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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I absolutely LOVE sucking on a throbbing clit

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

At the risk of sounding self-aggrandising, you just haven't met the right man yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men don't seem to truly understand much about a womens body.

I once had a guy ask if I wouldn't use my dildos for a week before meeting them because it stretches me out... Lll

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Ooh ooh! I know the answer to this!

Because they can't find the fucker in the first place.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

You obviously been meeting the wrong men

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

It’s all about licking the clit not sucking or nibbling for me.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I know what I'm doing with one. Does using a satisfyer count as cheating?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i dont know which men neglect it,, but heres one that doesnt,

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I know what I'm doing with one. Does using a satisfyer count as cheating?"

Totally cheating. I ban toys from my sessions as I end up enjoying the toys more than my lover lol

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By *immerman100Man
over a year ago

Never never land


"At the risk of sounding self-aggrandising, you just haven't met the right man yet. "

I get my pleasure from pleasuring women specially in the clit area

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

Most guys I know can't wait to get at mine and really know what they are doing.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it… "

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

...trying to remember where it is,....on the tip of my tongue....oh yes got it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it… "

Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men "

Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job....

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face "
behave that’s a classic multiple orgasm!!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men

Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed "

My past lovers ranged from rocket scientist to salemans but most had no clue of the clit. Very disappointing

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "

Im quite happy from this that im not ‘ most men!’ Then - i know my way round a woman - and i always go the scenic route.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had no problem with Mr W&W or the ladies we have played with giving mine the proper attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face "

Then they think you’ve enjoyed it because your legs were shaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand why (some) men dont make more of an effort pleasuring the clit or if they dont know how to find it, make the effort to learn,

I find that when im licking the clit and doing it well, the lady im with always gives a good response to what im doing (i.e body movements or moaning etc ) which turns me on more and ends up with both of us enjoying it more.

MAKE THE EFFORD LADS !

rant over

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

maybe you should have give them some guidance,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe you should have give them some guidance,,"

Sugar puff training Coarse

That be thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a clit?

Mr

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"What's a clit?

Mr "

I think Arthur C Clarke dedicated an episode of Mysterious Universe to the search for the Clit

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its someting between a scientist ears,

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By *agusMan
over a year ago

Near by

Very willing to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a clit?

Mr

I think Arthur C Clarke dedicated an episode of Mysterious Universe to the search for the Clit "

Did he ever find out what it is. Or did it end up alongside nessy as a mythical made up thing?

Mr

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Oh my gosh women have clits?? Wow, this has opened my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face

Then they think you’ve enjoyed it because your legs were shaking "

I know right? Thing is I was very verbal about not enjoying what he was doing (in a gentle way mind me) and he kept doing the same regardless

Needless to say I got dressed and left

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Most are incredibly selfish and not in awe of the female body. Many don't seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure either, simply taking what they want. No wonder we struggle finding anyone here these days...

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most are incredibly selfish and not in awe of the female body. Many don't seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure either, simply taking what they want. No wonder we struggle finding anyone here these days..."

Your Smash doors back in to love - anagram!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or I find a lot tend to know where it is and how to pleasure it but just don’t have the patience to stay there long enough to make you finish.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Unfortunately it's true...most have no clue...

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By *ocopops1962Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men

Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed

My past lovers ranged from rocket scientist to salemans but most had no clue of the clit. Very disappointing "

I’m all about the Clit and the G-Spot x

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By *ay-89Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave.

Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed.

It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more!

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

Love to suck clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rule never enter a women until I have licked her to orgasm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

I never neglect it xx

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

Love licking pussy, and especially the clit. Really enjoy giving pleasure this way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Unfortunately it's true...most have no clue... "

Most but not all

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave.

Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed.

It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! "

So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm sorry I just find this hard to believe, everyone knows where the clit is... it's right there at the bottom of the vagina

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By *rgrey14Man
over a year ago

london

I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states.

Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O come and see me. I know what to do with it

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states.

Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction. "

All your comment proves you have no clue about how to pleasure a woman from your critical remark about my profile. I won't lower myself to decimate your profile as I'm not that childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow just wow

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 14/11/22 23:12:14]

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London

Oh no

Play nicely.

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By *rgrey14Man
over a year ago

london


"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states.

Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction.

All your comment proves you have no clue about how to pleasure a woman from your critical remark about my profile. I won't lower myself to decimate your profile as I'm not that childish."

Was just an observation of your profile certainly was not critical remarks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I've heard from friends that guys don't know where it is, is when they have huge dicks and assume that's all they need...

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The only time I've heard from friends that guys don't know where it is, is when they have huge dicks and assume that's all they need... "

Huge cocks doesn't make you a great lover. It takes alot to pleasure a woman which from my experience most younger men have not much of clue about. Just incase you're wondering, i have a handful of amazing lovers who made me cum multiple times in a night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Really?? You aint had much luck of late? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men don't seem to truly understand much about a womens body.

I once had a guy ask if I wouldn't use my dildos for a week before meeting them because it stretches me out... Lll"

Way more true, than people assume so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men

Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed "

But intelligent articulate men doesn’t equate to a good person or someone who is great in bed… gym fit and attractive also doesn’t equate to self absorbed.

The best sex I had was with a guy who was gym fit, attractive and cared about his appearance. The worst? An average Joe with a corporate job so pretty intelligent, and yet he thought trying (and failing) to ram as many fingers inside as possible was going to turn me on…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all about licking the clit not sucking or nibbling for me. "

its all in the long licks. At a smooth-operator flowingly rate and preassure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or I find a lot tend to know where it is and how to pleasure it but just don’t have the patience to stay there long enough to make you finish. "

This is spot on. I always find it’s the ones who brag about who great at oral they are aswell… when they say that I know I’m in for disappointment.

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London

Love nothing more than enjoying a lovely clit myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont know which men neglect it,, but heres one that doesnt,"

2nd that mate. We are silently qualified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what I'm doing with one. Does using a satisfyer count as cheating?

Totally cheating. I ban toys from my sessions as I end up enjoying the toys more than my lover lol"

Toys will be the future curve .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the risk of sounding self-aggrandising, you just haven't met the right man yet.

I get my pleasure from pleasuring women specially in the clit area "

Kissing. And clit attention leads to pleasùredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men "

What has intelligence have anything to do with the subject at hand??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men

Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed "

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to know oneself first. Then only we may grasp what others may have to far offer what the eyes cannot see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men "

Are you a giver?? Or a taker?? Sex wise. And otherwis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I go for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "

Your man you yearn for! Has not been born yet! Lol.

Be the women whom will inspire a man to become what ýou so yearn and want him to be.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Love a nice little pussy literally my favourite thing to spend time licking a lush clit with my big tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…

Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men

Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed

My past lovers ranged from rocket scientist to salemans but most had no clue of the clit. Very disappointing "

Our choices are a reflection of what we are and we attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand why (some) men dont make more of an effort pleasuring the clit or if they dont know how to find it, make the effort to learn,

I find that when im licking the clit and doing it well, the lady im with always gives a good response to what im doing (i.e body movements or moaning etc ) which turns me on more and ends up with both of us enjoying it more.

MAKE THE EFFORD LADS !

rant over "

Nothing is taught well here. Esp sex education!! Lousy kissers. Lousy clit pleasers. Lousy cock suckers. Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Most are incredibly selfish and not in awe of the female body. Many don't seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure either, simply taking what they want. No wonder we struggle finding anyone here these days..."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave.

Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed.

It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! "

Cum and go heh.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

Guys just so you know the head of the clit is only the head of it, there's the shaft and the legs (corpus cavernosum) that run down the outer lips, vestibular bulbs (inside inner lips). Then inside but still erectile tissue and part of clit is the G spot, P spot and A spot. Seriously if you wish to get a lady into the 10s of orgasms learn them well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave.

Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed.

It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more!

So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion "

What do you offer?

1) the brain needs tickling.

2) eye contact,touch,foreplay kissing,petting, oral vice verse.

