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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???"

how do u know ur safe when ur meeting people for nostrings meets?...if anyone wants to reduce risk, its dental dams,condoms...for ORAL sex too...that is REDUCE not eliminate.

If u wanna be really 100% safe...stick to cybersex

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

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"how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???"

your not the first couple to ask that,if you do a search on any of the forums you will find loads of threads and responses on just this subject.

No matter which side of the fence you sit on regarding the subject the general feeling is that it is personal choice which they base on their particular risk appetite.

As long as they are honest and nail their flag to the post,its really up to them.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

and there are couples that dont ... some single guys do .. some dont

just meet the ones that suit u and stop worrying about the ones that dont suit u

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???

how do u know ur safe when ur meeting people for nostrings meets?...if anyone wants to reduce risk, its dental dams,condoms...for ORAL sex too...that is REDUCE not eliminate.

If u wanna be really 100% safe...stick to cybersex"

i totally agree with a 4% allowable failure rate of condoms before product recall ,its time people stopped saying they only practice safe sex.the only safe sex is locking into one person you trust having both had tests first ,or as you say cyber sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not worrying about im just trying to see other peoples point of view on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???

how do u know ur safe when ur meeting people for nostrings meets?...if anyone wants to reduce risk, its dental dams,condoms...for ORAL sex too...that is REDUCE not eliminate.

If u wanna be really 100% safe...stick to cybersex

i totally agree with a 4% allowable failure rate of condoms before product recall ,its time people stopped saying they only practice safe sex.the only safe sex is locking into one person you trust having both had tests first ,or as you say cyber sex. "

the term itself is misleading in itself: bareback

all that implies is penetrative sex ie.. a cock inside a pussy or arse without a condom on.

so lets see some bi-sexual females start using dental dams, and of course never using the same toys on eachother...

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Im not worrying about im just trying to see other peoples point of view on it"

lol and that is fair enough ,it is one of the most contentious issues in the swing scene,people have written reams on the subject ,just put bareback in the search engine and you will be reading for a month lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never go to work without my helmet

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"the term itself is misleading in itself: bareback

all that implies is penetrative sex ie.. a cock inside a pussy or arse without a condom on.

so lets see some bi-sexual females start using dental dams, and of course never using the same toys on eachother..."

once again fully agree with you ,i have thought the magic condom = safe sex argument a bit crazy for years,no doubt it is safer ,but if you look at the failure rate of condoms alone through misuse as well as its inability to prevent HPV its not a get out of jail card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???"

I would assume that the same way that a safer sex couple do. By getting tested regular and often.

It worries me more when people assume they are clear because they use condoms.

If you always play safe what does it matter as let's be honest. More people go bare than would ever admit.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"how do couples know they are safe when they do BB, there are couples on here that only do just that and i dont get it im i missing the point???

I would assume that the same way that a safer sex couple do. By getting tested regular and often.

It worries me more when people assume they are clear because they use condoms.

If you always play safe what does it matter as let's be honest. More people go bare than would ever admit. "

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