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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see all these beautiful outfits on women and think “gorgeous” or “I would love that”.

But then my next thought is- “I can’t face trawling around shops or searching online or trying on things with no idea if it will look nice”.

I now have this recurring fantasy that a man picks out the underwear for me. That he tells me what to wear. Chooses the heels etc.

Is this something any man would actually want to do? Or am I just trying to cover up for the fact that I hate shopping of any kind? Sounds like a Pretty Woman spillover!

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By *iercedPMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

I think a lot of men would love to do that! Imagine it’s a kink for them tbh!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im sure i could pick underwear for a lady,,

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

I rarely choose my outfits.

Either hubby or our bull chooses them .

Way better.

I always get it wrong.

Hubby's ex always chose hers so we floundered for years

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I see all these beautiful outfits on women and think “gorgeous” or “I would love that”.

But then my next thought is- “I can’t face trawling around shops or searching online or trying on things with no idea if it will look nice”.

I now have this recurring fantasy that a man picks out the underwear for me. That he tells me what to wear. Chooses the heels etc.

Is this something any man would actually want to do? Or am I just trying to cover up for the fact that I hate shopping of any kind? Sounds like a Pretty Woman spillover!"

Yeah it just sounds like laziness to be honest. Or worse, if youre expecting the men buy it for you

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I have been offered this but never accepted, I don’t mind suggestions as to what they like but the ultimate choice is down to me

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

It is a man that likes and chooses the underwear that I buy and wear.

He may choose it .. but I approve it - and love it!! ….does this count???

R xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I assumed it was already happening when folk are in a relationship

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I see all these beautiful outfits on women and think “gorgeous” or “I would love that”.

But then my next thought is- “I can’t face trawling around shops or searching online or trying on things with no idea if it will look nice”.

I now have this recurring fantasy that a man picks out the underwear for me. That he tells me what to wear. Chooses the heels etc.

Is this something any man would actually want to do? Or am I just trying to cover up for the fact that I hate shopping of any kind? Sounds like a Pretty Woman spillover!"

Its a kink for some.

It can also be found in SD/SB relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife always asks my opinion of what I'd like to see her in. Which is great for me as I secretly wear them too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely choose my outfits.

Either hubby or our bull chooses them .

Way better.

I always get it wrong.

Hubby's ex always chose hers so we floundered for years "

Lucky you! I remember one boyfriend I had treating me to a set and thinking “never in my wildest dreams would I have bought that”- but loved that it made him happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assumed it was already happening when folk are in a relationship "

I wish. I agree with the women on here- I like the idea that I’m told “I’d like to see you in this” but have final say on what I choose. And for doubters, I’m happy to buy it myself if it’s something I like for me. It’s genuinely the not having a clue what I ought to wear and how to find it that flounders me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like a real minefield choosing for a woman, but I’ve had some success !!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I assumed it was already happening when folk are in a relationship

I wish. I agree with the women on here- I like the idea that I’m told “I’d like to see you in this” but have final say on what I choose. And for doubters, I’m happy to buy it myself if it’s something I like for me. It’s genuinely the not having a clue what I ought to wear and how to find it that flounders me."

It's how most of the arguments start, I don't like you wearing that or the smell of the aftershave

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I already did this for Miss, had her size and went into Ann Summers, grabbed a staff member and spent about 40 minutes going over different things to mix & match, eventually left with 2 bodysuits, 2 sets of stocking, a blindfold and a few accessories. She wore one for me that night and it was a real turn on for both of us.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The Mr buys most my lingerie, I quite like it, it's nice dressing up in something I know he wants to see me in, rather than something I'm not sure he'll like.

Mrs

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Once met a guy for the first time who - as we were leaving the bar - handed me a box containing beautiful black lacy lingerie and stockings, exquisitely wrapped. It was very hot, particularly as he had got the sizes bang on without asking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get yourself a Dom. Mine used to pick my outfits everyday. Was loads of fun

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker


"I see all these beautiful outfits on women and think “gorgeous” or “I would love that”.

But then my next thought is- “I can’t face trawling around shops or searching online or trying on things with no idea if it will look nice”.

I now have this recurring fantasy that a man picks out the underwear for me. That he tells me what to wear. Chooses the heels etc.

Is this something any man would actually want to do? Or am I just trying to cover up for the fact that I hate shopping of any kind? Sounds like a Pretty Woman spillover!"

Omg I’ve had this fantasy for ages

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

Maybe more than just underwear x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I already did this for Miss, had her size and went into Ann Summers, grabbed a staff member and spent about 40 minutes going over different things to mix & match, eventually left with 2 bodysuits, 2 sets of stocking, a blindfold and a few accessories. She wore one for me that night and it was a real turn on for both of us."

Wow! Lucky woman!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Mr buys most my lingerie, I quite like it, it's nice dressing up in something I know he wants to see me in, rather than something I'm not sure he'll like.

Mrs "

Exactly! Takes all the angst out of it!

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