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By *ilverfox for you OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

do mature men stand a chance on this site ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No "

Ha ha ha definitely harder but some couples and singles are looking for mature men just a lot to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Ha ha ha definitely harder but some couples and singles are looking for mature men just a lot to choose from"

... only joking but definitely harder for older single guys.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Replied to someone this week just joined local to me specifically said wanted older message immediately deleted

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"

There might not be a queue, but there are opportunities.....

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Yes, we prefer 50+ guys.

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"

Yes, but be prepared to put some effort in

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Everyone knows women prefer immature men

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We tend to enjoy older guys x

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Replied to someone this week just joined local to me specifically said wanted older message immediately deleted "

I find that happens a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just turned 50 I guess mature but I don't think so lol

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Replied to someone this week just joined local to me specifically said wanted older message immediately deleted

I find that happens a lot"

Same here, but that's fab for you. Always live in hope there are some genuine people looking for us more mature guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so otherwise I’m screwed! Well that’s the intention anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently not

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Replied to someone this week just joined local to me specifically said wanted older message immediately deleted "

I don't understand the issue. They want older, but didn't want you. It's not like preferences are an automatic Yes.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Irrespective of age I expect most men find it difficult to get a meet on fab due to the sheer number. It’s just one of many filters that people use. Not sure what the average age of fab members is but if it’s getting younger it’s fair to assume that they’ll be looking for their age group or maybe younger than that.

However there are always exceptions to the rule.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I can only speak for myself and I have zero complaints about opportunities on here.

I choose to reject the majority of them due to preferences but I'm more than happy with my interaction.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

As a mature (more geriatric than mature) man who is part of a couples profile and who also has his own singles profile (all completely open and above board and mentioned in both profiles) I have got to say that I get very little attention on my singles profile, but plenty as part of a couple - and its not JUST because they want to shag Sue. Surprisingly quite a few want me as well.

So to sum up, maybe not as much interest as a singleton, but I haven`t done too badly for an old fart as part of a couple.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I would like to think we do.

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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago

hull

Yes I am 37 and my Dom is 55 older men are better between the sheets then the younger ones

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Yes I am 37 and my Dom is 55 older men are better between the sheets then the younger ones"

Can you spread the word please, we need all the help we can get

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It's tough for guys of all ages on here due to the ratio of men to women, simple maths really

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I came in here for something and now I’ve completely forgotten why

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Of course they do, OP. There are plenty of mature women and couples. You just need a good profile, lots of patience and some luck.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Of course they do, OP. There are plenty of mature women and couples. You just need a good profile, lots of patience and some luck."

Yes ,this .

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

What about immature oldies?

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

I’m 54 next month, no real meets but forum, pics and a few friends keep me going.

BIG C has ruined my chances really x

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’m always on the look out for a nice couple to join xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"
yep

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"

Of course we do, just have to put yourself out there. Socials clubs etc.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if they are honest they do ... sadly many lie .. about many things like real age and alot of other stuff that matters

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

also i meet older or younger at the end of the day its not about age its about hot or not and if they suit .... and if older still sexually active (ie hard cock)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course - I prefer a mature man who knows his way around and who is a genuine swinger

It will help if you don’t have more than one dick pic and are able to pen an intelligent message, in our opinion anyhow

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By *arpus67Man
over a year ago

nottingham burgh le Marsh

Definitely gets more difficult after you reach the big 50

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Absolutely. I've met women and couples between the ages of 26 and 63

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Tonnes and tonnes of older couples near us so don't see why it would be an issue x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not able to accommodate and looking fur daytime fun screams married to me so if you are in fact single make it very clear on your profile.

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge


"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"

Yes definitely I have over 90 meetings verified and not all meets get verified, for example repeat meetings with the same single female or couple so yes its more than possible.

There is lots of advice in the forums on what to include in your profile and your first contact message, it's your best and perhaps only opportunity to make a good impression.

Best of luck

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

I was 45 when I first joined Fab, I had a couple of meets in that time, and I was 49 when I met Belle on here.

The age can be an issue, there are those who have set filters and fair play, everyone has preferences.

What I found helped most was standing out, really working with my profile, thinkng hard about messages before sending them, and only messaging those I was really interested and had things in common with.

Then I hit the forums and people started to chat.

I have not had a send two messages and lets meet and fuck now convo ever on here, (although I have on pof lol) and never expected one.

Visiting clubs and social groups helps too if you can.

Be yourself, be patient and hopefully something will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"

I say yes, I have had my fair share here...

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Just look as hot as you can. That's what matters.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

They do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do just fine

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By *ubmissive bi coupleCouple
over a year ago

crawley

Yes.

Men need to stop trying to be all things to all people on this site. You'll get more meets.

You would not believe the amount of men we tell that they are too young, then try and say they are older. But first impressions count.

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

I much prefer a mature guy that’s why with my sexy cuck and much prefer a older guy.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I've been fine, although lot of peeps cut off is 50

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I won’t lie but since I turned 50 it got a whole lot easier and better for me on here. I’m not complaining

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I won’t lie but since I turned 50 it got a whole lot easier and better for me on here. I’m not complaining "

Shhhh

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I’m struggling, but it is what it is.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am 63, more old than mature but there is nothing I can do about my age so just enjoy the opportunities I do get

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I gave up trying seriously ages ago.

But love being on the site for the forums and the lovely people here. I also have a couple of fetishes taken care of whilst being a member.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Mrs prefers older guys but she still has to fancy them and feel some chemistry so not just every random older guy

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