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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." may I ask in what way you take the piss???  | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." maybe cos people like you take the piss out of them and they loose a bit confidence is your wife big??? some may say she is some may say she not.. how would you like some one taking the piss out of you wife??????????????????????????????????????????????????? | |||
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"I doubt that "people" don't find your size attractive, I think "some people may not which is normal... Nothing sexier than a big girl with confidence "The 'sexier' thing as nothing to do with size and everything to do with confidence. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 12/12/12 01:44:02] dont think I'll be getting an answer "it is a good question... I'll have to get back to you on that one. But be rest assured it isn't abusive  | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 12/12/12 01:44:02] dont think I'll be getting an answer it is a good question... I'll have to get back to you on that one. But be rest assured it isn't abusive "just that you said you take the piss, so now I'm curious as to how | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." You do it for laughs...so if someone took the piss out of you for the colour of your skin they would be doing it for a laugh and would you see the funny side like us fat women do..NO.. But i am curious how they responded when you took the piss did you wear ya balls as earrings when they had finished with you? | |||
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"Ive been on the site since April and did get lots of messages because guys found me attractive so they said - which I found hard to accept and still do now. I was a size 12-14 when I joined (I had lost quite a bit of weight but have now put most back on so consider myself fat (aka curvy). Guys tell me and one has recently that when I told him I was fat and he met me he said im not fat. Im a size 16 and dont like it but its down to me that im that size. But anyway if you like curvier women then dont slag them off just dont speak to us. Its rude and demoralising. "To me 12 - 14 is the ideal size for a woman. A woman should have curves. | |||
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"Well I'm a big girl and I have to say I don't have an issue with people not finding me attractive as I'm well aware that I ain't everyone's cup of tea as they aren't mine but I do have an issue with people making nasty comments and as you put it 'taking the piss'!!! However there will be some women on here that have low self confidence and your piss taking could really upset them so maybe you should stop and think in future!!! " I think that is very well put  | |||
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"You admit to taking the piss out of larger ladies and then ask why they have a problem with it? Really?! There's a difference between someone not finding a person attractive and them being rude, derogatory, taking the piss or making personal comments. Neither of you are examples of physical perfection and I could make unpleasant comments about both of you. I'd never dream of doing so though because it's simply not necessary and would serve no positive purpose. The most I would say is I'm sorry but you're not what I'm looking for." but that's precisely my point, if you were to make unpleasant comments about my colour or physique I wouldn't be bothered in the slightest because I like who I am and I realise there will always be someone that wouldn't like something about me. I'm just confident like that looool   | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and " - do you really?
" i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever." - i've always been fat, but never been the kind that 'will respond'. most of the time i just ignore. but today, i'm 'taking the piss' because 
" What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." - i have no issue whatsoever about people not finding me attractive. i have many things i like and dont like. everyone has their own preferences. of course, i'd like to be thinner if possible, but that doesnt mean i hate myself. in fact, i kinda like my body. love my boobies..  | |||
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"It's weird and bizarre because I want to know why a lot of big girls have an issue when they are told they're not attractive?! Ok then... " I'm pretty sure nearly everyone has an issue when told they are not attractive. What you're talking about is how people react to that. You obviously don't care, I do. Not much we can do to change each other is there? | |||
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"I think the secret is don't take the piss out of any one on here. No one comes on fab to get their confidence kicked out of them . How would you like it if they did that to you . Try to treat everyone on here with respect . We are all looking for fun and good times not to diss people we don't think are our type . Try someone out of your normal likes. You might get a pleasant surprise " well said mate...  | |||
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"My point is single guys on here are bashed on a daily, I've seen it loads, by just about everyone and they take it on the chin, so why is it a big issue the other way round which is something I have also seen a lot on here... Perhaps it is having a low self concept?! Most probably. It's a shame though that some of them feel that way..." Hang on this completely different - single guys get a bad rep on here cos there's a lot of em that are complete toss bags that deserve it but its rarely personal to a particular person unless the keep putting up stupid and pointless threads!! But taking the piss out of someone personally cos of there size is gonna offend some people!!! Personally I find overly confident unattractive!!! | |||
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"I think the secret is don't take the piss out of any one on here. No one comes on fab to get their confidence kicked out of them . How would you like it if they did that to you . Try to treat everyone on here with respect . We are all looking for fun and good times not to diss people we don't think are our type . Try someone out of your normal likes. You might get a pleasant surprise " well said mate... | |||
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"Terrible thread, stupid nasty guy thinking its fun to put people down "well obviously i expected some of this but it's cool, you're entitled to your opinion. | |||
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"Most nasty piss taking comments are said for shockability and attention. Would you say it to her face, would you say it to her face in front of other people... Most will say it on the Internet but not dare say it in public. The pain it may inflict is invisible on the web, the pain in someone's eyes often less so to witness. " Well said! | |||
