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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch, hard one to take. Anyone else ever been friendZoned on here and managed to get out and play?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, because I value my friends and respect their interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friend without benefits zone ?

I don’t try to get out of it as it quite pleasant to talk to pp who do not want to fuck you all the time.

It is exhausting to be seen as a piece of meat

#reversePyschology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it until i stop fearing the guilt of joy and if that day never comes il be okay too

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

The swinging lifestyle is as much social as it is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the spark isn't there, it isn't there.

(I've even friendzoned someone I DO have a spark with! Sometimes things don't work out)

If you get on as friends, great, it is good to have friends from this place, it may even lead to socials and meeting fab friends of fab friends that you DO have a spark with.

If there is no spark and the friendship is false, move on politely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What does friendzoned mean? Someone wants to be your friend?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I love that I can have normal conversations with people without there being any pressure.

We’re a sociable pair, friends last longer than fucks!

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Ouch, hard one to take. Anyone else ever been friendZoned on here and managed to get out and play? "

???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The friend without benefits zone ?

I don’t try to get out of it as it quite pleasant to talk to pp who do not want to fuck you all the time.

It is exhausting to be seen as a piece of meat

#reversePyschology"

Hate to break it to ya but I wanna fuck you to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love that I can have normal conversations with people without there being any pressure.

We’re a sociable pair, friends last longer than fucks!

"

Tell you what lasts longer than fab and bearded. Me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does friendzoned mean? Someone wants to be your friend?"

Think it's a way women feel they need to let down men because the man cannot accept rejection very well and it's hurts their ego.

Its a bit of shit phrase and mostly there to make men feel better about themselves essentially.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What does friendzoned mean? Someone wants to be your friend?

Think it's a way women feel they need to let down men because the man cannot accept rejection very well and it's hurts their ego.

Its a bit of shit phrase and mostly there to make men feel better about themselves essentially. "

I rarely hear women use the phrase unless it's on Naked Attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does friendzoned mean? Someone wants to be your friend?

Think it's a way women feel they need to let down men because the man cannot accept rejection very well and it's hurts their ego.

Its a bit of shit phrase and mostly there to make men feel better about themselves essentially. "

men friendzone women too.

Pxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Is being on the friendzone seen as a bad thing essentially or does it depend on if you want to have sex with someone?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What does friendzoned mean? Someone wants to be your friend?

Think it's a way women feel they need to let down men because the man cannot accept rejection very well and it's hurts their ego.

Its a bit of shit phrase and mostly there to make men feel better about themselves essentially.

I rarely hear women use the phrase unless it's on Naked Attraction "

I tend to say "they're not interested in me, that's ok"

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Either you're someone's friend or you're trying to manipulate them through a pretence of friendship to have sex with you.

Pick one.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"I love that I can have normal conversations with people without there being any pressure.

We’re a sociable pair, friends last longer than fucks!

Tell you what lasts longer than fab and bearded. Me "

Swooooon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does friendzoned mean? Someone wants to be your friend?

Think it's a way women feel they need to let down men because the man cannot accept rejection very well and it's hurts their ego.

Its a bit of shit phrase and mostly there to make men feel better about themselves essentially.

I rarely hear women use the phrase unless it's on Naked Attraction "

Exactly, rarely used. It is implied by the person with further intentions as a way of compensating for their rejection.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think the bigger issue is that you've sexzoned a woman who has no interest in you, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The friend without benefits zone ?

I don’t try to get out of it as it quite pleasant to talk to pp who do not want to fuck you all the time.

It is exhausting to be seen as a piece of meat

#reversePyschology

Hate to break it to ya but I wanna fuck you to the max "

Well if it is asked nicely why the hell not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I agree with many of the comments above, but I have myself been friend-zoned not long ago. I believe the spark was there (otherwise he faked it flawlessly) but for unknown reasons and misunderstandings, I ended up with the usual: we have so much in common, I’d like to stay friends (platonic, mind me). It hurts, specially being a person that doesn’t open to other people often and being a neurodivergent with rejection sensitivity dysphoria, and it is the reason I’m not currently meeting. If you don’t face any of this issues, I think is safe to say you’d be able to get out there and enjoy the scene once you’ve reflected in what has happened. Wish you luck

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i dont use the site for ''online friends'' im here to meet i only friend people who ive met and want to meet again nobody goes on my friends list until they are face to face friends ..

i get friends request all the time im not here to ego boost or prick tease or chat about anything the site has a purpose for me and thats how i choose to use it im too busy in life for it to be anyother way ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been friend zoned, it's just a fact of life at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we have to label everything "friend zoned" wtf

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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I've been friend zoned, it's just a fact of life at times "

Yeah everyone goes through this at one point or another. The key is how you respond in the face of rejection. Don't let them walk away thinking they dodged a bullet by being an ass about it.

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