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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere??" Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol  | |||
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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere?? Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol "Thank god you read to the end, I was thinking as I typed if people don't read to the end I could be quite hated here!!! | |||
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"Yep I think it's wrong! But yet women still displaying their entrance and exit hole with cum dripping, disgusting! "It maybe their partners cum and nice backtrack | |||
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"Yep I think it's wrong! But yet women still displaying their entrance and exit hole with cum dripping, disgusting!
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"Yep I think it's wrong! But yet women still displaying their entrance and exit hole with cum dripping, disgusting!
It maybe their partners cum and nice backtrack"Yes I was about to say that it might be their partners cum | |||
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"If partners cum then fine but strangers cum dripping well u know is a little naughty. " Naughty but no-ones business but those involved. I've on occasion had a meets cum all over me. But I also declare it on my profile Cali | |||
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"If partners cum then fine but strangers cum dripping well u know is a little naughty. Naughty but no-ones business but those involved. I've on occasion had a meets cum all over me. But I also declare it on my profile Cali" Exactly my point! Yuk! Also the society does care about safe sex practices! | |||
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"I always read threads like these and immediately think the Op is fishing. If anyone replies yes I love it then I always imagine they're straight onto their profile sending them a message. But if everyone says ooooh no that's bad then they usually seem to reply "Oh yes, I agree. It completely defeats the object of a condom". Is that just me being a sceptic again?? "I'm with you on this one. Hence my back track comment lol | |||
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"Yes use condoms with oral! Unless with partner. Just better to play safe. " Yet on your profile your saying how women would love to swallow your cum. Says something else lol Cali | |||
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"Yes use condoms with oral! Unless with partner. Just better to play safe. Yet on your profile your saying how women would love to swallow your cum. Says something else lol Cali" Sweetheart I'm fine with fuck partners not strangers I don't know! Also read the thread it's about cum on asshole and pussy. Not oral sex.  | |||
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"Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere??" I tend to use this | |||
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"Yes use condoms with oral! Unless with partner. Just better to play safe. Yet on your profile your saying how women would love to swallow your cum. Says something else lol Cali Sweetheart I'm fine with fuck partners not strangers I don't know! Also read the thread it's about cum on asshole and pussy. Not oral sex. "Pleased you didnt call me sweetheart! | |||
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"If partners cum then fine but strangers cum dripping well u know is a little naughty. " A little naughty?? More or less naughty than fucking a mans wife in front of them? More naughty than cumming down a womans throat?? Nothing nicer than a pussy dripping with cum, even better if its dripping out x | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen!" Good for you | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you "So it is worth getting a disease for? | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?"And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something???? If you believe this you are very very naive. You can catch from sharing toys, oral. Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either. There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk. All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups. I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident. So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters. I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe. Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that?? | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??"So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact. IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter! No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here. | |||
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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere?? Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol
Thank god you read to the end, I was thinking as I typed if people don't read to the end I could be quite hated here!!!"If only you knew how close you came to a full Character Assassination by the FabForum 'Borg Collective'......
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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere?? Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol
Thank god you read to the end, I was thinking as I typed if people don't read to the end I could be quite hated here!!!
If only you knew how close you came to a full Character Assassination by the FabForum 'Borg Collective'......
"erm..which you are part of looking at the abuse you sent our way recently for daring to say we are 'professional'. Hypocrite. | |||
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"How do women feel about a guy coming on their pussy and bum hole ? So sex with condom then taking condom off before cumming. "id find it quite insulting that they made sure they was protected then just as they cum was willing to put me at risk by cumming on my bits while they are still in the clear | |||
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"No one has said they don't reduce the risks. Just that they don't stop all and just because someone plays bare doesn't mean they have anything I think the bare backers get annoyed at the holier than thou attitude. I've enjoyed on occasion a filling from a play mate and my partner. I've enjoyed lots of cum in my mouth. And an aware of which risks I take. I hate condoms but still use them majority of the time. I think what was being said is that there are still many people that seem to think if your having safer sex that you don't need regular testing. I've met many guys that have said that. And quite a few couples. Cali" But why increase risks by not using condoms? That is like saying I won't bother keeping my eyes open when crossing the road. | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here."You didn't answer any of my questions. If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
"Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it. Yes: within the last twelve months. Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to. | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to."Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months??? | |||
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"STD.. Merry christmas!  "Indeed... look at what we have got for you...a nice dose of herpes with a side order of HIV. Remember kiddies an STD is for life not just for Christmas. | |||
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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere?? Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol
Thank god you read to the end, I was thinking as I typed if people don't read to the end I could be quite hated here!!!
