very similar. Can’t stand the “can I ask you something” message. It’s just such a cheap attempt to get a message back.

I can also spot copy+paste a mile off - instant delete as well.

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By *ouple8889Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

And right on Cue, there's another one.

Hi how are you x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

About 1 in 10 x

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Before I message anyone I'll always read the profile, and the message never obtains cock pics or any demands to meet, always just a friendly hello etc. Still gets very few replies mind.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

"Morning all. The massages we've had this morning have got me thinking.... How many of the messages you get sent are OK?

By OK, I mean have read your profile and if you've asked for something (keyword, face pics etc) actually done it? Does the sender match what you're looking for in your profile?

Curious......

1 maybe 2 in 10!

Often we get I’m not xxx but I meet the other criteria…

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By *amie95Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d say 90% of the messages I receive are from men haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men really put the effort in and read the profile. They get a polite reply and we chat.

Some however I wonder if they are done to provoke and will get an appropiate response.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Not many... The last 3 in the last 20 minutes were completely pointless. 1 wasn't even a complete sentence.

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover

Wait people get replied to

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By *art time deviantsCouple
over a year ago

The mighty fax

"Morning all. The massages we've had this morning have got me thinking.... How many of the messages you get sent are OK?

By OK, I mean have read your profile and if you've asked for something (keyword, face pics etc) actually done it? Does the sender match what you're looking for in your profile?

Curious......

If its 10 percent I'd be shocked..... I'd say roughly 5 every 100 messages

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By *art time deviantsCouple
over a year ago

The mighty fax

"Some men really put the effort in and read the profile. They get a polite reply and we chat.

Some however I wonder if they are done to provoke and will get an appropiate response. "

I said this the other day to friends..... I wonder if a lot of men just send dross to be troll and wind people up....

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

About half of them to be honest

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

Most of them I get are variations of "hey". Very rarely I'll get something slightly exciting. It would be quite nice to get a decent message for a change.

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By *winging90scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northfield

Hardly ever. Some occasionally send face pics. The rest are usually dick pics or a script which is definitely sent to everyone they message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been an absolute age since I last received a massage

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"About half of them to be honest"

And the irony of the half of the messages that show the sender clearly didn’t read my profile, originating from couples with some variation of “DON’T MESSAGE US IF YOU HAVEN’T READ OUR PROFILE!”, is not lost on me, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages to our couples profile are mainly from those who have read it and understand what we are looking for.

My solo profile has been a real eye opener.

It’s not particularly long and is very easy to understand but I’d say maybe 1% of people who message have read it . That includes couples, guys and other women.

The most respectful have been TV’s.

The worst are men by far.

Had this been my first experience of Fab I would have deleted my profile weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a great deal a day. Unless we add a pic then we might get into double figures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many actually match

“Do you meet couples” - If you’d read my profile you’ll see.

“Send face pic” - No public photos on theirs or one attached with message

… The list goes on. It’s rare as most don’t read or contradict themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive messages? On here? Wow, that's something to hope for.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Maybe 1 in 30 have actually read my profile. Big commitment to read all that guff I know but hey...no one ever gets anything for nothing. Lots don't get my sarcasm. I am appreciative of those that read and do what I want and I try to at least acknowledge the effort that they have put in with a polite 'thanks but no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 20 men messaging for every one woman/couple even though I state I’m straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get messages from people replying to forum threads.

Winks on the other hand, gosh you guyzzzz

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Rare as rocking horse pop and when it does show up it from guys …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really set rules or requirements for what people can say in a message.

I’d rather allow some the freedom to show their true self… giving that freedom works well as a filter too!

I found that when you dictate what you’re looking for then people just pretend to be that thing

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

cumallover

"I get about 20 men messaging for every one woman/couple even though I state I’m straight "

I get a lot of messages from guys on here whose profile says that they're "straight".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 20 men messaging for every one woman/couple even though I state I’m straight

I get a lot of messages from guys on here whose profile says that they're "straight"."

Haha same mate, or say their single but then wanna talk about their “wife’s”

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Almost non

This

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Very few are "ok". Even fewer are fab and get us interested.

Often get one line which obviously have read not one word of our profile.

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Most messages are ice breakers and tbh will reply just to say no thanks etc, the occasional message is just deleted because it’s inappropriate but on the whole most are respectful

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Probably less than 5%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just happy to receive a message lol, not bothered if they have read my profile or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many messages at all probably around 5% and that's being generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have all the message filters on that I possibly can now but that still doesn't stop the hi how are you, can I ask you a question, do you want to meet later/at the weekend messages and then there's the messages from guys who have just looked at the pictures and not read my profile for what I'm looking for and, repeat messages after I have deleted their message BUT I do get nice messages too

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I am surprised that about 50% of those messaging since I have said that I am looking for a swinging relationship have actually read my profile!

