FabSwingers.com forum: Cock size and personality

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

For me- definitely personality. As I can work with and enjoy a smaller cock but I can't deal with a massive dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me- definitely personality. As I can work with and enjoy a smaller cock but I can't deal with a massive dickhead. "

Phew!!! Thank god there are lovely women like you on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a relationship? I would say personality is more important.

But for hook ups on Fab? Surely it has to be cock size.. you can't fuck a personality

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

For me I don't care about cock size at all, it's not something I wish to see before meeting someone, there's other ways to cum!

But meeting a negative person I can't overcome that.

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

For us, there has to be a balance!

Could be different for single woman, but, if Jeni is after a large cock, or I wish to see her taking one, then the personality really wouldn’t matter to much as not going to be seeing them again or on a regular basis as that is not our thing.

However agree that if you were going to spend more time socialising etc then 1000% the personally would be equally if not more important!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us, there has to be a balance!

However agree that if you were going to spend more time socialising etc then 1000% the personally would be equally if not more important!"

Got to be both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt his personality

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

the clues in the profile name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of both for me, and the reason I say that is I don't like large cocks. I like average size (I like to be able to enjoy any sexual or oral position without worrying about having my teeth bashed out or my tonsils bashed if you know what I mean

) but a good personality is very important, why would you want to have fun with someone if they're personality shows they are a complete twat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank the lord

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

Personality every single time (unless it's a micro penis). Have done some scientific research in the field and there does seem to be *some* correlation between the size of the dick and the size of the dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told got personality

Apparently at work I’m arsehole (can live with that )

Only have little cock I’m afraid

Always taught the hands and arms used for cuddling

And the tounge is not just for talking

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"Personality every single time (unless it's a micro penis). Have done some scientific research in the field and there does seem to be *some* correlation between the size of the dick and the size of the dick"

This does seem to hold true - as though.. my cock is so huge im doing you a favour letting you use it type of attitude

Im Mr average in the pants and mr awesome in the bants

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

100% personality. Swinging is just as much about the social side as the actual sex so if all you've got to show is your dick size then your pretty useless!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Please god let it be personality

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"100% personality. Swinging is just as much about the social side as the actual sex so if all you've got to show is your dick size then your pretty useless!"

not to me

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"100% personality. Swinging is just as much about the social side as the actual sex so if all you've got to show is your dick size then your pretty useless!"

In your opinion. We are all different, for us, or indeed in our opinion, a guy no matter how funny or how warm his personality is, unless he has the cock size and will go further, is clean and smooth down there, then he would be pretty useless to us.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

This does seem to hold true - as though.. my cock is so huge im doing you a favour letting you use it type of attitude

Im Mr average in the pants and mr awesome in the bants

Mr average in the pants and mr awesome in the bants

Love it! This should be your strap line, Todger!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

What if it’s my bants that are average?

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Personality ......as cock size is imaterial if a large cock is attached to a even larger cock and if they have to keep mentioning the size of it ...

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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I’d say they’re equally important… I wouldn’t be interested in a man with a shit personality or a small cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always personality,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 50/50.

If he is amazing and small it won't work.

But if he is massive and as dull as cardboard it also won't work

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I have a massive personality x

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Maybe cock size works in inverse proportion to personality! I’d like to say I’m massive in both departments but sadly…………

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cock = varieties is the spice of life as long as they know how to use ..

personality = very important cant stand negative or dramatic people ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both or not interested

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We never ask for a cock pic before a meet but we do like to get a gauge for what kind of person we are meeting with a chat before hand. There’s a lot of things I find a massive turn off and will end any chance of a meet, cock size isn’t one of them.

I actually like the moment of reveal too

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?"

Personality can satisfy you more than any dick

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Personality. I love penetrative sex but I'm at the point where I'd be happy with lots of chatting and good kissing. Also, cock size isn't a guarantee of a good time is it? There's such an emphasis on p in v but there's so much you can do!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?"

Situationally dependant. As with many things on Fab and in swinging.

For a once only club hook up personality may be less important. I also wonder how many women who do gang bangs would care about a guys personality when he's one of many in a queue. Likewise for those looking for pure no strings fun then as long as the guy is capable of basic conversation and doesn't communicate via grunts and pointing, then physical attributes may take priority.

Some will be looking for long term or repeat meets where the personality takes a higher position in their priorities.

