FabSwingers.com forum: dad bod question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what actual size of a man qualifies as a dad body ?

I thought I had one but I was told I haven't now I'm not sure

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’d say yes you do but nothing wrong with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say yes you do but nothing wrong with it"

yh thats what I thought. I should have a dad bod lol im a single parent

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nowt up with being a chunky monkey

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I think the term ‘dad bod’ simply refers the the unripped slightly chubby but still hot look

I’m partial to a dad bod myself

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

There seems to be some love for dad bods on here, which makes me very happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term ‘dad bod’ simply refers the the unripped slightly chubby but still hot look

I’m partial to a dad bod myself "

Excellent stuff!

Love your hair by the way amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term ‘dad bod’ simply refers the the unripped slightly chubby but still hot look

I’m partial to a dad bod myself "

Exactly this.....although partial to mum bids lol

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By *inkyEssexGuyMan
over a year ago

southend

Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I think the term ‘dad bod’ simply refers the the unripped slightly chubby but still hot look

I’m partial to a dad bod myself

Excellent stuff!

Love your hair by the way amazing "

Thank you

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I think the term ‘dad bod’ simply refers the the unripped slightly chubby but still hot look

I’m partial to a dad bod myself

Exactly this.....although partial to mum bids lol"

After 3 kids I def have one of those lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit "

How does a body type show someone is a good person?

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit "

See the patriarchy is alive and well today!

Ever considered what she might be tied down doing all week long and how it’s important to have down time from your kids?

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By *inkyEssexGuyMan
over a year ago

southend

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

See the patriarchy is alive and well today!

Ever considered what she might be tied down doing all week long and how it’s important to have down time from your kids? "

I’m a full time single parent to.

I never get down time from my kids and if I’m honest I’d rather have a dad bod down the beach with my kids than a hot bod down the gym while my ex pays someone else to bring them up .

You know full well she’s being a shitty mum and if I was a woman telling that story you would have agreed with me no doubt.

Gender has nothing to do with any of this .

Parent to parent. She’s a shithead .

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By *inkyEssexGuyMan
over a year ago

southend

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

Stick with your Dad bod mate and whatever other excuses you can dream up for avoiding exercise. "

Nice bit of healthy body shaming.

Classy move ! bet people love you

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By *inkyEssexGuyMan
over a year ago

southend

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

How does a body type show someone is a good person? "

Ok well but if stretch I guess. I guess more the fact that his proud to be just a Dad with an out of shape body . Good mental health too.

We have an body image pandemic in the west that’s leading to some detrimental mental health , I worked in the leisure and fitness industry for years it’s a scary place

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

I would love to know if anyone would be interested in my dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

How does a body type show someone is a good person?

Ok well but if stretch I guess. I guess more the fact that his proud to be just a Dad with an out of shape body . Good mental health too.

We have an body image pandemic in the west that’s leading to some detrimental mental health , I worked in the leisure and fitness industry for years it’s a scary place "

But how does your shape make you a good or bad person, frankly, the person you're slating on here may be your friend but you certainly aren't hers. You accused someone of body shaming previously yet that's exactly what you are doing to her. Good parenting is not based solely on whether you're with your children 24/7. You're obviously entitled to express your opinion but I genuinely don't think you've done yourself any favours today.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

See the patriarchy is alive and well today!

Ever considered what she might be tied down doing all week long and how it’s important to have down time from your kids?

I’m a full time single parent to.

I never get down time from my kids and if I’m honest I’d rather have a dad bod down the beach with my kids than a hot bod down the gym while my ex pays someone else to bring them up .

You know full well she’s being a shitty mum and if I was a woman telling that story you would have agreed with me no doubt.

Gender has nothing to do with any of this .

Parent to parent. She’s a shithead .

Erm I don’t really know what to make of this

Having a dad bod doesn’t sound instantly make you a good dad just as having a hot bod doesn’t make her a bad mum

There’s no strict rules on parenting and how much time you spend with them. Just because you get no down time doesn’t mean someone else shouldn’t or make the most of it if they do

You may choose to spend your time on your phone/on fab when you get a little alone time looking for hookups where someone else might go the gym and work out. Perhaps she is just better organised to allow herself some time to herself ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit "

How does a dad bod “show what a good person you are” ?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

See the patriarchy is alive and well today!

