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"I was at jaydees last night and had a fantastic time. I spotted s stunning red head in lingere in the dance floor and really should have said hello. I'm still fantasising about what might have been now. What are your biggest club regrets? ?? " send her a message if you know who she is, or ask around. (The club reviews might have her review in it.) I was there, last night, with a redhead of my own. | |||
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"The last time we went to a club, I got too in my head. I let it get to me so much that I was really quiet and struggled the whole night. I suffer from really low self confidence and my brain can be seriously unkind to me at times. We walked about to find some where to play and one room was full of people having fun, I let myself feel intimidated and scared and we left the room and went some where quieter. Huge regrets now because there was an orgy in there after we left! C x" Have you seen the wonky/ND threads? | |||
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"The last time we went to a club, I got too in my head. I let it get to me so much that I was really quiet and struggled the whole night. I suffer from really low self confidence and my brain can be seriously unkind to me at times. We walked about to find some where to play and one room was full of people having fun, I let myself feel intimidated and scared and we left the room and went some where quieter. Huge regrets now because there was an orgy in there after we left! C x Have you seen the wonky/ND threads?" No???? C x | |||
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"The last time we went to a club, I got too in my head. I let it get to me so much that I was really quiet and struggled the whole night. I suffer from really low self confidence and my brain can be seriously unkind to me at times. We walked about to find some where to play and one room was full of people having fun, I let myself feel intimidated and scared and we left the room and went some where quieter. Huge regrets now because there was an orgy in there after we left! C x Have you seen the wonky/ND threads? No???? C x" This has snowballed into 7 chapters long and is still gaining momentum, even the title keeps evolving. Put the kettle on and get comfy. x It's currently called the Official Neurodivergent Deviants Club, Season 7 https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1384337 Welcome to the wonky-brained corner of Fab! Feel free to pull up a chair (quietly). And although this is fab, please feel free to leave your masks at the door. This is a place for all neurodivergent people to chat, get to know one another and discuss how Autism, ADHD, dyslexisa, dyspraxia and other conditions effect our lives and swinging. Friends, lovers and allies are welcome, but be aware that we fiercely protect our own here. Previous seasons are still available for replay at the links below: P6 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1379859 P5 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1378212 P4 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1375399 P3 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1374628 P2 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1369444 P1 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1346028 | |||
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"The last time we went to a club, I got too in my head. I let it get to me so much that I was really quiet and struggled the whole night. I suffer from really low self confidence and my brain can be seriously unkind to me at times. We walked about to find some where to play and one room was full of people having fun, I let myself feel intimidated and scared and we left the room and went some where quieter. Huge regrets now because there was an orgy in there after we left! C x Have you seen the wonky/ND threads? No???? C x This has snowballed into 7 chapters long and is still gaining momentum, even the title keeps evolving. Put the kettle on and get comfy. x It's currently called the Official Neurodivergent Deviants Club, Season 7 https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1384337 Welcome to the wonky-brained corner of Fab! Feel free to pull up a chair (quietly). And although this is fab, please feel free to leave your masks at the door. This is a place for all neurodivergent people to chat, get to know one another and discuss how Autism, ADHD, dyslexisa, dyspraxia and other conditions effect our lives and swinging. Friends, lovers and allies are welcome, but be aware that we fiercely protect our own here. Previous seasons are still available for replay at the links below: P6 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1379859 P5 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1378212 P4 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1375399 P3 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1374628 P2 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1369444 P1 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1346028" Ahhh yes! I’ve seen the title in the forum but haven’t ventured in. I’m not ND but guess, maybe a bit wonky. I suffer from really low self confidence and self esteem, I can be very hard on myself and have a horrible habit of comparing myself to others. I’m ok most of the time but in a club setting my brain starts looking at all the other women and saying some really unkind things to me. It’s something I’m working on. C x | |||