Set the mood etc etc.

Make any sense.

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By *uzy1969Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm going to change my name to clit so my ex can't find me

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Because they're selfish.

Though, to be honest, we're just not educated about that stuff. Most men I know still think the clit is that bit at the top. Very few are aware how big the clit is and how even "vaginal orgasms" are due to the clit.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave.

Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed.

It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more!

So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion

What do you offer?

1) the brain needs tickling.

2) eye contact,touch,foreplay kissing,petting, oral vice verse.

Set the mood etc etc.

Make any sense. "

17 posts in the last hour, you think you could summarise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry I just find this hard to believe, everyone knows where the clit is... it's right there at the bottom of the vagina "

Nope!! Look at the forehead middle. Eye contact. Speak engage a little by little. One should be on the way!

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'm going to change my name to clit so my ex can't find me "
do you like your clit being licked and sucked on x

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Sadly men's tongues & fingers can't seem to vibrate or give as much pressure on your clit as a vibrator can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states.

Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction. "

Food for thought dear watson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

corrrr this thread seems to have put a bee in the bonnet of a few people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states.

Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction.

All your comment proves you have no clue about how to pleasure a woman from your critical remark about my profile. I won't lower myself to decimate your profile as I'm not that childish.

Was just an observation of your profile certainly was not critical remarks. "

Fab childs play. After its a play ground,we come and we go.

Watson.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …"

WTF are you talking about?

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By *uzy1969Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I'm going to change my name to clit so my ex can't find me do you like your clit being licked and sucked on x"
depends if he knows what he's doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time I've heard from friends that guys don't know where it is, is when they have huge dicks and assume that's all they need...

Huge cocks doesn't make you a great lover. It takes alot to pleasure a woman which from my experience most younger men have not much of clue about. Just incase you're wondering, i have a handful of amazing lovers who made me cum multiple times in a night "

Such fine details shared here. So plain openly. I say!!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

My man finds mine just fine

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Mine jumps when you find her clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave.

Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed.

It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more!

So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion

What do you offer?

1) the brain needs tickling.

2) eye contact,touch,foreplay kissing,petting, oral vice verse.

Set the mood etc etc.

Make any sense.

17 posts in the last hour, you think you could summarise?

"

Go ahead!

You had time to read heh. Always a cleaver stuart about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love licking clit

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Love slowly rolling my tongue around the mrs clit, especially when her legs start shaking

The mr

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By *leased2meetUMan
over a year ago

manchester

Nothing more enjoyable than going down on, playing with/tasting a nice wet clut/Fanny and feel the lady squirm around with pleasure ummm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

…… It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion

"

Which is interesting because it’s the only part of the human body that it’s only purpose is for sexual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

My husband has no problems but that’s only because he knows me so well.

We are all different and like different things so maybe we should help steer the men in the right direction so they know what we like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of times ive asked what she likes and she just doesnt answer me. So frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men don't seem to truly understand much about a womens body.

I once had a guy ask if I wouldn't use my dildos for a week before meeting them because it stretches me out... Lll"

Hahaha no he didn’t!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

He has no problem finding mine - had a glorious grind on his face at the weekend and my clit was certainly not neglected

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"

…… It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion

Which is interesting because it’s the only part of the human body that it’s only purpose is for sexual pleasure. "

I get turned on on other parts of my body but my clit is sure way of making me orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any ladies would like a hobbyist clit licker feel free to inbox me (steady..not all at once)

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Wow sounds like youve been unlucky

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …

WTF are you talking about? "

I do find this quite often. But try to communicate what you want and some people just take it as read as what they were doing was wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never found a girl shy in helping tell me where she likes my tongue and fingers, and feeling her hands guide my head is so sexy as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this?"

She has never complained to me?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this?

She has never complained to me?"

To be fair, her mouth was full at the time.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Hubby knows exactly where mine is and has a long list of ways to play with it which gives me a huge amount of pleasure. Some nights that’s all he does and it still leaves me Bambi legged and all but cross eyed.