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"Boys are well renowned for being mean and nasty to girls they fancy. From infant school in trying spiders at them, to senior school twanging their bras and making fun of periods. Its a way of ensuring the girl is aware of the boy, knows his name etc, he's getting her attention, even though she probably hates him. Boys are silly. Some boys, when they grow into men, have not developed gentlemanly qualities and still use the little boys technique of getting girls attention. It is not wrong to admit you don't like big girls, skinny girls, flat chested girls etc. But a lot of people, especially when BBW threads start, feel the need to add rude words, fatties, salad dodgers, lard arse etc. It is those rude words that people object to. Some women also make disparaging comments about big girls. This is mainly because there is an element of selfishness that they don't think big girls should have attention from men, are incredulous that some men prefer a curvier girl or a larger girl. They don't feel big girls deserve any attention, and should wait in line and know their place below the slim girls. Regardless of whether these big girls could be more attractive facially or their bodies attractive to men. People get fed up with rude and childish comments, that is why they strike back "Give this lady a round of applause - well put | |||
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"Boys are well renowned for being mean and nasty to girls they fancy. From infant school in trying spiders at them, to senior school twanging their bras and making fun of periods. Its a way of ensuring the girl is aware of the boy, knows his name etc, he's getting her attention, even though she probably hates him. Boys are silly. Some boys, when they grow into men, have not developed gentlemanly qualities and still use the little boys technique of getting girls attention. It is not wrong to admit you don't like big girls, skinny girls, flat chested girls etc. But a lot of people, especially when BBW threads start, feel the need to add rude words, fatties, salad dodgers, lard arse etc. It is those rude words that people object to. Some women also make disparaging comments about big girls. This is mainly because there is an element of selfishness that they don't think big girls should have attention from men, are incredulous that some men prefer a curvier girl or a larger girl. They don't feel big girls deserve any attention, and should wait in line and know their place below the slim girls. Regardless of whether these big girls could be more attractive facially or their bodies attractive to men. People get fed up with rude and childish comments, that is why they strike back "DAMN! I just got told, lol!  | |||
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"Boys are well renowned for being mean and nasty to girls they fancy. From infant school in trying spiders at them, to senior school twanging their bras and making fun of periods. Its a way of ensuring the girl is aware of the boy, knows his name etc, he's getting her attention, even though she probably hates him. Boys are silly. Some boys, when they grow into men, have not developed gentlemanly qualities and still use the little boys technique of getting girls attention. It is not wrong to admit you don't like big girls, skinny girls, flat chested girls etc. But a lot of people, especially when BBW threads start, feel the need to add rude words, fatties, salad dodgers, lard arse etc. It is those rude words that people object to. Some women also make disparaging comments about big girls. This is mainly because there is an element of selfishness that they don't think big girls should have attention from men, are incredulous that some men prefer a curvier girl or a larger girl. They don't feel big girls deserve any attention, and should wait in line and know their place below the slim girls. Regardless of whether these big girls could be more attractive facially or their bodies attractive to men. People get fed up with rude and childish comments, that is why they strike back "I love you! | |||
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"You admit to taking the piss out of larger ladies and then ask why they have a problem with it? Really?! There's a difference between someone not finding a person attractive and them being rude, derogatory, taking the piss or making personal comments. Neither of you are examples of physical perfection and I could make unpleasant comments about both of you. I'd never dream of doing so though because it's simply not necessary and would serve no positive purpose. The most I would say is I'm sorry but you're not what I'm looking for.but that's precisely my point, if you were to make unpleasant comments about my colour or physique I wouldn't be bothered in the slightest because I like who I am and I realise there will always be someone that wouldn't like something about me. I'm just confident like that looool "Taking the piss out of people for their appearance is a cheap way to get a laugh. If a friend or relative of yours was in tears because of constant and repeated racial piss taking then I suspect you would offer more support than to simply man up and take it and that they need a stronger sense of self worth so it won't bother them which is what you appear to expect of bigger women. Self esteem is something that comes from being shown your personal worth by others so often that you believe that you have personal worth. Many people don't have it (just check out the compliments thread to see how many don't believe compliments when they get them). Taking the piss out of people because of looks or differences is also known as bullying. Which is a very ugly word. Next time you think about doing it consider what your reaction would be if it was happening between children, if the confident popular kids were having a pop at the fat kid or the speccy kid or the kid whose skin is a different colour. As someone who believed the bullies for years it's soul destroying, humiliating and is often a daily hell to go through. Your light-hearted piss take could be the final straw for someone who has to take it on the chin every day. | |||
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"You admit to taking the piss out of larger ladies and then ask why they have a problem with it? Really?! There's a difference between someone not finding a person attractive and them being rude, derogatory, taking the piss or making personal comments. Neither of you are examples of physical perfection and I could make unpleasant comments about both of you. I'd never dream of doing so though because it's simply not necessary and would serve no positive purpose. The most I would say is I'm sorry but you're not what I'm looking for.but that's precisely my point, if you were to make unpleasant comments about my colour or physique I wouldn't be bothered in the slightest because I like who I am and I realise there will always be someone that wouldn't like something about me. I'm just confident like that looool
Taking the piss out of people for their appearance is a cheap way to get a laugh.
