FabSwingers.com forum: What would you say is a kink?

By *lovesquirters1975 OP Man
over a year ago

huyton

What do people class as a kink?

Surly it depends on the person I may like something that you don’t, so does that make it a kink?

I say this as my mate who is regularly being breast fed (which is a can of worms in itself) has now discovered pegging after a dalliance with an old school friend via Facebook so I’d like to know what you class as a kink and what you would class as just a sexual act?

Come on don’t be shy!

By *ickingdelightMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

Surely it’s fairly straight forward? Right.

Kink is anything that isn’t deemed conventional to the current sexual practices.

You may be around kinkier people that think x is normal, but to the general public if that’s not agreed then it’s kink.

It also changes constantly.

For example Roman and Greek times everyone fucked everyone more like orgies and predominantly anal, that was normal social society. Now it’s 100% kink.

Women being open to explore and be bi/curious in my opinion is becoming less kink and more ‘normal’ yet males exploring bi side is still more taboo, and kink

Bdsm was seen dirty and not discussed yet like or hate books/films 50 shades made bdsm mass market and less taboo - reason I also appreciate love honey and their tv adverts

By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Kink can be anything that provides you with sexual gratification, even if on the surface it appears vanilla as hell.

Kink could be stockings, or wrapped in a towel, or feet. Could be as simple as anal, or voyeurism.

Nothing particularly crazy, but someone out there get a buzz even thinking about it.

By *lovesquirters1975 OP Man
over a year ago

huyton

Yes I agree with you, but as you say things are more relaxed and attitudes have changed over the years as has our views on sexuality

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

A kink is always very unique to the person. What floats one persons boat might not do it for someone else. My favourite one that I’ve seen on another site is rolling in bubble wrap. The people are so happy with it

* it’s not my kink by the way