FabSwingers.com forum: dislike the look of us!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had some random old fart message us the other evening just stating we werent that great looking.. Why do people feel the need to message such comments. Wed never been in touch or spoken before! Surely if someone isnt your cup of tea you just move on to the next profile. Anyone else had this happen?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they seek a reaction....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"they seek a reaction...."
They got one... A right arsey message of the fella lol.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Not sure why that is... Can't even see much of you in photos just snippets of body parts.

Some people just like to be dicks.

Ignore them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your snippets look lovely to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure why that is... Can't even see much of you in photos just snippets of body parts.

Some people just like to be dicks.

Ignore them x "
At the time i think our photos were open. But yes.. Ignore is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this carry on either. Some people must simply come on here to be offensive.

I got a message the other day that just said "slag". There are a few others who add a little more detail too.

Whatever others think of you and however they put it, it's not important because they definitely won't be the ones enjoying you. Maybe that's the point eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your snippets look lovely to me

Thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your snippets look lovely to me

And me too

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Not sure why that is... Can't even see much of you in photos just snippets of body parts.

Some people just like to be dicks.

Ignore them x At the time i think our photos were open. But yes.. Ignore is the way forward

I had a guy tell me how gorgeous I was, lovely figure etc, messaging for ages then asked to friend request so he could see my face, so I requested him and sent him a face pic, at which point he declined the request and messaged saying no thanks!! Lol. Can't be everyone's cup of tea I suppose, Pmsl x

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By *he Dynamic DuoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Lowdham/Nottingham

It takes all sorts I suppose!!!

You don't deserve crap like that

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't get this carry on either. Some people must simply come on here to be offensive.

I got a message the other day that just said "slag". There are a few others who add a little more detail too.

Whatever others think of you and however they put it, it's not important because they definitely won't be the ones enjoying you. Maybe that's the point eh?

Expect they were the ones who join pissed up at 3am on a Saturday and then are 'user no longer on site' 2 days later. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mss starry... Very well said.

The fact this guy was out of our age range too made me laugh..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your snippets look lovely to me

And me too

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By *llrounder69Man
over a year ago

North Lincs

"your snippets look lovely to me

Thankyou.

I would say they are more than alright, they are great, just the reason people use this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few times, not sure why people do it though, most messages i get are nice ones though.

just ignore them, delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your snippets look lovely to me

Thankyou.

I would say they are more than alright, they are great, just the reason people use this site. "

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i have a few times, not sure why people do it though, most messages i get are nice ones though.

just ignore them, delete and block.

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We do delete and block but sometimes it puts me off being on here. Im quite sensitive... Maybe i should toughen up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every abuse send to me in a first message has been because they dont fit what i state im looking for in my profile.

looking at urs i bet this guy couldnt accomodate or afford a hotel..

its the age old rejection beast

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"every abuse send to me in a first message has been because they dont fit what i state im looking for in my profile.

looking at urs i bet this guy couldnt accomodate or afford a hotel..

its the age old rejection beast"
Possibly.. And looking at his profile there wasnt alot worth reading so obviously hes having no joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are weird....nellynelly I think your (female) bits are yummy. You have to take EVERYTHING on here with a pinch of salt, it's a strange old place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it seems pretty clear to me that this guy's comment was probably the exact opposite of how he really felt, he was simply rejecting you before you could reject him...sad really!

or maybe he's just a nob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the best ones are when browsing finding people that have blocked us (if we are outwith their age etc we can still _iew profile just not message) when we have never even looked at their profile before never mind winked or messaged :S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get this carry on either. Some people must simply come on here to be offensive.

I got a message the other day that just said "slag". There are a few others who add a little more detail too.

Whatever others think of you and however they put it, it's not important because they definitely won't be the ones enjoying you. Maybe that's the point eh?

They're the same as the trolls on Twitter and Facebook - sad little people who sit at home thinking they are 'clever' sending out messages hoping to wind someone up.

Sexually inadequate as far as I am concerned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some bloomin strange people about ey... But hey. Non swinging people may think the same about us haha

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I suspect these types of messages are from retarded individuals with little or no social skills.

It is likely that they are burrowed away in their bedroom, living in their parents' home, surrounded by crusty socks and pizza boxes.

Just be thankful that they come here to bother you and not in person.

You both look mighty fine to me...

Now where's that number for domino's?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suspect these types of messages are from retarded individuals with little or no social skills.

It is likely that they are burrowed away in their bedroom, living in their parents' home, surrounded by crusty socks and pizza boxes.

Just be thankful that they come here to bother you and not in person.

You both look mighty fine to me...

Now where's that number for domino's?"

