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By *mMrbrightside OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Speaking to a couple with no pics at all on their profile and they asked for a pic, I said there was loads on my profile and explained about privacy and getting to know someone first before I’d send a face pic but asked if they had any general body pics so I could see what they looked like.

They weren’t happy and refused so I just deleted them

What’s your thoughts?

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Their loss if they want a pic they should be willing to send one.

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

Old man wanting a wank

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By *r and Mrs P SandCouple
over a year ago

South West


"Their loss if they want a pic they should be willing to send one. "

We agree and if asking they should offer first. We will never ask, chat first when comfortable swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% correct if you want a pic then send one and ask for one in return. We are all here for the same thing, even if it turns out you knew the person we are all here for a specific reason so who cares.

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By *r and Mrs P SandCouple
over a year ago

South West


"Speaking to a couple with no pics at all on their profile and they asked for a pic, I said there was loads on my profile and explained about privacy and getting to know someone first before I’d send a face pic but asked if they had any general body pics so I could see what they looked like.

They weren’t happy and refused so I just deleted them

What’s your thoughts?"

Would of done the same

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My filters block all those with no public pics. But even if they didn't I don't send face pics early in a conversation and if someone asks me for one I would expect them to send theirs first. But there is no way I would send a face pic to anyone who has made no effort with their own profile .

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"Old man wanting a wank "

Might use this as my new bio header

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

If they didn’t have any, they’re arrogantly assuming you, as a single guy, will be desperate and just send pics for the sake of it. They’re not playing fair so I think you did the right thing.

We don’t waste time with people who won’t show themselves to a degree either. For us, swinging is a visual experience as much as a physical one. We can’t do anything with someone we don’t have an attraction to. That’s different per person but we would never waste time with a silhouette and empty profile member.

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford


"Old man wanting a wank

Might use this as my new bio header"

Could work for you , good luck !!

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford


"If they didn’t have any, they’re arrogantly assuming you, as a single guy, will be desperate and just send pics for the sake of it. They’re not playing fair so I think you did the right thing.

We don’t waste time with people who won’t show themselves to a degree either. For us, swinging is a visual experience as much as a physical one. We can’t do anything with someone we don’t have an attraction to. That’s different per person but we would never waste time with a silhouette and empty profile member."

People would be pretty sad to talk to a blank screen

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

There’s a lot of sense in this thread.

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By *r and Mrs P SandCouple
over a year ago

South West


"If they didn’t have any, they’re arrogantly assuming you, as a single guy, will be desperate and just send pics for the sake of it. They’re not playing fair so I think you did the right thing.

We don’t waste time with people who won’t show themselves to a degree either. For us, swinging is a visual experience as much as a physical one. We can’t do anything with someone we don’t have an attraction to. That’s different per person but we would never waste time with a silhouette and empty profile member."

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"If they didn’t have any, they’re arrogantly assuming you, as a single guy, will be desperate and just send pics for the sake of it. They’re not playing fair so I think you did the right thing.

We don’t waste time with people who won’t show themselves to a degree either. For us, swinging is a visual experience as much as a physical one. We can’t do anything with someone we don’t have an attraction to. That’s different per person but we would never waste time with a silhouette and empty profile member.

"

to you !

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By *mMrbrightside OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"Their loss if they want a pic they should be willing to send one. "

Thanks, awesome profile by the way x

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By *mMrbrightside OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"Speaking to a couple with no pics at all on their profile and they asked for a pic, I said there was loads on my profile and explained about privacy and getting to know someone first before I’d send a face pic but asked if they had any general body pics so I could see what they looked like.

They weren’t happy and refused so I just deleted them

What’s your thoughts?

Would of done the same "

Thanks x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My thoughts are they wanted something you weren't prepared to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Old man wanting a wank "

This

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Speaking to a couple with no pics at all on their profile and they asked for a pic, I said there was loads on my profile and explained about privacy and getting to know someone first before I’d send a face pic but asked if they had any general body pics so I could see what they looked like.

They weren’t happy and refused so I just deleted them

What’s your thoughts?"

I wouldn't even engage in chat with people who had no pics on their profile.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We don’t want people to jump through hoops to meet us. We like to find like-minded people.

If it’s all going wrong in terms of with-holding sending pics of themselves, when we’ve got over 200 of us to view then it’s clear it’s not going to go well.

This isn’t blind date…we like to see others and don’t want any awkward conversations finding out someone isn’t for us in RL.

K

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By *mMrbrightside OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"Old man wanting a wank

This "

So true, made me laugh though

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By *mMrbrightside OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"We don’t want people to jump through hoops to meet us. We like to find like-minded people.

If it’s all going wrong in terms of with-holding sending pics of themselves, when we’ve got over 200 of us to view then it’s clear it’s not going to go well.

This isn’t blind date…we like to see others and don’t want any awkward conversations finding out someone isn’t for us in RL.

K"

Wise words!

Think your pics are awesome, very sexy and tasteful x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Speaking to a couple with no pics at all on their profile and they asked for a pic, I said there was loads on my profile and explained about privacy and getting to know someone first before I’d send a face pic but asked if they had any general body pics so I could see what they looked like.

They weren’t happy and refused so I just deleted them

What’s your thoughts?

I wouldn't even engage in chat with people who had no pics on their profile."

This!

I was wondering who made first contact?

If them then I'd be surprised anyone ever responded. Nobody 'shops' without the vaguest idea of what the goods look like.

If the OP? Maybe messaging a blank profile isn't the best way to seek company when there are plenty of well constructed profiles with decent photos.

A

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I'm not going to speak to anyone without a profile pic or public pics. Someone hiding behind a faceless profile is hardly a turn on.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We have 100+ public photos I think it gives a good idea what we’re about. We wouldn’t entertain talking to blank profiles unles they were verified and had messaged us with pics attached

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By *mMrbrightside OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"We have 100+ public photos I think it gives a good idea what we’re about. We wouldn’t entertain talking to blank profiles unles they were verified and had messaged us with pics attached "

I talked to them (only a couple of messages) as they were new and everyone starts somewhere but I don’t send pics out for collectors anymore

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).


"Old man wanting a wank

Might use this as my new bio header"

Would be good on Linkedin!

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY


"Old man wanting a wank "

We have to get our pleasure where we can.

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