FabSwingers.com forum: New on FS need advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, brand new to this, just out of a long relationship and looking to let of steam.. My issue is I'm not very confident and don't know how to 'sell' myself on here to make this work. Any tips/suggestions would be massively appreciated!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome OP

Chatting on here is a good way to get to know people without there being any pressure. You could also see if there's any group socials in your area.

Pxx

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Drop the bi stuff you can self filter looks OK...

But only top 20% of guy's get multiple meets its not you it's women.

Clubs are a good way to go for singles but remember many need multiple visits to get a fuck.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick at it don't send cock pics on first message.

And read profiles and dont message hi how are you try to say who you are and what your looking for.

But I (Mick) was single on fab before I met sher and it's hard you may get 5% at most answer.

Good luck

By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Definitely lose the bit about being straight and not doing bi stuff. Your details say you're straight and you can block single men from messaging.

As far as not knowing what to expect....expect nothing. Being brutally honest, single women and couples get so many offer in their inboxes that they don't generally go looking, so don't expect anything to just happen.

Be proactive, find socials in your area and become a regular. Try clubs if you can, though we know they can be daunting and expensive for single guys.

Mostly, look at successful guys and follow advice threads and have a handful of really good photos (but not so good that you don't actually look like them) and some profile text that says why someone would want to meet you, not what you want out of a meet.

Read profiles and if there's *anything* that suggests you're not a fit then don't message. And accept that nine out of ten of your messages will get deleted without being read or answered.

(Bry)