FabSwingers.com forum: Being recognised

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We recently had a message that freaked me out a little, seemed our profile had been recognised and the message

Header "I've told you your hot before" message "but where" I found it a bit creepy as I couldn't figure out who down south knew me, I did reply and they replied with my name, again it's not on here so freaked me out, took a while but I figured out who it was and blocked them.

Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

I found it super creepy until I figured out who it was, the person probably will read this mind (no offense but we don't mix fab and social media hence the blocking).

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Leave them be and also block them so they don't have to be in the same situation

Messaging someone their name is a bit creepy

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We leave it be…what is the point other than tk make people feel awkward.

Obviously, if you see someone in a club, best to front it up

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Leave them be and also block them so they don't have to be in the same situation

Messaging someone their name is a bit creepy

Yeah the knowing my name freaked me out.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We just block them

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

So do we

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Ran into someone I knew in a club, absolutely the last person I would expect but they probably thought the same. But an anonymous person messaging you by your real name is just really fucking creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s really creepy and infringes on your privacy too.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's creepy.

Strangley I'd rather someone contacted us off site to ask if it was us on here rather than messaging in Fab.

That way we'd just say no.

If we did get a message we'd probably just say 'sorry, wrong number' rather than delete or ignore. Easy to do if you've been careful, don't have clear faces on show or identifiable ink and don't use real names or locations and (as I do) adjust your age by a couple of years.

The bigger the gap between the real you and the Fab you the easier it is to maintain plausible deniability.

And OP - one photo (the mask one) doesn't really hide your identity from someone who knows you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's creepy.

Strangley I'd rather someone contacted us off site to ask if it was us on here rather than messaging in Fab.

That way we'd just say no.

The bigger the gap between the real you and the Fab you the easier it is to maintain plausible deniability.

And OP - one photo (the mask one) doesn't really hide your identity from someone who knows you.

I agree I had a look through the photos and think that's quite an identifiable one, it's the Mr's favourite but I think I'll be popping it as friends only

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It's creepy.

Strangley I'd rather someone contacted us off site to ask if it was us on here rather than messaging in Fab.

That way we'd just say no.

The bigger the gap between the real you and the Fab you the easier it is to maintain plausible deniability.

And OP - one photo (the mask one) doesn't really hide your identity from someone who knows you.

I agree I had a look through the photos and think that's quite an identifiable one, it's the Mr's favourite but I think I'll be popping it as friends only

Good move.

We got outed to Fox's mum when we first started seeing eachother a decade or so ago. They recognised furniture in photos so had obviously been in the house.

A slightly awkward conversation followed.......

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

close by

I had a very close family member I recognised on here I simply blocked and moved on, meeting them at a club however we couldn’t exactly avoid it simply had a chat spoke about the need for discretion and enjoyed the night xx mrs k xx

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I had a very close family member I recognised on here I simply blocked and moved on, meeting them at a club however we couldn’t exactly avoid it simply had a chat spoke about the need for discretion and enjoyed the night xx mrs k xx "

The nightmare scenario at the glory holes...

"Mum????!!!!"

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By *ean and carolineCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Deans friend viewed our profile the other week, he must know it was us, we just blocked and nothing has been said. He does have a girlfriend of 5 years though and we're unsure if she knows he's on here.

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By *ittycock400Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Been recognised by a guy who had done some painting for us a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn’t me as I’m terrible with names Karen

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Wasn’t me as I’m terrible with names Karen "

Don't worry Frank it wasn't you

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Got chatting to a hot couple few years ago … added as friends and wham was my good friend and team mate and his wife omg … freaked myself as I was married at the time and she knew these guys …. Sure had a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sir has been recognised alot and in the start we used to get a few messages. We decided the past is the past so just delete and bloke now. Personally I don't think I'd say anything to someone if I recognised them. We all deserve privacy, right?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

There is someone I know on here. Just popped up in my feed.

Will block next time I see them, for both our sakes, but don’t want to pop up in their recents.

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I’ve come across a few people I know/ recognise. Block and move on

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The nightmare scenario at the glory holes...

"Mum????!!!!""

Dad????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave them be unless I know them well enough.

I saw my friend on here, and we talk most things but I texted her and told her.

If it's someone I know in passing, then I block

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

You should've corrected them on the difference between your and you're first off. Then told them to fuck off.

