FabSwingers.com forum: Just sex

By *urioustwo123 OP Couple
over a year ago

haywards heath

Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

We feel the same, that we're unusual. We don't like socials and don't have much appetite for repeat meets. Same day, one off meets are our usual preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm the same

I want physical attraction, but beyond that, I need nothing else

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By *ard afMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No we just pure horny I think x

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By *ard afMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Single guy very interested in swinging so hard to get a meet ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

Not especially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could be more like that... I just can't let go easily with someone I've not built some sort of connection with.

I don't think it's unusual though, plenty on here who want the same as you.

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

That's what fab is about

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

Not unusual at all, different strokes for different folks. If we were all the same this would be one boring world to live in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I could be more like that... I just can't let go easily with someone I've not built some sort of connection with.

I don't think it's unusual though, plenty on here who want the same as you. "

Think of it as a live porn wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy making a bit of a connection/friendship. But I'm not seeking a relationship either on here

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

Not at all.

I suspect that's the case more with couples than singles, but there are probably more on here feeling that way than you think.

You just won't see it said too often in the forums because it can make people look selfish, uninterested in someone's personality and only seeing them as a sex toy. But let's face it - there's nothing wrong with seeing swinging as just casual without connection, not requiring emotional intimacy and viewing any physical encounter as just that - a physical encounter for mutual pleasure with no expectancy of any future contact.

If everyone wanted to be long term bosom buddies with everyone they met and be involved in their lives moving forward it would be a bit fucking weird. Yes, you may meet some people you see more than once and yes, some may become friends.

But those people will likely be in the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?

Not at all.

I suspect that's the case more with couples than singles, but there are probably more on here feeling that way than you think.

But those people will likely be in the minority.

Well yes, in all fairness if I met up with a couple and they then offered for me to pop round every Sunday for dinner, or attend their kids school plays. I'd find it a bit off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This confirms that I’m on the right website

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Not unusual

There has to be an attraction when 1st chatting and everyone has a tyke they prefer, other than that, it’s the thrill and the fun. Indulging in something you enjoy, a little bit of escapism from the normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings attached, “you’re fit” fuck me, job done move on to the next. But this can’t apply to everyone you meet some people are worth the return visit and an established connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do no strings meet or regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat and meet for a social

And if I like happy days for both

but now and then you meet someone who's so good got to see again and again as the more you see of them play gets very Naughty

Definitely not looking for regular boyfriend so swing is always for me

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Sometimes just a spontaneous one off is just what I need. So I'm open to offers

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

We don’t need a connection, spontaneous are the best for us , even my wife loves to be tied and blindfold , straight in and out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Though unless you're into sex with complete strangers, there's always going to be some sort of connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

I would say no, there are times when we need sex and why shudnt we gave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

Absolutely not, we’re just the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?

I would say no, there are times when we need sex and why shudnt we gave it"

Keep it in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re the same one night meets we enjoy

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We're here for just sex. We have our relationship and connection between us. The extra's we meet are 'just sex'. May sound cold, but we're swingers.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

With the people I've met on here I've had a mixture of just having sex and others that are now firm friend.

I can understand both schools of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're here for just sex. We have our relationship and connection between us. The extra's we meet are 'just sex'. May sound cold, but we're swingers. "

You birthday wish for a 50 man gang bang maybe a little optimistic? 50 guys who say take 5 minutes on average that’s just over 4 hours. With comfort, tea and lunch breaks that’s got to be a full day commitment?

I’d settle for a cake!

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

"We don’t need a connection, spontaneous are the best for us , even my wife loves to be tied and blindfold , straight in and out ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

No. It’s common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. I'm the same

I want physical attraction, but beyond that, I need nothing else"

I'm the same.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No ,plenty just want sex and that's fine .It's not for me though ,even when my partner and I meet we like friendships & socials too.

You do what works for you and as long as you're upfront ,no harm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

I guess, that's what this site is for.. NSA

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not unusual at all. This site works for many and caters to what most are after x

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

As a father of a good looking 18 year old boy, the younger generation does seem to be far more into NSA than we used to be at that age. Relationships just don't come into it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just sex suits me fine.

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By *leasureseekrs007Couple
over a year ago

London / romford

Just sex suits us fine as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unusual at all.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Same, I'm happy to enjoy someone's company and then go our separate ways.

It would have to be something exceptional for repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fine with that

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Just sex is fine op. Many like that anon esq aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sex is fine by me we all have needs and reasons why we are on here. its when there is a connection that things can get complicated , just my own thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

No your not unusual, you have your preference with what you want from this site just like everyone else, you keep doing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I could be more like that... I just can't let go easily with someone I've not built some sort of connection with.

I don't think it's unusual though, plenty on here who want the same as you. "

I can relate a bit with what you say, I feel a connection built leads to better sex

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I do gangbangs only as its easier to get that sort of sex then. I do however have people I've become friends with that I have fun with and that's more of a connection

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If a long term friendship occurred we'd be happy for that. I personally think it's very difficult to build a genuine connection with anyone in the brief time you spend with them. But then we were in our twenties in the 70s when casual sex was accepted in our circles and we were happy to have a chat, a good laugh and not read too much into it.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

I like to be sociable and make connections adds to the sexies for us m; Gin less so though but still needs some mental connection.

Doesn’t mean want a relationship or anything else

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

Of course not, do as you please,

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By *eekin NSAMan
over a year ago

Ireland /Kilkenny areas

No strings sex or actual activity both get fun no harmful effects on any one Fun for both

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By *edstockings2Couple
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

We are not looking for much of a connection beyond mutual interests or a long term friendship as we are here to have sex.

Xxxx

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Nr Brighton 1 till 5pm areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Much prefer a 2 or 3 hour meet even a overnight stay tbh.

So much nice

More time to discover.

And delight lol.

Saying that a quicky can be good to like NOW

So horny

Alone

May have to do porn unless someone come to my rescue.

Terry xxx

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"We're here for just sex. We have our relationship and connection between us. The extra's we meet are 'just sex'. May sound cold, but we're swingers.

I’d settle for a cake!"

Only optimstic as 50 guys wouldn't turn up. I've acheived around 30 in one gb. Only stopped due to running out of men. Our local club we visit, we on avaridge spend 6 hours there. I say I'll settle for cake, as I don't want to get my hopes up, and be let down again. We were ghosted by a single guy for a planned meet on my birthday last year.

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"

Not unusual at all. All preference and what you're looking for. As it's a swinging site, doesn't mean you have to befriend everyone you come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want sex.

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?

Not unusual at all. All preference and what you're looking for. As it's a swinging site, doesn't mean you have to befriend everyone you come across."

Well said

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By *eelsandsuitsCouple
over a year ago

stirling

Same for us. We just aren’t interested in the social side of it, getting to know folk.

Totally understand those that do however. Just not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m between for us. Pumpkin doesn’t know if she’s attracted to somebody physically until she’s met, so she always socials first. We’ve done ‘meet and fuck’ it does nothing for us

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Been like this all my life

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