FabSwingers.com forum: How to dress for a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you dress on a first meet with someone new?

What dress code would attract you to others on a first meet. (men and women)

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Natural. All that stockings stuff is good, but largely impractical for a social. It's the face and personality that I go for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans and t-shirt. First meet is always a social, nothing else.

Their attitude is more important to me. I don't care if they turn up dressed as a banana.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress nice anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I social and go for coffee (which I don't do away from clubs), I'd go casual. Jeans, cute top, light make up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans and t-shirt. First meet is always a social, nothing else.

Their attitude is more important to me. I don't care if they turn up dressed as a banana."

I'd be running away if someone turned up as a banana

Something normal to be fair. Not dressed as a fruit salad... I tend to wear something nice, but 'date attire'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always dress nice anyway. "

I bet you do too

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I (Cal) will always go for something smarter than just normal "going to the pub" cloths. Usually a smart casual shirt & trousers.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Depends - ideally jeans and tshirt but spends where and when and what the weather is like

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

The 1st meeting will be a social, i will wear something smart casual and sexy undies just in case

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

We always go to socials as if we are off to the pub, we just make it smarter.

Personalities are more important to us, but if the other couple haven’t made an effort., we’re less likely to want to move on.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

So at a social last weekend, I was in jeans, blazer and polo shirt

Sometimes I wear a long sleeve polo shirt, and jeans

Never where trousers or rarely a proper shirt

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

First meet is usually social, so depending on the weather something like black jeans and a wrap top, or denim skirt and white shirt.

Nice undies.

Last meet was jumper dress and long boots.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Social meet smart casual, maybe a daytime dress, play meet more sexy and some good lingerie.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dora dresses to impress.

As risky as she can get away with for the social, definitely a glimpse of stocking tops and a silk blouse with no bra to show her lovely nipples off.

She wants our potential playmate to lust for her.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

You only get one chance to make a good first impression so I'd always make some effort. Plus you never know if a social may end up being so much more

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

First meet is usually social so wear whatever you like. As long as your clean. If you're comfortable in a tracksuit and the setting is good for that then no problem. We are usually just smart casual as if we're going out anywhere for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I will always dress smart, a nice shirt, trousers or possibly smart jeans, nice shoes etc..... only 1 chance at a 1st impression and who knows where it could lead.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Michelle always looks super hot in a dress and heels; I’ll be in smart jeans and a white shirt.

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

It largely depends where you’re meeting. I’ve met someone for a hill walk so walking gear, Also met at a swimming pool once so just swimming trunks.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Casual for us for a social. If it’s in a bar/pub then it would be jeans and t shirt.

If it was a coffee we wouldn’t be fussed if they turned up in their work clothes

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

"You only get one chance to make a good first impression so I'd always make some effort. Plus you never know if a social may end up being so much more

You’re just being sarcastic there again

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I always dress nicely...

and always bring my witty personality with me

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Always a social first so casual

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

We don't do socials so it's full works when we meet

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We like the guy to request what he would like Jess to wear and it’s all part of the cuckold dynamic for me to see Jess dress up for another guy , can be classy sometimes , can be slutty and revealing or classy and revealing

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've gone to meets directly from work and if I was wearing a suit I would remove the jacket and tie before going in. Partly because I could feel more relaxed and partly because I felt it would be too pretentious to turn up for a coffee dressed so formally.

In general I prefer that both parties are dressed casually.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My 1st meets are always a social so casual but smart depending on the location and time of day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when me and FB meet a guy eventually it was agreed id pick ger outfit. Yes she will feel comfortable itl only be clothes she already owns..

It will be a tight fairly short skirt, nice low top, no underwear. Sexy pair of sandal heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As im told haha xx

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"As im told haha xx"

Yes same as Jess , it can be very revealing at times but we must obey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In clothes normally

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

"You only get one chance to make a good first impression so I'd always make some effort. Plus you never know if a social may end up being so much more

You’re just being sarcastic there again

Moi?!

For once in my life I am being serious!

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Jeans and t-shirt. First meet is always a social, nothing else.

Their attitude is more important to me. I don't care if they turn up dressed as a banana."

I don’t have a banana costume

But I do have a cracking pair of green wellies with yellow frogs eyes on them and a purple T-shirt with ‘Ribbit’ on it! Would that float your boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice dress and stockings

As you never know we're it might go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wear whatever we feel comfortable in, but it’s usually very smart.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Smart casual is always the best bet. Something comfortable but also a bit sexy

C x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"So at a social last weekend, I was in jeans, blazer and polo shirt

Sometimes I wear a long sleeve polo shirt, and jeans

Never where trousers or rarely a proper shirt "

Tbh if I am meeting someone new I am probably bricking it and to worry about how I look adds to my worry. I would rather have something on that I feel comfortable in (obviously decent underwear just in case)

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Go with whatever makes you feel

Comfortable

Relaxed

If the other party doesn’t like it, then it was never meant to be

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I love dressing up so i ask the guy what he's into & what he likes a woman to wear, i can usually find something to his taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's just what I would wear to a night out at a not too swish place jeans a button up shirt (probably of the checked variety) and some nice aftershave

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