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By *efree OP   Man
over a year ago

North Staffs

So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they are...but are selective in choosing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just looked so it would give you something else to moan about

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By *efree OP   Man
over a year ago

North Staffs

I'm not moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for an answer more complicated than "because they can"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they want to choose the right guy without being inundated with ten thousand messages from guys that don't fit what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sometimes look at guys when they r looking at my cam and being rude to me in chat just to see how old they r as i am hoping thats there reason for being immature sometimes it is and sometimes they are old enough to know better

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

You have quite a few veri's showing along with lots of action shot photo's. Perhaps they are researching who people they are interested in have previously met.

People should learn that if they change their privacy settings they can view profiles and not appear on 'who's viewed me' lists and reduce some of this angst!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

I'm not looking for couples but it doesn't mean I don't look at couples profiles and pics and the same for females. Just because you look doesn't mean you want to touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I get a lot of straight guys looking at my profile !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

Cos they haven't found the toggle in Privacy which stops them appearing in your 'Looked at me' list...

.. or, of course, they 'might' be playing games with you......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked at i_moans profile as I liked the look of her avatar, never going to meet her, but I hope she takes it as a compliment as the OP should. Especially as her photos warmed me up of this cold day!!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"And I get a lot of straight guys looking at my profile !!"

No you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me?

I'm not looking for couples but it doesn't mean I don't look at couples profiles and pics and the same for females. Just because you look doesn't mean you want to touch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

Because you post on forums. If you don't like folks viewing your profile delete it, quite simple really.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

may be they want to see if you got chickens in your pics(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me?

Cos they haven't found the toggle in Privacy which stops them appearing in your 'Looked at me' list...

.. or, of course, they 'might' be playing games with you...... "

Ohhhh, the "do they/don't they fancy me" game. I love that one. Of course I know they all fancy me so it's not really a game. [

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By *efree OP   Man
over a year ago

North Staffs

Who said I minded them looking? Just curious that's all

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Who said I minded them looking? Just curious that's all"

Yup they may be just looking in a 'car crash' sort of way. You know you shouldn't look but you just can't help staring

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

It could be they want to look at the lady in your pic and see if there are any more action shots involving ladies..

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

I looked at your profile because you had left a verification on someone elses profile that I'm hoping to meet.

I wanted to be nosey and see what sort of other people they meet and have met.

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By *efree OP   Man
over a year ago

North Staffs

No problem, I've had a perve I mean look at your profile too!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Maybe they dont want single men but saw you and thought "I want HIM to roger me rigid!" - or, maybe they were just browsing, it is allowed on this site. I browse people I have no intention of ever meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they want to choose the right guy without being inundated with ten thousand messages from guys that don't fit what they're looking for.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Maybe they dont want single men but saw you and thought "I want HIM to roger me rigid!" - or, maybe they were just browsing, it is allowed on this site. I browse people I have no intention of ever meeting. "

@ roger me rigid

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

Maybe they prefer to search for men themselves.

Maybe they are just nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can look if you want

doesnt mean ur gonna touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There probably bored and having a nose around.... But in any case just count yourself lucky to have had the hit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

If you leave a verification on someone else's profile people will look to see what standard of person they meet. Its probably not you they are interested in more someone you have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look at Ferraris wouldn't buy one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably wondering why so many female pictures on a male profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just looked so it would give you something else to moan about "

Pmsl haha

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me? "

because they can,choice,curiosity, etc etc

on a side note when peeps who have selected aren't looking for..decide to put a meet up asking for males to get in touch at what point do they realise they're not getting any requests? I've seen it so many times! lol

gentle reminder from system:

you have selected singles males to meet but they are currently barred from contacting you, please change your preference to avoid disappointment and unnecessary moans in the forums!

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics


"So why do couples and single women who "aren't looking for single males,"and even state so in their profiles keep looking at me?

because they can,choice,curiosity, etc etc

on a side note when peeps who have selected aren't looking for..decide to put a meet up asking for males to get in touch at what point do they realise they're not getting any requests? I've seen it so many times! lol

gentle reminder from system:

you have selected singles males to meet but they are currently barred from contacting you, please change your preference to avoid disappointment and unnecessary moans in the forums!

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I know this one!!

The bar does not apply to people who the account have already exchanged messages with, or those on their friends list. So although the meet can be seen by all only a select population are able to respond, rather than a chancers free for all.

You're welcome

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