If a friend or relative of yours was in tears because of constant and repeated racial piss taking then I suspect you would offer more support than to simply man up and take it and that they need a stronger sense of self worth so it won't bother them which is what you appear to expect of bigger women.
Self esteem is something that comes from being shown your personal worth by others so often that you believe that you have personal worth.
Many people don't have it (just check out the compliments thread to see how many don't believe compliments when they get them).
Taking the piss out of people because of looks or differences is also known as bullying. Which is a very ugly word.
Next time you think about doing it consider what your reaction would be if it was happening between children, if the confident popular kids were having a pop at the fat kid or the speccy kid or the kid whose skin is a different colour.
As someone who believed the bullies for years it's soul destroying, humiliating and is often a daily hell to go through. Your light-hearted piss take could be the final straw for someone who has to take it on the chin every day."you are right | |||
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"i have seen some threads where its been about BBW and someone has politely put "nah sorry BBW isnt my thing" and the poor guy has had a barage of replies like "hwo can u say its not ur thing" "big girls are beautiful maybe u should try it" etc.. is this the kind of attitude u mean OP? The way people have suddenly got so defensive on here.. is that what u mean? That attitude shocked me when i first came across it too as when i read his post i just thought "fair dues" I dont expect everyone to find me attractive thats crazy thinking :/ Im more thna happy to get a "sorry your not my type! but would take offence at a "sorry i dont do fat girls theyre just nasty"" that is exactly what I mean! There many women on here that won't meet me because I don't have 9 inches or I'm not tall enough etc but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because in the real world where it matters to me I have loads that find me attractive. | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting. You do it for laughs...so if someone took the piss out of you for the colour of your skin they would be doing it for a laugh and would you see the funny side like us fat women do..NO.. But i am curious how they responded when you took the piss did you wear ya balls as earrings when they had finished with you? " | |||
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"what exactly do u mean by take the piss at big girls? how?" Not in like you're nasty, just like "I don't like fat girls" or "i don't find fat girls attractive" sort of thing... | |||
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"what exactly do u mean by take the piss at big girls? how?Not in like you're nasty, just like "I don't like fat girls" or "i don't find fat girls attractive" sort of thing... " well im sure there is a better way to word it.. everyone has self esteem issues as we r all human. no one has to explain why they arent interest in someone surely?? the term "fat" is seen as a degrogrative term and therefore anyoen using it must realise they may cause offence by doing so :/ Fat is seen the same as Coon or Nigger.. u dont use it | |||
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"what exactly do u mean by take the piss at big girls? how?Not in like you're nasty, just like "I don't like fat girls" or "i don't find fat girls attractive" sort of thing... well im sure there is a better way to word it.. everyone has self esteem issues as we r all human. no one has to explain why they arent interest in someone surely?? the term "fat" is seen as a degrogrative term and therefore anyoen using it must realise they may cause offence by doing so :/ Fat is seen the same as Coon or Nigger.. u dont use it "not sure about fat being the same as nigga... In the papers the term fat is used and I'm sure they word thing very carefully. | |||
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"The papers have no sensibilities in wording at all the term "fat" is degrading and derogatory and downright hurtful if you want the honest truth take it from someone who used to be classed as morbidly obese " well I suppose I have to take your word for it | |||
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"The papers have no sensibilities in wording at all the term "fat" is degrading and derogatory and downright hurtful if you want the honest truth take it from someone who used to be classed as morbidly obese well I suppose I have to take your word for it "Just by changing the word fat to bigger makes a world of difference and you will be better thought of, its entirely up to you if you take my word for it or not but at least give it a try | |||
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"The papers have no sensibilities in wording at all the term "fat" is degrading and derogatory and downright hurtful if you want the honest truth take it from someone who used to be classed as morbidly obese well I suppose I have to take your word for it "when someone is abusing someone obese they say "fat bitch" "fat cow".. see the thinking.. i personally dont find it degrogrative as when someone says that to me i reply with "holy shit am i? wow ur a genius i never realised the obvious before!" or "my god i wandered why i didnt fit into a size 12 dress" :D | |||
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I don't get what you were hoping to achieve from your posts, as I get the impression you keep changing your point of _iew all the way through.
