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Why do some men Touch and rub too hard on boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find sometimes I got to tell the man gently with my boobs when playing as some of as ladys are Sensitive

Don't get the turn on why so in the need to go and try be Too rough with they hands

Just Curious to find out

People's views

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe they think they are stress relievers?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Porn most likely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a good one lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would also like to point out that some women go at a guy as if they're trying to detach his genitals ....Ouch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like it rough. I like my slapped.

But i agree it's probably porn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would also like to point out that some women go at a guy as if they're trying to detach his genitals ....Ouch... "

Did not think of that but to be fair I am always gentle when Touching a man's genitals

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By *ARKblondeCouple
over a year ago

london


"Would also like to point out that some women go at a guy as if they're trying to detach his genitals ....Ouch...

Did not think of that but to be fair I am always gentle when Touching a man's genitals "

I think you're going to have to prove that...

Mr D

Xxx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think it could be a combination of things. Maybe it's porn. Maybe other women have liked that. Mayne they get a bit too excited and just want to grab boobs because they're so in the moment. Speak up and say or show them how you like your boobs being played with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u I do tell them now

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By *heekyboy69Man
over a year ago

Essex

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Lack of experience, excited maybe, rough etc etc

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By *heekyboy69Man
over a year ago

Essex

Soft and gentle they need to be explored , unless the lady say otherwise

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Experience and porn probably

Until you know what someone likes take it steady or ask has always been my moto

Couple I had the pleasure of been with recently she loved them been played with really hard and her nipples bitten but that was for her to say and me to ask

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I find sometimes I got to tell the man gently with my boobs when playing as some of as ladys are Sensitive

Don't get the turn on why so in the need to go and try be Too rough with they hands

Just Curious to find out

People's views "
I knew a girl who adored her nipples being squeezed really hard when we came together. Some like gentle. I'm happy to support the lady's needs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I find sometimes I got to tell the man gently with my boobs when playing as some of as ladys are Sensitive

Don't get the turn on why so in the need to go and try be Too rough with they hands

Just Curious to find out

People's views I knew a girl who adored her nipples being squeezed really hard when we came together. Some like gentle. I'm happy to support the lady's needs "
lol aren't we all

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I dunno I’ve had lots of times where guys punch and yank my nipples and it’s a turn off not on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women like it some done. Same reason I expect as to why some women try and yank a nob clean off when giving a handjob, some people have no sense of how rough they're being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I've found women like gentle caressing, sucking, at first and as they get more turned on, increasing the pressure and intensity as they approach orgasm..HOWEVER, everyone is different and you will need to tell us (men or women) how you like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I've found women like gentle caressing, sucking, at first and as they get more turned on, increasing the pressure and intensity as they approach orgasm..HOWEVER, everyone is different and you will need to tell us (men or women) how you like it."

You so Spot on that

Thank u

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"I find sometimes I got to tell the man gently with my boobs when playing as some of as ladys are Sensitive

Don't get the turn on why so in the need to go and try be Too rough with they hands

Just Curious to find out

People's views "
do the same to his conkers he’ll soon learn his lesson

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I'd always start being gentle with a new partners bits, unless I'd been given a heads-up on what she liked.

Much better to be asked to be firmer if you're being too gentle, than to be asked to he gentler, and subsequently knowing you might have caused them some discomfort.

As always, communication is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a male perspective, female skin is so soft and gentle to the touch but the breasts are so much more softer and smoother enticing a man in a little bit too much lol. Breast skin/tissue feels completely different to the touch. Just my opinion (which doesnt usually matter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boobs arent very sensitive at all, so I usually have the opposite experience and have to encourage a firmer approach.

Maybe give people a heads up that yours are sensitive

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Because some women like them to be touched roughly. I find the best thing to do is tell someone to stop doing something if I am not enjoying it or to touch me more softly if they are being too rough .I would hope if i was doing something to someone that they didn't like they would tell me as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me. "

Calm down Shaggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be gentle

Running my hands over them slightly, kissing, licking, gentle sucks on the nipples

I mean it's what I enjoy in nipple play so just try to do what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy being less than gentle when playing with boobs.

But like 99% of answers on here:

Some people like it.. some don't... communication is key

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

To be honest. Some of us get overly excited and forget to listen. Usually a smack around the chops reminds us the tits are attached to another human who actually has needs and feelings too.

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By *avy234Man
over a year ago

birmingham Shirley

Some men get exited with breasts, a girlfriend covered her breasts with her hands during and I learned.

Her nipples were quite sensitive, other women like manipulation. It is personal taste.

If you like I could give you my opinion on your breasts just holding making the nipples stand to attention, your choice

Michael

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

this is a big provlem with quite a few men to a point i now tell them before play my boobs are sanative and any rought play is a no no when it comes to my boobs ... not all women are built the same my boobs used to be fine but i had a small op to remove a very tiny lump and ever since so sensitive

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset


"I find sometimes I got to tell the man gently with my boobs when playing as some of as ladys are Sensitive

Don't get the turn on why so in the need to go and try be Too rough with they hands

Just Curious to find out

People's views "

Because they don’t have boobs so they have no idea how it feels.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

When I’m playing with a new girl I ask questions while I’m playing. Is this ok, do you want harder or softer etc. Fingers in pussy for instance, some girls love the GSpot pushed hard and some like it gently played with. Sammi for instance does not enjoy her clit being licked or played with that much.

People need to be more expressive about what they like but equally, people should be willing to ask and not assume they know this person’s body. Everyone is different.

Sammi loves her tits manhandled and she likes a slap on the ribs … that ain’t for everyone haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood tbh. I’m certainly not shy in letting someone know how I want my breasts to be touched.

I’d rather someone let me know how they want to be touched as well.

We all enjoy different things and it’s certainly fun finding out

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By *avy234Man
over a year ago

birmingham Shirley

Point taken She covered her breasts when I overdid manipulation.She had nipples were well sensitive.

She explained by holding my testicles and I her breasts.

i had some in house training

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By *avy234Man
over a year ago

birmingham Shirley

A woman I knew liked her nipples roughly rolled so much so that I backed off.

Every body is different, if you ask and give what they want you get invited back

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By *o so quiet onesCouple
over a year ago

Scarborough


"Personally I've found women like gentle caressing, sucking, at first and as they get more turned on, increasing the pressure and intensity as they approach orgasm..HOWEVER, everyone is different and you will need to tell us (men or women) how you like it."

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's tricky because whenever you touch yourself you dynamically change pressure and position of hands instantly to the most comfortable or pleasurable touch on the fly. On someone else you don't have that real-time instantly feedback.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Personally I've found women like gentle caressing, sucking, at first and as they get more turned on, increasing the pressure and intensity as they approach orgasm..HOWEVER, everyone is different and you will need to tell us (men or women) how you like it.

You so Spot on that

Thank u "

It’s the opposite for some women

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I find sometimes I got to tell the man gently with my boobs when playing as some of as ladys are Sensitive

Don't get the turn on why so in the need to go and try be Too rough with they hands

Just Curious to find out

People's views "

some women like it rough and if that's only the type of women they've been with then they think all women are like that.

Even penises follow the same. Some men are super rough with their penis and balls and some men do not even like their foreskin pulled back.

You just have to be considerate and ask your partner what they like and be brave enough to be vocal about what you like and what you don't like.

Porn also doesn't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me.

Calm down Shaggy"

just spotted that

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By *n Too DeepMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Too hard? U mean theres a too hard? Is this where ive been going wrong? Im trying to start a fire

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