FabSwingers.com forum: Are you impressed?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not impressed or unimpressed. Meet who we want based on them, not who they have or haven't met x

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Not impressed, but rather that than no verifications. Verifications don’t mean they have fucked, just that they turned up, on time, smelt good, looked good etc. lots of people here get verification from clubs. For all you know they just had a chat and a drink and a dance. But they were confirmed as being real, and a true likeness to their photos unlike unverified profiles.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't mind. I might find it a tad intimidating at first glance, but that's more to do with own insecurities. I don't care that they've had lots of sex with different people... people have sex, good for them

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

What kind of veryfies?they can be from socials too

If all from play dates,I wouldn't even look there.

I'm too fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not impressed at all. I don't want to see any verifications on a profile.

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By *andS1Couple
over a year ago

Poole

We would rather meet someone with lots of verifications than none at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure im that fussed

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

I'm impressed by good profiles.

The number of verifications is irrelevant as you don't know how long they've been on site. I've been here since 2008 and my country would be well into three figures if everyone I and we have ever met left us one.

If you judge someone's sexual history by the number of veris on a profile you're being naieve.

Not every meet ends in a verification. Not every sexual encounter takes place on Fab.

And it's pretty judgemental to class sexually active people on a swingers site for the number of interactions they have. If a number puts you off then that's your prerogative but it doesn't make that person bad in any way , shape or form.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

So you expect people on a swinging site to not be promiscuous?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

I'm impressed by good profiles.

If you judge someone's sexual history by the number of veris on a profile you're being naieve.

Not every meet ends in a verification. Not every sexual encounter takes place on Fab.

Count. Not country.

Frigging autocarrot......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s fair but there’s no need to show them. Hidden just says they’ve been verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure I said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s fair but there’s no need to show them. Hidden just says they’ve been verified. "

Some people like to read what other have to say about them. I know we like reading verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For all you know though it could be one of their mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not impressed, but rather that than no verifications. Verifications don’t mean they have fucked, just that they turned up, on time, smelt good, looked good etc. lots of people here get verification from clubs. For all you know they just had a chat and a drink and a dance. But they were confirmed as being real, and a true likeness to their photos unlike unverified profiles.

Exactly this

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"That’s fair but there’s no need to show them. Hidden just says they’ve been verified. "

Why?

Hidden veris are useless. They could be years old. They could be from when a profile was a couple and it's now a single guy playing alone. They could all be social. They could all be graphic and detailed with info that would put you off, whether just one or two or dozens.

Veris are a useful tool.

Someone having none is far more of a red flag than someone having any number.

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
over a year ago

london

It’s something I look for as I get a few messages from only the man in a couples profile wanting to know if I’d fuck their wife. Most likely their partner doesn’t even know the profile exists

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough. I respect your reasons for doing so.

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Exactly this "

Agree with this. Verifications can also mean the person or persons are genuine.

It would be a bit alarming if you had to ask your Mates to verify you OP!

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Err lots of verification do not mean they have fucked half the site. A lot are social veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I don't care who they've fucked before. A number doesn't increase or decrease someone's value.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Funny this question is by someone who has been on the site 2mins with zero veris lol. Let’s see how you do

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

All our published ones are from socials! The hidden ones are where there might have been a bit of boob touching!

I don’t care either way, it’s not one of the things I look for on a profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Calm down. Was just a question.

I have been on here before. Was in a relationship though and didn’t feel right being on here while that was going on.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

We were attacked once by a guy for our verifications but two things made us laugh….

1. Verifications aren’t a verification of being fucked. They’re a meet verification. Many of them are club meets where we just spoke.

2. It’s a swingers site. If someone thinks it’s worse to have more people on your list, they’re in the wrong place and their judgement is absolutely not welcome. This is not Tinder. And also, these idiots forget that a swinger with tons of verifications may very well be the person getting tested regularly and playing safe, whereas on Tinder, you could be dating/fucking someone who’s never been tested and fucked tons of people unprotected.

Nothing is as simple as your original post makes it sound. Be careful not to become the person in point number 2

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You do fab your way. Let others do it theirs and just move on if you don't like them having veris and maybe be a little bit less judgemental about the fact people might have a lot .Having veris does not mean it's all fuck veris either btw. And plenty meet on here and don't veri so if you think less veris means you have less chance to catching anything you are very naive.

And as for veris having a lot doesn't put me off,having some from certain people would put me off more because I avoid drama it can bring. And I'd pick some one with veris over those that have none especially when they take the moral high ground.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Calm down. Was just a question.

