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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi fabbers during sex with my wife we always talk about threesome with another lady is this a fantasy for her or real as it’s me that brings it up every time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose you could ask her

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

Only her can tell you if she wants take it from fantasy to real life

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

That’s something only your wife can answer, so I would suggest talking to her about it…

…. And while you’re at it why not mention to her that you’ve been on a swingers website for over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think she's probably just saying what you want to hear or maybe she would prefer another man to join you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings or spoil your fantasy

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"That’s something only your wife can answer, so I would suggest talking to her about it…

…. And while you’re at it why not mention to her that you’ve been on a swingers website for over a year"

Exactly

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"That’s something only your wife can answer, so I would suggest talking to her about it…

…. And while you’re at it why not mention to her that you’ve been on a swingers website for over a year

Exactly "

Always good to understand what you’re getting into

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did mention another guy but she says she would prefer another lady suits me lol

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Is she bi? Otherwise it's a hell of a lot of work for you OP! There's more to a FMF than 2 women drooling on your junk

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

What's said in heat of moment or in middle of love making can not be taken as total what someone likes

I have had a lover that near point of orgasam loved been called every dirty name rude name you could think of would say allsorts and it would take her over the top but would never talk like that sny other time ever

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just have to ask, sometimes things are better as a fantasy than in reality, but there's only one way to find out.

Mrs

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Hi fabbers during sex with my wife we always talk about threesome with another lady is this a fantasy for her or real as it’s me that brings it up every time ! "

If the convo appears when having sex, I'm happy to ask your wife on your behalf

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Quite normal, we've had mff and loved them. Always up for more.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think before you ask that question maybe you should first ask has my relationship with my wife got the right foundations?

Now I don't say the following this from a judgemental POV just a pragmatic POV as someone in a relationship who both swing. Reading your profile and that you've been on for over a year I suspect your wife doesn't know and you've been seeking your own adventures without her blessing. Your profile suggests massive red flags in terms of teaming up with your wife. Sexually non-monogamous relationships need massive amounts of openness, communication and trust. If you've have/are seeking sexual activity (asylum profile says) behind your wife's back it suggests you may lack these attributes needed in yourself and/or your relationship with your wife. And of course God forbid how heart breaking and damaging it would be if she found out about your profile, especially as it suggests your actively seeking rather than just being curious. So yes ask has your relationship right now got the foundations to introduce others into your sex life.

Now in more specific answer to your quest I think the only way to know is to have fank and open conversations about your individuals sexual desires. See if there's anything you both want to explore together. Now I know that involves risk because I get the vibe your both not completely open about their desires and fear exposing them will put the other off (sadly the same for many couples). So you know your partner and whether or not its a risk worth talking. However personally I would never want to be in a relationship where we both couldn't feel free and loved for who we are including our desires (even if they were mismatched). And of course lots of couple on here found this life through similar conversations.

Also worth saying you don't need to go into it straight out. It maybe wise to develop a culture of openness though light hearted conversations and playfulness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started by watching ffm porn and Mr W&W asked if i would like to try for real. Took a while to get brave enough to actually meet a lady but been lots of fun since. If she wants to really do it she will say so. Just take it slow at first x

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