FabSwingers.com forum: What's the most important thing before meeting a new person as a first time couple?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So hoping to be on here joint with the mrs soon . What is your best advice for bringing a third into your sex life (male in our case) mfm or stag and vixen scenario! I been on here a while now and I think I've got almost everything answer. Question I needed to know but just incase I missed something. Thank you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Brushing your teeth is a good start!"

By *icksuckedMan
over a year ago

i travel about

I'd say have a chat between you on agreed rules and put them across to the person who's joining you so you are on the same page

By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

From a couples perspective (I am also part of a couple) it's important to pick a guy you both like. That goes for if your straight or bi. Why because a great experience for all is all about team work. So you all need a guy that you both feel comfortable around, communicate well with and have great chemistry with (even if that's just pure good platonic chemistry in the case of straight males in the mix). Although I'm straight I'm just as picky about the men and she is. I want a guy who I can work well with, who will completely adore her and is worthy of her. And that's why for us ironically men seem to be the real unicorns. We really struggle to find that right guy for a 3some. We have far more success with lone/single women and couples.

From a loan guy perspective with a view to find the right couple being treated with value and respect is important to me. I don't want to be treated like a sex toy or messed about. I'm there for everyones mutual pleasure including my own. If you want the right guys then you need to treat the right guys with repect and make them feel truly part of your thing, not some spare tool.