I don’t get as many messages, but most definitely less FAF’s, however worded

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Hardly get any so if I get one I’m well hsppy

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By *ungle_kingMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Some very interesting replies so far. So as a single guy I like to read a profile to see if there maybe similar likes etc that would work. Some profiles you read and you just know to move on.

However… I do find that for some bizarre reason people ask for a particular heading to a message to show you have read all the profile and I’d say 90% of these put this code word at the end of a profile and regularly in capital letters so it sticks out like a sore thumb. Guys will honestly look straight to the bottom of a profile for this without reading anything else, friends who have done this I have suggested put something in the middle of a profile or just get rid of it completely.

Just my view,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often just get men messaging me asking if I want to be sucked off or how much they like the look of my cock. So not exactly what I’m looking for

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I average about one message a month and most of those are acceptable and ok with just the odd wtf moment.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’d say about 1 in 100 are people that interest us or we’d like to converse with.

We get a lot of compliments about our pics which is lovely to receive, as long as the second message after us thanking them isn’t to then ask to meet!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"So far today

14 how are you?

7 just hello or hi, even worse.

4 Can I ask you a question? what's that all about

8 wanting to discuss a comment I made on the forum. The reason I posted on the forum is for discussion there not by pm

3 asking if I am into younger guys

5 asking if I kik or Snapchat, obviously not read our profile

2 lovely messages

So I make that at least 95% of messages are a waste of time reading"

Blimey 14 messages

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most don't fare well, the majority have minimal investment of any effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

genuinely 1% of them are respectful or okay, it’s all a shambles on here really isn’t it

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

More than half of our messages the sender hasn't read our profile and messages us like he's talking to a single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read profiles and i love to compliment people on their pics and videos and profiles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More than half of our messages the sender hasn't read our profile and messages us like he's talking to a single female. "

exactly the same issue we have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a message, what’s one of those??

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Reading this thread it seems we get a lot fewer messages than many people, maybe that just proves our profile is being read to the bottom, who knows. Most of those we do receive are uninspiring one liners. But just occasionally...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"genuinely 1% of them are respectful or okay, it’s all a shambles on here really isn’t it

Shame men can't be educated in the art of social manners. I duno how they expect to have sex with their terrible attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like the block button is being made to do a lot more work than it should be

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I honestly don't understand how anyone can send out a message that isn't thoughfully worded, spell checked and relevant. I always put thought into it, even though the vast majority of messages are no longer propositioning people. Most of the time it's talking up a party night at the local club, knowing full well that they may attend and I never see them, or the odd person that I chat with about their insane Lego collection, one time even helped a woman to pick a good PC for her kid.

The ones that just email "wanna fuck?"please, just stop, you're giving me a bad name.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

There are a few diamonds in the rough majority are from people who don't read 'looking for'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely 1% of them are respectful or okay, it’s all a shambles on here really isn’t it

UPDATE:

Just told someone that I’m not interested because what they were looking for wasn’t what we’re looking for. Got called a fat ugly sl*g for saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe 1 in 30 have actually read my profile. Big commitment to read all that guff I know but hey...no one ever gets anything for nothing. Lots don't get my sarcasm. I am appreciative of those that read and do what I want and I try to at least acknowledge the effort that they have put in with a polite 'thanks but no thanks'"

I love your profile. It's hilarious. Love your sense of humour

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"genuinely 1% of them are respectful or okay, it’s all a shambles on here really isn’t it

UPDATE:

Just told someone that I’m not interested because what they were looking for wasn’t what we’re looking for. Got called a fat ugly sl*g for saying that

Must have been looking at someone else's pictures, all I can see is a hot body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had 2 messages unfortunately and don't like to send any

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I read your bio intently, studied it and tried to see how much I could craft a message to appeal to you, but ultimately I was defeated because you very clearly state that you will go for anything with a faint pulse. Unfortunately my pulse is so faint that it takes a can of Monster, sandwiched between 2 strong coffees, a syringe of adrenaline and a defibrillator, then I become semi-conscious for a few seconds. Naturally I am heartbroken and look forward to my messages being routinely deleted along with all the other failed suitors like Mr Perfect McFuckbuddy and the guy that clips his toenails on the Tube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol.

This site has reinforced the notion that men are dogs (straight men ??)

Most or all of the messages I get are unsolicited dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 20 men messaging for every one woman/couple even though I state I’m straight "

Your profile can be a bit confusing by what you wrote if I'm honest , although I get many men messaging me more than I'd like

It's rather annoying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely 1% of them are respectful or okay, it’s all a shambles on here really isn’t it

UPDATE:

Just told someone that I’m not interested because what they were looking for wasn’t what we’re looking for. Got called a fat ugly sl*g for saying that

That means he likes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol.

This site has reinforced the notion that men are dogs (straight men ??)

Most or all of the messages I get are unsolicited dicks "

I get messages from men asking to meet or saying 'great tits!' My profile is simple but yet.....

Not all men are dogs. Some are decent.