There's honestly no right answer unless you only look to meet in one specific way. And there's nothing at all wrong with wanting different things at different times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality! Everyman has a dick but what makes me actually want to fuck someone is the vibe and getting along! A big dick does add a nice bonus though

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?

Situationally dependant. As with many things on Fab and in swinging.

Some will be looking for long term or repeat meets where the personality takes a higher position in their priorities.

There's honestly no right answer unless you only look to meet in one specific way. And there's nothing at all wrong with wanting different things at different times.

this 100%

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

good to see diferent opinions on this one . put the sho on the other foot , a woman with a great personallity , or a great body ? dont say both !!

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By *nicornExplorersCouple
over a year ago

north east

For me, personality, what's the point of a big tool if its waved around by an idiot.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does."

But of course a good mechanic needs the right tool for the right job.

No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.

Yes, a big cock isn't a magic wand that guarantees endless organisation and a shag to beat all shags.

But if the person on the receiving end has a preference for them then the best personality on the planet won't be of any use.

There will be those with great personalities and big dicks, those with one or the other.....and the poor souls with neither.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does.

But of course a good mechanic needs the right tool for the right job.

No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.

Yes, a big cock isn't a magic wand that guarantees endless organisation and a shag to beat all shags.

But if the person on the receiving end has a preference for them then the best personality on the planet won't be of any use.

There will be those with great personalities and big dicks, those with one or the other.....and the poor souls with neither.

*orgasms, not organisation FFS!

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By *uckitandseaMan
over a year ago

Winestead

I have a little cock and I'm back of the queue in the swing clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a relationship? I would say personality is more important.

But for hook ups on Fab? Surely it has to be cock size.. you can't fuck a personality

If the personality stinks there'll be no fucking anyway though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the personality stinks there'll be no fucking anyway though. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock size first then personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"good to see diferent opinions on this one . put the sho on the other foot , a woman with a great personallity , or a great body ? dont say both !!"

'Great body' is subjective.

I think most people would want to have sex with someone they find sexually attractive regardless of their gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?"

As a man I think too much is made of cock size. It’s what you do with it that counts. Also personality is important because that’s who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested in cock pics being sent to my inbox, especially not small ones. Thank you x

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich

It’s all about the bum and body for me

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does.

But of course a good mechanic needs the right tool for the right job.

No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.

Yes, a big cock isn't a magic wand that guarantees endless organisation and a shag to beat all shags.

But if the person on the receiving end has a preference for them then the best personality on the planet won't be of any use.

There will be those with great personalities and big dicks, those with one or the other.....and the poor souls with neither.

Winner winner chicken dinner

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"For me, personality, what's the point of a big tool if its waved around by an idiot."

Exactly my thoughts

Mrs

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.

How about an adjustable spanner, or a full-on socket set?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London, South East & Europe

"the clues in the profile name

So you're looking for a sizeable personality, got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does."

not a good quote because a mechanic with no decent tools is what ??

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"not a good quote because a mechanic with no decent tools is what ??"

I said a good mechanic. One without decent tools wouldn’t be very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Personally is more attractive than cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more about personality for me. Average dick size works for me, too big hurts.

It’s when they get into my head, that’s what counts.

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By *igletMan
over a year ago

manchester

Why is it either or? I bring both in abundance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it either or? I bring both in abundance!

Because this is the fab forum. Guys with big dicks can't be nice/ interesting, pretty girls are stuck up, gym fit people are vacuous. The list goes on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes… personality…

Cue guy moan in 3, 2,…

If that’s the case why will women not entertain even a social with me. I’m a nice enough guy!

It’s (on here) a big chunk of looks, then personality then cock size for most (not all) women

Guy moan over.

But seriously there is some truth in that statement. Personality is difficult to portray on profile but looks… yeah. Looks are easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be hope for me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One million percent personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does."

I like that one! Well said.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality "

From having a nosy at your profile, it would appear that you have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it’s about balancing those scales. No one wants to be split in two do they? (Maybe they do)?

