FabSwingers.com forum: Is it ok?

By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

If a man sets up a woman's profile and uses it to lure men and couples for his wanking purposes?

BTW, I am not the said man. I have recently been made aware that someone I know is doing it. Should I report the profile that has been set up?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

You know the answer.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

No it’s, weird, creepy, the definition of catfishing and bang out of line

Block them and report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wankers like that are generally very easy to spot...

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Can't believe you even have to ask the question to others if it's right or wrong!

Do YOU think it's ok to do that???

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Like there’s not enough timewasters on here as it is. Do the right thing!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes of course it's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazed you even need to ask. They are the reason a lot of genuine swingers give up and leave. He is a sad fucker and should get a life.....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't even know why that would need to be asked of course it wrong.

And to be fair most of those accounts are easy to spot but people still provide wank material to them so they will continue to do it.

But it's really just a bit sad and pathetic that someone makes fake accounts on here for whatever reason.

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

I don't think it is right at all.

I started this forum to direct someone too so they can see the moral compass of what they are allowing to happen.

If anyone else wishes to chime in, please do.

I think it abhorrent behaviour and flies in the face of the respect honesty and trust that swinging relies on. My feeling is that people who do it have no place here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s grim.

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"That’s grim."

It really is, despicable if you ask me.

Ruins it for everyone when people lie to and confound others.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Thats just creepy!!!

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Thats just creepy!!!

Yup.

I'm hoping said person will read this and make a change to their MO.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Nope

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

This was the best I could think of without a name and shame, as didn't want a forum ban.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"This was the best I could think of without a name and shame, as didn't want a forum ban."

Just report to mods, they will sort it.

Obviously very much not ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats just creepy!!!

Yup.

I'm hoping said person will read this and make a change to their MO."

I highly doubt that will happen. They had no issues over setting it up so doubt they will have a change of heart any time soon!

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By *im67Man
over a year ago

London

Best off report it I was tricked by a gay guy who had me believe I was talking to a couple.

He's since left the site and found out he was using pictures of he's sister that was his supposed wife.

I left him a voice mail and let him know what I exactly felt about people like him

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

It's hard enough on here to find genuine people as it is. Bin him

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Sometimes I wonder if I had a bad car accident and was in a coma for 19 years and I’ve woken up in a parallel universe where everything and everyone is broken

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

This can’t be a real question

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Got to be the stupidest question we've seen asked on here!

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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago

watford

Surely there's easier ways to bash one out

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Just as a matter of interest, when you say you've been made aware do you mean by the person themselves or by someone else?

If it's the latter why are they making you aware of it rather than reporting it themselves?

It wouldn't be the first time people have been made aware of things that aren't actually factual.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No it’s not ok - report them for wasting peoples time- half the women’s accounts on here are probably ran by a Barry or Kieth

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Got to be the stupidest question we've seen asked on here!"

It's not a stupid question when I posted it so I could send a link of this chat to the person doing it, a way of helping them see that what they are doing is not ok.

So I would say that it was well worth asking the question.

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Just as a matter of interest, when you say you've been made aware do you mean by the person themselves or by someone else?

If it's the latter why are they making you aware of it rather than reporting it themselves?

It wouldn't be the first time people have been made aware of things that aren't actually factual. "

Because I know the woman in the pictures, so I know it is fact, that a man is using a women's profile in an underhand way.

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Sometimes I wonder if I had a bad car accident and was in a coma for 19 years and I’ve woken up in a parallel universe where everything and everyone is broken

It's mental, what is wrong with people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant believe you even need to ask

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because I know the woman in the pictures, so I know it is fact, that a man is using a women's profile in an underhand way."

Have you told the woman ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just as a matter of interest, when you say you've been made aware do you mean by the person themselves or by someone else?

If it's the latter why are they making you aware of it rather than reporting it themselves?

It wouldn't be the first time people have been made aware of things that aren't actually factual.

Because I know the woman in the pictures, so I know it is fact, that a man is using a women's profile in an underhand way."

How do you know its a man??? Ok, I agree it is LIKELY to be one but please be aware I once found a woman on here in the past and although she was a genuine female she was using pics not of her she'd 'borrowed' on her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just as a matter of interest, when you say you've been made aware do you mean by the person themselves or by someone else?

If it's the latter why are they making you aware of it rather than reporting it themselves?

It wouldn't be the first time people have been made aware of things that aren't actually factual.

Because I know the woman in the pictures, so I know it is fact, that a man is using a women's profile in an underhand way.

Forgot to say...

Either way all these cases are technically fraud

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Because I know the woman in the pictures, so I know it is fact, that a man is using a women's profile in an underhand way.

Have you told the woman ?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It is NOT ok.

Its fraud.

I've had it done to me and had my pics borrowed to be used on bogus profiles. I was once a married housewife with 2 kids in Plymouth... whilst living in W. Yorks. At the same time.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You are old enough to ask the question, and feel concerned, and would know the sensible Answer

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

If we could remove all those profiles of picture hunting wankers it would be great. Far less male profiles to wase through then. It isn’t an odd one or two that fall into this category, there are large numbers of profiles

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