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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

From my experience, I like his personality, looks, cock and had fun fucking. But don't feel any real sexual chemistry that makes me yearn for him more. Is this common or just me? I only had it twice in my life but plenty of lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience, I like his personality, looks, cock and had fun fucking. But don't feel any real sexual chemistry that makes me yearn for him more. Is this common or just me? I only had it twice in my life but plenty of lovers "

I think it’s quite common! Real sexual chemistry that you can’t wait to get back to when you’re apart is not true for every connection. I would say I’ve had that three times in my life, so maybe that’s about normal?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"From my experience, I like his personality, looks, cock and had fun fucking. But don't feel any real sexual chemistry that makes me yearn for him more. Is this common or just me? I only had it twice in my life but plenty of lovers

I think it’s quite common! Real sexual chemistry that you can’t wait to get back to when you’re apart is not true for every connection. I would say I’ve had that three times in my life, so maybe that’s about normal?"

Oh that's not much considering I thought swingers would have more than average number of lovers?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with? "

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ended a 5 year relatioship for that reason. We were more like friends then lovers. We tried lots of things. But I always feel when the spark goes its nevwr the same.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had "

I'm just using that as example. For me it's rare like 10% chance of experiencing it.Makes me really sad tbh as I get super bored of the sex without it

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I just ended a 5 year relatioship for that reason. We were more like friends then lovers. We tried lots of things. But I always feel when the spark goes its nevwr the same. "

Yes I struggled with this too. You try to excite the sex life but ultimately without sexual chemistry, it's just too mechanical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had

I'm just using that as example. For me it's rare like 10% chance of experiencing it.Makes me really sad tbh as I get super bored of the sex without it "

About 1:7 perhaps is a fair ratio, and I agree that a connection that includes that chemistry is massively more rewarding.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had

I'm just using that as example. For me it's rare like 10% chance of experiencing it.Makes me really sad tbh as I get super bored of the sex without it

About 1:7 perhaps is a fair ratio, and I agree that a connection that includes that chemistry is massively more rewarding. "

So 21 lovers and 3 you had a spark with. I still think that means you got to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had

I'm just using that as example. For me it's rare like 10% chance of experiencing it.Makes me really sad tbh as I get super bored of the sex without it

About 1:7 perhaps is a fair ratio, and I agree that a connection that includes that chemistry is massively more rewarding.

So 21 lovers and 3 you had a spark with. I still think that means you got to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince "

Maybe, but each one that’s not a Prince isn’t necessarily a pauper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always believe that sex is so important and should be something both want. I got a high sex drive and love spending time on the female body. Women body is amazing and i do miss it x

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I always believe that sex is so important and should be something both want. I got a high sex drive and love spending time on the female body. Women body is amazing and i do miss it x"

But how many times you experienced real sexual chemistry with your past lovers??

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had

I'm just using that as example. For me it's rare like 10% chance of experiencing it.Makes me really sad tbh as I get super bored of the sex without it

About 1:7 perhaps is a fair ratio, and I agree that a connection that includes that chemistry is massively more rewarding.

So 21 lovers and 3 you had a spark with. I still think that means you got to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince

Maybe, but each one that’s not a Prince isn’t necessarily a pauper "

Just casual fun for a night or two?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for example, you had 200 lovers. Only 3 you had sexual chemistry with?

That would grossly overstate the number of lovers I’ve had

I'm just using that as example. For me it's rare like 10% chance of experiencing it.Makes me really sad tbh as I get super bored of the sex without it

About 1:7 perhaps is a fair ratio, and I agree that a connection that includes that chemistry is massively more rewarding.

So 21 lovers and 3 you had a spark with. I still think that means you got to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince

Maybe, but each one that’s not a Prince isn’t necessarily a pauper

Just casual fun for a night or two?"

Or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had lots of lovers but i class connections with thous I have met again or had a relationship with. I can honestly say 1 there was no spark from the start. I actually thought it was me having a high sex drive. But I have not had that problem again x

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have had lots of lovers but i class connections with thous I have met again or had a relationship with. I can honestly say 1 there was no spark from the start. I actually thought it was me having a high sex drive. But I have not had that problem again x"

So your sexual chemistry is like 99% successful? Wow lucky you. How do you deal with when they no longer want to sleep with you anymore? Accept and find another? I get super bored quickly if they average in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say 99% but it's high. As i dont see the point being with someone that doesn't feel the same. Boring sex is pointless I think. Need to always spice it up and being good helps. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it’s rare. But when it happens, it happens.

I sometimes look at myself though and it’s sometimes just the wrong time. It doesn’t mean it wouldn’t happen, but when you are both/all in that mood for each other and the stars align and BAM. The sparks fly and it’s simply unstoppable.

Also. Sexual chemistry is about two people and how they vibe, if they are already vibing with many more, it’s hard to get anything started.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Wouldn't say 99% but it's high. As i dont see the point being with someone that doesn't feel the same. Boring sex is pointless I think. Need to always spice it up and being good helps. X"

You can't really tell until you kiss or fuck them.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Oh it’s rare. But when it happens, it happens.

I sometimes look at myself though and it’s sometimes just the wrong time. It doesn’t mean it wouldn’t happen, but when you are both/all in that mood for each other and the stars align and BAM. The sparks fly and it’s simply unstoppable.

Also. Sexual chemistry is about two people and how they vibe, if they are already vibing with many more, it’s hard to get anything started. "

Now you understand why some people are fussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't say 99% but it's high. As i dont see the point being with someone that doesn't feel the same. Boring sex is pointless I think. Need to always spice it up and being good helps. X

You can't really tell until you kiss or fuck them. "

Sing! ….

Is it is his face?

Oh no, it's just his charm

In his warm embrace?

OH no, that's just his arms

If you wanna know if sparks will flow it’s in their kiss!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"From my experience, I like his personality, looks, cock and had fun fucking. But don't feel any real sexual chemistry that makes me yearn for him more. Is this common or just me? I only had it twice in my life but plenty of lovers "
I think you are maybe doomed to a life on your own, they say there's someone for everyone out there but some people are so fussy and can't share the love, you have to give some of yourself to get some of someone else in my opinion, I'm maybe too giving that's my fault.

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