FabSwingers.com forum: Rules

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are your rules as a couple?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck gorgeous people, must include kissing ??

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Love the freedom and liberation that comes with firm rules and clear boundries. It's so hot when a couple clearly communicates exactly what they do, and don't want. You can do what you want in between the boundaries and you don't have to worry about accidentaly crossing a line

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"What are your rules as a couple?

Char can play with who she wants, when she wants and where she wants as long as I know about it before, during or after. No secrets is all.

Otherwise....no anal, no feet, no gags and nothing too kinky until we know them well.

(Bry)

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We've only 2 steadfast ones at the min but that might change in the future noone but hub gets anal and no cum in or on my pussy but as said we might increase the number of rules and also maybe take some away

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Safe sex always, never play with drug takers. Otherwise it’s game on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Our rules are we always try and go first (sometimes taken over by the moment) and last together. We’ll always reconnect sexually after a play date, however full on it’s been or exhausted we are. It’s like reclamation of what’s ours. Mrs doesn’t do anal with anyone but Mr. Mr only does anal with lots of lube and covered. Mrs doesn’t like her neck/throat held, she doesn’t have cum on her face although she’ll happily take in her mouth, her pussy or over her tits. Neither of us do poo or piss. BDSM/Fetish fun we keep for us currently although we have occasionally played with others when the mood has taken us. Other than that we’re up for most things.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too"

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Empty the dishwasher before work.

Don’t leave dirty pants on the bathroom floor.

Put the lid back on the toothpaste.

That’s about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible."

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself "

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would? "

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Basic and obvious stuff like safe sex etc but the main one is if one of us really isn't keen we both withdraw.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either"

understood

It's a preference like any other

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Safe sex always

No friends

No pee, pain or poop

No anal

No taking one for the team.

Mrs

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either"

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?"

I can't speak for this poster but I am more than happy for that to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?"

It's called a preference and we all have them. Why do people continually feel the need to question other people's preferences? by saying I don't get that. You don't get it because it's not your preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?"

Personally, no.

But I would make compromises based on how serious I was about him and I as a couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?

The no kissing thing is often hotly debated in fab. It'll never be resolved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?

Personally, no.

But I would make compromises based on how serious I was about him and I as a couple"

I'm not a swinger, but I am a realist.

Any need or want of an extra party would be the start of the end of us.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?

I’m not questioning your preference I was just seeking polite clarification for my understanding. It’s a forum isn’t it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?

I’m not questioning your preference I was just seeking polite clarification for my understanding. It’s a forum isn’t it ?

it's not mu preference either it's ops... but my point stands - we all have preferences and we don't need to justify them.

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We haven't met anyone as a couple yet but our rules as fab friends is total unadulterated honesty. We have no secrets from each other and anyone we meet will be an equal up to a point. There are certain things we are extremely comfortable with just between us that no-one else will get to experience.

Everything else will be discussed individually.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We are with you on this one! No kissing on the face. That is kept just for us. No "no-go" areas anywhere else

G&A

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By *otwifingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Northants

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible."

We do exactly the same for the exact same reason!

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By *otwifingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Northants

"What are your rules as a couple?

We try to be super open and clear on our profile so people can see from the get go what we're into and what's not OK for us, e.g. no kissing on the face but all other areas are fair game.

And then between ourselves things like:

My husband can veto any of my choices and it stops immediately, no arguments or questions - a huge part of my enjoyment comes from him so if he's not feeling it for any reason he can say so

Nothing that is going to impact or interfere with our normal home or work lives

No secrets

Nothing that's going to put either of us at risk.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Safe sex only and good communication & honesty. Other rules are meant to broken!

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

there are quite a few couples we know who dont kiss others ... their rules their swinging life it works for them and others ...

we have rules in place that have been there forever but because we talk all the time things change here n there its about thing we want and dont want in that moment .. safety rules are strict ... theres some lines drawn in the sand that other people should not cross ... once blocked always blocked ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No poo no pee anything else goes aslong as everyone is comfortable and having a great time

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Basic and obvious stuff like safe sex etc but the main one is if one of us really isn't keen we both withdraw."

We have that one. Nobody takes one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are your rules as a couple?

We are still fairly new to the scene as a couple but as it stands, our definite rules are: only J gets to do anal on me, unless it’s another woman with a strap on; I only want to swallow his cum but I will happy suck other cocks; and we will only play together in the same room. No from one of us is a no for both of us - if we are not both in agreement on something then it’s a no.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either

But happy for your partner to fuck a random. Am I understanding you correctly?

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Only meet if the other guys are happy with videos being taken. Apart from that, as long as it's fun anything goes.

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York

We have only one rule and that is, there are no rules.

Anything that turns Liz on turns Rob on and vice versa.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either"
see I'm weird. I love seeing a partner when I have one kissing someone else but I don't like being kissed myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a couple no kissing casual partners.

Individually we have our own too

I can’t imagine sex without kissing the other person

No, a lot of people can't.

. That's why we put it on our profile so they know we're not compatible.

I totally get this one tbh. Not in a couple atm but I wouldn't like that being offered myself

You wouldn't like kissing being offered or you would?

I wouldn't enjoy watching my partner kissing a random.

I'd not seek it for myself either see I'm weird. I love seeing a partner when I have one kissing someone else but I don't like being kissed myself "

We love kissing and watching our partners being kissed

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Both present at all times

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If there is anything that makes either of us uncomfortable, everything stops.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If there is anything that makes either of us uncomfortable, everything stops."

Same

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Always use protection and as a couple we always come first. Hookups are never prioritized over time together.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

For us.

1. Kissing is a must

2. First time encounters must be protected sex

3. No facials

4. Finish where Debs requests it

5. Have fun and don't take it too seriously

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