FabSwingers.com forum: Bitchy status updates ….:

By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down

Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular

The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL

Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it

I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?

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By *dventurousCharmerMan
over a year ago

Kilsby

Completely agree, my statuses tend to be run of the mill normal. Gotta avoid bitchiness

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have to be honest I haven’t really noticed it as a widespread thing but when it happens I think it is a bad look for that profile - just makes you look jealous and mean spirited and that is unattractive.

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Completely agree, my statuses tend to be run of the mill normal. Gotta avoid bitchiness

As they should be yeah ? Use the update about you not someone else

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By *dventurousCharmerMan
over a year ago

Kilsby

"Completely agree, my statuses tend to be run of the mill normal. Gotta avoid bitchiness

As they should be yeah ? Use the update about you not someone else

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to it but I block accounts like that now

Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!

I love seeing bigger women on hot pics

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By *igrating ladMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Ah bless I’m sorry to hear about this. In this day an age we shouldn’t be doing things like this but instead using it as positivity and respectfulness. We everything everyone has been through specially last 2 years you would think people would move on from this childishness.

Stay strong OP and keep your chin. Remember you are as beautiful and caring as the next

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

For me it just typifies some of the people that use this site. They think it’s like Facebook for fucking, it’s not and it’s simply unacceptable.

You would have thought after what we have been through as a world these last 2/3 years people would’ve learn to be a little bit nicer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down

Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular

The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL

Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it

I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?

There’s a few on hot pics that are always putting nasty status updates, it’s says far more about them than anyone else.

It’s so unnecessary.

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I used to it but I block accounts like that now

Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!

I love seeing bigger women on hot pics

Absolutely

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down

Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular

The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL

Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it

I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?

There’s a few on hot pics that are always putting nasty status updates, it’s says far more about them than anyone else.

It’s so unnecessary."

It’s not nice is it

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've either posted fun updates (for example, 'is it time to put the Christmas tree up yet') or thought provoking, like my current one.

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I've either posted fun updates (for example, 'is it time to put the Christmas tree up yet') or thought provoking, like my current one."

Yep I like that !

I tend to just put random stuff up or if I can meet / clubs I’m going to etc

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

"I used to it but I block accounts like that now

Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!

I love seeing bigger women on hot pics

Absolutely

We use the private note function to record things like gross status updates incase they ever contact us.

It is really sad tbh because when we are around swingers, in clubs or at socials, they are generally an amazing, accepting bunch who love to compliment each other. Swinging has done wonders for my confidence, and I have more friends than ever before

K x

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I used to it but I block accounts like that now

Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!

I love seeing bigger women on hot pics

Absolutely

We use the private note function to record things like gross status updates incase they ever contact us.

K x"

100% agree with this !

I’ve never come across at clubs

You can wear as little as you like no matter age, size , shape whatever and everyone loves it

I’m like you, I had zero confidence before swinging. Didn’t like showing my body off at all

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I just cringe, smile & block

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We tend to avoid the kind of people that feel the need to put others down .We’re here for fun not drama .

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's a good filter, many been blocked. Negativity breeds negativity. Stay positive lovely people

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down

Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular

The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL

Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it

I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?

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I'm with you on this, let's hear it for the girls

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down

Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular

The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL

Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it

I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?

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Oh I I just wanted to say I'm not in with you because you're gorgeous but because it's a worthy cause

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Can't say I have noticed this between women but it is appalling behaviour in any context - but particularly on a site where you would expect both sex and body positivity

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I just cringe, smile & block "

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
over a year ago

goffs oak

Haven’t noticed it too much on status updates, but the reason we don’t share all our pics is we have had people put Kelly down for the size of her boobs and that gravity has taken over ect. It’s a shame as a large % of people on here are lovely but the few can really spoil it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Having a dig at anyone on your profile or status is not allowed. We shouldn't really do it while calling other people out either, we should just report please so Admin can take a look

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