Ever considered what she might be tied down doing all week long and how it’s important to have down time from your kids?

I’m a full time single parent to.

I never get down time from my kids and if I’m honest I’d rather have a dad bod down the beach with my kids than a hot bod down the gym while my ex pays someone else to bring them up .

You know full well she’s being a shitty mum and if I was a woman telling that story you would have agreed with me no doubt.

Gender has nothing to do with any of this .

Parent to parent. She’s a shithead .

And can’t help but noticing your status says you are

‘off for a muddy bike ride with a kinky hottie for a play later’

That is def the you time you say you previously said you don’t get. I don’t imagine your kids will be with you for that bike ride

As I said earlier don’t slam others for his they choose to spend their free time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

How does a dad bod “show what a good person you are” ?

Still waiting for the answer to this, don't know bout anyone else but I've sure known some 'pieces of shit' who also had 'dad bods' (hate that term)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

Stick with your Dad bod mate and whatever other excuses you can dream up for avoiding exercise.

Nice bit of healthy body shaming.

Classy move ! bet people love you

And yet your happily call someone a “piece of shit” and expect to be loved for dodging the salad. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha wish the love would come my way then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How the hell did a simple question asking what actually size qualifies to be called dad bod turn into complete different topics?Which then turn into hatred and insults towards each others ?

And body shaming ? really ? how old are you?

Let's just say that the things you were saying, ended being then final straw for someone which lead them to taking their own life due to their mental health or other problems life may have thrown their way ? All because some nasty keyboard warrior troll.

I'ts disgusting behaviour.

Sitting there behind your screen thinking your all clever and big spreading your hate, well grown up that aint it ?!!

You should be ashamed of yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term ‘dad bod’ simply refers the the unripped slightly chubby but still hot look

I’m partial to a dad bod myself

Exactly this.....although partial to mum bids lol

After 3 kids I def have one of those lol

Mom bod or not you look fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ I came back into this thread after a while and it's somewhat exploded

Not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently improving my dad bod. Lol. 4 and a half stone gone so far

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol "

and ill add same goes for mum bods again whats a mum bod ? i know gym fit mums i know super super big mums ? so again the tag dont make sense

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nothing to do with the body,, its who you are personality sense of humour etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol "

Let's flip that on its head then - what do you think qualifies as a Viking then?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

Let's flip that on its head then - what do you think qualifies as a Viking then?

something thats in the history books aka viking - any of the Scandinavian seafaring pirates and traders who raided and settled in many parts of north-western Europe in the 8th–11th centuries.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

Let's flip that on its head then - what do you think qualifies as a Viking then?

something thats in the history books aka viking - any of the Scandinavian seafaring pirates and traders who raided and settled in many parts of north-western Europe in the 8th–11th centuries."

or a person belonging to a race of Scandinavian people who travelled by sea and attacked parts of northern and southern Europe between the 8th and the 11th centuries, often staying to live in places they travelled to ..

another words they dont exist anymore or shall we bring back the romans ? or templar knights or any other nosense from 100s of years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

Let's flip that on its head then - what do you think qualifies as a Viking then?

something thats in the history books aka viking - any of the Scandinavian seafaring pirates and traders who raided and settled in many parts of north-western Europe in the 8th–11th centuries.

another words they dont exist anymore or shall we bring back the romans ? or templar knights or any other nosense from 100s of years ago "

So are you saying that people can't have a certain style and appearance that is inspired by a past period?

Like the whole rockabilly look? That's based on a past period of time but still valid

I'm not arguing I'm just genuinely interested in your point of view

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

See the patriarchy is alive and well today!

Ever considered what she might be tied down doing all week long and how it’s important to have down time from your kids?

I’m a full time single parent to.

I never get down time from my kids and if I’m honest I’d rather have a dad bod down the beach with my kids than a hot bod down the gym while my ex pays someone else to bring them up .

You know full well she’s being a shitty mum and if I was a woman telling that story you would have agreed with me no doubt.

Gender has nothing to do with any of this .

Parent to parent. She’s a shithead .

I'm confused.

Is 'the friend' you're referring to actually your ex?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

confused me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dad bods for the win!!!

Shows what a good person you are too.