If only you knew how close you came to a full Character Assassination by the FabForum 'Borg Collective'......
erm..which you are part of looking at the abuse you sent our way recently for daring to say we are 'professional'. Hypocrite."Excuse me? 'Abuse sent our way'...?????? I have just rechecked BOTH the threads from a few days ago regarding the use of the term 'professional' in profiles. In the more recent thread we made no comment. In the original, closed by mod thread, we quoted a joke comment made by someone else as we found it funny. That was our only involvement in that thread. We made NO comment in relation to any of your contributions directly. Would be grateful if you would clarify your judgement of us as 'hypocrites'.... | |||
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"STD.. Merry christmas!
Indeed... look at what we have got for you...a nice dose of herpes with a side order of HIV.
Remember kiddies an STD is for life not just for Christmas."You not answering me again?? | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???"Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe. | |||
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"STD.. Merry christmas!
Indeed... look at what we have got for you...a nice dose of herpes with a side order of HIV.
Remember kiddies an STD is for life not just for Christmas.
You not answering me again??
"Erm yes? But surely if you are going bareback you need to be tested EVERY time you have had sex with new people? We minimise the risk by more than using condoms as well.. | |||
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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere?? Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol
Thank god you read to the end, I was thinking as I typed if people don't read to the end I could be quite hated here!!!
If only you knew how close you came to a full Character Assassination by the FabForum 'Borg Collective'......
erm..which you are part of looking at the abuse you sent our way recently for daring to say we are 'professional'. Hypocrite.
Excuse me? 'Abuse sent our way'...?????? I have just rechecked BOTH the threads from a few days ago regarding the use of the term 'professional' in profiles. In the more recent thread we made no comment. In the original, closed by mod thread, we quoted a joke comment made by someone else as we found it funny. That was our only involvement in that thread. We made NO comment in relation to any of your contributions directly.
Would be grateful if you would clarify your judgement of us as 'hypocrites'....
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???
Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe."You honestly believe im making people cringe?? You give it the dirty bareback spiel. And how risky it all is, yet cause in your eyes you okay safe you don't get regular checks!!!! Id rather fuck a barebacker who is responsible enough to get checked regular than a condom wearer who "thinks" they are clean as they get checked once every 2 to 3 years 
And you think I make people cringe.
Once people see your blatant ignorance for there health it will be you making them cringe.
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"STD.. Merry christmas!
Indeed... look at what we have got for you...a nice dose of herpes with a side order of HIV.
Remember kiddies an STD is for life not just for Christmas.
You not answering me again??
Erm yes? But surely if you are going bareback you need to be tested EVERY time you have had sex with new people?
We minimise the risk by more than using condoms as well.. "As you can see im not very active, and when et I visit my doctor, I get a test done. I'm open and honest with my doctor over what I do and he us more than happy yo give me a test whenever I go in. | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???
Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe.
You honestly believe im making people cringe??
You give it the dirty bareback spiel. And how risky it all is, yet cause in your eyes you okay safe you don't get regular checks!!!!
Id rather fuck a barebacker who is responsible enough to get checked regular than a condom wearer who "thinks" they are clean as they get checked once every 2 to 3 years
And you think I make people cringe.
Once people see your blatant ignorance for there health it will be you making them cringe.
I honestly didn't think you would be naive enough to post how ling ago it was lol"We have been tested within the year we have been playing. Before that we had been married seventeen years with no other partners. Why the hell would we have been tested? ANSWER PLEASE. How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either? I bet 90% of the people on here will be making mental notes to avoid you literally like the plague. | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???
Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe.
You honestly believe im making people cringe??
You give it the dirty bareback spiel. And how risky it all is, yet cause in your eyes you okay safe you don't get regular checks!!!!
Id rather fuck a barebacker who is responsible enough to get checked regular than a condom wearer who "thinks" they are clean as they get checked once every 2 to 3 years
And you think I make people cringe.
Once people see your blatant ignorance for there health it will be you making them cringe.
I honestly didn't think you would be naive enough to post how ling ago it was lol
We have been tested within the year we have been playing. Before that we had been married seventeen years with no other partners. Why the hell would we have been tested? ANSWER PLEASE.
How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either?
I bet 90% of the people on here will be making mental notes to avoid you literally like the plague. "So now you claim you only soft swap??? Once in twelve.month isn't really that great!!! You can't take the high grou d unless you have all bases covered. You think only penetration can pass on an std??? You either trying to back track cause you realise your looking a bit silly, or you really are naive and stupid enough to believe that you need checking once in telce month! Even though you have had numerous encounters with people and boast of mfmfmf on your profile. Again. Id rather play with a barebacker who gets checked than a safe player who goes once a year. Its about managing risk. The risk is fuck someone who plays safe, has had a fair few meets and been checked once, ir meet a barebacker who is reg checked and not as active! I know which one id choose. Your blatant ignorance to sexual health cause you play safe or don't penetrate is sickening. You keep digging your hole. I'm open about barebacking, only people interested or educated will meet me. You.on the other hand pop up preaching and have only been checked once in a year as you play safe lol Well done | |||
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"I reckon most will think it's a fantastic idea, because you can only catch STD's or get pregnant if you are fully inside a lady, also you can't get pregnant on your first shag or if you are stood up!!! Is there a sarcastic smiley anywhere?? Tutted all the way thru this, til i got to the end lol
Thank god you read to the end, I was thinking as I typed if people don't read to the end I could be quite hated here!!!
If only you knew how close you came to a full Character Assassination by the FabForum 'Borg Collective'......
erm..which you are part of looking at the abuse you sent our way recently for daring to say we are 'professional'. Hypocrite.
Excuse me? 'Abuse sent our way'...?????? I have just rechecked BOTH the threads from a few days ago regarding the use of the term 'professional' in profiles. In the more recent thread we made no comment. In the original, closed by mod thread, we quoted a joke comment made by someone else as we found it funny. That was our only involvement in that thread. We made NO comment in relation to any of your contributions directly.
Would be grateful if you would clarify your judgement of us as 'hypocrites'....
Apologies if that was made as a joke. I can't find the thread now, has it gone?"Apology accepted. xxxx The threads are way back (about 8 pages now). And if we WERE having a go at you directly, you'd have known about it! Lol!! 
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???
Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe.
You honestly believe im making people cringe??
You give it the dirty bareback spiel. And how risky it all is, yet cause in your eyes you okay safe you don't get regular checks!!!!
Id rather fuck a barebacker who is responsible enough to get checked regular than a condom wearer who "thinks" they are clean as they get checked once every 2 to 3 years
And you think I make people cringe.
Once people see your blatant ignorance for there health it will be you making them cringe.
I honestly didn't think you would be naive enough to post how ling ago it was lol
We have been tested within the year we have been playing. Before that we had been married seventeen years with no other partners. Why the hell would we have been tested? ANSWER PLEASE.
How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either?
I bet 90% of the people on here will be making mental notes to avoid you literally like the plague.
So now you claim you only soft swap???
Once in twelve.month isn't really that great!!!
You can't take the high grou d unless you have all bases covered.
You think only penetration can pass on an std???
You either trying to back track cause you realise your looking a bit silly, or you really are naive and stupid enough to believe that you need checking once in telce month!
Even though you have had numerous encounters with people and boast of mfmfmf on your profile.
