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"We went to a party together almost 20 year ago. We really enjoyed it and have both wanted to get back into this lifestyle ever since. We have never been to a club and as yet not met anyone through a site. We were going to book a night at Paradise, Blackpool last weekend but panicked at the last minute We joined three different sites about three months ago, not having a clue what to expect. Out of those three sites we have paid for a silver account here as Fab seemed to suit us. Would love to hear how others overcame their initial fears/ apprehensions? " This was me and Hubby. A few years ago we drove to Quest, got in the carpark and we couldn't go in so we drove home with our tails between our legs lol. Fast forward a few years we've ended back on here, got talking to a lovely lady who was going to Quest one Saturday night, we decided would go back, again we got to the carpark and the nerves hit lol. We text her and told we were to scared to go in, she text back saying "stay there im coming out to get you" and im glad she did because it turned in to an absolutely amazing night! Everybody was so friendly, the club staff were amazing, told them we're 1st timers and they showed us around told why was what. So guess what im saying is, if you're wanting to to clubs try social and you might someone who come out and get you lol Ps we've been to Quest a few times now  | |||
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"We went to a party together almost 20 year ago. We really enjoyed it and have both wanted to get back into this lifestyle ever since. We have never been to a club and as yet not met anyone through a site. We were going to book a night at Paradise, Blackpool last weekend but panicked at the last minute We joined three different sites about three months ago, not having a clue what to expect. Out of those three sites we have paid for a silver account here as Fab seemed to suit us. Would love to hear how others overcame their initial fears/ apprehensions? This was me and Hubby. A few years ago we drove to Quest, got in the carpark and we couldn't go in so we drove home with our tails between our legs lol. Fast forward a few years we've ended back on here, got talking to a lovely lady who was going to Quest one Saturday night, we decided would go back, again we got to the carpark and the nerves hit lol. We text her and told we were to scared to go in, she text back saying "stay there im coming out to get you" and im glad she did because it turned in to an absolutely amazing night! Everybody was so friendly, the club staff were amazing, told them we're 1st timers and they showed us around told why was what. So guess what im saying is, if you're wanting to to clubs try social and you might someone who come out and get you lol Ps we've been to Quest a few times now "For the vast majority of people, trying something new will always be nerve racking but made much easier if you receive encouragement from someone who's done it before. I've yet to go to a club but would feel more comfortable if encouraged by a female (or couple) I'd meet beforehand who'd been before and knows what to expect. pleased its worked out for you in the long run. | |||
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"We went to a party together almost 20 year ago. We really enjoyed it and have both wanted to get back into this lifestyle ever since. We have never been to a club and as yet not met anyone through a site. We were going to book a night at Paradise, Blackpool last weekend but panicked at the last minute We joined three different sites about three months ago, not having a clue what to expect. Out of those three sites we have paid for a silver account here as Fab seemed to suit us. Would love to hear how others overcame their initial fears/ apprehensions? This was me and Hubby. A few years ago we drove to Quest, got in the carpark and we couldn't go in so we drove home with our tails between our legs lol. Fast forward a few years we've ended back on here, got talking to a lovely lady who was going to Quest one Saturday night, we decided would go back, again we got to the carpark and the nerves hit lol. We text her and told we were to scared to go in, she text back saying "stay there im coming out to get you" and im glad she did because it turned in to an absolutely amazing night! Everybody was so friendly, the club staff were amazing, told them we're 1st timers and they showed us around told why was what. So guess what im saying is, if you're wanting to to clubs try social and you might someone who come out and get you lol Ps we've been to Quest a few times now
For the vast majority of people, trying something new will always be nerve racking but made much easier if you receive encouragement from someone who's done it before. I've yet to go to a club but would feel more comfortable if encouraged by a female (or couple) I'd meet beforehand who'd been before and knows what to expect. pleased its worked out for you in the long run."We are aiming to go 1 theme night a month. Even if it's just the socialising part, its nice to be around people who are in to the same things lol Curls x | |||
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