I do recall some of your other posts on other threads in relation to size and felt the same then. It may be I dont get your humour through text. The same as some may not get your piss taking about their size and interpret it as being down right nasty.
Big, slim, average, the majority of people have feelings, and some people have theirs hurt by people being negative or derogatory towards them.
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." What a strange opener; "I like to amuse myself by upsetting the people I find attractive. I know it really upsets them, but that's their problem and I don't really care to be honest." Followed by... "Why is it bigger ladies don't like it when people (ie, me) don't find them attractive, because the fact they don't just makes them less appealling to me!" Seriously, have you heard of the term egocentric? Google it. In terms of you taking "the piss at big girls (SIC)" - I think a lot of people can take a joke. Where it becomes an issue is when a total stranger makes, at best, an ambigious, potentially hurtful remark and then seemingly moans about the negative reaction they then get back in return; accusing the 'humourless fatty' they've insulted of being hypersensitive. As for the first part of your statement - as someone else has so eloquently put - this is what children do in the playground. Most people grow out of it by the age of nine or ten and even if they don't, they at least have the understanding that there is a time and place for such humour, when it can be easily understood that it is merely a joke. Trying to persuade "fat" ladies to jump into bed with you by insulting them and then complaining about their reactions, isn't the best way to go about things. You need to realise, you aren't doing them a favour by asking them to shag you. It isn't some self-sacrificial charity act on your behalf. Treat people, fat or thin, with the same respect and courtesy you would like to receive yourself. | |||
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"It's weird and bizarre because I want to know why a lot of big girls have an issue when they are told they're not attractive?! Ok then... " I think any woman or bloke for that matter, regardless of size would have an issue with anyone being unpleasant enough to state that they are 'unattractive' There's a big difference between saying 'you are not my type' and saying 'You are unattractive' Who the fuck put you in charge of telling people how they should rate themselves? The more I think about it the more cross it makes me! | |||
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" The most I would say is I'm sorry but you're not what I'm looking for." | |||
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"It's weird and bizarre because I want to know why a lot of big girls have an issue when they are told they're not attractive?! Ok then... I think any woman or bloke for that matter, regardless of size would have an issue with anyone being unpleasant enough to state that they are 'unattractive' There's a big difference between saying 'you are not my type' and saying 'You are unattractive' Who the fuck put you in charge of telling people how they should rate themselves? The more I think about it the more cross it makes me! " Go Fia! | |||
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". There's a big difference between saying 'you are not my type' and saying 'You are unattractive'
Absolutely! The former is a statement owned by the person, describing their own preferences, the latter is at best judgmental and at worst very offensive and uncalled for."this is very true, just cos someone isnt attractive to one person doesnt mean they arent to another.. its like the attitude that soem people have that to them big girls are very unattractive and therefore should be desperate as surely noone finds them attractive.. odd! most of my friends adore michael buble.. i just dont see what it is about him in any way | |||
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" most of my friends adore michael buble.. i just dont see what it is about him in any way "I am so with you on that one... I simply dont get that either | |||
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"I think there is a difference between asking a question because a person happens to be curious and asking one because you know it will enflame people's sentiments.... Sort of trying to be clever to get a reaction.... That is the beauty in what some may find attractive in that "personality" may play a part in that as well as height, or size or colour ect ect ect." Agree with you - and there is also that sometimes... the person does not meet your preference criteria and yet they may have something very attractive about them that you had not thought of, experienced or appreciated before. Lets face it.. life... the scene are dynamic by their concept. | |||
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" most of my friends adore michael buble.. i just dont see what it is about him in any way I am so with you on that one... I simply dont get that either "i dont find brad pitt perticually attractive but i can see why some do as he has very nice features.. just not my thing. but michael.. he is so plain lol.. but each to their own | |||
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" most of my friends adore michael buble.. i just dont see what it is about him in any way I am so with you on that one... I simply dont get that either
i dont find brad pitt perticually attractive but i can see why some do as he has very nice features.. just not my thing.