There is a couple on here who I recognised. We met on holiday about 10 years ago when I was with an ex and realised we all lived near each other.

I noticed their username on the updates page when they first joined because it was a combination of their Instagram names. When I checked their profile their pics out it confirmed it was them.

They've messaged me twice to chat and we've spoken a little but I have no intentions of meeting up with them. I still see her and sometimes him when I'm walking the dog most mornings.

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By *atisfiedSighWoman
over a year ago

NW Wiltshire

I once chatted in real life to a person, and left suspecting that they were on here. Searched and found them. I did drop a message because we were only acquaintances, I had the impression from our chat that they'd be receptive, and they would be easy to avoid if need be.

We chatted for a while and made plans to meet on a few occasions but it never happened in the end.

In general though, if I recognised somebody here from the real world, I'd block them and say nothing. For my privacy and theirs.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We’ve had similar happen, we don’t mind it if they say who they are but it’s creepy when they’re anonymous x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd totally leave to it ,as I'd expect that too.

I've seen people I went to school with on here & a couple of people out in town I've recognised from their pics.

I don't get why others have to do it creepily ,ie not saying where they know you from etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We recognised a few people from when we was in Wales, some from social circles and others from work.. it was an instant block and forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a message that freaked me out a little, seemed our profile had been recognised and the message

Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

I found it super creepy until I figured out who it was, the person probably will read this mind (no offense but we don't mix fab and social media hence the blocking)."

that would definitely freak me out as well.

if I saw someone out in public that I recognised from here I would keep well away out of respect.

I think there is a lot more people on here wanting discretion, the last thing they need is someone from this site approaching them out in public

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

why do people have to be creepy about things.

if we are here we are here everyone.

No one any different from the other so why be creepy about it.

say you know them if you must & you can decide together whether leave it at that or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a message that freaked me out a little, seemed our profile had been recognised and the message

Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

I found it super creepy until I figured out who it was, the person probably will read this mind (no offense but we don't mix fab and social media hence the blocking)."

I had an amazing blast from the past on here and they got in touch with me….but were quite cryptic to begin with and freaked me out a little, until I remembered who it was.

I’ve kept in contact as she’s a lovely girl and we do plan to say hey in the future.

However for me, if I recognised from outside this lifestyle I’d not approach as I agree with you….mixing it just doesn’t seem right some how

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We always take sensible precautions it's the only way hopefully they see this and get the message that's it's not cool.

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By *icksuckedMan
over a year ago

i travel about

Part of the reason I don't post face pictures because people are quick enough calling you out even though they are also on here to find you in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into someone I knew in a club a while ago. We had a very short conversation, a few weeks later she found me on fab. Had some amazing meets with her and her best friend since. What was initially awkward turned out to have a positive outcome

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By *winglow777Man
over a year ago

selkirk

I’ve recognised more than a few.

I’ve left them be. We’re all here for fun.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I’ve recognised more than a few.

I’ve left them be. We’re all here for fun."

Lol more than one person recognised you for 12 dick pick how many do send out... lololololol

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By *winglow777Man
over a year ago

selkirk

I think you miss read. I said I’ve recognised for than a few.

I have no idea how many have recognised me. I obviously have face pics that I give out as well. Perhaps I’ve been recognised from that. I’ll never know.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's always a risk. Not so much be recognised, more being recognised by someone who is going to be a dick and/or a creep about it. It's one thing saying hello generally and an other thing making people uncomfortable and being a creep about it.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Chatted to a few people who it ending up I know in the "real" world.

It's a difficult and totally personal preference I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no id not go near the real life folks also with people who recognise me in the street unlikely as i dont walk around nude with a hardon often but if i was id not be happy in that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve recognised more than a few.

I’ve left them be. We’re all here for fun.

Lol more than one person recognised you for 12 dick pick how many do send out... lololololol"

It's those group chats

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think if we were recognised on here by someone we know, it would be a case of discussing need for discretion etc and then agreeing to block. If we recognised someone, we would simply block straight away.

If it was in a club, a similar conversation would be had and that would be the end of it.

We are all adults and should be able to respect the privacy of others. Being a creep like the person who messaged the OPs name is not on and just shows a complete lack of consideration and certain degree of immaturity to communicate in that way.

