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Swinger clubs what are they like

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

What are swinger clubs like going to my first one in December, is it just a chilled environment sort of like being at the pub or is they just people fucking all over the place

Are clubs anything like swinger porn that's online?

I'm nervous about going to a club for the first time so just trying to get a idea of what to expect thanks

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

They are all different,

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

A bit of both from your first paragraph but it can vary

Definitely nothing like what you see in porn.

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Thank you don't no why am nervous about going for the first time just trying to get a idea of what to expect

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

So just say two people are fucking in front of you and you wanted to join in what would you do just go over and join in or do you make sure to ask first x

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"So just say two people are fucking in front of you and you wanted to join in what would you do just go over and join in or do you make sure to ask first x"

Consent matters, everywhere and every time. Don't ever just walk over and join in. Social with people in communal areas and test the waters there first.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

The club you visit should give you the heads up on what's expected and etiquette within it, be sure to tell them it's your first visit and they will show you round and give you pointers on what a no no.

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Thank you

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Just be yourself buddy, chat to people in the communal areas and see where it leads. You may get lucky you may not but if you go there with no expectations and enjoy the amenities on offer you should have a good night.

Don't be pushy and respect others there, chat to people and you may find some fun.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Every club is different and even then that one club could change rules from night to night.

Most we’ve been to have had a bar area where it would be the exact same from any pub you’ve been in. Usually as the night goes on it’s a bit more relaxed and everyone has dressed down a bit though.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Just go with the intention of having a great evening socially. Don’t have expectations of anything more and you’re most likely to have an excellent time.

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Thank you all for the advice should be a good night dreading if I bump into anyone I no though x

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

What are clubs like? I assume you are going as a single male.

Depending on the night it will be a bunch of guys too shy to talk to each other let along any couples and the rare single woman. As soon as a woman moves they will be followed

Be yourself but make sure you chat, be polite. If a spa type of environment, a simple "may I join you" before getting into a hot tub with a couple or single girl breaks the ice, but also gives the couple a chance to say no if they want a bit of time to themselves. They may well thank you for being respectful later. TBH it is much easier on a busy night with lots of couples as the atmosphere is a whole lot better.

Speak to both sides of a couple, complement the lady.

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Don't worry I ain't one off them strange type of guys who's going to follow girls all night and I'm deffo not going to be stood there shy am a loud mouth I'm constantly talking shit lol thanks for the advice though I asked about the just joining in thing because all im going of is singer porn iv seen online and they seem to just join in with each other so thought i best ask first

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

Again depends. On some greedy girl nights, I've seen ladies in their knees with a queue of men each taking their turn without the girl even looking.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

For the most part, they’re essentially just like a regular pub or club. Some, you strip down to your undies upon arrival, others you dress to impress. But the common denominator is they are a coming together of like minded individuals…

Just put your best foot forward, rock up with a smile on your face, chat and mingle until you can chat and mingle no more as that’s where and how any magic begins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very welcoming places in my experience

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"Thank you all for the advice should be a good night dreading if I bump into anyone I no though x"

If you do they are there for the same reason you are buddy. I guess it depends on how and where you no them from as to how to proceed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I ain't one off them strange type of guys who's going to follow girls all night and I'm deffo not going to be stood there shy am a loud mouth I'm constantly talking shit lol thanks for the advice though I asked about the just joining in thing because all im going of is singer porn iv seen online and they seem to just join in with each other so thought i best ask first "

Lucky you asked.

Porn has a lot to answer for!

Have a good time.

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By *csc2021Couple
over a year ago

Edin,Glasgow,Aberdeen,London,Blackpool

Is this a serious question?

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

We would like to visit a club in England in December/January. Looking for a nice big club, with nice staff, and of course clientelle. Any recommendations?

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe


"Is this a serious question?"

Yeah why wouldn't it be?

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of

Absolute brilliant experience. Have a drink or 2 to calm the nerves if your nervous but stop at that. Tipsy or d*unks are buzz killers. And enjoy it. They are class.

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Thanks for all the advice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingy

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Go with low expectations

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By *ee f 1233 OP   Man
over a year ago

Crewe

Think am gonna try find if any single females are going and see if they want to meet there and have some drinks so sort of won't be going on my own then

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Think am gonna try find if any single females are going and see if they want to meet there and have some drinks so sort of won't be going on my own then "

Yep, try and connect before you go and then there’s someone to say hi to on the night

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

What are they like….well depends on the night and if it is a party night

So I have been to clubs when quiet not a lot of people in, played all night, also been in on a party night but played at all

Some have a bar area which is good to mingle and chat. Some play does go on but that depends on the club.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"They are all different,"

And every night is different too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like to visit a club in England in December/January. Looking for a nice big club, with nice staff, and of course clientelle. Any recommendations?"

Decadance in Rochdale, not a large club but staff and clientele are all so friendly and welcoming

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Sex sex and more sex

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh


"We would like to visit a club in England in December/January. Looking for a nice big club, with nice staff, and of course clientelle. Any recommendations?

Decadance in Rochdale, not a large club but staff and clientele are all so friendly and welcoming"
Thank you for your recommendation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on where you go, there's some places where people are like camals THIRSTY AF! But the majority are chilled places where like minded people come together and just have a good time. Once you find the club that's your vibe, you will be golden. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A huge amount will depend upon you.

If you’re sociable and like to chat with people and you have a thick skin then it can be a great night.

If you’re shy and emotionally sensitive then it may be the worst night of your life.

Approach couples and females in a sensitive, friendly fashion, compliment her, acknowledge him and you may get lucky.

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