but michael.. he is so plain lol.. but each to their own"We are dangerously alike lol... I dont get it with Brad Pitt either | |||
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" most of my friends adore michael buble.. i just dont see what it is about him in any way I am so with you on that one... I simply dont get that either
i dont find brad pitt perticually attractive but i can see why some do as he has very nice features.. just not my thing.
but michael.. he is so plain lol.. but each to their ownWe are dangerously alike lol... I dont get it with Brad Pitt either "hshs i would be surprised.. as my taste in guys is not shared by many.. I adore, Harry Styles, Alexander Rybak, Louis Tomlinson.. see the pattern young pretty boys
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" most of my friends adore michael buble.. i just dont see what it is about him in any way I am so with you on that one... I simply dont get that either
i dont find brad pitt perticually attractive but i can see why some do as he has very nice features.. just not my thing.
but michael.. he is so plain lol.. but each to their ownWe are dangerously alike lol... I dont get it with Brad Pitt either
hshs i would be surprised.. as my taste in guys is not shared by many..
I adore, Harry Styles, Alexander Rybak, Louis Tomlinson.. see the pattern young pretty boys
altho i wouldnt turn Jim Carrey or Brendan Fraser down... haha"Same here, I sometimes have a bit of an odd taste...mind you I do like Alan Rickman! | |||
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too skinny, too fat, too small, too tall..... the list goes on, but end of the day ...... why take the piss if you really like the bigger girl??? ....never see anyone taking piss outta skinny girls?? ... rarrr
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"what is bbw classed as ?? because last time i did some research on bigger sizes, i found out the most common size of women in britain today are between 14-18.... i actually hate the thought of being put into a category of society known as a BBW ...wtf!! seriously, why group them together... do we get the other end of scale of sbw? lol...no, i dont think we do
too skinny, too fat, too small, too tall..... the list goes on, but end of the day ...... why take the piss if you really like the bigger girl??? ....never see anyone taking piss outta skinny girls?? ... rarrr
bit of a hypocrite. grrr"u know i recall as a child a size 12-14 was classed as the ideal.. anyone who was a size 8-10 was walkign skeletons.. size 18 plus was plus size.. but if u go on dress size it doesnt work.. my friend is 5' 10" and a size 16 but looks just as slender as another who is 5' 3" and a size 12.. overwieght to me is when u have bulges and an overhang.. | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and - do you really?
i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever.
- i've always been fat, but never been the kind that 'will respond'. most of the time i just ignore. but today, i'm 'taking the piss' because
What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting.
- i have no issue whatsoever about people not finding me attractive. i have many things i like and dont like. everyone has their own preferences. of course, i'd like to be thinner if possible, but that doesnt mean i hate myself. in fact, i kinda like my body. love my boobies.. "i think your a hottie...only dogs run after bones | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." So basically your admitting to being a troll, you take the piss out of big women and your surprized some arnt happy. I think im confident, i know im not everyones cup of tea. But im damn sure i wouldnt be happy if someone walked up to me and was abusive just for a laugh to see my reaction. You sound like a nasty piece of work | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." just for a moment there I thought I'd read your prof name as "two tonne!" then I put my glasses on! I find the fact you take the piss out of well rounded group of society and in the full knowledge that some may find it upsetting pretty despicable! I would urge any BBW's out there who do have issues to look at a certain Strictly contestant who is having an absolute ball! love ladies in all their numerous shapes and sizes just as I hope some are attracted to me...this belief in the body perfect size is just crazy! we are who we are and as long idiots continue to pick on others for some self indulgent perverse reason we'll never move forward, accept people for who they are not what they look like. | |||
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"Then maybe rethink the way you word things as to be honest thats not taking the piss out of them thats just going to knock their confidence, how about saying something along the lines of "your lovely but not my type i'm sorry" far more polite and a lot easier for the bigger lady to accept "We will NEVER appeal to everyone, no matter what we look like. Personally, if someone saying they don't find you attractive, for whatever reason, knocks your confidence: I think a serious rethink about being on site is needed. | |||
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"what exactly do u mean by take the piss at big girls? how?Not in like you're nasty, just like "I don't like fat girls" or "i don't find fat girls attractive" sort of thing... well im sure there is a better way to word it.. everyone has self esteem issues as we r all human. no one has to explain why they arent interest in someone surely?? the term "fat" is seen as a degrogrative term and therefore anyoen using it must realise they may cause offence by doing so :/ Fat is seen the same as Coon or Nigger.. u dont use it "A an absolutely ridiculous comment! | |||
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"Most nasty piss taking comments are said for shockability and attention. Would you say it to her face, would you say it to her face in front of other people... Most will say it on the Internet but not dare say it in public. The pain it may inflict is invisible on the web, the pain in someone's eyes often less so to witness. " Your right _iew xx and some say love big girls but would not like to be seen in public with them ... to me that's like a slap in the face .. people are people with feelings no matter of there size .I feel you can only piss take ... as you say .. if you know them well as could hurt peoples feelings if not and take wrong way. | |||
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"what exactly do u mean by take the piss at big girls? how?Not in like you're nasty, just like "I don't like fat girls" or "i don't find fat girls attractive" sort of thing... well im sure there is a better way to word it.. everyone has self esteem issues as we r all human. no one has to explain why they arent interest in someone surely?? the term "fat" is seen as a degrogrative term and therefore anyoen using it must realise they may cause offence by doing so :/ Fat is seen the same as Coon or Nigger.. u dont use it