Again. Id rather play with a barebacker who gets checked than a safe player who goes once a year. Its about managing risk. The risk is fuck someone who plays safe, has had a fair few meets and been checked once, ir meet a barebacker who is reg checked and not as active!
I know which one id choose.
Your blatant ignorance to sexual health cause you play safe or don't penetrate is sickening.
You keep digging your hole. I'm open about barebacking, only people interested or educated will meet me. You.on the other hand pop up preaching and have only been checked once in a year as you play safe lol
Well done "Why should we get checked unless we have had sex with other people? Can you get it from toilet seats or is AIDs now airborne? You really are a mine of information. And I know condoms are not 100% safe but they are the best method of making the situation less 'risky' and I will continue to use them if that is alright with you. Like I said the vast majority on here play safe and there is a reason why you are in the minority. PS I sincerely hope you go to the doctors regularly if that is the only way you end up getting tested. PPS Is this all because we didn't say we would meet you when you messaged us the other week? Just saying. | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???
Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe.
You honestly believe im making people cringe??
You give it the dirty bareback spiel. And how risky it all is, yet cause in your eyes you okay safe you don't get regular checks!!!!
Id rather fuck a barebacker who is responsible enough to get checked regular than a condom wearer who "thinks" they are clean as they get checked once every 2 to 3 years
And you think I make people cringe.
Once people see your blatant ignorance for there health it will be you making them cringe.
I honestly didn't think you would be naive enough to post how ling ago it was lol
We have been tested within the year we have been playing. Before that we had been married seventeen years with no other partners. Why the hell would we have been tested? ANSWER PLEASE.
How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either?
I bet 90% of the people on here will be making mental notes to avoid you literally like the plague.
So now you claim you only soft swap???
Once in twelve.month isn't really that great!!!
You can't take the high grou d unless you have all bases covered.
You think only penetration can pass on an std???
You either trying to back track cause you realise your looking a bit silly, or you really are naive and stupid enough to believe that you need checking once in telce month!
Even though you have had numerous encounters with people and boast of mfmfmf on your profile.
Again. Id rather play with a barebacker who gets checked than a safe player who goes once a year. Its about managing risk. The risk is fuck someone who plays safe, has had a fair few meets and been checked once, ir meet a barebacker who is reg checked and not as active!
I know which one id choose.
Your blatant ignorance to sexual health cause you play safe or don't penetrate is sickening.
You keep digging your hole. I'm open about barebacking, only people interested or educated will meet me. You.on the other hand pop up preaching and have only been checked once in a year as you play safe lol
Well done
Why should we get checked unless we have had sex with other people? Can you get it from toilet seats or is AIDs now airborne? You really are a mine of information.
And I know condoms are not 100% safe but they are the best method of making the situation less 'risky' and I will continue to use them if that is alright with you.
Like I said the vast majority on here play safe and there is a reason why you are in the minority.
PS I sincerely hope you go to the doctors regularly if that is the only way you end up getting tested.
PPS Is this all because we didn't say we would meet you when you messaged us the other week? Just saying."First of all... Check you mail. You didn't say no lol. I think you will fond I said no if it wasn't bareback lol. Now you either lie through your teeth on your profile or again your trying to cover your naivity. You sat you have full sex. And group sex. You wanted full swap with us lol. Now all of a sudden you don't do penetration lol. You have been swinging over 18 month and been checked once. People you have met have met others that bareback yet you still don't get checked. Not a responsible attitude really. And then to try and make out im putting you straight cause you said no to a meet is hilarious. I have the mail still where I sat its bareback only for us sorry. So either stop telling porky pies to try and get some credibility back or I'll let anyone who asks see the mails lol I am open and honest over what I do. You on the other hand age moving your goal posts with each post lol And I do go the doctors quite a bit as im having physio on my hip and need to go every 4 weeks to review my pain relief. so once again your attempt at having a pop hs fallen on its arse, just like your dirty barebacker stance has lol | |||
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"We would love to have cum dripping out of D but unless we have a doctor on standby administering tests beforehand it isn't going to happen! Good for you
So it is worth getting a disease for?
And going bareback is a sure fire way of catching something????