What about a confident guy with an nice sized cock

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality "

This is Fab, apparently you are a unicorn if you have both

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By *arkknight25Man
over a year ago

Maidenhead

If you're messaging in the single ladies category a good chunk state things like :

- minimum 7/8/9+ inches with girth to match

- gym fit

- clean (like you're going to turn up without showering)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality

From having a nosy at your profile, it would appear that you have both

Just looked at your profile and I’m very flattered. I’m happy with my appendage but it doesn’t define me xx

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality

From having a nosy at your profile, it would appear that you have both

Just looked at your profile and I’m very flattered. I’m happy with my appendage but it doesn’t define me xx"

Thank you

That’s exactly the type of attitude that most women like! Someone who is confident enough within themselves and what they have to offer that they don’t even need to mention their dick size xx

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Many times I've been approached by women at the sort of clubs where you take your clothes off. I've never had that happen at a club where you keep them on.

I can only think that my personality gets a lot bigger when I take my clothes off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it’s about balancing those scales. No one wants to be split in two do they? (Maybe they do)?

What about a confident guy with an nice sized cock

"Nice size" is subjective

To some women a larger one is a "nice size"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to think I’m okay in both departments, so I shouldn’t have to worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great personality and a nice face over a big cock anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant read guys I’m told I’m not the biggest oh good personality lol am I small ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s horses for courses (no pun intended). Some prioritise personality and some cock size, but usually neither of those are considered if there isn’t a physical attraction.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I'm just a dick

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By *ittlelad69Man
over a year ago

clay cross

My little 5” should get some use then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job most ladies think it’s personality, I might be in with a chance of conversation and maybe more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect a bad personality will be more off-putting than a small dick. At least I’m hoping that’s going to be the case

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Personality is far more important to me as I need to be comfortable with guy joining us . Plus I’m not fan of big cocks more average size for me xx

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?"

Sex site .. dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality is far more important to me as I need to be comfortable with guy joining us . Plus I’m not fan of big cocks more average size for me xx "

being relaxed is a really important part of it

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience "

Big cock good personality for you then

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience

Big cock good personality for you then "

Yes rare to find on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience

Big cock good personality for you then

Yes rare to find on fab "

Probably not just on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow"

Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes for me too, it's a turn off. I came here to satisfy my sexual desires. Average cocks can be fun but not completely satisfying for a size queen. My free time is rare so I need the right person to spend it with.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much"

No they wanted both...like me I would want the same. There's million of choices here for couples and single women. Why settle for less?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much

No they wanted both...like me I would want the same. There's million of choices here for couples and single women. Why settle for less?"

I take your point. I’ve all want to find someone (or more) that satisfy all of our desires. Tough thing for the less well endowed to hear even so

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?"

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much

No they wanted both...like me I would want the same. There's million of choices here for couples and single women. Why settle for less?

I take your point. I’ve all want to find someone (or more) that satisfy all of our desires. Tough thing for the less well endowed to hear even so

Not really. Majority of women prefer average cock by the sounds of it. So it's not really an issue. Only for us size queens lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

You can't really tell if the woman is tight or not. Plus the size of the cock, especially girth affects how it feels inside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say "

Chilli sauce or garlic mayo?

It may well have an impact on your decision to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

You can't really tell if the woman is tight or not. Plus the size of the cock, especially girth affects how it feels inside?"

Simple dimensions aren’t the only measure, I completely agree

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say "

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

Chilli sauce or garlic mayo?

It may well have an impact on your decision to meet"

Possibly but I wouldn't want to upset her if her even if her vag looked like a 4 week old axe wound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

You can't really tell if the woman is tight or not. Plus the size of the cock, especially girth affects how it feels inside?"

You can definitely get a good idea from seeing it .. I can .. know what to look for !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)"

Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)

Sounds like to me to avoid disappointment with these messages, is to post more body and cock pics. Then if the face isn't want they're looking for then you really know the answer. As it's annoying playing talk tennis with someone when it could easily be prevented with more information on their profile. I don't just really go there anymore. If there's very little on their profile and they didn't offer much in the initial message, I just ignore and move on

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)

Where's this party bro I'm going haha na I'm joking that's bad man fuck em mate

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)

Where's this party bro I'm going haha na I'm joking that's bad man fuck em mate "

Haha have a gooden lol I give up

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?

Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet

Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size

See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say

From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.

Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality

It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.

(Wondering how I measure my personality)

Where's this party bro I'm going haha na I'm joking that's bad man fuck em mate

Haha have a gooden lol I give up"

You give up ?? That's bad .. I thrive off a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?"

I see a lot who like a big personality.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?