I have been on here before. Was in a relationship though and didn’t feel right being on here while that was going on."

Ah yes it says that in your one line of bio tx. As I said let’s see how you do on here. Maybe you might not be as judging in a few months.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'll ask you this question OP.

What's an ideal number for you?

I know people on here who show none after being on the site a decade. That works for them.

I know people on here showing over 100. Over the course of ten years that averages out at less than a meet a month. Not exactly partying every night.

So what do you think is a good number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately no verification to my name. Trying though . I think someone with alot of verification as someone said here. You do fab your way. I think shows experience and when reading through them tells alot about a person etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always done fine on here and get a lot of attention. I’m not here to tell people what to do or get offended at other’s opinions. I asked a question as I was interested to learn and was honest enough to share my thoughts on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See above.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Always done fine on here and get a lot of attention. I’m not here to tell people what to do or get offended at other’s opinions. I asked a question as I was interested to learn and was honest enough to share my thoughts on it."

Well sorry to break it too you but women like a bit of effort on here and your profile has zero !

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

This…

“ Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.”

… was 100% not just you being interested to learn, but a very obvious dig at people with a lot of verifications. Just choose your words a bit better next time and you’ll not piss people off

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Not sure that the number bother me, more so the content.

Some are cringeworthy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to break it to you but women aren’t homogeneous. I’m afraid if you think you’re the spokeswoman for all females you have delusions of grandeur.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It wasn’t meant as a dig. I’ve covered that. If you still think it is that’s nothing to do with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seen one recently where someone complimented the ease of local parking when meeting

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Each to their own. Only means someone has been extremely enjoying themselves. It's no biggy.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Seen one recently where someone complimented the ease of local parking when meeting

Use the reply and quote it helps whom you are replying to

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

There's currently 33k people online, not sure I've ever seen a profile with over 16k verifications. When would you get the time!!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends, how long they've been on the site & if the veris are all play or social.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I’d like to get an idea about a person so for me I don’t mind how many verifications anyone has. I’m less likely to meet someone who hasn’t got any verifications. This is a swinging site after all and we are here to swing with others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seen one recently where someone complimented the ease of local parking when meeting

Use the reply and quote it helps whom you are replying to

I did. No idea why it didn’t work

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"It wasn’t meant as a dig. I’ve covered that. If you still think it is that’s nothing to do with me."

I meant that it came across that way in your wording and perhaps in future think about those words before you post. I didn’t say your intent was to dig… merely that the first post people see is an apparent dig. It’s all cool, just remember that. Also, remember most people won’t read the entire thread before they reply. Which is fair enough, because threads can get unwieldy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well sorry to break it too you but women like a bit of effort on here and your profile has zero ! "

Sorry to break it to you but women aren’t homogeneous. I’m afraid if you think you’re the spokeswoman for all females you have delusions of grandeur.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Sorry to break it to you but women aren’t homogeneous. I’m afraid if you think you’re the spokeswoman for all females you have delusions of grandeur.

No delusions here I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It wasn’t meant as a dig. I’ve covered that. If you still think it is that’s nothing to do with me.

Fair enough. Thanks, points noted.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

What is acceptable being impressed would it be whom they are looking for by age something to be impressed or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry to break it to you but women aren’t homogeneous. I’m afraid if you think you’re the spokeswoman for all females you have delusions of grandeur.

No delusions here I’m afraid "

Good. Godspeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a few others, I’m not fussed by them. As long as someone is verified I’m not bothered how many people they’ve met as that’s their business and doesn’t indicate what they’ve done. I’m sure plenty of people connect at a club but don’t engage in sex and just have a chat.

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By *n080971Man
over a year ago

Billericay

I prefer fewer, but at least you know you're not going to get murdered by a stranger as all the others made it out alive !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed tbh no one's business.. don't like it don't meet me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said above, you have no idea how long someone has been on here once it goes over a year.

Who cares.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The atmosphere has turned rather sour

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"The atmosphere has turned rather sour

You started it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The atmosphere has turned rather sour

You started it "

No need to be absolutely fuming lass. Enjoy your night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The atmosphere has turned rather sour

You started it

No need to be absolutely fuming lass. Enjoy your night."

Is she fuming, or stating a fact …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tend to judge people about anything tbh.

