FabSwingers.com forum: “Treat her with respect”

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

No. Too many guys just think they are going to get sex without showing any respect to me as a woman. I am not a piece of meat

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Yeah its pathetic to be honest, and actually disrespectful to a woman. Suggesting she needs the big man warning all the other big bad evil men not to mess with her or he'll come riding to her rescue

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes it's annoying, like you wouldn't treat anyone with respect, or read that and think oh I better do now some randomer said so

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds like simp talk

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

I treat everyone with respect untill they don't do the same in return, then it's usually block and delete

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Respect in the streets,

Between the sheets… that is a whole bunch of jelly donuts that needs exploring.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

always treated people with respect,, its the way i was brought up..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

No, it's basic lamppost pissing

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Don’t people write it because they see everyone else writing it and don’t really know how to write a verification? That was our assumption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s funny as I have it written on one of mine, purely because he didn’t which lead to me having a go at him

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I find it hiliarious ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally cringeworthy and, in my view, unimaginative. It's as if they can't think of enough to say.

I treat everyone with respect. Always have.

This is like a lot of those other things you see on fab that really should go without saying, such as discretion and hygene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like they're saying "This woman had sex with me and I have therefore deemed her worthy of respect."

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

Surely all women deserve to be respected regardless of whether they allow you to have sex with them or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It can be interpreted so many ways.

Only some women are worthy of respect.

Men need to be told to treat this particular woman with respect

Despite the fact that she's on fab you should still respect her

I'm warning you to treat her with respect

Or it's just a throw away line intended to compliment

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It can be interpreted so many ways.

Only some women are worthy of respect.

Men need to be told to treat this particular woman with respect

Despite the fact that she's on fab you should still respect her

I'm warning you to treat her with respect

Or it's just a throw away line intended to compliment

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^^^^ This

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?

Yeah its pathetic to be honest, and actually disrespectful to a woman. Suggesting she needs the big man warning all the other big bad evil men not to mess with her or he'll come riding to her rescue"

This. Very infantilising.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I think most people say it as a compliment but most people seem to misconstrue it as she needs protecting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often used on certain websites when reviewing working girls. An attempt to be respectful but quite the reverse, treat everyone with respect until they earn the right not to be treated so

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I like to respectfully disrespect someone…

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"It’s funny as I have it written on one of mine, purely because he didn’t which lead to me having a go at him "

Youre on here without your husbands knowledge?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Doesn't it go hand in glove with... She sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't it go hand in glove with... She sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils.? "

She looked like a plasterer's radio, swallowed 18 pints of my cum, deep throated my cock while taking 3 cucumbers and a melon up her arse. Treat her with respect guys.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.

No you can’t come to that conclusion at all about the OP !!! All he said is the phrase he found odd in the context he outlined. I find it an odd thing to say because why wouldn’t any decent guy treat a lady with respect?? I’m pretty sure that’s why the OP is saying it’s an odd thing to say in this context.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

#she said. ( fat fingers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.

OP is a woman.

The comment is about the type of man who would use the "treat her with respect" comment on a veri.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.

OP is a woman.

The comment is about the type of man who would use the "treat her with respect" comment on a veri. "

Yes I know I corrected my typo with a hashtag. You didn’t make it clear , I read that differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.

OP is a woman.

The comment is about the type of man who would use the "treat her with respect" comment on a veri.

Yes I know I corrected my typo with a hashtag. You didn’t make it clear , I read that differently "

Someone else posted the words. I posted the thumbs.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's a fab cliche line commonly used.

Often I suspect in the joke of getting a repeat meet. Much like OTT graphic descriptions of sucking like a dyson, riding me for hours and generally being the best shag they've ever had.

Of course you should respect anyone you meet.

But putting that in a verification is as pointless as saying 'she did in fact have a head, two arm, a pair of tis and a vagina'.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It's a fab cliche line commonly used.