If you believe this you are very very naive.
You can catch from sharing toys, oral.
Have you ever gone down on a woman after her partner has had sec with her? I'm not in about clean up either.
There are risks in everything to do with swinging, its all about managing risk.
All the barebackers we have met get reg check Ups.
I'll repeat what has been said on here before, there have been posts by so called safe players saying they once had a condom break and then had to go through the laboured task of going to the clinic and how they hated wasting there time in there cause of an accident.
So when another poster asked why they didn't go regular anyway the response was they didn't need to as they play safe, this response was given many a thumbs up off other posters.
I'm happy to take my risks with bareback with others that get checked regular rather than someone who thinks they don't need to be checked as they play safe.
Out of interest when was your last check up, and the one before that??
So wearing a condom doesn't reduce the risk? Sorry I didn't know that was a medical fact.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR PEOPLE ON THIS SITE: don't worry about safe sex, it doesn't matter!
No we don't share toys, when we are in clubs we are constantly washing our hands and we wouldn't consider oral at all if we had the slightest cut or ulcer inside our mouths or lips. Oh and someone said they were 'tested' we wouldn't believe them. We are not playing Russian Roulette here.
You didn't answer any of my questions.
If you wash your hands your sure to be clean
Have you been down on a woman after she has fucked get partner, ever used a double ender with another woman??
When was you last checked, and then the time before that??
Answers: No and I wouldn't. Yes but with condoms on it.
Yes: within the last twelve months.
Neither of us would go near anyone without a condom. It is insane not to.
Ok, and the time before the ladt test within 12 months???
Ages before that. Not entirely sure what your point is here. Apart from you are probably making a fair few people on here cringe.
You honestly believe im making people cringe??
You give it the dirty bareback spiel. And how risky it all is, yet cause in your eyes you okay safe you don't get regular checks!!!!
Id rather fuck a barebacker who is responsible enough to get checked regular than a condom wearer who "thinks" they are clean as they get checked once every 2 to 3 years
And you think I make people cringe.
Once people see your blatant ignorance for there health it will be you making them cringe.
I honestly didn't think you would be naive enough to post how ling ago it was lol
We have been tested within the year we have been playing. Before that we had been married seventeen years with no other partners. Why the hell would we have been tested? ANSWER PLEASE.
How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either?
I bet 90% of the people on here will be making mental notes to avoid you literally like the plague.
So now you claim you only soft swap???
Once in twelve.month isn't really that great!!!
You can't take the high grou d unless you have all bases covered.
You think only penetration can pass on an std???
You either trying to back track cause you realise your looking a bit silly, or you really are naive and stupid enough to believe that you need checking once in telce month!
Even though you have had numerous encounters with people and boast of mfmfmf on your profile.
Again. Id rather play with a barebacker who gets checked than a safe player who goes once a year. Its about managing risk. The risk is fuck someone who plays safe, has had a fair few meets and been checked once, ir meet a barebacker who is reg checked and not as active!
I know which one id choose.
Your blatant ignorance to sexual health cause you play safe or don't penetrate is sickening.
You keep digging your hole. I'm open about barebacking, only people interested or educated will meet me. You.on the other hand pop up preaching and have only been checked once in a year as you play safe lol
Well done
Why should we get checked unless we have had sex with other people? Can you get it from toilet seats or is AIDs now airborne? You really are a mine of information.
And I know condoms are not 100% safe but they are the best method of making the situation less 'risky' and I will continue to use them if that is alright with you.
Like I said the vast majority on here play safe and there is a reason why you are in the minority.
PS I sincerely hope you go to the doctors regularly if that is the only way you end up getting tested.
PPS Is this all because we didn't say we would meet you when you messaged us the other week? Just saying.
First of all... Check you mail. You didn't say no lol. I think you will fond I said no if it wasn't bareback lol.
Now you either lie through your teeth on your profile or again your trying to cover your naivity.
You sat you have full sex. And group sex. You wanted full swap with us lol. Now all of a sudden you don't do penetration lol.