I see a lot who like a big personality. "

Good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never asked for the capacity of a woman’s vagina. I call for equality. Us men are being objectified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the whole point on here is the freedom of choice.

Quite simply people are allowed to choose what they want. It’s a swingers site isn’t it.

Personally i would rule out some on seeing their vag. I like to spend a lot of time intimitely down there so it’s not to appeal to me. same with cocks… I might call myself a cock snob too but it’s got to look right for me to want to play.

But also doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions to the rule. But humans are fickle and the initial starter for me is attraction and then exploring more.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

If it is just for a meet, it has to be his cock size. X

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"If it is just for a meet, it has to be his cock size. X"

Finally the truth haha

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I'm not actually fussed about cock size as long as it's at least average. A big one looks nice but also hurts at times. Personality and facial attraction is much more important to me. Mrs x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Perhaps the whole point on here is the freedom of choice.

Quite simply people are allowed to choose what they want. It’s a swingers site isn’t it.

But also doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions to the rule. But humans are fickle and the initial starter for me is attraction and then exploring more. "

For me I need to be visually and sexually stimulated by the appearance of his cock and body. If he's got a crud attitude, I won't continue as he probably he a pain in the butt. I don't need that drama. But if he speaks to me the right way, looks hot in his photos then I will meet him. I want to know I will be really comfortable having his cock in my mouth.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I want to know I will be really comfortable having his cock in my mouth.

That is a really lovely way of putting it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Personality for me. I tend to chat for a good while on here before I meet anyone if I can't get on with them then I won't meet them.And unless they have a cock pic on their profile I have never asked anyone I met before I met them about their cock size either. So ye I guess it's definitely personality for me.

The only time cock size would come into the equation at all is if it is the extreme either way in size.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Bigger the cock must mean bigger the personality obviously

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Bigger the cock must mean bigger the personality obviously

Easy for you to say, with that big ol’ thing in your knickers!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"Bigger the cock must mean bigger the personality obviously

Easy for you to say, with that big ol’ thing in your knickers!

It looks bigger in pics than in real. Close up camera pics are amusing. Why do you think all girls love ass selfies

or boob selfies Makes things biggg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like both but if it had to be one or the other begrudgingly I'd go with personality. Afterall during a pre meet social it would be his personality that had me reaching into his pants in the first place.

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

I'm told I'm about average, but bring an above average game...

Unfortunately that doesn't seem to be the deciding metric for many on here.

I get the personality thing, but it's hard to judge a personality without chatting, and to chat you need to exchange messages...

Or converse on here or the chat rooms I guess. Still, let's hope our personalities shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the size queenssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?"

As long as it’s clean and not like a clown’s pocket……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock size for sure x

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Cock size for sure x"

What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.

Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Cock size for sure x

What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.

Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?"

Anyone can make up hypotheticals

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Cock size for sure x

What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.

Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?"

What if the average schlong gets stage fright and can't get hard? What if it lasts 15 seconds?

I suppose with the great personality you can talk your way out of her being left disappointed, using devastating wit and charm whilst she browses Fab looking for another guy.

As above.....anyone can come up with hypothetical scenarios.

People will like what they like. Big. Small. Average. Funny. Talkative. The strong silent type with no need for conversation. You can only be you and offer what you have.

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

It was a joke lol

Everyone free to their own preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock size for sure x

What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.

Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?"

This are things that can happen with a cock of any size ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about both? Why does it have to be either/or ?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"What about both? Why does it have to be either/or ?"

But that's not the question

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By *teveandPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

Definitely personality, good sense of humour is a must! But would be put off by a micro penis - sorry not sorry

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In my view this isn't an either/or question. We swing almost entirely in clubs. There, for one off play, overall attractiveness is key, and a cock that I find good looking, irrespective of size, is important. Personality is almost immaterial, though we have met, and kept in touch with, some guys with great personalities (and nice cocks). In terms of size, a very big cock is nice to look at, play with and wank, but I simply can't take one bigger than about eight inches.

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I have 7"+ length and 6.5" girth but you gonna have to deal with my unprecedented level of shit talk and obnoxious music

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Cock size for sure x

What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.

Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?