I think everyone should have the freedom to do whatever they want without having to be judged or criticised for it

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're more likely to meet someone with more verifications rather than no verifications or only 1 verification.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Will you stop having sex with people once you reach a certain number? Or just hide the fact you have hit such a high number of meets?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"The atmosphere has turned rather sour

You started it

No need to be absolutely fuming lass. Enjoy your night.

Is she fuming, or stating a fact ….."

More fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen one recently where someone complimented the ease of local parking when meeting

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Just curious Erko, but how many offers of meets are you getting from people with loads of verifications? Is this post coming from a place of being overwhelmed with offers from the overly verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you under the impression that a woman with less veris hasn’t been rattled by just as many men?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Funny this question is by someone who has been on the site 2mins with zero veris lol. Let’s see how you do "

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Indeed, he's protesting too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't see the point of hundreds of verifications tbh

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems this is a rather touchy subject nd some people are ashamed of their past.

Certainly opened a can of worms.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Seen one recently where someone complimented the ease of local parking when meeting

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Which is a positive feature for doggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems this is a rather touchy subject nd some people are ashamed of their past.

Certainly opened a can of worms."

Where did you get that impression?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I don't mind if they've got 1 veri or 100. We've all got a past! I do enjoy reading them tho, so the more the better

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Seems this is a rather touchy subject nd some people are ashamed of their past.

Certainly opened a can of worms."

I actually think you’re just making yourself look worse. You don’t seem to want to not have the last word lol. Maybe just leave the thread to die? Might irritate you less and you can enjoy your evening. Is this coming back and arguing with people actually making you feel good? I wouldn’t imagine so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems this is a rather touchy subject nd some people are ashamed of their past.

Certainly opened a can of worms.

I’m not here to make myself look better so it’s alright.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Think you missed the points but ok, enjoy your busy evening on this thread

Off out now so take it easy!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"That’s fair but there’s no need to show them. Hidden just says they’ve been verified. "

May one day you will have your first verification also

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I think someone having 20000 verifications is a bit of an exaggeration. Would take a lifetime to fuck half the site!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's one of those moments like on take me out and all the lights go off

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

I stopped putting them on as thought people might think I was a bit of a slut....may have been to late

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A person still forms a relationship with someone without knowing the past or history even so this way you're notified

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Seems this is a rather touchy subject nd some people are ashamed of their past.

Certainly opened a can of worms."

No. No you didn’t.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've been here around 15 years, whilst others have joined today. People are not comparable here, just by verification totals, when we've all joined at different points.

Verifications aee also vastly different between people. Spending a lot of time in clubs and on the scene, you'll naturally engage with lots of people who are here.

In any event, there is no shame in having any number of partners. Anyone who looks down on others who actively participate in no strings sex should not expect others to live like monogamous individuals involved with a relatively tiny number of sexual partners in their lives. A judgemental, moralistic attitude is also not very attractive.

We have no right to demand intrusion into the privacy of others here, whom we may have sex with. Verifications are optionally provided to help others gauge the potential reliability of someone and investment of time and effort in them, towards potentially meeting.

We're free to decide who we want to engage with, according to our preferences. This doesn't need to mean that we broadcast our distaste of others who are different from us. We should certainly work to make Fab a welcoming place for all and to keep the forum positive and supportive.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"I've been here around 15 years, whilst others have joined today. People are not comparable here, just by verification totals, when we've all joined at different points.

Verifications aee also vastly different between people. Spending a lot of time in clubs and on the scene, you'll naturally engage with lots of people who are here.

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bloody hell

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

I would be impressed if they’d boned 20,000 people, surely they would be in a crumpled heap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad that you’ve found something that you don’t like about people and Fab.

Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of the verifications are only social. I got 3 from a social.

To answer your question, I would say I will not be impressed, but a bit worried when meeting someone with loads of verifications. I will read all of their verifications to know the ratio between the social ones and the bang ones

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I only find verifications partially useful. Simply they are tool to get some kind of grasp of what someone is like, the sort of people they go with and that they are genuine. But I mainly take them with a pinch of salt and much prefer to be my own judge. So hence I'm not too bothered by no verifications (we all start somewhere) as other red flags will prop up down the line anyways. Not bothered about volume likewise and I all look at volume in wider context. For example how long do they span, veri/year say. Are they more reflective of an active social life on the scene rather than of more intimate meets. Not that it really matters, more to say volume only really tells you more with wider context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems this is a rather touchy subject nd some people are ashamed of their past.

Certainly opened a can of worms.