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"Last time we were at a club, this vwe guy fucked me twice infront of everyone nearly a third but we had to leave. Wish has got his details "Contact the club and ask if they can send your details to him, via FAB, if he's on the site, of course. | |||
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"The last time we went to a club, I got too in my head. I let it get to me so much that I was really quiet and struggled the whole night. I suffer from really low self confidence and my brain can be seriously unkind to me at times. We walked about to find some where to play and one room was full of people having fun, I let myself feel intimidated and scared and we left the room and went some where quieter. Huge regrets now because there was an orgy in there after we left! C x Have you seen the wonky/ND threads? No???? C x This has snowballed into 7 chapters long and is still gaining momentum, even the title keeps evolving. Put the kettle on and get comfy. x It's currently called the Official Neurodivergent Deviants Club, Season 7 https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1384337 Welcome to the wonky-brained corner of Fab! Feel free to pull up a chair (quietly). And although this is fab, please feel free to leave your masks at the door. This is a place for all neurodivergent people to chat, get to know one another and discuss how Autism, ADHD, dyslexisa, dyspraxia and other conditions effect our lives and swinging. Friends, lovers and allies are welcome, but be aware that we fiercely protect our own here. Previous seasons are still available for replay at the links below: P6 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1379859 P5 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1378212 P4 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1375399 P3 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1374628 P2 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1369444 P1 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1346028 Ahhh yes! I’ve seen the title in the forum but haven’t ventured in. I’m not ND but guess, maybe a bit wonky. I suffer from really low self confidence and self esteem, I can be very hard on myself and have a horrible habit of comparing myself to others. I’m ok most of the time but in a club setting my brain starts looking at all the other women and saying some unkind things to me. It’s something I’m working on. C x" No playing should ever be seen as a regret as you can always go again and at a pace, you're comfortable with real regret is doing something you are not ready for do not rush. | |||
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"The last time we went to a club, I got too in my head. I let it get to me so much that I was really quiet and struggled the whole night. I suffer from really low self confidence and my brain can be seriously unkind to me at times. We walked about to find some where to play and one room was full of people having fun, I let myself feel intimidated and scared and we left the room and went some where quieter. Huge regrets now because there was an orgy in there after we left! C x Have you seen the wonky/ND threads? No???? C x This has snowballed into 7 chapters long and is still gaining momentum, even the title keeps evolving. Put the kettle on and get comfy. x It's currently called the Official Neurodivergent Deviants Club, Season 7 https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1384337 Welcome to the wonky-brained corner of Fab! Feel free to pull up a chair (quietly). And although this is fab, please feel free to leave your masks at the door. This is a place for all neurodivergent people to chat, get to know one another and discuss how Autism, ADHD, dyslexisa, dyspraxia and other conditions effect our lives and swinging. Friends, lovers and allies are welcome, but be aware that we fiercely protect our own here. Previous seasons are still available for replay at the links below: P6 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1379859 P5 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1378212 P4 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1375399 P3 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1374628 P2 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1369444 P1 - https://fabswingers.com/forum/support/1346028 Ahhh yes! I’ve seen the title in the forum but haven’t ventured in. I’m not ND but guess, maybe a bit wonky. I suffer from really low self confidence and self esteem, I can be very hard on myself and have a horrible habit of comparing myself to others. I’m ok most of the time but in a club setting my brain starts looking at all the other women and saying some unkind things to me. It’s something I’m working on. C x No playing should ever be seen as a regret as you can always go again and at a pace, you're comfortable with real regret is doing something you are not ready for do not rush." It isn’t about not being ready, it’s about my own sense of self worth. I’d had some personal stuff go on that week and my self confidence took a major hit. I have bouts of anxiety and I can be in a room full of lovely people but be stuck in my own head full of fear of rejection because my brain is telling me I’m fat and ugly and not worthy of other people’s time and effort. I’m annoyed that I allowed those thoughts to win and it impacted what could have been a fun night with my husband and others, we’d been looking forward to that night for weeks and anything that could have been was snuffed out because I let my negative thoughts beat me. C x | |||
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