I’ve had partners before we got together who wouldn’t have known where it was or what to do with it if I’d handed them a set of instructions, a map, compass and a flashing neon sign.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Hubby knows exactly where mine is and has a long list of ways to play with it which gives me a huge amount of pleasure. Some nights that’s all he does and it still leaves me Bambi legged and all but cross eyed.

I’ve had partners before we got together who wouldn’t have known where it was or what to do with it if I’d handed them a set of instructions, a map, compass and a flashing neon sign. "

Yes exactly that. You describe, point to it...they still have no clue so all you do is straight sex which to me is unfulfilling. I enjoy the whole journey, especially foreplay

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this?

She has never complained to me?"

Women generally don't tell men when they're not turning them on. Most fake it to have an easier life. Personally, I move on as last time I told a guy, he disagreed and ended up in bit of an argument with him leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Your hypothesis that most men neglect the clitoris can not be substantiated that is unless you have made love to most men?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

‘Most men’ you have met obviously……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this?

She has never complained to me?

Women generally don't tell men when they're not turning them on. Most fake it to have an easier life. Personally, I move on as last time I told a guy, he disagreed and ended up in bit of an argument with him leaving. "

A tender subject ( pun intended) no doubt but how did you broach the delicate matter that caused an altercation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

‘Most men’ you have met obviously…… "

I don’t meet men?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Maybe you haven’t got one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! I know exactly where it is and how to tease it..... evidenced by the phrase' OMG, don't stop!' LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men... Here we go again. If most of the men you've been with don't satisfy you then ask why that might be rather than a blanket 'most men'.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

‘Most men’ you have met obviously……

I don’t meet men?"

Really?? Oh dear typical run away from the issues solution, well done

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

The people who reply with scarky remarks just proves to others of their attitude and personality. I know who to definitely avoid so keep them coming lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ knows which men you’ve been meeting.

Real blokes no how to touch, suck, lick and kiss the bean.

Personally, I try to make sure that a clitoral orgasm is achieved before I even think about penetration and searching that G-Spot out.

Makes for a much ‘wetter’ experience if you understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I checked on Google maps, I couldn’t even find it in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found that this is one of the weaknesses of casual sex… you can never assume men will reciprocate orally or that your orgasm will be as much a priority as their own.

I work around this by stating clearly and unequivocally upfront what I enjoy and expect. If they look like terrified boys when I do, or tell me they “don’t do that” then I ask for their reasons and politely walk away. No point starting something that will leave you unsatisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

Your hypothesis that most men neglect the clitoris can not be substantiated that is unless you have made love to most men?"

She’s obviously referring to most men she has met, in her experience.

No need to “Not all men” this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Communication is key op

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Your gonna have to show me Cherry then I can be sure I'm doing the job right x

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Manchester for a bit, Usually Dundee and around


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Sounds like you are meeting the wrong guys...

I love to spend time exploring how a lady likes to have her clit pleasured.... and as my veris will confirm, I have a little party trick that drives most ladies wild....

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.

This goes for women as well as men.

It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.

A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.

A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.

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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago

High Wycombe (ish)


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Definitely enjoy teasing and playing with the clit... But, being honest, I'm better with a finger than my tongue (even though I love going down on a lady)!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "

I can do that with shallow entry and just hold that position. The teasing really works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

‘Most men’ you have met obviously……

I don’t meet men?

Really?? Oh dear typical run away from the issues solution, well done "

Really? Is there a solution to this issue?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "
I do I never neglect a clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who reply with scarky remarks just proves to others of their attitude and personality. I know who to definitely avoid so keep them coming lol.

"

Sarcasm is the highest form of wit, I am told. I do keep them coming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ knows which men you’ve been meeting.

Real blokes no how to touch, suck, lick and kiss the bean.

Personally, I try to make sure that a clitoral orgasm is achieved before I even think about penetration and searching that G-Spot out.

Makes for a much ‘wetter’ experience if you understand."

The mark of a man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.

This goes for women as well as men.

It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.

A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.

A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn. "

Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.

This goes for women as well as men.