I have to agree with this comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

I can only imagine that they have more practice than you, and will be awesome.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

No I don’t even read them only thing I look for is verified ticks then can out fakes fast enough when you try arrange a quick vid call to say hi later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I don’t care if someone has verifications but I do go through and check them to see what their standards are.

Plenty of times I’ve thought someone was really hot, and then I’ve seen their verifications are from questionable people and so I’ve decided not to meet them.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Seen one recently where someone complimented the ease of local parking when meeting

For the love of christ, will you please use the 'reply + quote' button ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verification system on here can be misused. There was a couple on here local to me who had a couples profile, both had single profiles and a profile for arranging socials. They just kept verifying each profile!

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

I can only imagine that they have more practice than you, and will be awesome.

I’m properly shit at sexing dw

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By *irty_DeedsMan
over a year ago

Teesside

I hide mine and only show them if asked. I've had abusive messages from members who have been turned down by people I've met/verified. People are crazy.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

How do we know you haven’t had more sex than someone who’s got 50 veris from different people?

You could have gone out and had sex with 100 men before you joined here!

We chat to people and find out whether they would be compatible with us and our play. We don’t judge people…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my whole 2 I have lol.. buy I really hate them personally..

Also they're all a load of crap, like a job reference. You can refuse to give one, but can't give a bad one.

I'd never put what I really thought hahah

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

The best is when you get a glowing veri from someone who then leaves the site, turning you back into a Fab virgin

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I absolutely despise the verification system on this website. It gives me extreme anxiety to write a verification due to English being my second language and I’ll only write one when in return. But I’d rather not to.

I’d rather go with my gut when meeting someone than by verification, these can be easily fabricated anyway.

Some make a great reading, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Not sure its relevant as people come and go all the time losing previous verifications, others chose not to show them or give them.

For example, how many veries have you from previous Fab accounts as you've been here before?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I absolutely despise the verification system on this website. It gives me extreme anxiety to write a verification due to English being my second language and I’ll only write one when in return. But I’d rather not to.

I’d rather go with my gut when meeting someone than by verification, these can be easily fabricated anyway.

Some make a great reading, though

Personally I think it would be way cooler to receive one in another language!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

it swinging ... to swing you have sex with others ...it what swingers do ... what others do has nothing to do with me or for me to pass judgement ...

maybe some need to read up on the basics of swinging before joining .. and also i know people who have been on this scene for years who because of narrowminded people delete their profiles and start afresh every now and then so it always look as if new ..

i also know of women and couples on here who have one or two veri's and go dogging every other night getting fun with many per night ..

so veris prove nothing the age of a profile proves nothing so judging others and how often they play is pointless ..

swinger's are sexually liberated people with open minds its so strange to find narrowminded people on a swingers site

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

We don't have many on this profile, but on our main one we gave just passed the 300 mark, but we are avid social-goers, and we also used to help organise a camping weekend for over 100 people for 8 years, so not all of those veries are play ones.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’d rather go with my gut when meeting someone than by verification, these can be easily fabricated anyway.

Some make a great reading, though

Personally I think it would be way cooler to receive one in another language!"

I’m sure Fab swingers dot com would be happy to take your comment into consideration as for the feedback on the verifications section

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I’d rather go with my gut when meeting someone than by verification, these can be easily fabricated anyway.

Some make a great reading, though

Personally I think it would be way cooler to receive one in another language!

I’m sure Fab swingers dot com would be happy to take your comment into consideration as for the feedback on the verifications section

Out of curiosity, do you know if it would be allowed? I can't imagine they have a system in play to detect different languages, and surely they wouldn't care that much? I appreciate you will probably not know the answers to these questions

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"And it's pretty judgemental to class sexually active people on a swingers site for the number of interactions they have. If a number puts you off then that's your prerogative but it doesn't make that person bad in any way , shape or form.

Can always count on you to be a voice of reason on these forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it swinging ... to swing you have sex with others ...it what swingers do ... what others do has nothing to do with me or for me to pass judgement ...

i also know of women and couples on here who have one or two veri's and go dogging every other night getting fun with many per night ..

so veris prove nothing the age of a profile proves nothing so judging others and how often they play is pointless ..

swinger's are sexually liberated people with open minds its so strange to find narrowminded people on a swingers site

And shag around and lie about it. So liberated

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

You're a fool people with lots of verifications are the best and if you look most of the verifications will be social as they get invited to lots of parties not fucking

everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There’s some very hostile people on here. I only asked

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There’s some very hostile people on here. I only asked

Have you forgotten the tone of your first post OP?

..................................

