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By *ce cream poke man 2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newark on Trent

Since F left the profile we had together the people we met up with and chatted to haven’t bothered and the parties and club invites has vanished. Should I take this as a “time to hang up my boots” hint or hang about in the shadows? Anyone else had this happen too ?

Have a good day folks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you want to do?

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

You've joined the ranks of the single male.

Good luck.

Work on your profile and be very patient. Life as a single make can be very lonely.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

There are 100x single men on here than any other gender it's much much harder and the fact that most of them don't read profiles

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By *ce cream poke man 2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newark on Trent


"What do you want to do?

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Would quite like to get the same invites as did when MF but obviously that isn’t gonna happen. Will give it a wee bit longer then bang out. Going to a club on own int the best for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an idea or two of why you get little interest. As a male on here you have to be exceptional, lucky, and in the right place at the right time otherwise you are just background noise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile of someone you wish to engage with. Respond based on the profile. Customise your responses to the shared interests you have with the intended recipient. Don’t ignore red flags started in the profile, they’ll delete and possibly block and you’ll get frustrated. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an idea or two of why you get little interest. As a male on here you have to be exceptional, lucky, and in the right place at the right time otherwise you are just background noise. "

From a couples perspective you have to engage us both. You have to recognise that to be invited into a play situation has to do something for everyone. There may be guys out there who like to watch their wife get fucked, but they need also be participant in the action, it’s not the other guy replacing unless that’s stated in the bio

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I had a bad break up about 18 years ago, she went to the clubs, bars and fucked everyone. I retired from the scene till earlier this year and live in a totally different part of the country. Not a happy story, but, it happened.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What do you want to do?

Would quite like to get the same invites as did when MF but obviously that isn’t gonna happen. Will give it a wee bit longer then bang out. Going to a club on own int the best for me anyway. "

I think people who go to clubs on their own are very brave, I couldn't do it.

Hope things improve for you

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