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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So reading another thread it struck me that preferences are defended about size, colour, sexuality and eye colour. But add a life style indicator such as professional and people get so worked up.

Why? Can we come up with another generic term that is less offensive to so many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well socialized

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well was agardener then a teacher and the way people treat me was worlds apart simply by my job title .

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

'Won't meet scratters or chavs' ? Z

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By *oobsCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Class war.

It was all the rage under Thatcher.

I think having a bunch of public schoolboys running the country, taking money from the poor and giving it to their wealthy city mates who caused the finacial crisis, has made class struggle fashionable again.

Gosh that paragraph got out of hand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So reading another thread it struck me that preferences are defended about size, colour, sexuality and eye colour. But add a life style indicator such as professional and people get so worked up.

Why? Can we come up with another generic term that is less offensive to so many? "

If people are choosing to be offended by it, I'd think that is their own problem. I don't see why people should have to change their wording just to keep grumpy people happy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No point, some people love to be outraged. Whatever you choose, the same indignation will ooze forth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No point, some people love to be outraged. Whatever you choose, the same indignation will ooze forth."

You are right, and it was Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference does "Professional" make? are they expecting to be paid? Yet just another status as it makes no difference on a nudist beach or a swingers club and to be honest who really cares if you are a Judge or a dustman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it possibly because some folk prefer to play with similarly educated playmates ?

There was a very contentious thread a short while ago by a couple who couldn't find suitable guys to play with . They cited the reason being that messages were poorly written and the guys were not educated - they were both professional teachers , university lecturers no less.

Their issue was that they wanted to engage in conversation and make friends too . Perhaps this is what people mean ? Not everyone wants to just play , some enjoy socialising and would prefer to socialise with similarly educated playmates .

This in itself seems reasonable , although possibly somewhat snobbish to those who are defensive of their working class jobs or education , and before anyone gets shirty - we are far from the professional category and don't give a toss about class or creed . This is just our opinion on the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would this not be more a "Friends with benefits" scenario as we all tend to live/play and entertain with people on a similar level to ourselves and very seldom venture above or below our own level in the same way as our own preferences?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Perhaps they are looking for social intercourse as well as sexual.

When it comes to NSA sex, someone's social status or wealth is irrelevant. Sex is sex. You don't need to be a banker to be good at it.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Too many people are confusing income and professional. It is possible to have a lower income as a professional than someone who is a manual worker.

Some people prefer to meet those of the same gender, race, body type so why not education? I don't understand why it is so much more controversial.

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By *efreeMan
over a year ago

North Staffs

You've stolen my thread! But it's ok you can have it

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By *oobsCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"Too many people are confusing income and professional. It is possible to have a lower income as a professional than someone who is a manual worker.

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Very true. I know plenty of teachers, solicitors and barristers who work who earn a lot less than a well paid tradesman.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"'Won't meet scratters or chavs' ? Z"

+1

If you could quite easily appear on an episode of Jeremy Kyle you are not for us.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I imagine Jeremy Kyle would be like a kid in a sweetie shop going through this site and the stuff people get up to lol. And that is nothing to do with social status!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You've stolen my thread! But it's ok you can have it"

Yes, but you must admit, it was stolen in a very professional manner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've stolen my thread! But it's ok you can have it

Yes, but you must admit, it was stolen in a very professional manner! "

It was rather, wasn't it My intention was to turn it on it's head. Funny thing is as I am semi-retired, now more of an artist than an employee I can no longer declare myself as a professional if it's work related. Though I think I understand enough about the world to not be put off contacting someone who did put the dreaded word onto their profile if they were looking like a good meet for J and myself.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the anti brigade people would have a hot professional cock in them or a flick of a hot professional clit in a blink of their non professional eye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the anti brigade people would have a hot professional cock in them or a flick of a hot professional clit in a blink of their non professional eye...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a professional filter is the way forward... block the ego

or another site

Fabegos: a world class champagne drinking and canape nibbling swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, sex is sex! It doesn't matter what your race, sex or job is. The reason most people cum on this site is for sex because they enjoy it.

The people that come on here for friendship, well keep coming because you can do whatever you want! And who knows you might get some sex while your here. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thread that refuses to die! 'Return Of The Thread'.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So reading another thread it struck me that preferences are defended about size, colour, sexuality and eye colour. But add a life style indicator such as professional and people get so worked up.

Why? Can we come up with another generic term that is less offensive to so many?

If people are choosing to be offended by it, I'd think that is their own problem. I don't see why people should have to change their wording just to keep grumpy people happy "

If they're offended by it I probably don't want to meet them anyway.

We might not quite hit it orf

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