""I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.""

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

What is needed is the how long you have been a member for as we know someone who has been here 10+ years and it worked out to be around 12 veris a year

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

How many previous partners is acceptable for you?

Also, if you had the chance to have sex with a different hot woman every week, would you turn people down?

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’d rather go with my gut when meeting someone than by verification, these can be easily fabricated anyway.

Some make a great reading, though

Personally I think it would be way cooler to receive one in another language!

I’m sure Fab swingers dot com would be happy to take your comment into consideration as for the feedback on the verifications section

Never seen one in Welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather go with my gut when meeting someone than by verification, these can be easily fabricated anyway.

Some make a great reading, though

Personally I think it would be way cooler to receive one in another language!

I’m sure Fab swingers dot com would be happy to take your comment into consideration as for the feedback on the verifications section

Never seen one in Welsh

I thought I seen one. It turned out someone had removed all the vowels from their keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Lots of graphic sex meet veris put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Lots of verifications does not necessarily mean they have had sex with who verified them ……

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

It's a mixed opinion. We have verifications and it can be from people we have met socially and just engaged in conversation with it doesn't mean to say that we played with them. And if we were to meet somebody we wouldn't trust somebody who has absolutely no verifications who might have been on the side for a year because if they are genuine surely at clubs they have met someone in that period of time but that's just our opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There’s some utterly bizarre reactions to a simple question. Very very hostile. I ask questions to learn. I have read and agreed with a lot of other peoples opinions. Nobody seems to bother reading the replies.

I’ve also had quite a few threatening messages as well. Odd indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s some utterly bizarre reactions to a simple question. Very very hostile. I ask questions to learn. I have read and agreed with a lot of other peoples opinions. Nobody seems to bother reading the replies.

I’ve also had quite a few threatening messages as well. Odd indeed."

Very odd.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Not all veris are for fucking, precisely one only of mine is for that, one is a cam, the rest are people I met in the flesh in a club and just had a friendly and funny conversation with.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

Lots of verifications does not necessarily mean they have had sex with who verified them …… "

It's a real shame I live soooo far away, you are gorgeous.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Just on the subjective verifications we had a cam meet with someone tonight who didn't have any verifications and surprise surprise no show

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

Just on the subjective verifications we had a cam meet with someone tonight who didn't have any verifications and surprise surprise no show"

Sorry to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

Lots of verifications does not necessarily mean they have had sex with who verified them ……

It's a real shame I live soooo far away, you are gorgeous.

Haha thanks.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

Just on the subjective verifications we had a cam meet with someone tonight who didn't have any verifications and surprise surprise no show

Sorry to hear that."

Thank you. We changed our account to allow messages from people without verifications to give them a chance because we've all been you on the site at some point. So we've decided to now change our settings it's a shame how some people ruin it for others

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

Not sure we really should be judging others on here. Live and let live

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I'd say we are and if they have so many then they must be fun people.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

I'm sure people will be devastated

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By *b750Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Don't need to put notches on the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impressed? No not really. I don’t think I’d have strong feelings about it either way, it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge people, and if they've been here decades sure, have loads!

But personally I am a little more off caring if the woman has a shit load of single men veris. Won't put in as much magic as usual, just naturally, not in a judgemental way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

I'm sure people will be devastated

indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That don't impress me much.

So you got the looks, but have you got the touch? Now don't get me wrong yeah, I think you're alright. But that won't keep me warm in the middle of the night.

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

^ Very good

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

OP: I am curious as to how many veri’s you think are too many?

Given you have no veri’s I assume you will be keeping your veri virginity and refusing to meet anyone so you can maintain your veri purity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

How about a quarter of the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

OP: I am curious as to how many veri’s you think are too many?

Given you have no veri’s I assume you will be keeping your veri virginity and refusing to meet anyone so you can maintain your veri purity?"

He's SO PURE (slathers himself in hand sanitizer)

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I’ve also had quite a few threatening messages as well. Odd indeed."

You *knew* EXACTLY what you were doing.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Don't then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also had quite a few threatening messages as well. Odd indeed.

You *knew* EXACTLY what you were doing."

Of course he does. He's posted a topic to piss a few people off to get some views on his profile

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Who cares? Honestly!?!

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’ve also had quite a few threatening messages as well. Odd indeed.

You *knew* EXACTLY what you were doing.

Of course he does. He's posted a topic to piss a few people off to get some views on his profile

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m which quite frankly is rubbish

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Not all verifications are from people that you’ve “fucked”

Do you take any time to read them?