Anyone can make up

hypotheticals"

Tbf it's the top to bottom look of the guy either appeals to me or put me off. So large and long doesn't even come in the equation if it's ugly looking

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By *mazonian22Couple
over a year ago

Babylon

What a guy does with his hands, mind, imagination and personality outweighs the size of his cock by a considerable margin

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"What a guy does with his hands, mind, imagination and personality outweighs the size of his cock by a considerable margin "

How can you tell that from his profile?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"I have 7"+ length and 6.5" girth but you gonna have to deal with my unprecedented level of shit talk and obnoxious music

TBH I would just put a ballgag in your mouth to solve that problem if you talked too much

music is easy can just hit mute button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to sound like a total dick (appropriate for this thread no?!)

But I think any woman that thinks cock size is more important than personality for a meet (because you do have to talk to them and it's clear instantly when someone has 0 braincells) than I wouldn't wanna meet them.

Same goes for me, if a woman has 0 chat or just seems like there's only one basic part of her brain working, it doesn't matter how good she looks, I wouldn't care bothering.

Obviously club or stranger kink that doesn't apply. Just be hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me- definitely personality. As I can work with and enjoy a smaller cock but I can't deal with a massive dickhead. "

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I have 7"+ length and 6.5" girth but you gonna have to deal with my unprecedented level of shit talk and obnoxious music

TBH I would just put a ballgag in your mouth to solve that problem if you talked too much

music is easy can just hit mute button

Sounds like fun...however, vinyls don't have mute buttons and if one was to touch my Technics 1210s and concorde cartridges one would be PUNISHED

bad girl!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Not to sound like a total dick (appropriate for this thread no?!)

Same goes for me, if a woman has 0 chat or just seems like there's only one basic part of her brain working, it doesn't matter how good she looks, I wouldn't care bothering.

Obviously club or stranger kink that doesn't apply. Just be hot

In clubs, people just come up to me and ask me to play without even knowing my name or voice...scary. I prefer the full package. Won't settle for anything less

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By *mazonian22Couple
over a year ago

Babylon

"What a guy does with his hands, mind, imagination and personality outweighs the size of his cock by a considerable margin

How can you tell that from his profile?"

Usually a guy with 20 photos of only his cock on his profile has neither personality or imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality all the way for us cock size doesn’t matter.x

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By *igpack82Man
over a year ago

Harrow

Terrence Howard is notorious in Hollywood for the size of his member. You can google it. He has what would be called a SBC, and he has a terrible relationship history.

Sometimes God doesn't necessarily balance out what's in the pants with what's in the mind.

There is likely some correlation between penis size and personality. Which would go that many men have an obsession over their penis size. If these men are on the smaller size, then it'll likely increase their insecurities, resulting in so-called 'beta-male' behaviour. Conversely if a man is on the bigger size, then it'll likely increase their confidence, resulting in so-called 'alpha-male' behaviour.

In any case I think the majority of people are more nuanced than that. For every arrogant big dicked guy in a nude spa, you'll find an annoying small dicked guy. But more likely, there'll be so many average guys in the happy medium, that one of them will likely be the one everyone hates.

Point is I feel these sort of questions/polls have an ideological slant to them. An inference that people who have what is seen in society as a desirable trait, must be so fatally flawed in another area of their life, usually their personality.

Perhaps in some cases it's people projecting their own insecurities. Like an unattractive woman always making negative comments about an attractive woman. Assuming the happy and joyful pretty woman getting all the attention must have an ugly personality. When in reality it's the other way around.

I guess the conclusion is that:

The man with the ideal cock size and ideal general personality is more important. Not quite sure what that is, but I guess 4-Times married, wife-beating micro-penis Terrence Howard isn't it anyway.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?"

Cock size is never a consideration for me, although I obviously have my preferences. I have to find someone's face attractive & then hope the personality is decent.

A guy could look like Jason Momoa, but if he was a bellend, I'd steer clear!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.

What's more important

Cock size or general personality?

I see a lot who like a big personality.

Good stuff "

Eeiiyyee thank you *takes a bow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality everytime

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've never asked to see a cock pic before I've met anyone and as long as we get on and can have a laugh that's what it more important to me.

I wouldn't want to be naked with someone who I thought was a dick head even the thought of it it repulses me. So ye personality for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great topic and just think it shows there’s someone for everyone! Men who aren’t blessed with massive Todgers probably have to work just that bit harder to impress, which is only right and proper. Hard to take a pic of “ personality” though! Lol

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I have a huge personality x

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

10 inches plus flaccid, then I’ll teach you personality.

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