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." But if your taking the piss out of someone because you know how they will respond, as you put it, your doing it to upset them, so why would you mind them having a issue with you taking the piss, surely upsetting them is the respond your after? so on your part job done
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"what exactly do u mean by take the piss at big girls? how?Not in like you're nasty, just like "I don't like fat girls" or "i don't find fat girls attractive" sort of thing... well im sure there is a better way to word it.. everyone has self esteem issues as we r all human. no one has to explain why they arent interest in someone surely?? the term "fat" is seen as a degrogrative term and therefore anyoen using it must realise they may cause offence by doing so :/ Fat is seen the same as Coon or Nigger.. u dont use it
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"It's weird and bizarre because I want to know why a lot of big girls have an issue when they are told they're not attractive?! Ok then... " But anyone would have a issue when being told they are attractive surely If i was sat in a pub and someone just told me out the blue i was ugly or they didnt find me attractive i would think them very rude, not because i dont think people cant find be attractive, course they can, but why does it ned to be said? maybe its the fat you need to point it out that pisses them off rather than the fact they are big you sound to me like you need to learn so basic manner and people skill All because we have the rights to freedom of speach does not mean that you have to use it all the time | |||
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"Boys are well renowned for being mean and nasty to girls they fancy. From infant school in trying spiders at them, to senior school twanging their bras and making fun of periods. Its a way of ensuring the girl is aware of the boy, knows his name etc, he's getting her attention, even though she probably hates him. Boys are silly. Some boys, when they grow into men, have not developed gentlemanly qualities and still use the little boys technique of getting girls attention. It is not wrong to admit you don't like big girls, skinny girls, flat chested girls etc. But a lot of people, especially when BBW threads start, feel the need to add rude words, fatties, salad dodgers, lard arse etc. It is those rude words that people object to. Some women also make disparaging comments about big girls. This is mainly because there is an element of selfishness that they don't think big girls should have attention from men, are incredulous that some men prefer a curvier girl or a larger girl. They don't feel big girls deserve any attention, and should wait in line and know their place below the slim girls. Regardless of whether these big girls could be more attractive facially or their bodies attractive to men. People get fed up with rude and childish comments, that is why they strike back "Well said. | |||
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"Boys are well renowned for being mean and nasty to girls they fancy. From infant school in trying spiders at them, to senior school twanging their bras and making fun of periods. Its a way of ensuring the girl is aware of the boy, knows his name etc, he's getting her attention, even though she probably hates him. Boys are silly. Some boys, when they grow into men, have not developed gentlemanly qualities and still use the little boys technique of getting girls attention. It is not wrong to admit you don't like big girls, skinny girls, flat chested girls etc. But a lot of people, especially when BBW threads start, feel the need to add rude words, fatties, salad dodgers, lard arse etc. It is those rude words that people object to. Some women also make disparaging comments about big girls. This is mainly because there is an element of selfishness that they don't think big girls should have attention from men, are incredulous that some men prefer a curvier girl or a larger girl. They don't feel big girls deserve any attention, and should wait in line and know their place below the slim girls. Regardless of whether these big girls could be more attractive facially or their bodies attractive to men. People get fed up with rude and childish comments, that is why they strike back
Well said. "I wasn't going to post on this thread just out of principle ( plus I couldn't guarantee I would remain polite ) but mainly I think it's a confidence thing (not the fact that these girls think we shouldn't be allowed males attention) alot of bbw's on these sites tend to have more confidence (even if its all bravado) and that's what they feel jelous of bit apart from that | |||
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"I think people that like to take the piss out of others are just using it as an excuse to hide their own imperfections and they were probably the ones that had the piss taken out of them when they were younger. From a male point of _iew having the piss taken out of you can take the confidence out of you. I'm a big guy with a gut and have lost count of the number of times I've been called fat, when I was younger it used to hurt my feelings but these days if someone calls me fat I just reply along the lines of "so what, I'm a fat bastard, better than being you", that way I haven't said anything about their imperfections but they start to think "What's wrong with me"" lol you beat me to it | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. would bet you dont do so in earshot.. would'nt be cool being sat on your arse from a right hander or whatever.. the worst type of bully is the one who does'nt have the bollocks to say something to someones face... a pathetic 'attitude' you have op.. if you think I don't have the balls to tell anyone what I think then you obviously don't know me at all. I probably have more balls than any man you know. hummm im a bit dubious about describing a male that bullies woman a man call it what you want, people have taken the piss out of me and I'm not hung up about it. If you are then that's your problem."its different if its people u know.. but its not going to be taken the same way from a stranger is it | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. would bet you dont do so in earshot.. would'nt be cool being sat on your arse from a right hander or whatever.. the worst type of bully is the one who does'nt have the bollocks to say something to someones face... a pathetic 'attitude' you have op.. if you think I don't have the balls to tell anyone what I think then you obviously don't know me at all. I probably have more balls than any man you know. hummm im a bit dubious about describing a male that bullies woman a man call it what you want, people have taken the piss out of me and I'm not hung up about it. If you are then that's your problem.