Often I suspect in the joke of getting a repeat meet. Much like OTT graphic descriptions of sucking like a dyson, riding me for hours and generally being the best shag they've ever had.

Of course you should respect anyone you meet.

But putting that in a verification is as pointless as saying 'she did in fact have a head, two arm, a pair of tis and a vagina'.

*hope, not joke. Frigging autocarrot

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Omg yes ! Wtf is that about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?

Yeah its pathetic to be honest, and actually disrespectful to a woman. Suggesting she needs the big man warning all the other big bad evil men not to mess with her or he'll come riding to her rescue"

Food for thought!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
its so odd but think about a veri what else can you say...... You can't say her name, you can't give details of what you did so you give a stock answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect yourself firstly,set the stadard then the rest should follow.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? its so odd but think about a veri what else can you say...... You can't say her name, you can't give details of what you did so you give a stock answer

I always thought verifications were about confirming the person you met was who they claim to be in their profile.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.

They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.

They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?"

I think all women should be treated with respect (within reason) not just wives.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

"Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.

They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?

I think all women should be treated with respect (within reason) not just wives. "

I think all people should be treated with respect until they prove otherwise.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.

They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?

I think all women should be treated with respect (within reason) not just wives.

I think all people should be treated with respect until they prove otherwise. "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if anyone has ever put it in a veri on a man’s profile…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fab cliche line commonly used.

Often I suspect in the joke of getting a repeat meet. Much like OTT graphic descriptions of sucking like a dyson, riding me for hours and generally being the best shag they've ever had.

Of course you should respect anyone you meet.

But putting that in a verification is as pointless as saying 'she did in fact have a head, two arm, a pair of tis and a vagina'.

Well said!

There is, I believe, no malice afore thought in this throw away line and it’s for the most part a way in ingratiating one into the verse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if anyone has ever put it in a veri on a man’s profile…"

I suspect most single chaps on Fab would love to feel used and disrespected ...........

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"I wonder if anyone has ever put it in a veri on a man’s profile…"

Guess you will have to do some research there to find out

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I wonder if anyone has ever put it in a veri on a man’s profile…

I suspect most single chaps on Fab would love to feel used and disrespected ..........."

Think the disrespect is for free. Don't need a veri for that. The used bit...is a lot thinner on the ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s become a throw away line, but I get why it became a thing. There are so many total ass hats on here that don’t respect others and just treat this place as a meat market, assuming that if you’re here you must be desperate for a fuck and should be just treated that way.

The one that bugs me is “what can I say about…” I don’t know, that’s why I’m reading this to find out!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Yeah it is. It’s the male equivalent of when women veri and say “I wish I could have him all to myself lol joking”

Both cringe and both ways of trying to assert some sort of ownership over the other person.

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan
over a year ago

London

It's so corny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Quite agree.

It's written by stupid people, and the white knight virtue signalling brigade... And those that find it a virtue to have it said are equally stupid. Like so much of the crap you see today it's completely unnecessary worthless thing to say because any semi intellectual already knows and lives by this obvious concept of respect in general, respect to women and respect to men ..

Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?

Quite agree.

Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates.. "

Are you one of Fabs intellectuals?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

In the real world I would but on Fab not at all because Fab is a land with a bountiful abundance of cringe and irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat everyone with respect in all aspects of life. If they don't they kicked them out of your life.

I can only assume a lot of women get a lot of disrespect which I don't understand. Why be disrespectful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?

Quite agree.

Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates..

Are you one of Fabs intellectuals?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a well meaning attempt at manners that comes across as patronising to some.

It doesn’t actively bother me, but I can understand why it would bother some people x

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

I suspect it was something an OG said back in the day on a veri, and then just got copied relentlessly as an easy sign off (many veris on here tend to read similar, with slight variety in wording)

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I just think it's an annoying phrase.