I have a friend who is a single mum and puts her kids in child care every weekend and school holidays so she can train and pose in the mirror and calls her self a hot mum

What a piece of shit

Stick with your Dad bod mate and whatever other excuses you can dream up for avoiding exercise.

Nice bit of healthy body shaming.

Classy move ! bet people love you

who was it that put this in ?

"Stick with your Dad bod mate and whatever other excuses you can dream up for avoiding exercise. "

it seems whoever it was is no longer here. yet another hateful keyboard warrior move, spread the nastiness then run away and not face the response from the person they targeted.

Embarrassing

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

Let's flip that on its head then - what do you think qualifies as a Viking then?

something thats in the history books aka viking - any of the Scandinavian seafaring pirates and traders who raided and settled in many parts of north-western Europe in the 8th–11th centuries.

another words they dont exist anymore or shall we bring back the romans ? or templar knights or any other nosense from 100s of years ago

So are you saying that people can't have a certain style and appearance that is inspired by a past period?

Like the whole rockabilly look? That's based on a past period of time but still valid

I'm not arguing I'm just genuinely interested in your point of view "

big big difference rockabilly is a musical scene based on music .. a music that is still being played by new and old bands ... and cant be related to a age in the history books ..

you wont look back in history and say oh 1959 the rockabilly people took over france n germany the war was bloody but the rockabillies won lol

and out of interest why rockabilly ? lol we eat and breath rockabilly and psychobilly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol "

I was asking my thread question because I was trying to find out whether my body would qualify as "dad bod". nothing dishonest about it at all

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

I was asking my thread question because I was trying to find out whether my body would qualify as "dad bod". nothing dishonest about it at all"

Are you happy with your shape? If so, don't worry about other people. If all they care about is a few lumps and bumps, they're not worth sharing anything with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

I was asking my thread question because I was trying to find out whether my body would qualify as "dad bod". nothing dishonest about it at all

Are you happy with your shape? If so, don't worry about other people. If all they care about is a few lumps and bumps, they're not worth sharing anything with

im more than happy with my shape tbh the only reason I was finding out because I wanted to make sure that what my profile says about it is the truth, I hate lies so had to make sure I wasn't lying in my profile, 1 thing im really not happy about is the hatred that some people have thrown into my post that was a simple query about a body description, I feel embarrassed for these people.

its utterly disgusting how some people can be when they're sat behind a screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

I was asking my thread question because I was trying to find out whether my body would qualify as "dad bod". nothing dishonest about it at all

Are you happy with your shape? If so, don't worry about other people. If all they care about is a few lumps and bumps, they're not worth sharing anything with

its utterly disgusting how some people can be when they're sat behind a screen"

Yeah agreed it's gotten quite toxic

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

I was asking my thread question because I was trying to find out whether my body would qualify as "dad bod". nothing dishonest about it at all

Are you happy with your shape? If so, don't worry about other people. If all they care about is a few lumps and bumps, they're not worth sharing anything with

its utterly disgusting how some people can be when they're sat behind a screen"

Don't sweat it. It's a Fab forum. Some of these threads quickly resemble warzones

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

I think dad bod actually means "won't ever have a conversation about pre-workout"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dad bod just like rugby build is another over used name for those who cant be bothered to be honest about there body ... just be honest to us women we know what and whom we like when we see it ...

its the same with ''viking men'' thread most look like middle earth dwellers or think a beards qualifies them as viking lol

I was asking my thread question because I was trying to find out whether my body would qualify as "dad bod". nothing dishonest about it at all

Are you happy with your shape? If so, don't worry about other people. If all they care about is a few lumps and bumps, they're not worth sharing anything with

its utterly disgusting how some people can be when they're sat behind a screen

Yeah agreed it's gotten quite toxic "

I know children that wouldn't act in this way, im raising one m myself, I dont understand why people have to be slo nasty just because they're sat behind a screen, I bet they wouldn't do it if they were faced to face with someone, im shocked that people on a site like this could behave in such a way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think dad bod actually means "won't ever have a conversation about pre-workout""

really ? so just because someone has a dasd bod thats instantly means they dont exercise? is that what your saying ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we still talking about Dad bods or...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are we still talking about Dad bods or...?"

erm no actually just the toxic people on the thread about dad bods

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m getting a bit chunky now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m getting a bit chunky now"

Nothing wrong with that mate

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Dad bod here too

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