I treat everyone the same, no matter what colour, size or religion they are, respect to fellow human beings just comes natural to me and i would never dream of taking the piss out of anyone for any reason just for kicks
Its not a case of calling it what you will, if you was 15 and doing this in school its classed as bullying, being an adult dont change what your doing, infact it makes it worse as, as an adult your supposed to know better
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"i have seen some threads where its been about BBW and someone has politely put "nah sorry BBW isnt my thing" and the poor guy has had a barage of replies like "hwo can u say its not ur thing" "big girls are beautiful maybe u should try it" etc.. is this the kind of attitude u mean OP? The way people have suddenly got so defensive on here.. is that what u mean? That attitude shocked me when i first came across it too as when i read his post i just thought "fair dues" I dont expect everyone to find me attractive thats crazy thinking :/ Im more thna happy to get a "sorry your not my type! but would take offence at a "sorry i dont do fat girls theyre just nasty"that is exactly what I mean! There many women on here that won't meet me because I don't have 9 inches or I'm not tall enough etc but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because in the real world where it matters to me I have loads that find me attractive." But do they turn you down by saying 'sorry we won't meet you but we don't fancy short arse men with tiny dicks?' Taking the piss out of people who are overweight can result in eating disorders and depression of worse. Think about the consequences of your actions. Even though they might appear to be taking it as a joke in all likelihood they aren't. | |||
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i dont find brad pitt perticually attractive but i can see why some do as he has very nice features.. just not my thing.
but michael.. he is so plain lol.. but each to their ownWe are dangerously alike lol... I dont get it with Brad Pitt either
hshs i would be surprised.. as my taste in guys is not shared by many..
I adore, Harry Styles, Alexander Rybak, Louis Tomlinson.. see the pattern young pretty boys
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"i have seen some threads where its been about BBW and someone has politely put "nah sorry BBW isnt my thing" and the poor guy has had a barage of replies like "hwo can u say its not ur thing" "big girls are beautiful maybe u should try it" etc.. is this the kind of attitude u mean OP? The way people have suddenly got so defensive on here.. is that what u mean? That attitude shocked me when i first came across it too as when i read his post i just thought "fair dues" I dont expect everyone to find me attractive thats crazy thinking :/ Im more thna happy to get a "sorry your not my type! but would take offence at a "sorry i dont do fat girls theyre just nasty"that is exactly what I mean! There many women on here that won't meet me because I don't have 9 inches or I'm not tall enough etc but it doesn't bother me in the slightest because in the real world where it matters to me I have loads that find me attractive. But do they turn you down by saying 'sorry we won't meet you but we don't fancy short arse men with tiny dicks?' Taking the piss out of people who are overweight can result in eating disorders and depression of worse. Think about the consequences of your actions. Even though they might appear to be taking it as a joke in all likelihood they aren't. and if they did turn me down in that manner it wouldn't bother me. We've had a couple tell some swinging friends of ours that they wouldn't associate with them because they couldn't play with anyon that associated with black people... I wasn't even in the slightest upset, you can never be everyone's spec and I'm sooo ok with that! Yes you might well be and if you have the hide of a rhino then lucky you. What you need to realise is not everyone does. Most people would be upset over people taking the piss out of them for whatever reason. It's not big or clever and once you get past school age and become a grown up people tend to realise that acting that way just for a laugh at others expense really isn't necessary " when I say I like big women understand it ain't all big women, the ones that have defined curves do it for me but the other kind don't. Now if you call telling someone you don't them that you don't find attractive is bullying then people need to pick up their skirts and grab their balls. And I don't go round all day thinking of different ways to put big women down, on here people want to dish it out and wen don to them they throw a massive wobbly. | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. ." You actually say that you suppose it isn't nice what you do, which I agree, it isn't. I don't get the need to try and humiliate or hurt someone to get your kicks and I sure as hell wouldn't upset someone for the hell of it. What is wrong with " you are not what we are looking for" rather than you are unattractive? | |||
