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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having been on fab for almost a year now there seems to be almost as many on here that never actually meet as those that do !!!!

Now don't get me wrong , each to their own and all that , but what is the point of being active on a swinging site but never actually doing what supposedly we are all here for ?

Curiosity ?

Just wondered what others thoughts may be ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

on the site or forums ?

I think the percentages of non playing on the forum will be higher than the site due to people staying to enjoy banter with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just like to chat and make friends here and just happy doing that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the point is probably to interact with people and not have to be guarded in what you say. We communicate with a few people that for one reason or another we will either never meet or will only ever meet socially and we enjoy it, it's a big old world and there are many ways to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"on the site or forums ?

I think the percentages of non playing on the forum will be higher than the site due to people staying to enjoy banter with friends."

That makes sense , the original post was general really - we get winks and messages from folk with no meets on a regular basis and half of them have had no meets yet have been here over a year !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some just like to chat and make friends here and just happy doing that."

Which is fine , but wouldn't Facebook be just as good for them ?

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"but wouldn't Facebook be just as good for them ?"

I thought that too when I saw that post.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the point is probably to interact with people and not have to be guarded in what you say. We communicate with a few people that for one reason or another we will either never meet or will only ever meet socially and we enjoy it, it's a big old world and there are many ways to enjoy it"

But you guys are here to meet too !

It's the folk who never meet I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some just like to chat and make friends here and just happy doing that.

Which is fine , but wouldn't Facebook be just as good for them ?"
ture but some like it here better. You get a real mix , xx

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

how do u know who does and who doesnt meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how do u know who does and who doesnt meet ?"

When we get a wink we will message back and ask if they would like to meet for a social - no reply .

A message and a friend request - same as above !

Those with hidden verifications nearly always have the verified tick from webcam !

We are getting good at spotting them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on fab for almost a year now there seems to be almost as many on here that never actually meet as those that do !!!!

Now don't get me wrong , each to their own and all that , but what is the point of being active on a swinging site but never actually doing what supposedly we are all here for ?

Curiosity ?

Just wondered what others thoughts may be ? "

Perhaps they just like the banter, or they may just be into camming! Who knows?

Everyone is on the site for their own reasons!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

but because they decline your invite to meet it doesnt necessarily follow that they dont meet others.

And if the verifications are hidden then how do u know that its a web cam verification ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have been and never would go on Bitch Book.

It seems to cause more trouble and break ups than its worth, there always seems to be some malicious t**t trying to make trouble for others.

Its all, she said, he said, they did this, etc!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because we're not meeting anyone new through the site for the time being doesn't mean we don't meet up with people we already know once in a while.

XXXX

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

true .. weve got a gap of over a year on our verifications yet we met loads of people during that time however we choose not to add verifications to our profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but because they decline your invite to meet it doesnt necessarily follow that they dont meet others.

And if the verifications are hidden then how do u know that its a web cam verification ?"

Simple really , when we get past the introductory stage with messages we ask if we can see their verifications .

And why wink or message if you are not interested in meeting ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think the point is probably to interact with people and not have to be guarded in what you say. We communicate with a few people that for one reason or another we will either never meet or will only ever meet socially and we enjoy it, it's a big old world and there are many ways to enjoy it"

I agree, the social non meet side is a good reason for being on here, even if for me, it's not the primary reason. I like the opportunity to talk sex with people that I could never could outside of here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just because we're not meeting anyone new through the site for the time being doesn't mean we don't meet up with people we already know once in a while.

XXXX"

Again - you have met !

It's not folk like yourselves I am referring to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got the silent perv types who are on solely for that reason..

As already stated the ones who find the swinging scene intrigues them to a degree they will interact in forums, chatrooms and even messages but cannot go through with a meet or who don't want to cross that line for risking their relationship or through sheer nerves will never meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've got the silent perv types who are on solely for that reason..

As already stated the ones who find the swinging scene intrigues them to a degree they will interact in forums, chatrooms and even messages but cannot go through with a meet or who don't want to cross that line for risking their relationship or through sheer nerves will never meet.

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This is more on the lines of what we were thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had break from swinging and dogging because of priorities and changes in circumstances.

We are just finding our feet again, so taking things at a steady pace.

We used to be on the lookout for a bit if fun and have had some really hot and steamy experiences with some really good people, it just seems like things have changed a little on how we got used to doing things, people seem to be less patient and expect instant filth *just add water* meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have had break from swinging and dogging because of priorities and changes in circumstances.

We are just finding our feet again, so taking things at a steady pace.

We used to be on the lookout for a bit if fun and have had some really hot and steamy experiences with some really good people, it just seems like things have changed a little on how we got used to doing things, people seem to be less patient and expect instant filth *just add water* meets.

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I hope you are not referring to us with that statement !

We are not suggesting everyone should be out there doing this , that or anything else - just saying that some on fab clearly have no intention of doing any swinging so why bother being on here ?

It's like me joining an angling site having never fished or never intending to - why bother ?

It's true that the liberating way one can discuss sexual matters on here may be enough for some - but that could be done on any number of other social networking sites !

Certainly there was no intention on my part to upset genuine folk like you

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