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By *aughtynice100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggestions for what... Training your wife.

She is an adult women. If she consents too follow your lead. You tell she does.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How does this fit with her aspiring to dominate you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?"

You know kink.com is just porn right ? It does not reflect real bdsm dynamics.

I would say get yourself on fetlife and go to some local munches.

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?"

If she is truly a sub slut the best thing you can do to encourage her is to make her confident you are very very happy she is the woman she wants to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?"

Feel like there are two topics in one here

You wanting your wife to be submissive slut and you wanting her to Dom you

Totally different situations

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?

Feel like there are two topics in one here

You wanting your wife to be submissive slut and you wanting her to Dom you

Totally different situations "

What if both parties are submissive?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We love kink.com especially the upper floor stuff.

By the sounds of it you both just need to sit down and find out what you’re each looking for and build up from there

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By *aughtynice100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"How does this fit with her aspiring to dominate you ?"

We both enjoy both sides and like to switch

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By *aughtynice100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?

You know kink.com is just porn right ? It does not reflect real bdsm dynamics.

I would say get yourself on fetlife and go to some local munches. "

I know it’s just porn I was talking more about the dynamic rather than the acts

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By *aughtynice100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?

Feel like there are two topics in one here

You wanting your wife to be submissive slut and you wanting her to Dom you

Totally different situations "

I know, we both enjoy switching

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By *aughtynice100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?

Feel like there are two topics in one here

You wanting your wife to be submissive slut and you wanting her to Dom you

Totally different situations

What if both parties are submissive?"

This is something we’ve discussed and if / when we meet a guy that turns regular and we both trust and feel comfortable with , this is a distinct possibility

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By *aughtynice100 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"We love kink.com especially the upper floor stuff.

By the sounds of it you both just need to sit down and find out what you’re each looking for and build up from there"

Same as you , upper floor stuff is the best

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Even proper sub sluts have boundries. You need to reserch and have a conversation between you both about hard and soft boundries. Even then, updating and reflecting with communication is key.

A sub slub will not just be told what to do. It's a dynamic.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Even proper sub sluts have boundries. You need to reserch and have a conversation between you both about hard and soft boundries. Even then, updating and reflecting with communication is key.

A sub slub will not just be told what to do. It's a dynamic. "

Very much agree. In our case there are boundaries which are absolutely solid. Others are flexible and it is these which are so much fun to explore.

My wife and I have been together a lot of years so we understand each other deeply. In her sub role I started to take her out to bars wearing the sorts of slutty outfits that would make a lap dancer blush. She protested vigorously but to her surprise got a huge rush from letting total strangers see or even touch the most intimate parts of her body.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Absolutely this.. I'd do anything for my Dom, but that's if I have wronged him, I will expect to be punished by him, and to him (not to anyone else) A lot of trust goes in to both roles, and would/could be lost in a split second if a ridiculous demand was made.

Mrs CT x
"Even proper sub sluts have boundries. You need to reserch and have a conversation between you both about hard and soft boundries. Even then, updating and reflecting with communication is key.

A sub slub will not just be told what to do. It's a dynamic. "

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"First a little background , my wife loves being dominated and spanked ( not hard it’s not about pain it’s the submission that’s hot ) but she also aspires to dominate me ( which I also love ) I’m sort of cuckold but neither of us are interested in either of us just watching, we both must be fully involved at all times , anyway I digress , the thing is I’m going to start training the wife to be a proper sub slut who does what she’s told when she’s told , for example if I or one of my guests tell her to get to her knees and suck cock , she will do it without hesitation, if anyone has seen any kink.com porn , that’s the type of thing I’m looking for , any suggestions ?

Feel like there are two topics in one here

You wanting your wife to be submissive slut and you wanting her to Dom you

Totally different situations "

That's what I thought too. Not only different but mutually exclusive.

Your journey OP is like being in Manchester & simultaneously setting out for London & Glasgow.

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