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

You have a nice profile and great pics dont let them put you off, plenty of nice people on this site look at how many times your pics have been fab'd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True gs300 Somebody loves us out there somewhere haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too agree that your pictures look fantastic, there are some horrible nasty people in this world and they are best ignored.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Had some random old fart message us the other evening just stating we werent that great looking.. Why do people feel the need to message such comments. Wed never been in touch or spoken before! Surely if someone isnt your cup of tea you just move on to the next profile. Anyone else had this happen?"

Some people are just cruel and nasty. I would not rise to them. I would simply delete the email and block them. Life is too short to deal with idiots like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I too agree that your pictures look fantastic, there are some horrible nasty people in this world and they are best ignored."

Likewise. And looking at your pics OP, I am amazed at the first line of your profile!!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"i have a few times, not sure why people do it though, most messages i get are nice ones though.

just ignore them, delete and block.

We do delete and block but sometimes it puts me off being on here. Im quite sensitive... Maybe i should toughen up lol"

Please never allow the idiots to get to you and make you leave. As well as blocking people I would report them.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"... Some people are just cruel and nasty. I would not rise to them. I would simply delete the email and block them. Life is too short to deal with idiots like that. "

I agree, but in a way perverse kind of way it's cheered me up... it got me to check out your profile and I like it

;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes all sorts I suppose!!!

You don't deserve crap like that"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... Some people are just cruel and nasty. I would not rise to them. I would simply delete the email and block them. Life is too short to deal with idiots like that.

I agree, but in a way perverse kind of way it's cheered me up... it got me to check out your profile and I like it

;-)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep in fact it was quite personal and insulting as was the message you received.

I've learned from my work not to rise to an insult and if possible ignore it.

People can hide on the net and it brings out the weasels with no back bone who would normally smile to your face,lie then stab you in the back.

They are cowards and and I don't doubt lonely,bitter twisted and as ugly outside as they are inside.

Fuck em (not literally)and keep doing your own thing your way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had one of a guy once that said "Who let the dogs out" Now i know he liked big women as his verifications showed that so he must of just thought i was pig ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I had one of a guy once that said "Who let the dogs out" Now i know he liked big women as his verifications showed that so he must of just thought i was pig ugly

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lol.. Some right idiots about... Their loss at the end of the day

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

nelly nelly there are some nice guys on here who are genuine and not nasty to people you look great to me so just block the arseholes and wankers as most men are def WANKERS lol trev xx p\s. shame im too old for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange as this is.

OPs (husband) cock has a similar tone and colour to mine. Veins look similar too.

o_O Never seen that before.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

They read your profile, realised that there was no way you would meet them based on what you say. Made up their mind that that was 'unreasonable' and took it personally and then reacted.

I've had it on other sites. Not here, fortunately.

The issue is their own inadequacy and absolutely nothing to do with you. They would probably be a piss poor meet anyway with that attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your bits look fine to us....

We've also had people invite us as friends after chat/messages, exchange of pics etc only to then immediately de-friend and even block us. No explanation, nothing... bizarre.

And so... move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True gs300 Somebody loves us out there somewhere haha

I would say lots of peeps would like the company of you.

Good profile and great pics

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nothing wrong with your snippets . I don't understand why anyone would do such a thing . Must be some sort of random nutter

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Report, block, delete and forget all about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are jealous and sad little people. There nothing wrong with yous. Just continue doing what you do? It more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some folk take this too serious and its not real life unless and until you actually meet up with someone until then its fantasy.

No excuse or reason for being obnoxious unless folk like the person who sent the o p the message are mentally challenged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ur pretty from wat ive seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get this carry on either. Some people must simply come on here to be offensive.

I got a message the other day that just said "slag". There are a few others who add a little more detail too.

Whatever others think of you and however they put it, it's not important because they definitely won't be the ones enjoying you. Maybe that's the point eh?

Jealousy, probably because they a small cock and your avi is defo quite the mouthful!

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By *ottscouple1Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Don't fall to people's standards and just ignore all the idiots.

Things calm down when you don't react

Have a good time,there are some very nice locals around notts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but can see why you possibly did as your profile is a bit arsy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't fall to people's standards and just ignore all the idiots.

Things calm down when you don't react

Have a good time,there are some very nice locals around notts

Xx"

we've met some already so we're not gonna let the odd arsey message put us off

one mans loss is a sexy couples gain

lol

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By *obbieCMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

If you were within striking distance of where I live I'd have definitely sent you a nice message asking for a meet. Lush profile and pics guys......xxxxx R

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No but can see why you possibly did as your profile is a bit arsy."

we're not arsey as such, just with past experience and some messages we've recieved on here make us wary of others and their intentions. the wrong few have taught us to be wary of the many good. not to everyones liking but we'd rather people read our profile and for us to actually meet what makes us seaxually fulfilled then to just take whats offered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are jealous and sad little people. There nothing wrong with yous. Just continue doing what you do? It more fun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think you've got a seriously nice bum x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yours is pretty hot too

Well i think you've got a seriously nice bum x

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