C x

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

If someone recognised us on here we would rather them message us and let us know who they are, we are all on here for the same thing, doesn't mean we would play with them but at least it would be somthing for us to chat about the next time we saw them, as other than a few friends no one knows what we do

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Too many guys think this is fucking funny... Oohh I saw you at the pub/in town, you looked great... No face pic, not sending one... So you stood and watched me and said nothing, Hilarious! Fucking creep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a message that freaked me out a little, seemed our profile had been recognised and the message

Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

I found it super creepy until I figured out who it was, the person probably will read this mind (no offense but we don't mix fab and social media hence the blocking)."

Text u on a creepy way is weird :

Why no a : “ hi is me , just found u on fabs , how are you ? Would u like to chat or go for a drink ?

Wtf ? Where’s manners ?

I have found my manager on dating app . I did like her she is funny n very good looking .

But I was scared losing my job so I never approached her online or personally.

And respect to her space , as she is trapped at work can’t escape I feel bad and I can’t approach .

Oh well ^^ she wouldn’t probably like me that much anyway .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Too many guys think this is fucking funny... Oohh I saw you at the pub/in town, you looked great... No face pic, not sending one... So you stood and watched me and said nothing, Hilarious! Fucking creep! "

Now that would freak me out, that's super creepy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We recently had a message that freaked me out a little, seemed our profile had been recognised and the message

Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

I found it super creepy until I figured out who it was, the person probably will read this mind (no offense but we don't mix fab and social media hence the blocking).

Text u on a creepy way is weird :

Why no a : “ hi is me , just found u on fabs , how are you ? Would u like to chat or go for a drink ?

Wtf ? Where’s manners ?

I have found my manager on dating app . I did like her she is funny n very good looking .

But I was scared losing my job so I never approached her online or personally.

And respect to her space , as she is trapped at work can’t escape I feel bad and I can’t approach .

Oh well ^^ she wouldn’t probably like me that much anyway .

Yes exactly I wouldn't find it wierd if it wasn't for the cryptic message and name drop.

Mrs

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

Ran into my old boss in a club

Ran into 4 lads that work on the same building site as me

Not many black scarfs so whenever I say my name (Carrington) they all know me as you that black lad that's a swinger. I just own it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have two friends from life on here that know we are on here and are on our friends list on here. But only because they are close friends , if it was anyone we know in passing or anyone that we don’t trust then block and move on 100%

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

No, I'd leave them be. I'd find it quite jarring and creepy if it happened to me, so I imagine they'd feel the same way

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Yeah anyone I think I know off fab o block

don't want the awkwardness when we meeting Tesco or at the gym lol

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

We've had 2 or 3 guys approach us on a nude beach we frequent abroad saying they recognised us from Fab profile pictures.

It's a risk we take being open and honest in our profile, though they seem to overlook the request for 'no solitary guys please' and are still brazen enough to chance their arm. There are so many guys who believe they are the exception to your rules.

It's very awkward if you happen to have non-swinging friends round and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a message that freaked me out a little, seemed our profile had been recognised and the message

Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

I found it super creepy until I figured out who it was, the person probably will read this mind (no offense but we don't mix fab and social media hence the blocking)."

Not yet and hope it never happens, could imagine it would be a little awkward

...

I have actually seen and recognised someone but said absolutely nothing...

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I've had multiple messages before (on my singles account and our previous couple's account I think) where guys were asking if I'd been in a certain place at a certain time....1 no it wasn't me, and 2 fuck off being weird!!! - Xeno

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Was sat in a jacuzzi with my partner, you can see who walks in the club, from a distance when suddenly recognised the face of a girl that came in was my ex. No idea she was into swinging was funny when the owner noticed the awkward situation and said you two know each other, she was quick saying lives near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived in a small village with someone who used to go to the same swingers club as myself. Regularly saw them in the village, never acknowledged or spoke to them.