We do club nights and meet and greets so most of our verifications are from a social aspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind.

Not all veris are people I've had sex with most are social ones.

Plenty of people with hidden veris.

Who cares.

Wierdly people have sex with people away from fab also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why having multiple verifications would be an issue on a swinging site. What an odd post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Swingers tend to meet others… If you’ve been swinging years (or not) then more than likely you’ll have met a few along the way…

What number are you going to throw the towel in?

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

That comment shows how shallow you are. I could go to a social and get 20+ veris just by chatting to people. I have been to about 15 socials so have alot of veris.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Exactly lots of meets could be club meets so multiple fabs from the same people at different clubs or even same clubs

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site.

That comment shows how shallow you are. I could go to a social and get 20+ veris just by chatting to people. I have been to about 15 socials so have alot of veris."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

Nope it puts me right off especially if they are all play meets by different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see the problem, it's a swinging site that promotes meeting other people. I find most people with loads of verifications are club goers, it's easy to rack up 100s in no time at all.

(Insight from my previous account)

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We probably won’t meet anyone with less than three, if they have lots then it doesn’t really put us off. We like to see who they’ve met before and what’s said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me to be honest.

Someone could have 3 verifications and has still fucked half the site, how would you know?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

It’s because you don’t have to allow it on your page, so if it’s negative then it won’t see the light of day lol

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

It’s because you don’t have to allow it on your page, so if it’s negative then it won’t see the light of day lol"
exactly that’s why I take what I see on peoples verifications with a pinch of salt I was blocked once because of one of my verifications they said we won’t meet people who have been with them

but my original post was more in jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t bother me to be honest.

Someone could have 3 verifications and has still fucked half the site, how would you know?

I've been caught shit!

But it's more 75 percent. You know who you are

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

It’s because you don’t have to allow it on your page, so if it’s negative then it won’t see the light of day lol exactly that’s why I take what I see on peoples verifications with a pinch of salt I was blocked once because of one of my verifications they said we won’t meet people who have been with them

but my original post was more in jest

Verifications are to, first and foremost, indicate that the person receiving them, is real.

They are not a Yelp system for sexual prowess, nor should they be a place for “marking territory” like some seem to use on here.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

As if anyone would display a negative one lol

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I've only 1 verification from years ago, by someone that's no longer on site, worried? Nope..it's enough to show I'm genuine.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

As if anyone would display a negative one lol"
why not lol I would at least the next person who is lucky to have me won’t be expecting fireworks

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

"Doesn’t bother me to be honest.

Someone could have 3 verifications and has still fucked half the site, how would you know?

We look at how many verifications are published to how many received, if the numbers don’t match its a red flag

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Half the site. There are currently 40,000 on line! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

As if anyone would give one. Let alone display it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some put too much store in verifications instead of taking time to get to know the person themselves. I'm not sure they are a garuntee of anything tbh just other people's opinions, rather form my own.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"I’ve never seen one bad verification that’s very strange it seems we have a site full of top shaggers

As if anyone would give one. Let alone display it…"
hence the problem can we believe what’s written in peoples verifications and yes I’d put it on makes no difference to me what someone thinks about me for example I’ve got 5 good verifications and one bad one I’d like to think people could make their own mind up based on what they all say good and bad but as you say people probably wouldn’t put them on

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Impressed isn't the word I would use. Good to see folks enjoying themselves and I'm sorry to say that I would be very wary arranging a meet with anyone not verified by meet by at least a couple of people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The atmosphere has turned rrrraathher sour.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't judge people on their amount of veri's (published, summary or otherwise)

I am looking to be impressed by what other people say about that profile in their veri's. Esp if they come with a stamp of approval from a swinging friend whose judgement I trust.

I don't think people publish veri's to impress others by their number but for the above reason.

Do you feel insecure about your number of veri's OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't judge people on their amount of veri's (published, summary or otherwise)

I am looking to be impressed by what other people say about that profile in their veri's. Esp if they come with a stamp of approval from a swinging friend whose judgement I trust.

I don't think people publish veri's to impress others by their number but for the above reason.

Do you feel insecure about your number of veri's OP?"

Nah. Just asking a question. I’ve clarified my position later in the thread. I’m not meeting on here so will never have a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By people on here that have loads of verifications?

I personally am not. Not a chance I’d be meeting someone who has fucked half the site."

I have met people at clubs, haven’t slept with them all but they have verified that I am real so not all verifications will be sex!

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