You have been swinging over 18 month and been checked once. People you have met have met others that bareback yet you still don't get checked. Not a responsible attitude really.
And then to try and make out im putting you straight cause you said no to a meet is hilarious. I have the mail still where I sat its bareback only for us sorry. So either stop telling porky pies to try and get some credibility back or I'll let anyone who asks see the mails lol
I am open and honest over what I do. You on the other hand age moving your goal posts with each post lol
And I do go the doctors quite a bit as im having physio on my hip and need to go every 4 weeks to review my pain relief.
so once again your attempt at having a pop hs fallen on its arse, just like your dirty barebacker stance has lol"First of all we are polite to every one who mails us as we are not into this rejecting people when there are other ways of not engaging. I didn't say we haven't had penetrative sex (point out where I did) or any of the other activities. You can also have group sex or any other type of sex with penetration either. All I am in fact saying is that I know since the last test we haven't engaged in any activities that might mean we need testing again. Hope that is clear now! I don't feel people who don't use condoms can lecture anyone on sexual health but we intend to play this weekend and we will use condoms. | |||
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" How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either? . I can see what point you are trying to get across but from the other end. Even if I have not done penetrative sex I am tested often. To be honest I rarely have full sex. The point the lady was trying to make is that there seems to be some misconception that only doing safer sex means you don't need testing regular I can't see how the lady is making herself look like someone to avoid either. Everyone takes the risks they are happy with. And let's face it we are all grown up enough to know that not everyone is honest on here. So those that state safe sex only often haven't practiced what they preach Just do what's right for you and don't worry about what someone else is doing. Cali" Exactly Cali Yet this person pips up on thread after thread giving it holier than though. I know they have had penetrative sex with others as I know some people they have met lol. It annoys me when idiots try to portray me as some dirty irresponsible walking std, I take care of myself and manage the risks, then you get people who make the judgements who think they are invincible when it comes to sexual health cause they use condoms. One check in 18 month and they have the audacity and nerve to judge and call others.... It makes my blood boil | |||
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" How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either? . I can see what point you are trying to get across but from the other end. Even if I have not done penetrative sex I am tested often. To be honest I rarely have full sex. The point the lady was trying to make is that there seems to be some misconception that only doing safer sex means you don't need testing regular I can't see how the lady is making herself look like someone to avoid either. Everyone takes the risks they are happy with. And let's face it we are all grown up enough to know that not everyone is honest on here. So those that state safe sex only often haven't practiced what they preach Just do what's right for you and don't worry about what someone else is doing. Cali Exactly Cali Yet this person pips up on thread after thread giving it holier than though. I know they have had penetrative sex with others as I know some people they have met lol. It annoys me when idiots try to portray me as some dirty irresponsible walking std, I take care of myself and manage the risks, then you get people who make the judgements who think they are invincible when it comes to sexual health cause they use condoms. One check in 18 month and they have the audacity and nerve to judge and call others.... It makes my blood boil "Again I have explained that but you are reading what you want to read. We may or not play in this way this weekend and then it will be time for another test if we do. Don't pretend you know us by the way because you don't. And if you read our verifications you will find that we have very rarely had penetrative sex and as stated we have been tested since we last did that. However don't let the facts get in the way of rant. Like I said earlier every time you have sex with someone new without a condom you will need a test. It is INSANE to do anything else and I sincerely hope people are not going to take your advice about not bothering with basic precautions. | |||
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" How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either? . I can see what point you are trying to get across but from the other end. Even if I have not done penetrative sex I am tested often. To be honest I rarely have full sex. The point the lady was trying to make is that there seems to be some misconception that only doing safer sex means you don't need testing regular I can't see how the lady is making herself look like someone to avoid either. Everyone takes the risks they are happy with. And let's face it we are all grown up enough to know that not everyone is honest on here. So those that state safe sex only often haven't practiced what they preach Just do what's right for you and don't worry about what someone else is doing. Cali Exactly Cali Yet this person pips up on thread after thread giving it holier than though. I know they have had penetrative sex with others as I know some people they have met lol. It annoys me when idiots try to portray me as some dirty irresponsible walking std, I take care of myself and manage the risks, then you get people who make the judgements who think they are invincible when it comes to sexual health cause they use condoms. One check in 18 month and they have the audacity and nerve to judge and call others.... It makes my blood boil "Oh and no we don't. We are just staing the sensible view. You are the one on the crusade about not bothering with safe sex. By the way looking at your profile are you a man, a couple or a woman? Genuinely confused. | |||