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" when I say I like big women understand it ain't all big women, the ones that have defined curves do it for me but the other kind don't. Now if you call telling someone you don't them that you don't find attractive is bullying then people need to pick up their skirts and grab their balls. And I don't go round all day thinking of different ways to put big women down, on here people want to dish it out and wen don to them they throw a massive wobbly. " It's doesn't matter if the ladies are a size 12 or a size 20, it's not nice to take the piss out of them, you might take it as a joke but they might not and find it very offensive, if someone started taking the piss out of your size and you didn't like bet you'd be crying yourself to sleep every night | |||
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"Even though I sometimes take the piss at big girls, I actually really fancy big girls and i do it for laughs because i know how they'll respond, which i suppose isn't all that nice but whatever. What I want to know is why do so many big girls have an issue with someone not finding them attractive or so it seems to me?! If anything that is more off putting." I have no issues with people not fancying me at all but what I do have issues with are people who know very little about a person they are ridiculing for their own self warped little minds ...do you have children ?do you teach them to be kind to people ? Or do you tell them to belittle people just for kicks?... pretty sad people and it makes you wonder sometimes about what people actually gain from it | |||
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"I went out - came back and am surprised to see that the thread still gets a level of attention it clearly does not deserve. I dont think "taking the piss" (actually I dont like that expression in the first place) of anybody usually involves somebody being humiliated. I love to laugh, enjoy banter and dont mind sharp witty exchanges but in my books that humiliation of somebody, anybody really is never ok! " Correction, meant to say... I think in the first line. | |||
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" if you think I don't have the balls to tell anyone what I think then you obviously don't know me at all. I probably have more balls than any man you know. Erm hold on, I have two, are you suggesting you have more?
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"I cant stand small men!" and you're well withing your right not to and in fact say it loud. | |||
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"I cant stand small men!and you're well withing your right not to and in fact say it loud." Not sure she meant small physically. | |||
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"I cant stand small men!and you're well withing your right not to and in fact say it loud. Not sure she meant small physically." however she meant it is fine if it's how she feels. There's nothing I can do or care for how someone feels. | |||
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"T.H.I.N.K. before you speak... is what you are about to say True, Helpful, Inspirational, Necessary and Kind? If not, you might want to reconsider or rephrase! "Love this
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"T.H.I.N.K. before you speak... is what you are about to say True, Helpful, Inspirational, Necessary and Kind? If not, you might want to reconsider or rephrase! "touche....p.s you have lovely eyes lol | |||
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"T.H.I.N.K. before you speak... is what you are about to say True, Helpful, Inspirational, Necessary and Kind? If not, you might want to reconsider or rephrase!
touche....p.s you have lovely eyes lol "Thank you | |||
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"Ok you really do need to post without being abusive, or being pedantic about being abusive....no matter what you think of the OP or the post...or you could find yourself banned." Posts removed before anyone gets the wrong end of the stick | |||
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"Ok you really do need to post without being abusive, or being pedantic about being abusive....no matter what you think of the OP or the post...or you could find yourself banned." its ok unlike many on here i am sooo not bothered. Fabs is a minute part of my life and so what anyone on here thinks of me is really of no importance to me... People who know me, know me. | |||
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"Ok you really do need to post without being abusive, or being pedantic about being abusive....no matter what you think of the OP or the post...or you could find yourself banned. Posts removed before anyone gets the wrong end of the stick "Thank you I'll be good | |||
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"Ok you really do need to post without being abusive, or being pedantic about being abusive....no matter what you think of the OP or the post...or you could find yourself banned.its ok unlike many on here i am sooo not bothered. Fabs is a minute part of my life and so what anyone on here thinks of me is really of no importance to me... People who know me, know me." It isn't ok actually as it is against rules...and nothing to do with who does or doesn't know you. I think this has run it's course now anyway. | |||
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