FabSwingers.com forum: Women that message women on fan

By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure ….

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes I do

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I normally think that also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true, 6th sense sends a wave through us, rarely its wrong!

Way too many fakes on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My very first interaction with a woman on here turned out to be a total bullshitter who then appeared a few months later under a couple's profile, using the same pics. "They" messaged me but then denied all knowledge of having spoke previously. So somebody was lying.

Since then I've had mostly positive experiences with women on here. You can usually tell from the tone of the message. If it's overtly sexually explicit then chances are it's Tam parked up in his lorry in a lay by ripping the heid aff it.

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Maybe I’m just not used to overtly sexual messsges from ladies

But yes , 6th sense tends to prevail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I’m just not used to overtly sexual messsges from ladies

But yes , 6th sense tends to prevail

Trust your 6th sense Missy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right

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By *carlettx OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right "

100% !!

I think it’s more important they are photo verified now tbh

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By *ittlemisshotbotCouple
over a year ago

near you

A side of caution, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it drives me mad

I'd love to have some intimate chat and build up with a woman knowing where it could lead but I'm genuinely to dismissive.

It's such a shame too because think of all the fun we could be having if it went well

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Assume it's actually a man cos that's probably the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right

100% !!

I think it’s more important they are photo verified now tbh "

I'm not sure what the signals mean, is the green tick photo verified and the green flag meet verified?

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We rarely even get fake woman messaging!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right

100% !!

I think it’s more important they are photo verified now tbh "

Definitely agree! Its not 100% but it's better than nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right

100% !!

I think it’s more important they are photo verified now tbh

I'm not sure what the signals mean, is the green tick photo verified and the green flag meet verified?"

Other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's the very reason I never arrange a girl, girl meet off of here.

In a club you see them there in front of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure …. "

What about the female of a couple?0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a woman profile or woman from a couple profile I always assume it's a man.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

This came up a whilst ago and there are some blokes who set up multiple profiles, then verify each other.

Trust your instincts, I guess a phone or video call is the only way to be sure?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"This came up a whilst ago and there are some blokes who set up multiple profiles, then verify each other.

Trust your instincts, I guess a phone or video call is the only way to be sure?"

Recently got a few messages from a couple's profile (obviously fake) I'd been wondering how such an obviously fake profile had such glowing verifications. This explains it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right

100% !!

I think it’s more important they are photo verified now tbh

I'm not sure what the signals mean, is the green tick photo verified and the green flag meet verified?

Other way around "

Really? Surely the flag makes sense for meet because it's like, location right? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had a couples profile that apparently is just the woman now message us today, last verification was 2 years ago!

To me that stinks of they’ve split up and the man is using the profile as a pretend woman. Might be us being cynical but something doesn’t seem right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve had a couples profile that apparently is just the woman now message us today, last verification was 2 years ago!

To me that stinks of they’ve split up and the man is using the profile as a pretend woman. Might be us being cynical but something doesn’t seem right

See say what you will about us lonely single man profiles but at least you know what you're dealing with, which just so happens to be in my case one sexy bitch

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East

Haha we always think this. Unless it’s 100% obvious that they’re real, we’re always dubious.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure …. "

Some are ridiculously easy to spot, others you have to put a bit more effort into researching.

I like to read the veris and follow the trail, if there is a hand full of people all verifying each other with little/no other interactions then I don't go near them.

I'm a bit disheartened by the people who assume it's the guy messaging from a couples profile though, I send 90% of the messages as I like to get a feel for what the chat would be like and if I'd feel comfortable with the person IRL.

Plus, I just love flirting with other women

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to jump in but I've chatted to women meet verified but I am 99 percent sure they're fake...

I wonder if some 'women' get desperate men to verify them to continue chatting or something...I'm not sure but either way my gut told me it wasn't right

100% !!

I think it’s more important they are photo verified now tbh

I'm not sure what the signals mean, is the green tick photo verified and the green flag meet verified?

Other way around

Really? Surely the flag makes sense for meet because it's like, location right? Haha"

Think you may have misread who the op was asking for answers from! unless you are a lady pretending to be a man

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Fab rule of thumb is “ if it seems too good to be true it definitely will be” !!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure …. "
synical I think sorry

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure …. "

First rule of Fab; single ladies never message first. So easy to spot the fakes

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Always follow the verifications, there's many meet verified fakes unfortunately

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure ….

First rule of Fab; single ladies never message first. So easy to spot the fakes

Not exactly true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do too, I’m always instantly suspicious of them.

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

You can easily tell from the way they write, context and method. Swinging women tend to be more educated and perhaps a bit over chatty. Fake women and real men are not so good at composition or maintaining a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab rule of thumb is “ if it seems too good to be true it definitely will be” !!"

Nah the number one rule is if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it's a single man pretending to be a duck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab rule of thumb is “ if it seems too good to be true it definitely will be” !!"

To be fair one of the first woman I messaged got back who was ridiculously hot. Jumped on Kik and yep, it was her!

But then she went weird...

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Female half of the couple here. It is 99% of the time me that does the chatting.

We have only ever had one female message us & we suspected she was a fake. We also have had loads of couples profiles claiming to be the female half & yes there are subtle signs that give away it is a man.

It’s quite grim really. And such a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure ….

First rule of Fab; single ladies never message first. So easy to spot the fakes

Not exactly true "

God, are we supposed to just wait for Mrs Wright to get in contact then?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

you dont have to go far to find people who give free veri's on fab .. just go to the chat room plenty of men and women giving free veris ....

as for woman on woman fun on here i gave in years ago its that fab bi thing again most are not even bi ..best way to find fem on fem fen is a night on the town ending in the gay venue of where ever you are that way you get real fem on fem fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I'm always very wary

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Ok just a question

Am I just too cynical and hardened to many years on fab but ladies , when a woman messages you with sexual intent, even that’s meet verified do you automatically think it’s a fake account ?

I can normally spot them but recently I’m not so sure ….

First rule of Fab; single ladies never message first. So easy to spot the fakes

Not exactly true "

I’ll take your word for it

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