FabSwingers.com forum: DP logistics

By *rSpriteandMsClitBang OP Couple
over a year ago

hadleigh

I'm hoping for a little advice on a couple of things.

We're in the process of hopefully arranging an opportunity for me to try out DP and DVP. Firstly, I've said to Mr Sprite that I'd rather the first time we tried it, it was in an MMF situation, rather than in a couple swap, even though we have lots of couples we are close too. The main reason being that I wouldn't like the other lady to be left out while we were doing the deed, so to speak, I think I'd rather be the main focus. Am I overthinking it?

Secondly, literal logistics - what position would folks recommend?

Thanks in advance!

Ms Clitbang x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m no expert, I haven’t done it hundreds of times, but …

Lie your man down and get on top. Get his cock inside you, and get comfortable. Bend forward as far as you can, without him popping out. Let your other friend worry about where to put his knees etc, dribble plenty of lube over you, and slowly guide himself into your ass.

Then see what happens next. Hope it’s everything you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it in couples situations and it's actually rather relaxed and quite fun & sexy.

When I have been the lady not directly involved I have loved watching the guys communicate. I have taken tips for myself from watching the lady on how she positions herself to suit the guys & get maximum sensation.

Then when it's all go and the 3 work altogether in sync it's really very sexy and I look forward to it being my turn.

The communication between all 4 of you will be great, the mistakes, the giggles and then the enjoyment is fantastic. Don't rule out trying it in a couples situation

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easiest way I/we have found is like the others have commented. Ride one and get comfortable, relax and lean forward and have the other guy slowly get into position and ease in. Hardest thing we've found what getting into a rhythm that suited everyone!

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Yet to try DP but do let us know how it goes and share any tips or dont does please. X

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBang OP Couple
over a year ago

hadleigh

Thank you everyone, I can see how that is the most sensible position! Too much naughty video watching had me picturing some kind of piledriver being required!

I do take the point about the giggles when playing with a couple, and I love that aspect of it. I think just for the first time I don't want to have anyone left out at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely a little awkward until you get it right but very enjoyable once you do!

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By *ascal1475Man
over a year ago

york

Definitely best to start with mmf. It can be a bit clumsy at first so don’t need any awkward distractions. It also helps if the men are in rythem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it quite a few times with an ex partner. I’ve been in both positions and I’m not saying it’s going to be the same for all but I always found being the guy on his back and you sitting on him virginal it became the less involved role (again not a bad thing I enjoyed it that way sometimes) just on a purely animalistic point of view the anal giver has the best experience. All depends on your sexual preferences but if you and your partner want the best action experience that’s what I’d recommend. Hope you understand what I’m getting at, without knowing your dynamic it’s hard to advise. I just do know I’ve been in situations where the guy on the bottom has been disappointed or emotionally hurt. Communication as ever is key.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve done the same as above…C has got on top of me, with my legs being near the end of the bed and I’ve slid in and then the guy behind has slid in alongside me for DVP.

My legs have been in between his legs and it’s worked perfectly.

Either both moving in and out C pushing back onto both of us.

It’s hot AF

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