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By *ischiefManaged69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Apologies for not jumping back in, long weekend away

Let's refine it a bit, and in the interested of being fair, I'll stats that it's all kinds of profile that send us messages like these!

This week we've had

Around 10: hi xx

Same again for: what u up to? Xx

About 15: your so fit, I'm soo hard and available now!

1 peach: does your wife know what it's like to be showered with gifts and treated like a princess?

The last one is new to us, although someone did once offer to pay £100 to play with vixens boobs!

Does the site need more categories so people can identify others who share their kink, or do people just need to get past the pictures and actually read the profile before sending a message?

Thoughts and sharing experiences welcome!

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By *ischiefManaged69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"Lol.

This site has reinforced the notion that men are dogs (straight men ??)

Most or all of the messages I get are unsolicited dicks "

It's a shame, as there are good guys on here too. But sadly, the number of guys who sign up and just start carpet bombing messages is huge compared to the genuine swingers. I used to be a single guy on here and I did OK! I think to be fair, the level of effort from most profiles is low, there are just more M profiles than there are couples, F and cd/TV/Ts so the bad press is louder.

I'd be interested to know how many 'serious' meeting profiles there are on fab compared to watchers, trolls etc?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Morning all. The massages we've had this morning have got me thinking.... How many of the messages you get sent are OK?

By OK, I mean have read your profile and if you've asked for something (keyword, face pics etc) actually done it? Does the sender match what you're looking for in your profile?

Curious......

I generally only receive messages when my filters are open to single guys, and are usually along the lines of “Want a discreet unload mate, nothing expected in return?” which clearly shows the sender does not match what I am looking for in my profile….

It’s rare I receive a first message from a single female or a genuine couple, at best a wink, or the ubiquitous friend invite as a first contact

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Apologies for not jumping back in, long weekend away

Let's refine it a bit, and in the interested of being fair, I'll stats that it's all kinds of profile that send us messages like these!

This week we've had

Around 10: hi xx

Same again for: what u up to? Xx

About 15: your so fit, I'm soo hard and available now!

1 peach: does your wife know what it's like to be showered with gifts and treated like a princess?

The last one is new to us, although someone did once offer to pay £100 to play with vixens boobs!

Does the site need more categories so people can identify others who share their kink, or do people just need to get past the pictures and actually read the profile before sending a message?

Thoughts and sharing experiences welcome!

The “carpet bombers” are probably bored of crafting personalised messages to individual profiles, to then receive the classic “Lol x” reply……

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

It's normally single guys messaging despite saying preferences lie otherwise, however really randomly I've had a burst if messages from lovely people I've wanted to speak to this weekend so feels a bit odd, as I haven't changed my profile, it's really nice to have a chat with genuine people

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

"Morning all. The massages we've had this morning have got me thinking.... How many of the messages you get sent are OK?

By OK, I mean have read your profile and if you've asked for something (keyword, face pics etc) actually done it? Does the sender match what you're looking for in your profile?

Curious......

Probably less than one in thirty.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's probably better if you use your filters to stop any contact from others and make first contact with those that interest you

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A minuscule amount. But filters can be used wisely.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I mean they read my profile, say we have similar interests but I just don't find them physically or mentally attractive...wow I'm really fussy lol duno how to stop myself being so fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can categorically state that you want A and nothing but A and someone will still message offering B so what’s the point?

Our profile is deliberately non exclusive and we don’t like having rules IN CAPITALS!! so the messages are broad in their range.

We filter from there.

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By *igerdrew73Man
over a year ago

grantham

"Hardly get any so if I get one I’m well hsppy"

You mean you actually get unsolicited messages?

I don't even get replies ??

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By *igerdrew73Man
over a year ago

grantham

"I mean they read my profile, say we have similar interests but I just don't find them physically or mentally attractive...wow I'm really fussy lol duno how to stop myself being so fussy

My reply is don't. Don't lower your standards it's quality that counts not quantity.

You be you and be as fussy as you like

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

"Hardly get any so if I get one I’m well hsppy

You mean you actually get unsolicited messages?

I don't even get replies ??"

I wouldn't take it personally,mine don't even get read! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero....what the fuck is a message??

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Morning all. The massages we've had this morning have got me thinking.... How many of the messages you get sent are OK?

By OK, I mean have read your profile and if you've asked for something (keyword, face pics etc) actually done it? Does the sender match what you're looking for in your profile?

Curious......

Practically none.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

We get a few from time to time,

Especially when we post a new picture or two,

They are usually ok, on the whole, apart from the fact they tend to be from straight single men trying their luck

obviously not read the profile, or ignorred it.

There have been one or two not very ok ones, they got their senders instant blocks and not a second thought.

Shame few are from ladies, would like to hear from some soon x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Every woman or couple that ever sent a message to me has been fine and they match up with me and my profile.

Guys, … all of them who propose we should meet, misses the part where it says I’m straight.

Similar to this besides the odd guys ignoring the fact I'm straight and so are they supposedly but their looking for says otherwise

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