I would treat ALL women with the respect they deserve.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Not particularly odd. I'm assuming it's meant as a compliment.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I think it means, they probably had none until they met you and found out you weren't the person they assumed you would be

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Had anyone had a verification that says “DON’T treat with respect” that would be interesting

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over a year ago

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Had anyone had a verification that says “DON’T treat with respect” that would be interesting

Vx "

Very interesting. I'm sure their inbox would be pinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?

Quite agree.

Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates.. "

I'd say it's not even about someone's intellect, more a matter of basic courtesy and being a decent human being.

It is a weird virtue-signalling thing to say. Do we need to be told what else to do or not do? "Don't wipe your dick on her curtains then punch here in the face guys..."

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

It serves very little purpose.

For any man who needs to be reminded that he needs to treat a woman with respect will be the very man who has no appetite or any due care to read profiles/verifications, let alone be susceptible to modern manners and common sense.

The remark "...treat her with respect." is an aberration to my intelligence.

If you're going to write that for someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.

If you're going to display that from someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.

It's a great 'double' filter.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't mind it. If someone wants to see it as simping then that's on them. Some people are simply aware of the amount of disrespect offered in general on here and so include that phrase.

If the whole veri is just the usual bland same old then I tend to ignore it and look for the ones that actually say something specific to the person, but having the odd cliche in there isn't the end of the world.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"It serves very little purpose.

The remark "...treat her with respect." is an aberration to my intelligence.

If you're going to write that for someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.

If you're going to display that from someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.

It's a great 'double' filter."

You dont get no respect

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I think it’s a well meaning attempt at manners that comes across as patronising to some.

It doesn’t actively bother me, but I can understand why it would bother some people x"

Agreed

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Surely treating someone with respect is just normal, so yes I'd agree it is an odd thing to write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it slightly strange when it’s written at the end of a very graphic veri where it doesn’t sound like he’s treated her with any respect at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Especially when all you want to do is shoot a load in her fake eyelashes

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By *heHornyWandererMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I don't mind it. If someone wants to see it as simping then that's on them. Some people are simply aware of the amount of disrespect offered in general on here and so include that phrase.

Very much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it slightly strange when it’s written at the end of a very graphic veri where it doesn’t sound like he’s treated her with any respect at all

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
it should be a prerequisite of anyone

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I treat them like Dr. Disrespect: violence, speed, momentum

LvM

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

So do I. Its like every one else is going to be rude and disrespectful to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done things that would make most people's toes curl. I also won't entertain anyone who wasn't respectful in every message. If someone writes that on my veri or I've seen it on others I see done with good intentions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I treat them like Dr. Disrespect: violence, speed, momentum

LvM"

6 foot 8 frame the 37inch vertical leap the black steel that drips down my back a.k.a the bulletproof mullet the google prototype scopes from built-in lcd led 1080p 3D sony technology the ethiopian poisonous Caterpillar- DD

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"“Treat her with respect guys”

Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "

Very odd, I agree. And, frankly, patronising.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Some men show a definite lack of respect.

It could be a warning to other men - show her respect because she will stand up for herself!

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

"No. Too many guys just think they are going to get sex without showing any respect to me as a woman. I am not a piece of meat "

Exactly this.

So many think your a piece of meat and are going to fuck anyone with pulse. Maybe guys are like that, but not us fems.

Get alot of this on my single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Too many guys just think they are going to get sex without showing any respect to me as a woman. I am not a piece of meat

Exactly this.

So many think your a piece of meat and are going to fuck anyone with pulse. Maybe guys are like that, but not us fems.

Get alot of this on my single profile."

From what I hear from lots of females who i chat with regularly they all think the men on here think that this is a cattle market x no respect or manners x but i have got to tell you that there is a lot of respectful and decent guys on here too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It serves very little purpose.

The remark "...treat her with respect." is an aberration to my intelligence.

If you're going to write that for someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.

If you're going to display that from someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.

It's a great 'double' filter."

Absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its annoying, and the 'dont mess her about'

As if theyre the only one that wouldnt, pointless things to say

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