It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.

A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.

A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.

Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you. "

Who is annoyed?

Over generalising self entitled posts are there to be commented on. This is a recreational sex site forum or am I being obtuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.

This goes for women as well as men.

It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.

A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.

A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.

Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you.

Who is annoyed?

Over generalising self entitled posts are there to be commented on. This is a recreational sex site forum or am I being obtuse?"

There’s a few who come across as being annoyed, including you.

As I said, if you’re not bad at oral this post really shouldn’t warrant such a negative response.

Someone referenced women not being all that good at oral to completion and nobody batted an eyelid… none of the women in the thread got their back up or complained of it being an over generalisation. I wonder why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!

A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.

This goes for women as well as men.

It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.

A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.

A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.

Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you.

Who is annoyed?

Over generalising self entitled posts are there to be commented on. This is a recreational sex site forum or am I being obtuse?

There’s a few who come across as being annoyed, including you.

As I said, if you’re not bad at oral this post really shouldn’t warrant such a negative response.

Someone referenced women not being all that good at oral to completion and nobody batted an eyelid… none of the women in the thread got their back up or complained of it being an over generalisation. I wonder why?"

I can assure you I am not in the slightest bit annoyed. I think you commented on the post that annoyed you?

The hypothesis that most men are unimaginative lovers is as stupid as saying most women are purveyors of inadequate fellatio. But the fab forum environment is a boisterous gig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Easiest way I’ve found round this is to show him (or her… ) how I like to be touched, and guide his hands, fingers, etc….no point in lying there rolling your eyes and not enjoying yourself lol

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I just like to do what a gentleman would do if he couldn't find the clitöris: politely ask for directions.

As for technique:

• Tell me and I'll forget.

• Show me and I may remember.

• Assist me and I will learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like to do what a gentleman would do if he couldn't find the clitöris: politely ask for directions.

As for technique:

• Tell me and I'll forget.

• Show me and I may remember.

• Assist me and I will learn."

It’s so sexy showing someone how you like to be touched - total turn on

Mrs

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"Hubby knows exactly where mine is and has a long list of ways to play with it which gives me a huge amount of pleasure. Some nights that’s all he does and it still leaves me Bambi legged and all but cross eyed.

I’ve had partners before we got together who wouldn’t have known where it was or what to do with it if I’d handed them a set of instructions, a map, compass and a flashing neon sign.

Yes exactly that. You describe, point to it...they still have no clue so all you do is straight sex which to me is unfulfilling. I enjoy the whole journey, especially foreplay "

I am very lucky that Beard knows exactly what he’s doing and does it very very well. Foreplay definitely is a big part of the journey especially if both (all) participants are involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always focus my attention on sucking and licking Cee's clit, also using a finger or toy on her at the same time seems to have the desired effect Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

You obviously picking the wrong guys.. I’m well into pleasuring a woman via her clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should never neglect the clit as it marks the entrance to the temple of fun lol

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Blowing them lapping with the flat of my tongue

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I know what and where it is. I also know what to do with it as I listen to what she has to say about the matter. My technique however is a closely guarded secret.

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By *9erloverMan
over a year ago

Sleepy Dorset


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

I love spending time teasing a clit. Been told I’m good at it too!

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By *9erloverMan
over a year ago

Sleepy Dorset


"I just like to do what a gentleman would do if he couldn't find the clitöris: politely ask for directions.

As for technique:

• Tell me and I'll forget.

• Show me and I may remember.

• Assist me and I will learn.

It’s so sexy showing someone how you like to be touched - total turn on

This is the way for pleasure for both parties

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s evolutions fault for hiding it . put a sign on it , make it glow , make it stick out further anything to make it easier and more obvious . I hated biology .

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Dont worry Waze or google maps might find it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bizarrely there is a little hamlet in the North Yorkshire dales called Klit. It’s hidden in beautiful surroundings and off the beaten track. Been there a few times but never stopped. Perhaps I will next time I am passing through?

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Clit?