They mentioned this in the club a week or two after we first bumped into each other, and they were really grateful; which i though was nice just because I'd been a normal decent person

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

Received a couple of messages on our couple's profile, suggesting the sender knew us, but the names were all wrong, so I suggested he comes round and knocks on the door with his cock out

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Outing people is not cool at all. Just a big no. Should really go without saying but some cock wombles love the thrill of having some creepy power over people. Sad people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been recognised and have recognised,

Being recognised ended up with mine and the wifes couples profile screenshot and shared around the local pubs FFS, that soon taught us not to have face pics for all to see

The person I recognised was one of my best friends from school, it's safe to say we are now really good friends again and I've even introduced her to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped sending face pics for this reason ...I had a random message from a guy who said he saw me quite close to home ..it was alarming. I usually disengage when ppl ask for a face pic now.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It definitely seems to be something disproportionately effecting women. Mrs has had this creepiness before. But me (Mr) only recognised and messaged once. A woman I used to sleep 20 years ago with in my youth who's is in a fab couple on here. No creepy undertones. Just are you thingy from years ago and a plesant hello. No creepiness or assumption that because they knew me they have right to access now. It's not the recognition so much as the creepiness, assumption of familiarity and/or suggestive black-mail which is problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just instantly block. However someone recognised me and I didn't know it was them until they sent a face pic of themselves.

The messages he was sending was weird and I knew instantly they knew me.

Nikki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago someone was using my photos and this guy got really offended when I didn’t know who he was. Turns out someone had a good fake profile of my photos on here and I had no idea!

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By *rusouljahMan
over a year ago

Northampton/London

I would block anyone I knew personally if I came across their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got a msg onhere I’d just hello

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

We had a bad one a message hi is that ………. I used to come to your house with your kid ! We share ourselves!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are someone who you would like to meet and who you think may welcome meeting you, then you can just send them a face pic and a generic "hello there" type message that suggests you havent recognised them. They can then block you if they want to. You then have to act normally around them in person though! No giggles or suggestive comments.

And obviously, use your brain before doing that to consider if it may cause problems in that connection. If in doubt, just block and move on.

Fay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my biggest fears being on here. Yet also one of my biggest turn ons..... I'm odd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to an old male school friend on here&Whatsapp,we are platonic friends and that's all

I did have a guy message me with just abuse because he requested, and a guy walked upto me in a pub when I was out with family and made a comment ,wasn't nice and I still don't have a clue who he is

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

It is possibly quite hard .. but not impossible for me to be recognised, I am kinda in ‘disguise’ and I don’t think I look anything like the ‘other’ me! Only a small handful have ever met ‘both of me’ and all have said they would never have made the connection.

A couple of years ago, a close work colleague viewed my profile .. I hadn’t seen him before in here, and it freaked me a bit. I immediately blocked him!!! Nothing was ever said, so think I got away with it!!

R xx

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m sure we’ve done this thread before.

Me and a lovely woman were chatting on here, getting on great, sending each other photos, flirting quite outrageously, when she suddenly realised we knew each other from years back. She handled it beautifully though. Mentioned it straight away, we kept chatting, got past the awkwardness, and met up for a drink. Then again for a lot more. Pretty sure we’ll be friends for life now.

You can have a happy ending if you’re both just grown-ups about it.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’ve had one incident with being recognized. Guy had seen us playing on cam then messaged Mrs on social media. Not saying he’d seen our fab just really creepy messages.

Looked back through the “who’s viewed us” and saw his profile. Sent him a message back on social media and told him to back off then blocked him on here.

If we see a local profile view ours over and over then we just block them.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Touch wood (sorry) I have never run in to someone I know IRL on Fab. Has happened the other way round a few times tho.

I regularly get guys messaging me with the "don't I know you" line but it has just been a hook to try to reel me in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone recognised us on here we would rather them message us and let us know who they are, we are all on here for the same thing, doesn't mean we would play with them but at least it would be somthing for us to chat about the next time we saw them, as other than a few friends no one knows what we do"

totally agree with this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure we’ve done this thread before.

You can have a happy ending if you’re both just grown-ups about it."

how it should be.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t show face due to my job but there is something thrilling with being recognised x

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By *ontVellaCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Touch wood (sorry) I have never run in to someone I know IRL on Fab. Has happened the other way round a few times tho.

I regularly get guys messaging me with the "don't I know you" line but it has just been a hook to try to reel me in."

I can’t think of anything less likely to reel us in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, they are bang at as well, arrange to get it on with them and chill

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Recently realised a work colleague is on here so probably knows I'm here too plus a guy I was chatting with recognised a pic of my wife

rhink he's friends with her ex

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Anyway my question is do you approach people you think you recognize or leave them be?

