FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest mistakes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the biggest mistakes guys make in the bedroom?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Keeping their socks on.

Wiping their cock on the curtains.

Thinking what they've seen in porn flicks is a good idea to try with a partner.

Cumming first and then instantly falling asleep.

The list is endless......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair few there

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By *cottish-guyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not cuddling after sex

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Pushing your head down when you're giving them a blow job... God I hate that

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

When at uni I fell asleep on top of a gf. She woke me and I obviously proclaimed I was "just slowing down so I didn't cum too soon."

"Does the snoring help with that?" she asked

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Not lasting long enough

Not bringing condoms

And not asking questions and just assuming we're up for anything

Thats a few to start yas off haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being to forward

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Not being able to cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not lasting long enough

Not bringing condoms

And not asking questions and just assuming we're up for anything

Thats a few to start yas off haha "

That’s just a start lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Rubbing the clit like they are trying to get a stain out the carpet.

Doing the A,B,C's with the tounge.

Jack hammering.

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Turning up

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

According to my ex,

Breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not warming up her side of the bed before she gets in.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Eating too much at the all you can eat buffet and falling asleep in a carb induced coma

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Thinking oral is a magic trick that will make any woman spontaneously cum

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Making assumptions

Forgetting about seduction

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always need seduction x

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Thinking oral is a magic trick that will make any woman spontaneously cum"

That's what fingers are for, caressing the whole body!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Using too much lube and not cumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rushing foreplay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rushing foreplay "

Never rush foreplay. Can be the best part

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Definitely No1 Keeping socks on (both sexes)

2. Going on about how many meets they have had.

3. Having too much to drink.

4. Keeping your coat on.

Had 3 & 4 happen with the same couple. Dont think they had discussed the evening before arriving!

5. Arriving too early before the kids had got ready to go out.

6. Arriving that late we were just about to put the lights out (they had been to the pub and got delayed/pissed)

7. Wanting to know too many personal details (ie Where we worked. How many kids. What car we drove. Where we shopped. Our neighbours names.

All have happened!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow. Those are pretty mental. And last one scary

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Concentrating on ‘performance’ and not being altogether present in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That would be weird lol

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

"That would be weird lol"

I blame porn

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"What’s the biggest mistakes guys make in the bedroom? "
to leave the woman in the car downstairs

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Couple, when single

Straight, when bi-curious

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Not demanding breakfast?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finger blasting, it bloody hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopping the headboard from tapping the wall buy pulling the bed away from it while she is still laying on it and breaking the bed in half! Yeah so annoying that...I wasn't invited back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely No1 Keeping socks on (both sexes)

2. Going on about how many meets they have had.

3. Having too much to drink.

4. Keeping your coat on.

Had 3 & 4 happen with the same couple. Dont think they had discussed the evening before arriving!

5. Arriving too early before the kids had got ready to go out.

6. Arriving that late we were just about to put the lights out (they had been to the pub and got delayed/pissed)

7. Wanting to know too many personal details (ie Where we worked. How many kids. What car we drove. Where we shopped. Our neighbours names.

All have happened!

All are very annoying, curious about the last one, keeping clothes on...really are they going somewhere?

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Not lasting long enough

Not bringing condoms

And not asking questions and just assuming we're up for anything

Thats a few to start yas off haha "

I always ask what turns you on most because the woman knows how she likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fail to cum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When at uni I fell asleep on top of a gf. She woke me and I obviously proclaimed I was "just slowing down so I didn't cum too soon."

"Does the snoring help with that?" she asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s me sometimes.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Getting clingy

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"When at uni I fell asleep on top of a gf. She woke me and I obviously proclaimed I was "just slowing down so I didn't cum too soon."

"Does the snoring help with that?" she asked

I smile now. But at the time I was mortified...well as much as a 19 Yr old boy can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believing and projecting that they’re going to give Mrs L something better than Mr G… they might give an intense experience but WE will always be best because we have the emotional connection as well as the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the biggest mistakes guys make in the bedroom? "

Arrogance (most often misplaced)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Thinking they have a gift of making any women orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking a big cock is all it takes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not being able to cum "

I wouldn't say that's a big mistake, just because a guy doesn't cum doesn't mean he isn't having a good time, and speaking personally, if I'm being well looked after and satisfied and the guy assures me he doesn't mind not cumming, then that's absolutely fine by me.

J (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a couple of things

Allowing someone to peg me who had no caring nature and just hurt me

Second thing - not being honest about what I enjoy I have learned the more experienced I get it's better to say yes I'm into xyz and would prefer a partner to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fail to cum lol"

Refer to my comment above...seriously? Do you guys really think we women measure you only on whether you cum or not? If a guy is ok with not cumming but is having a good time and the lady is happy with how she is being looked after, what's the big deal?

Mrs

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Coming too soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not listening to the moans we make, and the body language. It’s very easy to hear what’s working.

Ignoring boundaries at any point

Not discussing limits prior (applies to both sides obv)

Being too rough with delicate areas.

Not taking time to understand how women work.

Just a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fail to cum lol"

Doesn’t matter, as long as it’s enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking they have a gift of making any women orgasm."

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking a big cock is all it takes... "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not being able to cum

J (Mrs)"

Mr G often doesn’t come during a play session… doesn’t mean he’s not having a great time though

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Not being able to cum

J (Mrs)"

That's good to hear as this means there's no performance anxiety. Some of us want to cum, but we can't do to various reasons. It's a trade off between stamina and reaching the point of no return.

Not being a repeater, this is a balancing act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When at uni I fell asleep on top of a gf. She woke me and I obviously proclaimed I was "just slowing down so I didn't cum too soon."

"Does the snoring help with that?" she asked

I smile now. But at the time I was mortified...well as much as a 19 Yr old boy can be.

Well least you felt relaxed in her company lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on here

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Fingering you like they are trying to start a fire. If we fingered their arse that hard maybe they would think twice. To hard blood hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks left on ... ?

What's the issue .. can never figure it out ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Socks on is a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't need to cum for a man to have great fun, however it is more important that a make ladies cum and cum. Being a giver is very rewarding xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Completely agree. Being a giver is very important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your clit like a DJ decks.. pack it in.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Fingering you like they are trying to start a fire. If we fingered their arse that hard maybe they would think twice. To hard blood hurts. "

Would you prefer the morse code method?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Taking anti histamines and viagra. Not a good idea.

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By *astMeetsWestCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Rubbing the clit like they are trying to get a stain out the carpet.

Doing the A,B,C's with the tounge.

Jack hammering.

Mrs "

This is brilliant x

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