What's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

I love licking and teasing a clit, nothing like it when a woman wriggles with pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

The problem for us guys is women like different things in relation to oral sex. Some women like/love direct clitoral stimulation. Some women hate it and find it painful. Some women love their pussy lips being given attention. Some women hate it. Some women like a 69. Some women hate a 69 and prefer to just enjoy the guy pleasuring them, etc.

Help us guys out and tell us what you like lol.

Ask and you shall receive lol.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

I genuinely love giving women oral sex. I love the taste of a woman.

However, I would never claim to be an oral sex expert. As I said in my previous post in relation to receiving oral sex women are different. As I said previously tell us what you like.

If you are worried about offending the guy say something like "I love it when you suck my clit", "I love my clit being sucked", "When you run your tongue over my pussy lips it really turns me on", etc.

We are not mind readers lol

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By *hreesome loverMan
over a year ago

hadleigh

I don’t know where the clit is, I just lick everything!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i must be lucky then ? as most guys ive meet know how to find it and play with good oral and fingers and cock ?

i alway say what im looking for in the chats way before any meets ..i know what to avoid (the lick forever brigade) fore play is important and i let them know that i dont do rushed meets or clock watching ... i think when you tell them when chatting what type of sex n fun you want the lazy ones fizzle out as they know it wont be cum n go and if i get that impression during a meet i just stop and say it aint happening (not happened for a very long time)

i find most guy that i agree to meet do want to please and im not afraid to show they or get a couple of toys out to prompt them ....like i said above you can avoid the lazy ones easy to spot via chat (and its not most)

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By *h_yes_please!Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can? "

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Clit Or Us?

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By *h_yes_please!Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Dyslexic missing the spell check for special words

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "

I find that with boo if she is lying on her front I can use the entire pad of my thumb to titivate the g spot and the p spot if she is on her back while the "come here" motion with the middle finger of the other hand hits the g spot every time. I can spend entire play sessions with her just teasing her with my fingers usually leaves her soaking wet and very well satisfied (beard)

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By *ossman0168Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

You can’t beat licking from arse to Clit, with the tongue working as one with the fingers, always a very wet experience

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Dyslexic missing the spell check for special words "

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It's fine.

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple
over a year ago

Border of London


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

That is either a case of poor selection based upon the wrong criteria (or judgement) or you are not communicating efficiently. Less than five minutes of frank communication and feedback will give any half intelligent man enough to go on.

Points to give him:

Tip or body of tongue

Tongue tensed or relaxed

Direct or indirect stimulation

Up and down or side to side

Directed tongue motion, or limp with head motion

Hood raised or kept in place

Inner labia spread or left alone

Digital penetration or not (plus preferred action/quantity)

How to modify as you progress through sensations (e.g. softer tongue as you become more sensitive, harder tongue as you become less sensitive)

Speed of motion

Intensity of motion

The list goes on... But you are doing yourself and possibly countless others a favour by explaining it.

Oh, and try for the less cocky guys with a whiff of desperation. They will do anything to please. The more you look for Adonis, the more likely he is to feel that his mere presence is enough to make you swoon.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Love a nice little clit .. putting pressure on it with my tongue I go hard when I'm licking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can? "

Most men just want to fuck something that isn't their hand.. .

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can?

Most men just want to fuck something that isn't their hand.. . "

Gotta be something special for me

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Unfortunately OP it seems you are very unlucky when it comes to Men. Most of the Men we've met and played with in clubs have been excellent at oral, so actually most Men do know how to pleasure the clit. Some Men don't like to give oral, so best to check first before meeting so you know. Hope your luck changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a vanilla point of view i love to pleasure a clit with my tongue, fingers and tip of my cock but my bdsm side loves to have much deviant fun with a clit

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "

Depends if you think they are a mind reader or not.

Some with need a point In the right direction to give best results.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"Bizarrely there is a little hamlet in the North Yorkshire dales called Klit. It’s hidden in beautiful surroundings and off the beaten track. Been there a few times but never stopped. Perhaps I will next time I am passing through?"

Colonel don't, might be a portal to an alternate timespace that will disturb the fabric of the universe

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