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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you had a fab meet and couldn't get hard

It hasn't happened to me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised this thread isn't inundated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apparently it happens often

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Oh, I'm going to need an extra large bag of popcorn for this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip for newbies to swinging,

Practice using condoms before the meet, how I dunno, wank with them on?

Not being used to the break in play to put a condom on, or not used to the feeling of a condom on, added to nerves, can make it difficult for some men to stay hard.

And some people can be horrid about it given they've hyped up what the meet will be like,

but it happens, and anyone who is nasty about it deserves a poke in the eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens but it's not a big deal. It's a lot of pressure to perform for men so sometimes their brain can over rule.

Just help them relax and feel comfortable, that's our job as their play partner.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Yes sadly at a club took a guy back and he couldn’t. Such is life! We just move on and hope it wasn’t seeing nude that did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had it once when the guy we’d invited couldn’t get it up.

We tried to help him and tried to chill everything out for a bit but it just wasn’t going to happen.

We insist on verified by couples now.

At least we know they’ve been in a 3sum and it worked for them.

Fantasy doesn’t always translate sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it does happen

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I had a meet with a woman and when it came to it - I just couldn’t get hard. Didn’t help that I was stood outside a chip shop on my own because the arsehole never turned up. Disappeared without a trace off site never to be seen again. Other than that - not had a problem- yet!!

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Only time it happened to me was I was going hammer and tongs with a lady but was surrounded by lots of single men who were groping both of us, eventually we just gave up the ghost. I walked out the room and a young lady grabbed me a asked me to give her a pounding like I'd just done. For the first and so far only time I just couldn't get hard. I don't think she took it personal.

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By *o_boxersMan
over a year ago

solihull

I get worried it’s going to go the opposite way and get to excited to fast

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I though this was cock cage fight

But that will be another post

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .

He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.

We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .

He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.

We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out "

Sounds like tht guy was a genius.

Honestly, I can't get hard. So 3 ladies have to suck me & rim me to help.

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By *o_boxersMan
over a year ago

solihull


"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .

He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.

We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out "

I got hard just reading this

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .

He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.

We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out

Sounds like tht guy was a genius.

Honestly, I can't get hard. So 3 ladies have to suck me & rim me to help. "

Yea that’s what the rest of us thought. But his girlfriend was well pissed. So she started to show off with us to indicate her frustration with him. She was particularly dirty trying to provoke him.

He was obviously disappointed but was pretty cool about it all afterwards.

They contacted us later to say he performed perfectly when they got home

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Have you had a fab meet and couldn't get hard

It hasn't happened to me yet "

I get like this at clubs, there's something about an old man with his dick out that just makes me soft

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Have you had a fab meet and couldn't get hard

It hasn't happened to me yet

I get like this at clubs, there's something about an old man with his dick out that just makes me soft "

There are some grim sights in clubs for sure. Lol

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It can happen.

Not necessarily stage fright but more condoms killing it for me!

Usually quickly sort it out though and on with proceedings!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .

He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.

We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out

Sounds like tht guy was a genius.

Honestly, I can't get hard. So 3 ladies have to suck me & rim me to help. "

Now that's what you call 'control' lol! Fair play to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago I had a MMFF, things were going well but suddenly "my guy"lost it, I took him to another room we had a chat realised what the problem was,I got him to "relax" and nice and hard again and back we went to resume play with my friend's, both guy's went home Happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this issue once in a past meet

Bif of stage fright

Got through it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have suffered with it, thankfully the wife was on hand (literally) to get things back on track.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Yes

It is far more common than many would admit

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

It’s happened to be twice

1st time: Been chatting to this gorgeous lady getting on great. Then when we meet she was so quiet & flat I just lost interest. When got up to leave she said let’s go to the bedroom. Proceeded but she just laid there no kissing or foreplay my mind and Willy wasn’t into it no boner.

2nd time: Had not drank enough that day busy day at work got to meet and had wine chatting before the fun. Now my fellow Comrade gifted downstairs will know ‘dehydration affects your BP’ & it takes a lot to bring up a big cock haha

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By *ruckingscouser69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

It happened to me in a club, it was a bit disheartening for me, I was fucking a 21 year old girl in the ass at the time, hopefully she didn't take it personally.

Cock rings help, I've recently discovered, give them a try guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boss has had stage fright before, however there is more to meets than using a cock. That's where hands and mouyhs come into play until the stage fright goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. And probably will experience it again in the future.

But I have noticed that the reaction of the partner you are with at the moment it happens, makes a huge difference.

Either it will help you, or make you feel even more emasculated.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Boss has had stage fright before, however there is more to meets than using a cock. That's where hands and mouyhs come into play until the stage fright goes. "

Just that

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