This aspect of my life is heavily compartmentalized. So if i came across someone on here, that i knew/ recognized IRL, i’d block them immediately.

That’s the bare minimum when it comes to discretion.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I have seen one person on here that I recognise but do not know. Cammy’s workmates and family know what we do but she is terrified of being recognised by others

We have not yet had a meet with anyone from Fab but I think if it happened to us. I would just front it out. It could avoid an awkward situation down the line

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By *orrow my wifeCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

After visiting a spa I was recognised by the charming man at my Indian takeaway lol.

I get more than free poppadoms atm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We saw someone we knew and blocked him quickly.

Just out of courtesy really as we’d hope someone would do to us.

Definitely creepy quoting your name.

I’d have gone and had a word with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised a good friend of mine on here and his wife a while back. A pic of her on the car bonnet, skirt hitched up, pussy on show. Recognised the fabric on her dress and the distinctive blue of their car. We had been to a BBQ a few days before and she was wearing that dress, and they did sneak off for a bit so must have had some car fun. Always fancied her and get on very well with him, would love to join them for a threesome but would not dream of approaching them on here like that. If they approached me I would be honest with them but otherwise I just admire from afar.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

harbourough

A couple of times. One I blocked because I don’t like or trust the person. The others, I keep their secret, they keep mine. Beyond that, we maintain a platonic relationship

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I saw a couple I recognised on here. I never said anything to him . I won't say anything.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’ve recognised some people off here going about their daily business, but we’d never dream of approaching them while they’re pushing a trolly around Tesco, or following it up with a ‘we saw you’ message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no need to approach someone like that. It is a dick move and they knew what they were doing.

Block and move on.

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By *ogging DougMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I was recognised in a Club. It was one of light bulb moments for me too as I was sure I knew the face.

It was great - the Lady in question has stopped swinging now. Shame.

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We got a message from the bar man at our local once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really dont care. If uou recognise me come say hi. Youre here too. Its like saying I dont pee or do number two..society has made a perfectly natural thing (sex) seem un-natural. We are adults, we all do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last Saturday in the loo of a resteraunt some guy shouts Mav, can I fuck your missus at the top of his lungs, only us two in there. Just ignored him without a flinch and he left, we aren't shy at all but it doesn't excuse people being bellends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this a few times, people will go onto explain where they saw me and what I was doing but refuse to out themselves.

It's horrible always makes me extremely uncomfortable and creeped out. I just block them.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Alyson has been recognised a few times, each one blatantly announcing they know her but with zero indication of who they are

One total dicksplat decided to drop us a message stating that he was in a pub very local to us showing his mates our profile

and one of his mates knew her! Still no idea who it was, and we blocked the cunt.

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

Respect, kindness and firmness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alyson has been recognised a few times, each one blatantly announcing they know her but with zero indication of who they are

One total dicksplat decided to drop us a message stating that he was in a pub very local to us showing his mates our profile

and one of his mates knew her! Still no idea who it was, and we blocked the cunt. "

You have public face pics. What do you expect?

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We have face pics on here so it goes without saying that we don't mind if folk know us, our lifestyle is not illegal or anything to be ashamed of.

However we hate getting messages from people saying they know us but won't say who they are. Instant block.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Alyson has been recognised a few times, each one blatantly announcing they know her but with zero indication of who they are

One total dicksplat decided to drop us a message stating that he was in a pub very local to us showing his mates our profile

and one of his mates knew her! Still no idea who it was, and we blocked the cunt.

You have public face pics. What do you expect? "

That's not the issue, we're not fussed who sees us, if we were we wouldn't have face pics as public, but as others have said it's the creepy "I know you but I'm not saying who I am" that's pathetic.

And we can't stop anybody doing what they do but announcing to us that they're showing us to their pals down the pub but still refusing to reveal their identity....just tells us that they're disrespectful idiots

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve had a couple of people message us that they’ve seen us out and about or recognise Dee from the past, as she tends to go out with her friends to bars and clubs. As long as they are sensible it’s fine, although if someone started getting creepy, instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most profiles don’t share face pics so want to remain anonymous, had quite a few that live local try fishing,so they get blocked

The worst was when we had locations active

Turns out they had similar journey to work and started discussing daytime locations,won’t be putting locations back on ever again

We are both also very distinctive in looks

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