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" I didn't say we haven't had penetrative sex (point out where I did) or any of the other activities. You can also have group sex or any other type of sex with penetration either. All I am in fact saying is that I know since the last test we haven't engaged in any activities that might mean we need testing again. Hope that is clear now! I don't feel people who don't use condoms can lecture anyone on sexual health but we intend to play this weekend and we will use condoms." We aren't lecturing we are advising. And your argument on people not being able to give advice on sexual health because they don't use condoms is like saying you can't because you have multiplie partners. But I don't really want to argue that So you have played and done nothing that requires testing. So I take it that means cyber sex then. As that to me is the only play that would have me not being tested. Even if I have only played and not taken any cum. Rare but occasionally it happens in clubs. I get tested. Yes sometimes me getting vaginal swabs done is a little pointless but it gives me a clear picture. But I get throat swabs done very often. Whether you use protection for all sexual activity or not if it's with more than one partner you should be getting tested. I go every 4 to 6 weeks depending. I go regardless of play. Cali | |||
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" I didn't say we haven't had penetrative sex (point out where I did) or any of the other activities. You can also have group sex or any other type of sex with penetration either. All I am in fact saying is that I know since the last test we haven't engaged in any activities that might mean we need testing again. Hope that is clear now! I don't feel people who don't use condoms can lecture anyone on sexual health but we intend to play this weekend and we will use condoms. We aren't lecturing we are advising. And your argument on people not being able to give advice on sexual health because they don't use condoms is like saying you can't because you have multiplie partners. But I don't really want to argue that So you have played and done nothing that requires testing. So I take it that means cyber sex then. As that to me is the only play that would have me not being tested. Even if I have only played and not taken any cum. Rare but occasionally it happens in clubs. I get tested. Yes sometimes me getting vaginal swabs done is a little pointless but it gives me a clear picture. But I get throat swabs done very often. Whether you use protection for all sexual activity or not if it's with more than one partner you should be getting tested. I go every 4 to 6 weeks depending. I go regardless of play. Cali" We have not needed to because we havn't been playing. However one thing to come out of this thread is that people should get tested more often but we really aren't that active. Surely barrier protection is the absolute essential minimum though? I refuse to accept that it should ever be dispensed with. In any circumstances. Just not worth it and we just wouldn't bother if others found it a problem. | |||
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" How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either? . I can see what point you are trying to get across but from the other end. Even if I have not done penetrative sex I am tested often. To be honest I rarely have full sex. The point the lady was trying to make is that there seems to be some misconception that only doing safer sex means you don't need testing regular I can't see how the lady is making herself look like someone to avoid either. Everyone takes the risks they are happy with. And let's face it we are all grown up enough to know that not everyone is honest on here. So those that state safe sex only often haven't practiced what they preach Just do what's right for you and don't worry about what someone else is doing. Cali Exactly Cali Yet this person pips up on thread after thread giving it holier than though. I know they have had penetrative sex with others as I know some people they have met lol. It annoys me when idiots try to portray me as some dirty irresponsible walking std, I take care of myself and manage the risks, then you get people who make the judgements who think they are invincible when it comes to sexual health cause they use condoms. One check in 18 month and they have the audacity and nerve to judge and call others.... It makes my blood boil
Again I have explained that but you are reading what you want to read. We may or not play in this way this weekend and then it will be time for another test if we do.
Don't pretend you know us by the way because you don't. And if you read our verifications you will find that we have very rarely had penetrative sex and as stated we have been tested since we last did that. However don't let the facts get in the way of rant.
