FabSwingers.com forum: Being called girl.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies,

Is it just me who gets the ick when strangers call me girl?

Espically on here.

Normally these things don't bother me, wondered if I was alone?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ladies,

Is it just me who gets the ick when strangers call me girl?

Espically on here.

Normally these things don't bother me, wondered if I was alone? "

Yes I don't like it, gives me the creeps.

Mrs

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

I prefer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer it

Damn girl, you are hot!!!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

All said in the right context and it’s a term of endearment..

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call everyone girl or lass good girl being a common thing i say to most women i see both in real life and on my willy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm 66 years old. Why would anyone call me a girl?

I don't like it. I wouldn't call a man a boy.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think context is important

It doesn't immediately always get my hackles up

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

The worst is guys who have never spoken with me thinking they can call me "good girl" in the chatrooms.

I really hate it and have made a comment about it in my bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me as long as they don’t call me ‘babe’ or ‘baby’…….. cringe

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A friend invites me for a 'girls' lunch. I enjoy it and her company but every time she says it I want to scream "nooooo"

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I don't understand why you would call someone a girl unless you knew them really well and they were, in fact, a girl.

Apparently I shouldn't call women 'ladies', because they are not married to a Lord. I struggle to remember that sometimes.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

like to call a lady by her first name,,

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I like it but you know, gender queer and all.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I'm 66 years old. Why would anyone call me a girl?

I don't like it. I wouldn't call a man a boy."

But what if I wanted you to call me boy

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

As a 52year old bloke, habits aren't easy to break and although this sounds awful, I tend to think:

Female = too scientific.

Lady = smartly dressed, likes to lunch.

Woman = bit militant, bit angry.

Girl = young at heart and playful.

Sexist, misogynistic bollocks I know, but just how my mind works.

If course, I generally use a name, anyway.

(Bry)

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By *unCuriousHarryMan
over a year ago

somrwhere over the rainbow, The Shire

"Doesn’t bother me as long as they don’t call me ‘babe’ or ‘baby’…….. cringe

Oh i hate when people dat “babes” or”babe”it does my head in haha

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By *winglow777Man
over a year ago

selkirk

What is an ick??

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The old girl is a term oft used for mother.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 66 years old. Why would anyone call me a girl?

I don't like it. I wouldn't call a man a boy.

But what if I wanted you to call me boy

Then that would be a different matter

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The old girl is a term oft used for mother."

My son used it, shortly before I deliver a swift death stare in his direction

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Really dislike babe, baby, hun etc.

Almost 50 so I haven't been a girl in a very long time

Just use my name.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I love being referred to in any feminine way … funny old thing xxx.

We are often referred to as ‘T-girls’ … but haven’t ever heard the term ‘t-women’.

I’m going on a ‘girls’ night out tomorrow, and sooo looking forward to it

R xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Oh yes ,or baby

Especially when they're younger than me..

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"The old girl is a term oft used for mother.

My son used it, shortly before I deliver a swift death stare in his direction

An old girl would’ve had heat seeking slippers

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The old girl is a term oft used for mother.

My son used it, shortly before I deliver a swift death stare in his direction

An old girl would’ve had heat seeking slippers

Old I'll gladly own, it's an accurate description.

Girl is not.

A couple once asked to meet us. The guy sent a lengthy fantasy scenario in which he described a scene between his partner and me and described us as 'the girls'. I can't describe how much that made me shudder

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