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disliking nipples played with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men seem to find it strange that I dislike this. I mean rough treatment is an instant turn off for me but found recently that even gentle touches I don't really enjoy.

I can kinda put up with it for a short while before I kinda just change positions.

I have recently started to be honest and tell guys up front and they have mostly told me I'm strange

So am I alone in this. I also for the record dislike my Clit having direct touching too

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope not alone i hate having my nipples played with too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my breast played with but I hate the nipple pitching and grabbing its too painful and I don't like it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not for me.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Men seem to find it strange that I dislike this. I mean rough treatment is an instant turn off for me but found recently that even gentle touches I don't really enjoy.

I can kinda put up with it for a short while before I kinda just change positions.

I have recently started to be honest and tell guys up front and they have mostly told me I'm strange

So am I alone in this. I also for the record dislike my Clit having direct touching too

Cali"

Bang goes half of my foreplay routine...

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By *icklybitMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

What about licking or sucking?

Or is it a complete no go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about licking or sucking?

Or is it a complete no go?

"

As I said I can put up with a few minutes of licking but not sucking. Sucking my nipple makes me feel like I'm about to feel sick. Really badly. I just normally avoid this by staying dressed or by getting on my knees. But I can't avoid it always

I avoid Clit play by not letting guys give me oral if I can help it x

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By *icklybitMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Thats a shame because you are very lickable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant say I dislike it but my nipples are really not sensitive so I dont get any enjoyment from it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are very sensitive, and I love them being played with, as it gets my juices flowing in no time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men seem to find it strange that I dislike this. I mean rough treatment is an instant turn off for me but found recently that even gentle touches I don't really enjoy.

I can kinda put up with it for a short while before I kinda just change positions.

I have recently started to be honest and tell guys up front and they have mostly told me I'm strange

So am I alone in this. I also for the record dislike my Clit having direct touching too

Cali"

No your not alone,I'm not a big fan of it either.

Though I do like my clit being played with but gently to start with, because its large people tend to dive in and start sucking it quite hard from the start, that's a big turn off for me. T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sensitive but it just isn't a feeling a enjoy. Glad to see I'm not alone. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just love nipple play mmmm

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I enjoy it. But mine arent overly sensitive at first.

Im not a fan of receiving oral though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gentle touches are ok, you should put germolene on them, stops them getting sore and lots of lube on your clit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"gentle touches are ok, you should put germolene on them, stops them getting sore and lots of lube on your clit."

They don't get sore. I just don't like the sensation. Same with my Clit

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Lol

We are all different.....I love having my nipples played with, that alone can make me soaking wet, like it pretty firmly too almost verging on the ouchy side !!!!!

As for clit play, love that too but much more gently, and both at the same time.......Mmmmmmm, practice multi tasking men !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

We are all different.....I love having my nipples played with, that alone can make me soaking wet, like it pretty firmly too almost verging on the ouchy side !!!!!

As for clit play, love that too but much more gently, and both at the same time.......Mmmmmmm, practice multi tasking men !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt it depend on whos doing it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"doesnt it depend on whos doing it though."

Nope. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nipple are really REALLY sensative, they hurt really easy if handled rough, i love them played with of guys are gentle but to be honest i have found 99% of the male population have no idea what that means so i tend to just try and keep men away from them as id sooner them not be touched at all than hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men seem to find it strange that I dislike this. I mean rough treatment is an instant turn off for me but found recently that even gentle touches I don't really enjoy.

I can kinda put up with it for a short while before I kinda just change positions.

I have recently started to be honest and tell guys up front and they have mostly told me I'm strange

So am I alone in this. I also for the record dislike my Clit having direct touching too

Cali"

amy REALLY loves it i really dont however lat week or so had amy gently suck on them and it felt good, so now i dunno i think it really just depends if im in the mood?

oh also good to see a proud ger on here even though your not up in glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are very sensitive, and I love them being played with, as it gets my juices flowing in no time. "

Agreed, I can orgasm just from my nipples being gently played with and mine are even more sensitive since I had them both pierced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my nipples being played with gently, since having them pierced can't handle rough, too painful lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely lol, gently is the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love my nipples being sucked, kissed and played with. C x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I dislike having oral sex performed on me and lots of guys find that strange, I dislike the sensation but a lot of guys still try and do it......I really don't understand why.

I don't think you're strange Cali if you don't like it, you don't like it and that's the end of it. I read somewhere once that quite a few women dislike having their clit touched directly, apprently it's too senstitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been upfront about what I like and dislike sexually, before I meet up with the gent.

I would always ask the same from the gent in return.

This way, we would spend less time finding out what makes each other tick, and more time on enjoyment instead.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Mine are not sensitive at all, though for a few weeks after radiotherapy my right nipple was really tingly never experienced that before..back to normal now dont think im sensitive anywhere really ..lack of use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate mine being touched big turn off but playing with others is a big turn on for me !

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