Like I said earlier every time you have sex with someone new without a condom you will need a test. It is INSANE to do anything else and I sincerely hope people are not going to take your advice about not bothering with basic precautions.
"Read all your posts back. One test in twelve month for an active swinger is irresponsible, even if you only soft swap it still is ludicrous you think its ok. In all honesty if I wouldn't have made such an issue over your checks would you be having one soon, I doubt it, you haven't had a check in your own words for nigh on a year. As you claimed you only have been swinging a year even though you have verifications from 18 month back. its clear to see that you are under the impression that if you don't always penetrate, and use condoms, one check every year or so is fine!! And your trying to preach to me, get a grip get responsible, get checked. The fact you have now admitted that it is time you wad checked but you will get this weekend out of the way as you will be playing with condoms us sickening. The fact your happy to risk your playmates health even though you admit a check is overdue!! Lets hope your playmates font read that, or perhaps you have been open and honest and told them I the 18 months of swinging you have had one test and it was "within 12 month" im sure they will be ecstatic over this fact. | |||
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"I only use condoms for penetrative sex, not orally, so therefore I get tested every 3 months at the very minimum. I dont often have full sex, even when I haven't played I still get tested, because you never know whats lurking and couldn't be picked up on test previously, or for peace of mind."
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" How do you even know we have had penetrative sex with anyone in the last year either? . I can see what point you are trying to get across but from the other end. Even if I have not done penetrative sex I am tested often. To be honest I rarely have full sex. The point the lady was trying to make is that there seems to be some misconception that only doing safer sex means you don't need testing regular I can't see how the lady is making herself look like someone to avoid either. Everyone takes the risks they are happy with. And let's face it we are all grown up enough to know that not everyone is honest on here. So those that state safe sex only often haven't practiced what they preach Just do what's right for you and don't worry about what someone else is doing. Cali Exactly Cali Yet this person pips up on thread after thread giving it holier than though. I know they have had penetrative sex with others as I know some people they have met lol. It annoys me when idiots try to portray me as some dirty irresponsible walking std, I take care of myself and manage the risks, then you get people who make the judgements who think they are invincible when it comes to sexual health cause they use condoms. One check in 18 month and they have the audacity and nerve to judge and call others.... It makes my blood boil
Again I have explained that but you are reading what you want to read. We may or not play in this way this weekend and then it will be time for another test if we do.
Don't pretend you know us by the way because you don't. And if you read our verifications you will find that we have very rarely had penetrative sex and as stated we have been tested since we last did that. However don't let the facts get in the way of rant.
Like I said earlier every time you have sex with someone new without a condom you will need a test. It is INSANE to do anything else and I sincerely hope people are not going to take your advice about not bothering with basic precautions.
Read all your posts back. One test in twelve month for an active swinger is irresponsible, even if you only soft swap it still is ludicrous you think its ok.
In all honesty if I wouldn't have made such an issue over your checks would you be having one soon, I doubt it, you haven't had a check in your own words for nigh on a year. As you claimed you only have been swinging a year even though you have verifications from 18 month back.
its clear to see that you are under the impression that if you don't always penetrate, and use condoms, one check every year or so is fine!!
And your trying to preach to me, get a grip get responsible, get checked.
The fact you have now admitted that it is time you wad checked but you will get this weekend out of the way as you will be playing with condoms us sickening. The fact your happy to risk your playmates health even though you admit a check is overdue!!
Lets hope your playmates font read that, or perhaps you have been open and honest and told them I the 18 months of swinging you have had one test and it was "within 12 month" im sure they will be ecstatic over this fact."How many times do I have to type this.....we have had a test since last we played with anyone else. I really fail to see why we should get tested if we are doing anything unless you know better which you cleraly think you do. I am also perplexed to know how you think you know what went on in any of our meets? Who siad we even had soft play? Do you not consider that we actually enjoy the voyeuristic and exhibitionistic or social side of this? Tell you what you carry on not using the one thing that all the experts know reduces the risks and we will carry on doing the opposite along with 99% of the couples on here. | |||
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