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By *uriousgeeky OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bath

Why do people msg "can we see your verifications" even though we send a face pic with our mails and then go all quiet when we ask to see a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people msg "can we see your verifications" even though we send a face pic with our mails and then go all quiet when we ask to see a face pic? "

Do the 'people' who ask to see your veris show theirs? If they do, then they may be wanting to see if yours are by webcam or meeting.

If they don't, then they have a bit of a cheek...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about the going quiet after you ask them for a pic , but asking to see verifications is to ascertain someone else's opinion on a meet or play .

Your hidden verification could be from webcam or a social so would be meaningless - but a veri from a play meet would help prospective meets see if they felt in the mix so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know about the going quiet after you ask them for a pic , but asking to see verifications is to ascertain someone else's opinion on a meet or play .

Your hidden verification could be from webcam or a social so would be meaningless - but a veri from a play meet would help prospective meets see if they felt in the mix so to speak "

absolutely agree with the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know about the going quiet after you ask them for a pic , but asking to see verifications is to ascertain someone else's opinion on a meet or play .

Your hidden verification could be from webcam or a social so would be meaningless - but a veri from a play meet would help prospective meets see if they felt in the mix so to speak "

That's what I was getting at, but put so much better. Must be me man-flu today.... not firing on all cylinders...

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By *uriousgeeky OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bath


"Don't know about the going quiet after you ask them for a pic , but asking to see verifications is to ascertain someone else's opinion on a meet or play .

Your hidden verification could be from webcam or a social so would be meaningless - but a veri from a play meet would help prospective meets see if they felt in the mix so to speak "

Thanks makes sense. We hide ours as didn't think it's for the world to know who, why we play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know about the going quiet after you ask them for a pic , but asking to see verifications is to ascertain someone else's opinion on a meet or play .

Your hidden verification could be from webcam or a social so would be meaningless - but a veri from a play meet would help prospective meets see if they felt in the mix so to speak

Thanks makes sense. We hide ours as didn't think it's for the world to know who, why we play. "

You're quite right in that, and if that's how you want to run your profile, then that's fine. But.. you will have to accept that people will ask the question. You have to accept that there a plenty of people on here whose sexual gratification comes from appearing/performing on webcam and never meet anyone.

The way we 'get round it' when browsing is that we select the option for 'has at least one verification by meeting'. That way, even if the couple has hidden their veris, we know they have met at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know about the going quiet after you ask them for a pic , but asking to see verifications is to ascertain someone else's opinion on a meet or play .

Your hidden verification could be from webcam or a social so would be meaningless - but a veri from a play meet would help prospective meets see if they felt in the mix so to speak

Thanks makes sense. We hide ours as didn't think it's for the world to know who, why we play. "

And this is your prerogative but you will have to accept some folk wanting to see them

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

I know ... I'm always more than happy to share a face pic and will do so at first request. Then I'm often not afforded the same courtesy.

I say if they're unwilling to let you see a face pic they they must be FUGLY! and I wouldn't wanna see

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You have been on a year .. people are obviously going to be wary as they neither know if youre verified by web cam/phone or meeting .. to be honest, I dont know why people dont show them.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If I cannot see verifications I just pass a profile by. I understand people have reasons for hiding them and that is up to them. I have reasons for showing mine and wanting to see others'. That is up to me.

That's the beauty of this site - you can tailor it to what you want or need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are all one way on here...I suggest you move on if they're cagey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only hide mine because I get questioned by others I've met, it's just easier even though they are lovely verifications..

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